There is some irony to this post today. What I am going to talk about is the power of triggers in the spanking world,  or at least how to some people they are incredibly powerful. On the flip side of this I have also asked my readers what they want to see more of on my site and what they want to see less of. Well the number 1  ‘Less of’  is actually writing. There are a group of people who want to see less writing and more pictures and videos. So what I am going to do is compromise. To start the post I will share a great spanking find for you,  and if you are only here for the pictures then you can look at the picture and then you can browse the links on the right hand side to find another blog that is more in tune with your needs. If you are okay with the writing though then you can stay and continue reading after the image.

The image that I am sharing is quite unique,  it is from the 1910’s and the gender of the participants is unknown. For some of you that may be preferable,  so I won’t assign labels,  you are free to make your own decisions. All I will say is that it was labelled on Ebay as being F/F. Click on the image for the full sized version.

On Twitter this week I responded to anty85 when she spoke of the difficulty she has at times in finding spanking clips. It caught my attention because two of the criteria that anty85 applied when she searches are finding clips that didn’t have full nudity or close up shots of the vagina. As you can well imagine if you have read this blog for long enough,  her words caught my attention straight away as those are also two areas that are a turn off to me in relation to spanking films.

Before moving on,  if you wish to check out Anty’s own videos then you can find her on this channel AT HOME WITH MISS ICENI. Don’t confuse her with Ana though,  the name is Anty. The link is already provided in my clips4sale links list which you can see RIGHT HERE. As there are so many clips4sale sites listed I haven’t had a chance to go through each and every one yet,  but after having a quick look this particular site is devoted to F/M and F/F spanking conducted in a domestic setup. Think Aunty/Nephew,  in fact if you do think that then definitely check it out as there is an Aunty/Nephew dynamic that takes place in a number of the videos,  and the spankings generally feature something like a slipper or wooden spoon and sometimes nighttime attire. Location settings can also be a trigger for people so if you like domestic F/F and F/M spankings set in a home then you should definitely check the store out.

Obviously I need to check the store out myself in full. Even though I have lived in America for 32 years now, my first 24 years were spent in England, so I’m sure that there is something that would catch my eye. It’s always fun to watch the spankings going on at the neighbour’s house, isn’t it? Having grown up in England during the 1970s, spankings were quite a common occurrence, and you always tended to know which houses were likely to have bottom warming nights  🙂  It doesn’t mean that you saw or heard them, but you definitely found out about them. That’s what I love about the Internet though, now you can get to choose whose house you peep in on!!

The subject of triggers isn’t new to me,  if you have read this blog for any length of time then you know that already. Probably the biggest trigger for me in terms of realism is almost always set in a domestic environment,  but when it comes to the severity level I am probably far different to the average Joe. I’m not against a good hard spanking,  but there is a point where the scene becomes too much for me, especially if the spanking is prolonged and repetitive.

Trust me, I’ve made several spanking films myself, it is really hard to be creative and give people their moneys worth. You want to make a scene at least 10 minutes, but if you are making a mini movie you want to try your best to get it in the 20-30 minute range. It’s a lot harder than you think, especially if you only have one top and one bottom. I generally try to make my own films (ones where I am paying a model as opposed to trading content) in two parts. A first spanking followed by a harder spanking. Doing it that way means that at worst I can break the 15 minute mark, but because I have the gift of gab I can generally get them in the 30 minute mark.

In terms of what I consider to be a near perfect spanking I always look at the film  “Spanked Sober”  over on Momma Spankings as a benchmark. The funny part about this though is that I absolutely loathe the premise of a girl being spanked sober,  how ironic is that? However,  the spankings themselves are just about the most perfect spankings that I could watch. Excellent demeanor by all participants,  spankings done layer by layer,  no genital cam,  and most importantly as a viewer,  nothing that is over the top. We all have our preferences and this film really touches a lot of mine.

Both girls get spanked on their panties first,  then both are spanked in turn on their bare bottoms,  then they switch places once more and each gets spanked on the bare one more time. I think what makes it for me is that each spanking turn is no more than 100 spanks each go around. So even though both girls get around 300 spanks they are spread out into sections,  and therefore seem to be harder than a normal start to finish spanking, plus it doesn’t get boring because the action is constantly changing. Following this opening there is a strapping scene, but I normally skip over that as psychological it doesn’t mesh well in the scene for me. What I especially love about this first spanking is the taking of turns every two minutes or so. Using this method the viewer never gets to the point that they are thinking about this next scene already. Should I ever make another spanking film then this is an idea that I am definitely going to steal.

However,  the coup de grace is the absolute bomb and makes the spanking film a classic.

Each girl returns in her pajamas,  both feeling pretty contrite by now,  and the final spankings with the hairbrush take place. This scene is really hot. The funny part is,  the scene feels like it goes on for ages,  but in actuality each girl only gets about 100 plus spanks with the hairbrush. It is done so well though that you think the number is easily double that. If you want to see a true Maternal spanking then watch that part. They each get roughly 35 on their pajama bottoms,  35 of their panties and again roughly 35 on the bare bottom. You can just imagine the spanking getting worse and worse for them as each layer comes back. At the end I was stunned by the fact that it was only around 100 spanks each,  the scene is so genuine that you think that they have both received way more. Of course the angle displayed in both the images shown here is also a huge bonus. As a person who buys spanking clips I want to feel that I am watching the real thing, and this angle never fails for me. It makes me feel like I am sitting in the very room with the girls watching them get spanked. The second camera is at the feet end but it is in a respectful place, but the angle shown in the pics is the perfect angle. I can’t stress the importance as a viewer that you want to watch a spanking as if you were there.

Here is the trailer and the film can be purchased directly over on clips4sale using THIS LINK.

Now you have to understand that this is seen through my eyes,  the reason that I find this film so enjoyable is because it hits numerous triggers for me. It is different to my all time FAVORITE SPANKING MOVIE,  but in a way it touches the same things that I like. Both films spend most of the spanking action over a clothed bottom,  even though it does include some bare bottom,  but I have always found non bare spankings to be more realistic than bare bottom ones. It is something that is really hard to explain but throughout all of my formative years,  when I first start thinking about spanking at a very young age,  everything that I witnessed whether it was in person,  on film or in images in comics or magazines,  not once was a bare bottom involved.

It is a mental block that I have,  though I don’t regret having it. Now I fully understand that for a lot of girls the baring of the bottom is as much of a trigger for them as non bare is for me,  so obviously with a little compromise we both get what we want from a scene. Think of your own triggers though,  I mean in the film above there are probably ten triggers that I could think of off of the top of my head. From the dynamics of the participants to the implements used,  the position,  even unusual ones like the girls are wearing dresses to start with and then have to change into pajamas.

When I think of the two films that I have mentioned there is also a common theme that runs through both films,  and that is a start – stop – start approach to the spanking. By that I mean the spanking isn’t continuous,  it is interspersed with dialogue,  scolding,  conversation,  questions etc. It wasn’t something that I was aware of until recently,  but that approach really enhances the realism of the spanking in my eyes.

There are a thousand different triggers for everyone out there,  for some people it could be something as simple as a pair of school knickers,  whereas for others it could be a little more complex like the hair being worn in a bun. I always love to see them on Twitter when it is obvious that someone has a fetish for a certain item,  be it a slipper,  pajamas,  hairbrush,  the list is totally endless. Is there something in particular that is a must have for you? It could really be anything,  and nobody should ever be ashamed of what works for them.

I’m sure that there are a ton of clips out there that fall into the categories that I enjoy,  I just haven’t found them all yet. Probably just as big a part of it all has to be the dynamic between the top and bottom. My favorite clips generally tend to be when it is obvious that there is an older person and a younger person,  and the dialogue between the two is just as important. Again it’s just a personal preference but it adds to the feeling of realism to me.

If I’m watching a playful spanking then the interaction between the two is something that I can easily overlook,  normally because the fun is obvious and everyone is having a good time. For a realistic spanking though there has to be a sense of apprehension/submission. In those situations you don’t want to hear any back chat,  and almost certainly no bratting. In fact even in a playful spanking I don’t want to see any bratting,  you can have an interaction as equals without the need to try and mock and ridicule your partner.

There are times when I wonder whether or not I have been left behind in the spanking world,  like a relic from the spanking stone age. My needs in the spanking world are so incredibly simple that I often wonder if I am seen as vanilla in the spanking world,  lol. I’m like the Troy Donahue looking to play with Sandra Dee type,  or at least that is how I perceive myself to be. There’s nothing that I can do about that though unless I am compromising my values. I can’t help what I like and enjoy,  I’m kind of stuck with it. Now that doesn’t mean that I don’t partake in the fantasies of others,  of course I do. How can I expect someone to take part in my fantasy if I don’t adapt and fulfill theirs for them?

What are your triggers in the spanking world? It can be anything from a pair of white socks to full on nudity,  everyone has something that is a trigger for them.