Q And A Part 5

Time for part five of my QUESTION AND ANSWER series. Being honest here,  from a personal standpoint this has been one of my favorite features to do so far,  I love hearing your questions and putting some thought into answering them all.

As I mentioned in the previous Q and A session,  I am not answering all of the questions in chronological order,  I’m basically grouping them into sets of five. If I kept them as they came then some of the questions would be very quick to answer,  by grouping them in sets I get to mix in some longer answers with the relatively shorter ones.

This will be the last time for this promotion,  on Sunday I will close the form and the free video giveaway and then do another free promotion around the July the 4th weekend,  so if you have a question for me then this is your last chance for this go around. CLICK HERE for the form where the video giveaway is linked.

1: Who is your favorite spankee? Say you can only spank one girl who would you chose?

The first part of your question isn’t something that I am really able to answer because every interaction brings something new to the table. It is a very diplomatic way of looking at things but I would never want anyone to think that they weren’t on a par with someone else. Just like I don’t like competitions in the spanking world for a  “Best of”  type of deal,  it isn’t my thing. Before anyone runs to tell teacher,  I understand why competitions take place,  I get the reasons behind them,  they are just not for me.

As for the second part of your question I can interpret it as being that if I could give one final spanking then who would I choose. That question is much easier to answer because I can go to my bucket list.

Again,  I wouldn’t select anyone that I have played with already,  I would have to go with someone who I would have really liked to have played with. For me that answer would have been Mischa from PUNISHED BRATS. There are certain characteristics that I look for from a fantasy perspective and Mischa darn near hits them all. Completely mischievous,  even when she is getting spanked,  super playful off camera (I have the raw footage of a couple of her shoots) and during the actual scene itself she is vocal,  fidgety and cute all in one. She is playful and cheeky,  but doesn’t cross any lines in being disrespectful. I just know that if I was to have a scene with her then it would meet all of my triggers quite easily,  she is adorable.

If I could choose someone from the modern day then that person would have to be Kiki Cali. I’m very simple when I play and my enjoyment comes from an OTK hand spanking,  and while the work that KIKI CALI does is quite broad,  I have focused on just the OTK hand spanking aspect of our lifestyle.

I’m fortunate enough to have bought a couple of clips featuring Kiki Cali where she is getting an OTK hand spanking,  and like Mischa above there is so much to like. There is certainly a difference between the two personas of each girl,  but Kiki’s cheeky demeanor in the OTK position is also adorable. I’m the type of person that can point at my computer screen whilst watching a scene and say out loud  “Now that is what I like”

If I was to make one final film,  and I am likely to do so,  Kiki would certainly be the girl whose services I would seek to fulfill that void. The contrast between my deep English accent and her playful American nature has me thinking of all types of scenarios. In my mind the first scenario would be Kiki as the girl next door who is over at my place one day acting sassy,  flirtatious and boisterous,  and once she is informed that if she would have been my daughter then she would be getting a spanking,  she pushes it until she actually does get a spanking,  albeit a somewhat playful one. Not sure what the second scenario would be right now in regards to the main spanking,  but we can play that by ear for now. To tap into the pouty submissive side of her then I would imagine that it would be an uncomfortable confession of sorts.  It is a gut feeling that I have that Kiki would be perfect for the type of old fashioned OTK hand spankings that I like to film,  a very cute girl. So from this day forward,  if I could only spank one girl,  then it would have to be Kiki Cali. I’ve also seen her in a super cute pair of white nylon panties during one of her scenes,  so my audience especially would have something to really look forward to.

Check out her site RIGHT HERE to see the various work that Kiki performs and heck,  buy something while you are there!!.

Image from SPANKED SWEETIES.

2: Apart from your preference for spanking over panties,  which I share,  do you prefer your spankees in dresses/skirts (and if so what type) or trousers/slacks/jeans?

One of the biggest issues that I have with the Curious Cat app over on Twitter is that I don’t always believe that the questions being asked are genuine. It almost feels as if the question being asked is being asked by the same person answering the question. Besides that it is an incredibly annoying feature that completely dominates your feed if you allow it to. I mute every single person who uses the app save for some long term scene friends who don’t abuse the app.

The reason that I bring that up though is quite simple,  I could have easily asked this question myself!!

This is an area that I am really old fashioned in,  and as this question has been asked for MY preference I shall answer it. I emphasize the MY because I always tend to piss people off with my views,  lol.

Absolutely I prefer the ladies that I play with to wear dresses/skirts,  in fact I even go one step further than that in saying that in an ideal world a pair of stockings,  a suspender belt and a slip or half-slip is the full house for me. As for type of dress/skirt,  my preference would lean towards the lightweight summer type clothing. I’m not a fan of a woman is any type of trousers/jeans in a spanking scene,  again that is just a personal preference. However I will say this,  if the pants in question are pajama bottoms then I am all for it. I have a big fetish for pajama spankings,  and that encompasses any type of nightwear worn by the woman. Whether it be pajamas,  a nightshirt,  nightie,  you name it,  I love spankings of that type.

Image of Ellee and myself.

3: Does being English in America change you’re spanko attitude one way or another?

3a: As an obviously British bloke living in the US, how do you think that influences your spanking adventures?

I’m not sure if it is solely being English that does it,  or whether it is the style of play that I prefer,  but I can pretty much guarantee that if I spent my adult life in the UK then I don’t think that my active spanking life would have been even 1% of where it is now.

When I grew up in England and first explored the adult world of spanking as soon as I was old enough to do so,  what I saw was almost primarily unappealing to me. The focus at the time seemed to be more on corporal punishment than it was to do with spanking,  and the whole visualization around it was not what I was looking for.

There is a chance here that I am about to piss some British people off,  but there is a premise that I have to live by. If you can’t be honest with yourself,  who can you be honest with?

There were three main areas that had a big effect on me,  the biggest of which was the role of the submissive in written and visual print. A significant portion of the photo plays depicted a schoolgirl. This also extended to film of the same era though perhaps not as much as in print. Now don’t get me wrong,  there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and it plays a role in the fantasy life of many spankos,  myself included. The area that was a massive head space turn off for me though was the underwear from a different era. The big assed bottle green knickers,  or variations in navy blue,  brown or even white,  even to this day I find it a big turn off. I’m not even able to watch a spanking movie that features knickers of such description,  it has such a negative effect on me.

Before anyone gets all wiggy,  remember that this is a personal preference,  I’m fully aware that there is a huge portion of the spanko world where this one item is AS important to them as it is unimportant to me.

The years that I started to purchase spanking material was shortly after I had left school in the late 70’s/early 80’s,  and I’m not professing to have been a young Romeo by any description,  but that simply wasn’t what girls were wearing at the time. There is such a disassociation with girls wearing traditional school knickers that I can’t even begin to comprehend putting the two together,  it completely ruins the concept for me. Trust me,  other than for P.E.,  girls were wearing flimsy,  silky undergarments,  I remember clearly,  my hand felt many of them,  lol. You can see the difference,  right?

The second area that I couldn’t relate to was that virtually everything was related to the cane,  a headmaster and a cold demeanor. Lastly,  I have to say as well,  and this was primarily in film,  it was the severity. I’m into spanking,  not cruelty.

The first American spanking magazine that I purchased was in the early 80’s,  and my first exploration of spankings in the States was when I first came to America in 1985,  and then moved here two years later,  virtually everything about it was everything that I had always been looking for in the spanking world. Guys and girls in regular street clothes,  and even if it was a schoolgirl roleplay then the girl had on cute panties,  just as she would have done in real life. The very few spankings that I engaged in during my first few years here were all playful and erotically driven. The way that America portrayed spanking was vastly different to the UK,  and it was everything that I was looking for. It is why I simply adore Shadowlane’s early videos.

I’m sure that the original questions weren’t perhaps expecting that type of answer,  but what I described has a huge influence on me. To answer the question does it change my spanko attitude,  the answer is yes,  and very much for the positive.

Now from a personal standpoint I learnt very early on that my voice was a weapon. Especially during my first few years of my life here in America,  I lived a life with the opposite sex that I could have never come close to dreaming of back in the UK. My voice doesn’t work for everyone mind you,  I’ve had people who seemed to have made it their mission to tell me each and every single time that I am in their presence that my voice does nothing for them,  and they are quite happy to inform everyone around them of this fact as well. From a scene perspective though, my voice is a tool that I have spent many years perfecting,  and that is something for certain would not have been able to happen in the UK. So again,  being English in America has increased my ability to play dramatically. When the voice works with a female,  it can produce some of the best play scenes out there. I couldn’t even begin to tell you about some of the phone calls that I have had where the girl I am speaking with is being rather naughty on the other end of the phone line.

4: Spanking fiction is rife with detailed descriptions of the post-spanking “war dance” frantic rubbing,  hopping,  and so on. . . but this is almost never depicted in videos and rarely in spanking photos. Why is that?

Yet another excellent question!!

I think that this is more of which came first,  the chicken or the egg. I’m pretty sure that cartoon and written spankings predated the visualization of said spankings,  and I personally think that is why there is such a difference between the two. There is the fantasy component in the written word that doesn’t translate on film,  however that is not to say that it shouldn’t. Perhaps this is one area where producers could spend a little extra time including this aspect of our lifestyle in their films. More often than not,  a spanking film ends when the spanking is finished,  and if you are lucky you might get a corner shot for a few seconds.

Many years ago I wrote about my favorite all time spanking movie,  TONY AND EVE  –  A COLLEGE FANTASY. Do you know a big part of why that film is my favorite of all time? It is because every time that Eve is allowed to stand,  she rubs her butt for virtually the entire time that she is stood. Even through clothing it is as sexy as hell and adds so much to the film. It is natural as well,  no camera zoom in to emphasize the point,  as a viewer you are allowed to see and appreciate the big picture.

You are correct though,  it is an aspect of the spanking movie industry it is something that is sorely lacking.

5: Which spanking model got the cane from you the most?

First of all I guess we have to define model. In the literal sense the answer to this question would be a girl by the name of Aurora. She has filmed spanking content for three producers,  two of which are now defunct. You can still see her remaining Amateur Spankings work online RIGHT HERE. Aurora and I have known each other for a long time and I don’t think that it is even close that she is the one person to have received the cane from me the most. She is also the person who has taken the cane the longest and the hardest from me,  in fact she is the only girl with whom I have stopped a scene entirely because she was so far into sub space that I didn’t think that she could make an informed judgement about the level of play that she was receiving. Here is Aurora and I in a lighter scene,  in public as well.

 

Please keep the questions coming guys,  I’m really loving them.

Q And A Part 4

It is time again for me to answer some of your questions with number 4 in my Q and A series. Some of the questions that have been posed to me have been outstanding with a good number of thought provoking queries.

Now I am not answering everything in chronological order,  some of the questions are somewhat short and in the vein of what is the best implement or the best model,  etc;  and while I will answer those questions,  I am going to mix them in with questions that require a longer answer.

Please keep them coming,  you can submit one RIGHT HERE and get a free video in return,  I genuinely love hearing the questions and answering them for you,  it gives the blog a certain sense of community when that happens. On that note I also want to thank everyone for the kind birthday wishes on the various platforms. Normally I try to my hardest to respond to everyone that contacts me individually  (Unless what I am reading is complete bullshit  :)) on any platform,  to me that is the standard courtesy that I am obligated to do if someone has been kind enough and taken the time to respond to my offerings,  I have to acknowledge them in some way or form. When it comes to birthday wishes though I tend to be a little humble and just offer a generic thank you to everyone.

Anyway,  it is time for the next batch of questions and answers. Instead of linking all previous entries what I will do is I will create a tag called QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS that you can click on should you wish to see previous entries.

SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE.

1: What sorts of spanking drawings/illustrations do you prefer?

What a wonderful question to start us off with!! It is a difficult question to answer but I will try my best to convey my feelings. The old saying  “A picture is worth a thousand words”  is never more true than it is when it comes to spanking art. I could see a picture and write a whole story based upon that picture.

To start with,  let me point you over to Dave Wolfe’s art over on WOLFIE TOONS. I absolutely love Dave’s art as it always reaches me on a personal level. Much of my real life experience and my personal fantasies are covered by Dave’s work,  namely playful spankings with a sense of humor. The added bonus for me is that most of his work is on a covered bottom,  and even when it isn’t it is done tastefully with no graphic displays of genitalia.

Panties,  shorts,  PJ’s,  Bikini,  leggings,  literally all of it is right up my alley when it is combined with the smiling or inquisitive faces that he presents. His work doesn’t actually inspire me from a story writing point of view,  however I frequently check out and appreciate his years of offerings.

This is where my personal ethics come into play. It isn’t my job to post Dave’s work on my site,  it is your job to go to his site to see his work for yourself. Dave doesn’t create his unique presentation for people to view it on my site,  right? So please,  do me a favor,  right click on the link below and select  “Open in new tab”. That way you can finish this article and then go over to Dave’s site to view his work. By the way,  if you like what you see,  let him know by leaving a comment. Bloggers leave to hear feedback from the people viewing their work,  I’m no different.

VISIT WOLFIE TOONS RIGHT HERE

Other spanking art that I like to see is really no different than what I like in regular spanking work. Namely I have a very hard time relating to anything in Victorian times,  no matter how good the work is. I’m also not a fan of non-human characters involved in spanking,  it doesn’t do anything for me. A rare example of a Victorian piece that really does reach me is shown below.

A lot of what I like stems from the old cartoon strips or the risque soft porn art of the 50’s and 60’s. Now I’m not an expert on artists and their work so I am a little remedial in my knowledge,  however,  if you want a more in depth background to the work of all spanking artists then I highly recommend going to the CHICAGO SPANKING REVIEW. That should be your primary source for historical spanking art. Even if I find a new piece of spanking art for you all,  I still recommend that you go to Web Ed’s site as he will have the whole background story to each offering. I might find a new and improved copy of a piece of art,  he will still have the background story behind each image.

To give you an idea of the types of spanking art that I like to see,  here are some of the images that I have posted on this site over the years. That should give you an idea of the type of spanking art that I like.

I do love the playful spanking art that used to appear in the 1960’s adult comic genre. Many of those photos I could write a story about as again they are right up my alley. Here is one example of the type of work that I am talking about. Any image that is similar to the images presented below is definitely the type of image that I love to see,  and thankfully there are loads of them out there. The  “Tuesday birthday spanking image”  was taken from the Chicago spanking review. Please visit THIS LINK for the full background story on this image and the artist.

I’m not a big fan of Bill Ward or Eric Stanton spanking art,  however,  like any spanking art out there,  there is always the exception to the rule. Here is one example of Stanton’s work that I love.

I hope that gives you some idea of the type of spanking art that I like to see. I’m not able though to pinpoint any particular style however because like the Victorian image above,  there is always going to be that one picture that strikes a chord with me. Many photos that I like are even non spanking ones,  especially when an art image presents the two characters that are about to be engaged in the spanking action. An apprehensive looking girl and a stern man rolling up his sleeve will get to me each and every time without fail. As will a girl on her own either reflecting on an upcoming spanking or a post spanking image.

One non spanking artist in particular who I love is Dean Yeagle. He has a collection of  “Mandy”  art and most of his images I find really exciting. He isn’t a spanking artist,  but you tell me if the four images below don’t evoke some kind of spanking thoughts? Please visit his website RIGHT HERE if you are interested in buying some of his work,  or want to view more of the delightful Mandy. I’m a big fan of Dean’s work.

P.S. As this is a mainstream source I am sharing the images as well as pointing to the website. I only avoid posting material that another spanking blogger has posted as people should really go to their sites to view their work. Save of course for marketing material from a paid website that the owners are allowing you to use to market their product.

Awesome question by the way,  I may expand further in the future as this one had me thinking a lot. Most spanking art I look at,  but only rarely do I find an image that I adore,  but when I do those images can be right up there,  if not above a picture of a real spanking. The imagination is a wonderful thing and spanking art has always,  since I was very little,  had the ability to send my mind into a fantasy playground.

2: When was the last time you spanked Pixie?

Another question on the same topic that came in was  “Do you still see Pixie, how is she”?

To answer the first part of the question,  I believe,  and this is only a guess,  but I believe that it was 2015. I come to that conclusion because it is the last time that I wrote about spanking Pixie online. There is a possibility that we played in 2016 at a small party,  but I don’t actually remember what year the party was.

In the image below Pixie and I went to hang out in the city and we stopped off at my workplace,  as you do. We took a few spanking images with the Empire State Building as the backdrop,  then we went back inside. That is where Pixie got a short,  sharp shock on the seat of her purple NYLON PANTIES. Pixie always wore nylon panties when we hung out together.

As to when we last saw each other,  that was probably three years ago now. We were planning to go to the ballet in March of last year,  but that ended up not happening as I was emotionally invested in my brother’s illness at the time. We still text from time to time but we haven’t hung out in quite a while now.

3: What is the best spanking implement?

I’m an old school guy,  there is no better implement than the hand,  plain and simple. If it is anything other than the hand then I would have to vote for a small wooden paddle or a good wooden spoon. Something sure to get the legs kicking.

4: Do you always have a rock-hard hard-on when spanking those beautiful girls? I know I would!

Obviously we are talking about something that produces strong erotic emotions for most people involved,  so naturally at times there will be a reaction from either party. You have to have some decorum though,  if I ever do get aroused during a scene then I will do my utmost to prevent it being known. For the most part though it isn’t an issue,  especially when you are playing in a party environment with lots of activity going on.

5: Which female top would you say gives the hardest hand spanking?

That isn’t a question that I am able to answer,  plus,  the definition of hardest wouldn’t necessarily denote the best. Most spanking scenes also involve the concept of headspace,  and I would imagine that it also applies to genres that I am not familiar with. If you can create the right headspace then even a relatively lighter spanking can feel harder for the recipient,  because they are feeling it emotionally as well.

There are a number of comparisons written online for people to find as to the level one can expect from a hand spanking so I would recommend checking the feedback of each lady concerned. I do recall once filming Dana Specht spank Sarah Gregory where Dana gave Sarah 500 spanks,  one for every dollar she overspent. As I was filming from a very close distance I do remember thinking to myself,  WOW,  after only 50 spanks or so. Those 500 spanks I would have to say were some of the hardest I have watched in person.

That’s about the best that I can do for you for that question. I’ve interviewed both Dana Specht and Ophelia De Havilland and during each of the seven interviews with Dana and the one interview with Ophelia,  each and every interview has involved several offers of taking a trip down memory lane,  but I passed on each offer  🙂  Many years ago as well at a spanking party I made a very sassy,  if not somewhat rude comment to MISS CHRIS. While she took it in the spirit that it was meant,  she did however stand up,  put her hand on her hip and wag her finger at me in front of an audience and warn me  “You are not too big to go across my knee for a spanking young man”

It never happened,  but it was probably the only time in my life that I ever blushed and thought to myself  “YIKES”  as she issued her stern warning,  LOL.

That’s it for this round of questions,  I hope that you all enjoyed them. There are still 23 more question left for me to answer so I have several more posts like this coming. And like I said above,  I absolutely love hearings your questions so if you have one for me then CLICK HERE to ask it,  and in return I will give you access to a 23 minute spanking movie of mine.

Q And A Part 3

Thank you to everyone who submitted a question to me so that they could gain full access to my SPANKING VIDEO WITH TEN. So far I have received over twenty question which will be enough for at least four upcoming posts. Now don’t get me wrong,  I fully understand that people come to my blog to look at the pictures and to read the stories,  but it is nice for me every now and then to have an area that I very much enjoy doing,  with that area being answering reader submitted questions. This is something that I enjoy doing a lot so if you have a question for me then go TO THIS POST and ask me a question and in return I will provide you access to a free spanking movie that I have stored online.

Question 1:

What’s your most memorable spanking you gave to a non spanko/vanilla?

This one is an easy question to answer, and there is also a story where you can read about the spanking. In fact now that I think about it, the very first spanking that I gave was to a non spanko so I guess that qualifies as well.

The most memorable spanking that I gave to a vanilla was at a Shadowlane party in 2010. A vanilla girl was attending the party to support her friend and over the course of a couple of days the scene was set for a room party that had a lot of spanking action,  and culminated with me getting a call at 6.30am in the morning to come to a room to give a vanilla girl her first ever bare bottomed spanking. You can read THIS STORY HERE.

Question 2:

Girl/Girl Action.

Now I had planned to skip over the next series of questions as they came across as a bit demeaning to women. However,  there are two points that I think I can make in relation to this over obsession of focusing on things one doesn’t like.

The first point is that there are now many more female spanking producers. As a person who produces his own content from time to time,  I produce it exactly as I envision it,  so why shouldn’t the girls as well? It kind of goes without saying really,  if you don’t like what is being produced,  fill your boots,  start making your own videos tailored to what you like. I admire and support any lady producing her own material and I will promote them willingly in an effort to support their efforts.

Secondly,  F/F spankings sell!!  If they didn’t sell then people wouldn’t make them. A long time ago I was in a very friendly public discussion regarding extreme severity and graphic genitalia displays in every video. In the discussion I was the person who was opposed to both aspects being discussed. The people defending the practice were producers who didn’t get their panties in a bunch because someone was questioning them,  they actually took the time to engage.

The bottom line I was told was quite simple,  the videos that I didn’t like sold ten times more than the ones that I did like. This goes for F/F videos as well,  if you look at Clips4sale under the general spanking category,  fifty percent are M/F and the other fifty are F/F. I also have an ideal spanking scenario based on a deeply ingrained feeling that I have always had,  it is simply that of a Paternal or Maternal figure delivering a good hand spanking to the seat of a mischievous girl’s panties. That’s it,  I need nothing more than that for it to be a perfect spanking. Let’s be real though,  that scenario isn’t going to sell for shit. At best I am going to find just a few minutes in every video to enjoy,  but rather than bitch about it,  I make my own videos to satisfy what it is that I like in spanking films.

Question 3:

Of all the beautiful ladies you have spanked,  who would you say took the hardest overall spanking from you with hand only?

This is a difficult one to answer because at no time have I ever spanked a girl as hard as I can,  ever. That is not where the mindset is for me so if I go over and above what I consider to be my limit then I think that I am being abusive. With an implement especially I would be hard pressed to even go at 50% of what I am capable of.

There is also this to consider,  and you won’t likely find this written anywhere else in the spanking world,  lol. At only 5’6” I’m short,  and that has a huge impact in the severity level one can deliver in an OTK position. I don’t get the torque that taller guys get,  nor the distance,  or the body posture needed to deliver a good sound OTK spanking. It is different in a standing position,  but I prefer OTK so that is what I am left with. It doesn’t mean that a spanking isn’t going to hurt,  it’s just that the playing fields are different. It is why you rarely see me spanking a girl when I am sat on a bed or a couch,  that position further regresses my lack of height and any spanking given by me on a bed or couch is always going to look pretty weak.

If I had to pick anyone I would think an easy choice would be Ellee Evergood. With Ellee I am able to go to the upper limit that I am personally comfortable with where it will still be enjoyable to me.

What sorts of spanking drawings/illustrations do you prefer?

This question will be answered in its own post later this week. It is a very good question.

Question 4:

Would you agree that the pace of a spanking makes a difference between it being serious business or frivolous flirting? For example,  I prefer the steady and solid pace,  vs the quick pats.

In the times where I take things up to a serious level the distinguishing mark for me would have to be the severity level. In serious situations I believe in the appropriate scolding to accompany the spanking,  so I will pause and scold and then delivery 15-20 really hard smacks in different locations from the upper thighs to the meaty part of the bottom.

In a private video that I did with Ellee I lifted up her skirt before she went OTK,  then I delivered six stingers to the back of her thighs in order to  “Help her with her answers to my questions”. Serious business with me is easy to spot,  I’m a playful guy by nature so anytime that I am being serious there is quite a noticeable difference. It doesn’t happen very often,  but when it does there are normally tears involved.

What’s your most real spanking that you have given a vanilla?

I’m pretty sure that this question was from the same user in the first question. When the first question was asked it was prior to the video giveaway,  so I don’t blame him for asking again to get the video!!

Question 5:

Since you are in charge of security for the party, what will be the punishment for “offenders”? A spanking?

I will keep in the spirit of the humor that the question poses. Generally when we get an offender it is normally a curious vanilla trying to enter the party,  or someone losing their badge for the 50th time.

However,  in the spirit of fun,  if I had my way,  anyone who showed up and had forgotten their badge would immediately be bent over the desk and paddled,  and then sent to get their badge. They would also earn demerits to be dished out on the final night!! Hopefully that would improve their attention to detail.

Feel free to ask me your questions,  it makes a nice change for me to break up the normal schedule of sharing rare pictures with you.

Top Ten Stories Of 2018

It is that time again for the annual list of most read stories from the year of 2018. Unlike the top ten posts, the criteria for this one is different in that it didn’t matter what year the story was posted, this list is based on how many times those stories were read in 2018. Overall my stories were read over 100,000 times in 2018 and it is probably the most popular feature on this site. The list this year has seen some changes, most notably in the top spot where my new story was the most read in 2018. Without further ado, here are the most read stories in 2018.

Number 1:

MOTHER SPANKS DAUGHTER – OVERHEARD

This was my new story in 2018 and it outdid all of the other stories on the site. Unlike the top ten posts list, the story was read only a thousand times more than the second most popular.

The story is set in 1986 and features a girl breaking curfew. After her boyfriend drops her off he discovers her makeup kit on the floor of his car. As he walks back to the house to return the kit he is startled by the sounds of a spanking taking place. Unable to help himself, he stands there and listens in until the spanking is finished. The story will continue once I start writing again as it has been very popular and was left open ended for future adventures. READ THE STORY HERE.

Number 2:

THREE GIRLS  – PART 1

Three girls are about to celebrate the birthday for one of them,  but before they leave the house a daughter hints that her father should spank her friend. He duly obliges,  but it is the other friend who isn’t getting spanked that is turned on the most by this. How long will it be before she gets a spanking?

It’s amazing when you think about it that she dressed so modestly,  because there was nothing modest about it when she was over his lap and her panty clad bottom was sticking in the air,  knowing that her friends,  neighbors and cousins were all being treated to a wonderful sight as they all laughed while she lay there red faced and praying for things to be over. It was never that simple though,  he would do this little talk about how he had spoiled her and perhaps how he should have done this a long time ago,  her face a deep scarlet with the knowledge that a bunch of eyes were probably transfixed on her upturned bottom as he talked. By the time he was done she was almost begging for the spanking to start,  and oh boy did he spank when it finally did start. Read more…..

Number 3:

1979 THE FIRST SPANKING

We all had to start somewhere,  and my first experience took place in 1979. The spanking may not have been a classic,  but it is very memorable and resonates with me to this day. My girlfriend at the time was wearing white nylon panties that day,  and it is an image that has proved everlasting,  even though I have probably spanked another 100 girls the same way,  it never gets old and is a big trigger for me. Read more…..

Number 4:

THE FLY ON THE WALL

A different type of story to those that I normally write. In this story a young man knows that the girl next door gets spanked. When they are alone he playfully agrees to let her spank him. It is during their game they are interrupted and now it is the woman next door who gets to dish out the spankings. His curiosity is now more than satisfied as his neighbor leaves him with a well spanked fanny listening to the sound of the girl next door having a hairbrush applied liberally to her bottom as he leaves. Read more….

Number 5:

MISSY GETS SPANKED IN PUBLIC

Another real life spanking tale,  this time done at a spanking party. The title is slightly misleading,  however,  it did take place in the middle of a room,  albeit a room full of spankos. Another first time spanking between friends. Read more….

Number 6:

JANE’S BIRTHDAY SPANKING

Living with a summer camp director and his wife for the summer,  Jane playfully teases when the director suggests a birthday spanking for her. It is a little more than she bargained for,  but she didn’t mind,  in fact the following morning she was getting a repeat performance. It was probably a long summer for Jane. Read more…..

Number 7:

ELLEE’s STORY

This story details how ellee and I got to become friends after meeting at a spanking party. There is a review of the first spanking that I gave to ellee and then a much more detailed account of an elaborate roleplay that the pair of us did. During this account ellee gets spanked,  then gets the hairbrush and finally she is caned. There are 12 super hot pics attached to this story so be sure not to miss this one. Read More…

Number 8:

A LODGER’S REGRET

“Well if you were my daughter you would get a good sound spanking”

The words were still registering as her landlord closed the door behind him.

Mallory took her coat off and hung it up  “A spanking,  pfft”

She was a little flustered as she made her way into the kitchen to prepare some food,  of course that was one area that she was covered in. The money issues mainly were revolved around frivolous activities,  like a new phone,  party gifts and a great night out. And then there were the car issues,  that one is genuine. Okay,  so what if he would have been more than understanding if her car trouble had left her short,  as he had in the past.

There was like a running conversation going on in her head,  mostly revolved around the guilt that he had always been really accommodating towards her,  it’s not like she takes advantage of his good nature ALL of the time. Read More….

Number 9:

A BIRTHDAY SPANKING FOR LAURA

Coming of age birthday spankings are something that I very much enjoy writing about,  a hint of playful innocence combined with an exploration of the spanking lifestyle. The formula to this story is the same as the others,  but of course with a twist. A girl walks in on her mom and the neighbor having coffee,  being the brat that she is she makes all types of innuendos trying to embarrass the neighbor. When she makes a sassy comment about what he will give her for her birthday,  he suggests a spanking. Unfortunately for Laura,  her mom only encourages it. Once the spanking is over and the two adults are talking on the phone,  it would appear that the neighbor just threatened to spank Laura’s mom as well. Read more….

Number 10:

A SIMPLE BIRTHDAY SPANKING

Nothing but a sexy spanking here between two neighbors. Things get so hot that he carries her upstairs after where you get to let your imagine run wild. This story is very short,  but hot. Read more….

Windsor Wednesday Classic – 129

Hope you are all enjoying the new frequency of updates,  there maybe a missed day or two over the next week as I close up my work responsibilities,  but come the new year I should be pretty much posting on a daily basis.

I can’t devote all my time to this site just yet,  but I am excited about what the future holds. First of all I have a 20,000 word book ready to self publish,  which I will be editing and adding to over the Christmas holiday. My goal is to have it up in the new year and then to write a few longer books.

While I have to be mindful of money,  I’m almost certainly going to be going to the Vegas party in February. I’ve been in touch with DANA SPECHT and we are going to do our annual interview,  but not only that we are also going to collaborate on a video. I’m going to be directing and writing it,  and my goal right now is to have a lighter M/FF scene followed by a much more painful F/FF scene. However,  I will seek input at a later date as my audience always has wonderful thoughts to share. For the interview I generally giveaway a photo archive in return for questions to ask Dana. Right now I have around 50 new unseen F/M pics that I will be using for the giveaway this year,  and I hope to add more. This will be separate to THE F/M COLLECTION that I have already shared with hundred’s of you.

Right,  onto the Wednesday Classic this week. Now I am not a big fan of KISS ME KATE spanking pics for whatever reason,  they just don’t hit my kink button. You will see from clicking on the link that I have posted some of my favorites over time.

This week though during my diligent searching of vanilla material I was able to score two really good photos. Yes,  virtually all of my material is new and unique and not taken from other spanking sites. The first of these photos made me smile because not only is it a great pic,  but it also reminded me of a photo I had taken with ELLEE. It is a cracking photo as well and despite my dislike of Kiss Me Kate pics,  this one immediately became a top rated pic,  I just love everything about it. Below the Kiss Me Kate spanking pic is also the photo in question that I took of ellee,  I’m sure you will be able to see why it reminded me of her. The photo is from 1964.

Windsor Wednesday Classic – 121

I’m now back in America and it is probably fair to say that I have just experienced the worst week of my life. Emotionally I am doing well,  though I am feeling a bit drained and deflated at the moment.

Last Tuesday I arrived in England and my Brother’s best friend picked me up at the airport. We got to my hometown at Noon and as I couldn’t check into the hotel until 3pm,  I went straight round my brother’s place to see what I had to deal with. The evidence of where he died was present,  but that didn’t bother me too much surprisingly.

That night I met with the police and collected my brother’s belongings,  and other than hanging out with old friends on Wednesday and Saturday nights,  and of course the funeral and reception being on Thursday,  I spent my entire time going between the hotel and my brother’s flat. Aside from the funeral I traveled no more than one square mile my entire time in Swindon. Of course when I was at my brother’s place I also had to deal with visitors non stop the entire time,  some with heartfelt condolences,  others carrying boxes and carrier bags to load up on their visit.

A couple of spankos had contacted me when I was in England,  but I was busy right from the get go. Even Ophelia De Havilland who I have just interviewed had offered to drive up to spend some time with me and to break up the monotony. As much as I would have loved to take some time out for some fun I just knew that I couldn’t. In fact if the truth be known I probably could have done with staying for the rest of the week to finish off the family affairs.

As it is,  I grabbed three bags of memories and that is now it,  my whole family history is contained within those three bags. I’m not sure if it has sunk in yet that I am the only surviving member of my family. It is going to take a while to get used to this,  and I’m sure that there will be desperate times of loneliness,  but we have to deal with the hand we have been dealt.

The one thing that I did do that I was really happy to have done,  and that I had the strength to do it,  was to read a eulogy for my brother during the funeral service. Quite honestly I didn’t know if I was going to be able to do it,  but I somehow managed to get through it. The funny part being though that I had a four page eulogy written,  but I decided not to use it once I got to the podium.

I’m still hoping to go to Japan later this year but the past week has set me back a bit. All in all the funeral,  flight and accommodation set me back $8,000,  which was far more than I had saved for my trip to Japan,  but I’m not going to let it deter me. Life is too short.

Now onto the Wednesday Classic for this week on this very humid July the 4th.

It will be a little different this week as I am cheering myself up,  and while I own literally hundreds of rare,  pretty much unseen spanking pics,  this week I am going to post one of the all time classic spanking images.

The image is from the Shadowlane film DOUBLE FEATURE #1 and features Nick Phoenix and Georgia Gold. It was one of those early images that helped me to accept who I was. Just look at it,  a naughty schoolgirl with the seat of her white nylon panties exposed getting a spanking. Please visit SHADOWLANE to view all of their DVD’s and their members site.

I have also included a cropped image from the photo set that I have with ELLEE. In this one she is dressed as an adorable schoolgirl,  complete with Mary Jane’s,  pigtails and of course WHITE NYLON PANTIES. In this image you can see the impact of the paddle on her cute buns. Now why do I rarely bare the bottom? This image explains it,  ellee is wearing panties of course,  but as you can see they are offering her ZERO protection,  literally!! In my alternate universe,  every single spanking is delivered to the seat of a pair of nylon panties,  or,  as the picture denotes,  to the bare cheeks that stick out of the bottom of them  🙂

Top Ten Stories Of 2017

We have had the top ten posts of 2017,  now it is time for the top ten most viewed stories on this site for 2017. Now I haven’t written a new story for a while now,  but they are always one of the most popular features on this site,  if not the most popular overall. I’m going to have to pull my finger out and write a couple of new stories this year.

1: THREE GIRLS  – PART 1

Three girls are about to celebrate the birthday for one of them,  but before they leave the house a daughter hints that her father should spank her friend. He duly obliges,  but it is the other friend who isn’t getting spanked that is turned on the most by this. How long will it be before she gets a spanking?

It’s amazing when you think about it that she dressed so modestly,  because there was nothing modest about it when she was over his lap and her panty clad bottom was sticking in the air,  knowing that her friends,  neighbors and cousins were all being treated to a wonderful sight as they all laughed while she lay there red faced and praying for things to be over. It was never that simple though,  he would do this little talk about how he had spoiled her and perhaps how he should have done this a long time ago,  her face a deep scarlet with the knowledge that a bunch of eyes were probably transfixed on her upturned bottom as he talked. By the time he was done she was almost begging for the spanking to start,  and oh boy did he spank when it finally did start. Read more…..

2: 1979 THE FIRST SPANKING

We all had to start somewhere,  and my first experience took place in 1979. The spanking may not have been a classic,  but it is very memorable and resonates with me to this day. My girlfriend at the time was wearing white nylon panties that day,  and it is an image that has proved everlasting,  even though I have probably spanked another 100 girls the same way,  it never gets old and is a big trigger for me. Read more…..

3: JANE’S BIRTHDAY SPANKING

Living with a summer camp director and his wife for the summer,  Jane playfully teases when the director suggests a birthday spanking for her. It is a little more than she bargained for,  but she didn’t mind,  in fact the following morning she was getting a repeat performance. It was probably a long summer for Jane. Read more…..

4: MISSY GETS SPANKED IN PUBLIC

Another real life spanking tale,  this time done at a spanking party. The title is slightly misleading,  however,  it did take place in the middle of a room,  albeit a room full of spankos. Another first time spanking between friends. Read more….

5: ELLEE’s STORY

Number of times read:6621

This story details how ellee and I got to become friends after meeting at a spanking party. There is a review of the first spanking that I gave to ellee and then a much more detailed account of an elaborate roleplay that the pair of us did. During this account ellee gets spanked,  then gets the hairbrush and finally she is caned. There are 12 super hot pics attached to this story so be sure not to miss this one. Read More…

6: SPANKED THE GIRLS AND MADE THEM CRY

I’m just a playful guy who loves to spank the bottoms of naughty little girls. Sometimes though,  albeit very rarely,  things take a darker side. In this story I spanked three girls back to back,  and circumstances being what they were and the planets aligning correctly,  each one of the three girls cried their way through the spankings. There was nothing really harsh,  and I have rarely if ever spanked a girl to tears,  but this was one Saturday where emotions were running high. ellee and I have a private recording of her spanking and she sobbed throughout the entire event. On playback,  it is just about the hottest thing ever,  especially as it rook place in a library room. Read more….

7: A BIRTHDAY SPANKING FOR LAURA

Coming of age birthday spankings are something that I very much enjoy writing about,  a hint of playful innocence combined with an exploration of the spanking lifestyle. The formula to this story is the same as the others,  but of course with a twist. A girl walks in on her mom and the neighbor having coffee,  being the brat that she is she makes all types of innuendos trying to embarrass the neighbor. When she makes a sassy comment about what he will give her for her birthday,  he suggests a spanking. Unfortunately for Laura,  her mom only encourages it. Once the spanking is over and the two adults are talking on the phone,  it would appear that the neighbor just threatened to spank Laura’s mom as well. Read more….

8: THE FLY ON THE WALL

A different type of story to those that I normally write. In this story a young man knows that the girl next door gets spanked. When they are alone he playfully agrees to let her spank him. It is during their game they are interrupted and now it is the woman next door who gets to dish out the spankings. His curiosity is now more than satisfied as his neighbor leaves him with a well spanked fanny listening to the sound of the girl next door having a hairbrush applied liberally to her bottom as he leaves. Read more….

9: A SIMPLE BIRTHDAY SPANKING

Nothing but a sexy spanking here between two neighbors. Things get so hot that he carries her upstairs after where you get to let your imagine run wild. This story is very short,  but hot. Read more….

10: A Lodger’s Regret

“Well if you were my daughter you would get a good sound spanking”

The words were still registering as her landlord closed the door behind him.

Mallory took her coat off and hung it up  “A spanking,  pfft”

She was a little flustered as she made her way into the kitchen to prepare some food,  of course that was one area that she was covered in. The money issues mainly were revolved around frivolous activities,  like a new phone,  party gifts and a great night out. And then there were the car issues,  that one is genuine. Okay,  so what if he would have been more than understanding if her car trouble had left her short,  as he had in the past.

There was like a running conversation going on in her head,  mostly revolved around the guilt that he had always been really accommodating towards her,  it’s not like she takes advantage of his good nature ALL of the time.

Read More….

Top Ten Stories Of 2016

For whatever reason,  the spanking stories that I write are one of the most popular features on this site,  and I rarely get the chance to write anymore. I really should because every day the stories are read dozens of times. Maybe you have an idea for a story that will give me inspiration? Feel free to leave a comment if you do.

My blog has been running for ten years now,  and every year the story of the first spanking that I ever gave was the most read story by a country mile. That changed this year though,  and not only changed,  but the story didn’t even hold onto 2nd place. I’m guessing by now that everyone has read it. So here are the top ten most read stories of 2016,  based on how many times each story was clicked on.

1:  THREE GIRLS  –  PART 1

Number of times read:  6968

Three girls are about to celebrate the birthday of one of them,  but before they leave the house a girl hints that he father should spank her friend. He duly obliges,  but it is the other friend who isn’t getting spanked that is turned on the most by this. How long will it be before she gets a spanking?

It’s amazing when you think about it that she dressed so modestly,  because there was nothing modest about it when she was over his lap and her panty clad bottom was sticking in the air,  knowing that her friends,  neighbors and cousins were all being treated to a wonderful sight as they all laughed while she lay there red faced and praying for things to be over. It was never that simple though,  he would do this little talk about how he had spoiled her and perhaps how he should have done this a long time ago,  her face a deep scarlet with the knowledge that a bunch of eyes were probably transfixed on her upturned bottom as he talked. By the time he was done she was almost begging for the spanking to start,  and oh boy did he spank when it finally did start. Read more…..

2:  ELLEE’s STORY

Number of times read: 6621

This story details how ellee and I got to become friends after meeting at a party. There is a review of the first spanking that I gave to ellee and then a much more detailed account of an elaborate roleplay that the pair of us did. During this account ellee gets spanked,  then gets the hairbrush and finally she is caned. There are 12 super hot pics in this story so be sure not to miss this one. Read More…

3:  1979 THE FIRST SPANKING

Number of times read:  4932

We all had to start somewhere,  and my first experience took place in 1979. The spanking may not have been a classic,  but it is very memorable and resonates with me to this day. My girlfriend was wearing white nylon panties that day and it is an image that has proved everlasting,  even though I have probably spanked another 100 girls the same way,  it never gets old and is a big trigger for me. Read more…..

4:  MISSY GETS SPANKED IN PUBLIC

Number of times read:  4799

Another real life spanking tale,  this time done at a spanking party. The title is slightly misleading,  however,  it did take place in the middle of a room,  albeit a room of spankos. Another first time spanking between friends. Read more….

5:  JANE’S BIRTHDAY SPANKING

Number of times read:  3734

Living with a summer camp director and his wife for the summer,  Jane playfully teases when the director suggests a birthday spanking for her. It is a little more than she bargained for,  but she didn’t mind,  in fact the following morning she was getting a repeat performance. It was probably a long summer. Read more…..

6:  SPANKED THE GIRLS AND MADE THEM CRY

Number of times read:  3601

I’m just a playful guy who loves to spank the bottoms of naughty little girls. Sometimes though,  albeit very rarely,  things take a darker side. In this story I spanked three girls back to back,  and circumstances being what they were and the planets aligning correctly,  each one of the three girls cried their way through the spankings. There was nothing really harsh,  and I have rarely if ever spanked a girl to tears,  but this was one Saturday where emotions were running high. ellee and I have a private recording of her spanking and she sobbed throughout the entire event. On playback,  it is just about the hottest thing ever,  especially as it rook place in a library room. Read more….

7:  A BIRTHDAY SPANKING FOR LAURA

Number of times read:  3489

Coming of age birthday spankings are something that I very much enjoy writing about,  a hint of playful innocence combined with an exploration of the spanking lifestyle. The formula to this story is the same as the others,  but of course with a twist. A girl walks in on her mom and the neighbor having coffee,  but being the brat that she is she makes all types of innuendos to embarrass the neighbor. When she makes a sassy comment about what he will give her for her birthday,  he suggests a spanking. Unfortunately for Laura,  her mom only encourages it. Once the spanking is over and the two adults are talking on the phone,  it would appear that the neighbor just threatened to spank Laura’s mom as well. Read more….

8:  THE FLY ON THE WALL

Number of times read:  3349

A different type of story to those that I normally write. In this one a young man knows that the girl next door gets spanked. When they are alone he playfully agrees to let her spank him. It is during their game they are interrupted and now it is the woman next door gets to dish out the spankings. His curiosity is now more than satisfied as he leaves with a well spanked behind listening to the sound of the girl next door having a hairbrush applied liberally to her bottom. Read more….

9:  A SIMPLE BIRTHDAY SPANKING

Number of times read:  2766

Nothing but a sexy spanking here between two neighbors. Things get so hot that he carries her upstairs after where you get to let your imagine run wild. This story is very short,  but hot. Read more….

10:  EMILY AND TOM

Number of times read:  2226 

The weeks of contact had seemed like an eternity,  each email or phone call just increasing the desire to be spanked,  each one feeling like additional torture. She had even practiced placing pillows on a chair and laying over them like she was OTK,  looking at his picture on her computer screen as she lifted her skirt,  blushing as she imagined how it would feel for real. Then inserting her fingers into the waistband of her panties and drawing them all the way down to her knees. My God is this going to be embarrassing,  she thought to herself,  as she tried to clench her cheeks to protect her modesty. Emily laid there for ten minutes trying to imagine the scene unfolding,  looking behind her to try and see what view he would have.

Read more…..

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53 Today

So it is that time of year again where one year gets added to the age and one less fuck is given. Those of you who are around my age will understand,  the older that you get the less you worry about things that are not that important. It is a wonderful place to be,  however,  I will say that there is a little of me that says  “Yikes,  53”!!

Anyway,  I am pre-posting this at 10pm on Sunday as I have to be up at 4am on Monday for work,  so by the time that you guys get to see this I would have already done a full days work 🙂  Which also means that I have to get to bed,  so enough of the jibber-jabber,  to celebrate my 53rd birthday,  here are 53 pics of me spanking 53 different girls,  and you wonder why there is no hate in my heart?

Question Time

A reader of this blog by the name of jimc posed a few questions to me recently and I thought that it would make for a good post. Many times I am asked questions but for the most part it is done privately,  however,  as I am answering some here,  if you have a question for me then feel free to leave it as a comment on this post or shoot me an email at richardofwindsor@gmail.com

Here are Jim’s questions and I will do my best to answer them all as best I can,  and I don’t mind saying that some of these questions are pretty tough. I will try to intersperse some pictures throughout the post as well.

“Do you enjoy the weight of the person over your knee, do you enjoy the position, the submission, the outfits, the sounds of a spanking or are there other things that you seek when you play or don’t play as the case may be?”

So let’s start with the first one,  a very dangerous question for any man,  lol,  “Do you enjoy the weight of the person over your knee”?

Well I have to break this down before I even start. In order for me to do OTK I have to be sat in a straight backed chair,  full stop. There are logistics for this that come into play and they are vitally important for me. To start with,  I’m only 5’6″ tall and my legs are short  “28”  inseam”  and I’m a bit of a bloater. That means that the actual space on my lap is limited at best. Don’t get me wrong,  there is enough room for any girl to fit,  but unless I am in a straight chair my feet don’t reach the ground for balance. OTK on a bed or a couch simply doesn’t work for me,  my feet don’t touch the ground,  I’m not  ‘over’  the person,  rather I’m leaning backwards,  and after a minute or so the compensation that I am putting on my arm and back gets too much. I bet nobody ever thought so much goes into a spanking,  right? Quite simply,  I can’t get a decent swing otherwise and at best I offer no more than a tame spanking.

So before I even enjoy the weight of the person,  I have to set myself up properly.

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With that said,  I don’t think that weight is the word that I would use,  but I do enjoy the human contact that is for sure. Whether it is in the otk position or if it was standing next to someone.

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Do I enjoy the OTK position? No question,  it is by far my favorite and given the choice I do it as much as I can.

What about the submission?

That is a tricky question for me because it all depends on the person and our relationship. There are times where no submission is required when you our just having a playful game of spanking,  but for other times it can be really hot. I thought about this one a lot today and how my relationships are formed both in the spanking world and in the real world.

There is no doubt that I can be difficult to have a relationship with if things aren’t great. Don’t get me wrong,  my barometer for friendship is so incredibly basic,  I’ll be friends with just about anyone. I’m completely drawn to kindhearted people so all someone has to do is be friendly to me. Conversely though,  and I will admit that this is perhaps my biggest flaw in life,  I’m more than content with who I am. That can really affect my relationships because I have to have the basic rules in place. If I ever feel that my company isn’t wanted,  or that my friendship isn’t that important to someone,  I can move on in a nanosecond. It might not sound like it but that can be a real problem with friendships/relationships.

It is a strange one really because I have no malice in my heart,  even if the heart is colder than most  🙂  While I have lost many friendships over the years in the scene,  I’m always here. The moment that someone wants to rekindle a friendship or make me feel welcome then I hold no vindictiveness. If I was a friend of someone once then I’m generally always their friend 99% of the time,  even if we never see or talk to each other anymore. A lot of these thoughts are actually from communications that I have had recently with an old play partner. When we stopped playing we had a bit of an argument,  but ten years later our friendship is back on track. There are times when you realize that you just weren’t compatible,  but I still hold no malice to anyone.

I’m also not going to lie,  and yes,  I have noticed that Jim’s questions are being replaced by my ramblings. When my mom died a few months ago it pretty much mellowed me a lot. Now there is just my brother and myself and while I am not thinking morbidly,  there are more yesterday’s than there are tomorrow’s,  I want to enjoy what is left with the people who want to enjoy me. I’ve always got my brother so I will never lose. I am brutally stubborn though,  I will never be anywhere that I am not welcome,  I have far too much pride for that. And that my friends is my biggest burden in life.

So submission,  there is far more to the word than just a simple answer. But in the right situation with the right person,  it is very hot.

Now asking me about outfits is like asking Stephen Hawkins about the universe,  I could talk for hours on it. In fact the answer is far too long to even include here but yes,  they are very important to me. I generally fall afoul of a section of women with this answer,  but it is an honest answer. I just ask that people separate what is MY opinion from what is their/society’s opinion. There is this vision that I have as to what constitutes femininity as it applies to me in the spanking scene. To save writing it here though I have already written a complete article on FEMININITY AN SUBMISSIONI’m a glutton for punishment,  what can I tell you? You just have to remember that I am only talking about my fantasy vision,  not femininity as a whole.

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And now the final part of Jim’s question,  do I enjoy the sounds of the spanking or are there other things that you seek when you play?

I’m going to tap into my sadistic side here and tell you a tale of a spanking scene that I did on film. Now I’m going to say that almost every girl that I have filmed with has been into spanking,  but there was one time where the girl may have enjoyed spanking,  but perhaps she enjoyed it at a different level than we shot at. Being really honest,  and cruel,  I have to tell the truth here,  lol,  the girl had a super hard time getting through the spanking and kicked and squirmed like an eel throughout it. Because her reactions were so genuine,  I have to say that it was the hottest thing ever. We had a safeword in place just like they do on any set,  but she was a trooper and got through it,  and the look she gave me afterwards could have started a war 🙂

Yes,  I’m a perceptive person and any of a thousand things can make it for me,  a look,  a sound,  a comment. It all ties in to what we all call  “The dance”. Many years ago it was how Pixie and I became friends,  she knew how to dance. That sassy comment that puts one foot over the line,  where you aren’t sure whether it is sass or an innocent remark. Of course we all know what it is,  and you dance until it is clear to all. In that situation though it is the acceptance that is the most important,  never start sassing someone who you have no intention of letting spank you.

That is actually a good way to answer that final question,  what are the other things that work?

The dance works. A look,  a remark,  a haughty passing,  a flirt. It works for me if someone wants to play,  and they play the game that gives me the opportunity to play with them. It doesn’t take much to do and I’m pretty simple.

That last line just made me laugh actually,  I can imagine saying to one of my spanking friends  “It doesn’t take much to do and I’m pretty simple”

I can picture half a dozen of those girls saying right now  “Yes,  I noticed”

The dance,  that is something that I definitely crave.

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