About Me

I am a 56 year old Englishman currently living in New York City with a penchant for spanking and Rockabilly music. Since coming out in the scene I have been fortunate enough to work with some wonderful people,  though just having a name in the scene is of little importance to me.

One area that I take great pride in and has been mentioned about me many times by others,  is that I am an open an honest individual. It can be difficult to walk the line between honesty and being rude,  but I like to think that my casual approach wins over.

What is it that I seek in a partner?

In a nutshell I am an out and out spanker,  I prefer playful and fun over serious and discipline. One area that confuses people is that they automatically assume playful and fun is a light spanking,  that is far from the truth. The “atmosphere”  is playful and fun,  the spanking itself is still the same as it would be elsewhere.

Over the years I have taken part in many roleplays,  from Teacher to Uncle to Santa,  I have even played the roles of Hagrid and the Big Bad Wolf on film 🙂 The discipline side is still something that I work on,  I have explored it to some degree but I prefer  “Funishment”  where I can play a role as opposed to being a disciplinarian. Each case is based on its own merit and I would never say that I would never be in a D/D relationship,  but the chances are that I won’t.

Overall I am still the playful guy,  but I have started to tap into my dark side 😉

Aesthetics play an important role in my scenes,  there are certain things that I prefer my spankee to wear that enhances my enjoyment of the scene. Very few tops point out what it is that they want from a scene,  I have no such issues requesting what it is that will improve my scene. What a top gets out of spanking is as important as what a bottom gets out of it. It is as simple as a skirt and nylon panties,  but it can be a world of difference to a top. The feedback that I get from women is that they get little feedback from a man when it comes to what they like,  I’m very different in that area,  I will gladly tell you what I like.

A girl with a smart mouth and a sassy attitude is something that I enjoy,  as is a young lady of a submissive demeanor. I’m not one for bratting at all though. Something playful and cute can be a lot of fun if it is designed to get a girl a spanking,  constant annoyance with childish behavior though is the antithesis of fun for me. Please don’t misread that,  I LOVE fun and playful girls,  I just don’t like excess.

What I am looking for.

It is cliche to say,  but the looks of an individual are far less important than the emotional connection that we make. A person’s attitude is of high importance to me however. I prefer fun loving,  caring individuals. Drama Queens can stay out of my life. It is something that I don’t think I see said too much,  but I prefer a sweet girl over an abrasive one,  someone who views life in a positive manner. Yes,  that is VERY important to me. We all have down moments in our life and we all need someone to share that with,  I understand and respect that. One of the biggest turn offs to me though is constant negativity,  I just can’t handle that. I’m very old school in that manner,  it is ingrained in me that when something bad happens to you,  you suck it up and you deal with it!!

Like I said, we all have things that will get us down and we will want to share that,  but when it is one thing after another after another,  the  ‘Debbie Downer’  syndrome as I call it,  that is an approach to life that I just cannot relate to.

Are looks important? To some degree I would say yes,  they are, but it is who is defining the looks that is important. I like eccentric characters,  I like girls with a pink streak in her hair or an arm full of bracelets,  somebody quirky and fun loving,  somebody different.  It is also important to me that the girl is a kind person. I,  myself,  am kind by nature,  and the people I like to spend the most time with are also kind individuals. It is probably the single most important thing to me,  women who are kind people.

One statement that is repeated to me time and again by people wanting to play with me is this… “I’m not like the skinny girls that I see in your pics”

So let’s put that one to bed. The reason the girls in my pics are skinny is because they are paid spanking models who have no problem being seen on the Internet. Likewise,  most of these pictures are also from paid assignments that I have been paid to appear in myself. They are not a reflection of who I play with overall,  though you will see some of these girls play with me outside of paid assignments. The reason for that is because they are genuine people who I have befriended and whose company I enjoy. 95% of people who I have played with do not wish for their pictures to be seen,  therefore no one can really interpret the type of individual I play with. Who do I play with? Just go to a party and you will see. Size has little bearing to me,  it is all about the emotional connection.

What do I do aside from spanking?

It is a bit of a mixed bag really,  I love studying things,  whether they be history or etymology. I’m an avid fan of British TV and films and I am a lover of soccer and hockey. There is a lot to what I like,  so much so that I would take up too much time writing about it. Just ask me and I will tell you 🙂

Anyway,  I’m a very honest person,  if you have a question feel free to ask me 🙂

22 comments to About Me

  • TC

    I am looking for an older man in the san antonio area for regular meetings. do you have any idea where to look?

  • impishbrat

    My friend, you are looking HOT!! ;o)

  • Anon

    Hi, I’ve left my email address as I’d like to talk to you about exchange links and didn’t know how else to contact you

  • Dan

    Hi Richard i’ve been into spanking for about 50 yrs but just don’t know were to start. I grew up when woman/girls wore dresses/skirts and always a slip. SO I have a double fetish spankings and slips.My question is were can i find a woman to chat with about spankings and slips as i’m not ready for a one on one. Thankes in advance for any help….Dan

  • Benjamin M Root

    Hi Richard,

    I recently found a photo on the internet that strangely & amazingly might be of my own father. How freaking cool would that be? It’s a black and white of the correct era, and the hair could so easily be him (though it was a popular style in the day). The facial-angle shot is not distinctive enough to tell for sure, but maybe (it was pre-beard for him, so not the look I’m used to). The woman is NOT my mother, nor my step-mother. But oh well. I’d have ignored it as coincidence if not for one thing…there’s a painting on the wall behind the couch that looks as if it may be one that my maternal grandmother painted. Very very much her style!
    Of course, I cannot show the image to my Mother…she just couldn’t appreciate the context. Even a strategic crop, would start the questions, and I can’t lie to her.
    The reason I’m querying you is that there is an “RW” monogram on the print (looks more contemporary than the shot itself) and thus your blog came up in a google search.

    I’m wondering if, in your appreciation of vintage spanking photos, you’ve ever seen this piece, recognize the monogram, or might be able to point me to a source?

    Can I send you the image?

  • John Leitz

    Do you know where I can purchase volumes 1-3 of “Letters To MR. magazine”? From 1960s-70s

  • Charlie

    Richard – here’s an “Avengers” swat I just ran across:


    a swat on the Avengers (about 19 minutes)

  • Dear Richard

    I have only just now discovered your wonderful Vintage Spankiong website.

    I have a fairly large library of books and magazines from the late 1960s to early 1980s which are focused on the spanking of adult girls. They include a lot of volumes published by the Acton Town, London conpany Ben’s Books. On your Vintage Spanking website you have promulgated a few pictures from these publications which are of much higher visual quality than my originals. I suspect that you have used some kind of image enhancing software. If so, please tell me the name of this software and how to download it (hopefully for free!) Using such putative software, I could then scan and process several thousand images which should appeal to you and your followers. I would upload the results to your website, or to yourself, without charge, if you would tell me how to do so.

    Yours sincerely

    Brian Binder

  • Poppa Mark

    Richard; I am in the process of cleaning out closets in preparation of moving. In a foot locker from my college days I found some magazines one of which has great pictures of Tanya Fox. I have never seen these pictures on the net before. I’d love to share them with you. Are you interested?

  • Richard Windsor


    I would always be interested in photos of Tanya Foxx 🙂

  • I was perving the internet for pictures of animated spanking when I happened upon your site. I am very much looking forward to seeing you at BBW and now I know your dance card will probably be quite full I hope to get the pleasure of potentially playing with you.

  • Poppa Mark

    Just want to make sure you got your new pictures. If so did you like them?

  • Briana Forbes

    Hi! I came across your site while “bing” searching Wedding Night Spanking”. I really loved your “White Wedding” photo set. Can you please tell me something about the couple in it? Also,I wish there was a clip (film) of it. Thanks!

  • Hi Richard, I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy stopping by your blog. I especially enjoy the variety of photos that are displayed, from vintage to personal, to photos from lots of other spanking sites and blogs. You give me an “up” when my day is “down” and you make me feel welcome to just stop by and visit! Barbara

  • Richard Windsor

    Hi Briana,

    The photoset is from an old version of Janus. The PDF magazine is available on their website and from this link you can read a brief description of the photoset. http://www.janusworldwide.com/store/index.php?_a=viewProd&productId=192

  • Richard Windsor

    Hi Barbara,

    Thank you very much for your kind words, I appreciate that a lot!! Perhaps one day we can do a post about your site and the magazines/videos that you sell? I’ve been reading your magazines for many years now, in fact back in the 90’s I would always stop at Kinematics in New York to pick up the latest ones.

  • Molly

    Hi Richard,
    I came across your site tonight and your stories are fun, thrilling and most of all quite touching to me. I read some of your roleplaying and I enjoy your intentionality for details and noticing the small things about the girls throughout whole scenario.
    It appears that you have a heart that truly cares for others as you go about your “hobby?” 🙂
    Your desire and ability to play a strong but caring authoritarian totally captures me. It appears you live in NYC, do you ever find yourself in the midwest?
    Btw-is that an Elvis tatoo on your arm? I am interested in knowing the story behind it.
    Thank you for being genuine,

  • Richard Windsor

    Hi Molly,

    Thank you so much for your kind words. My stories are generally based upon where my mindset really lies, and the roleplays are where I enjoy life the best. A lot of people are not into roleplaying, so the times that I am able to partake in one generally means that it is memorable for me. When I go to parties I perhaps don’t play as much as others, but I dare say that I enjoy my time just as much.

    I am indeed based in NYC and while I travel around quite a bit, the midwest is the place that I have visited the least. On previous trips I have done most of the contiguous states, the remaining ones that I have yet to do are pretty much all in the midwest with the exception of Maine, and I think Arkansas. I’m not certain on the latter, I’ve certainly seen it across the Mississippi river when I was in Memphis. Perhaps there will be midwest trips in the future to comple the ‘States’ 🙂

    To answer your last question, yes, that is Elvis on my arm, the tattoo was done in 1979 so I have had it 40 years now. I also have the name Elvis tattooed of both wrists.

  • Rob

    Richard have enjoyed your site for awhile.
    I have become quite expert at photoshop
    if you have a few favorites you would like
    sharpened or color adjusted — just send
    a private email.

  • Hello and a request, but first an apology for using a comment box, but I couldn’t find an addie…

    You have such a popular blog ! Would you please allow some of that popularity to rub off onto our little blog “O&P Spanking Stories”? Please, please add our blog in your blog-roll…
    Best regards
    Brigitte and Martine

  • Richard Windsor


    Thanks, I appreciate your offer but I use a few programs already to improve picture quality. There are times though when the image is so bad that I have to work extra hard just to make them even halfway presentable. I’m used to it by now though.


  • John Leitzmann

    Richard, do you know where I can purchase a copy of MR. magazines letters to the editor?? Thanks in advance for your reply.

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