What is your best method to determine if you have a spankee on your hands (pun intended)?
I’m going to assume that in this situation we are talking about vanilla life. As I have mentioned numerous times, I don’t hide who I am from my network of friends. Therefore it is pretty easy to determine based on the types of questions that I get and the fact that someone is willing to interact on that topic. This isn’t to say that they are a spanko, but there is definitely an interest.
A couple of instances stand out. One time when we were at a bar event a group of us were outside smoking. Obviously what I do is titillating to many and at one point the guy who ran the event grabbed his girl, swatted her on the butt and said that she is always asking him to spank her. She blushed and laughed as they wrestled, and up until that point I had no earthly idea, this girl had never once approached me or had spoken to me about it.
Another time involved an old friend who had moved away. It was my birthday and on Facebook she sassed me about my age. I made the generic comment “You are out of arm’s reach right now, but you won’t always be”
Her response, and it is important to note that she responded, was “RUT ROH”. Now you tell me if that isn’t spanko talk!! It was ironic that we were both in Japan at the same time last year, but she had left Tokyo by the time I got there.
What are your top sources of spanking content — i,e; blogs, sites, etc.?
In a nutshell, the last two don’t apply. 99% of my findings are original findings, I get no content from other spanking blogs or sites. It is just a part of my personal ethics, I want my blog to be popular based upon my own work, I don’t want the blog to be popular using the content of other bloggers. There may be the odd time where something catches my eye but I will always link back to that person, and most importantly I will let that person get a good run out of their find first before I repost it.
There is a wealth of material out there that I use that is free. From Archive dot org to city libraries. You have to go searching for free digital material, free yearbooks online, or digital library archives. Nine times out of ten there is going to be no search facility other than separating types of content. Therefore you have to find a collection and do it the old fashioned way, search each publication page by page. There are also a wealth of free newspaper archive sites and most of these can be searched using keywords.
The other option that I personally use, other than Ebay finds, is to find digital archives that are pay sites. There are far too many to mention but there are some newspaper sites that have millions of pages archived. You simply search for digital collections online and roll your sleeves up for some hard work. It’s the only reason that I get annoyed when people take my finds, they have no idea just how much work/cost I am putting in to find content for them to snaffle.
Who do you think is producing the best spanking scenes these days? I would vote for SGS with their Strictmore series and various scenes on her other sites, like Spanked cheerleaders.
I hate to sit on the fence but this is one of the most subjective questions that I could be asked. First of all I wouldn’t knock anyone on the material that they are producing for their sites, I think that it is wonderful and I wish everyone nothing but success.
The question itself though is really tough for me because I am painstakingly particular about what I like and what appeals to me in regards to spanking. For example, on Sarah Gregory’s MOMMA SPANKINGS, the video Spanked Sober is one of the favorite videos in my collection. In fact I will double down on that, I personally cannot relate one iota to the thought of someone being “Spanked sober”. The scenario itself is unappealing to me. So if you keep that in mind along with the fact that I have watched this video many times, it kind of tells you how good the spanking movie is. It is the type of spanking movie that I consider traditional in every sense of the word, I loved it.
Most of the time nowadays I purchase clips on clips4sale that appeal to me, and generally that is only if there is a preview on spanking tube that allows me to see what type of film it is. I’m trying to add more and more sites to my Clips4sale page providing free advertising to spanking producers, but it is something that I need to work harder on.
As I said, I’m not going to single any site out, they are all wonderful and they all provide a service. Most of what I enjoy personally is not found on commercial sites, I’m very particular. Take GRACE’S BEDTIME SPANKING for example. That is a free clip on spanking tube and is about as perfect a spanking as I could find that suits my personal taste.
Are you happy, on occasion, to allow an OTK spanking to be entirely over the young lady’s skirt; without proceeding to spank her over her panties or on her bare bottom?
One of the best strengths that I have is my ability to understand the psychology behind spanking. I personally could not care less what the level of covering is. More times than I have had hot dinners have I read a comment or story that states “Spankings are ONLY giving on the bare bottom”. I’m so far away from that, I could point to a hundred different scenarios that work just as well, far too many to mention in fact.
One time a girl asked me if I could wear a suit and she wanted to be spanked wearing her pajamas. The moment that I thought about it I found the scenario so incredibly hot.
In regards to the question I am completely happy to work with someone, in fact I have already done so on numerous occasions, who wants to retain full clothing. I understand fully what spanking means to people and the little intricacies that are important to individuals.
The surveys that I will do from time to time are some of the best reading material that I have come across. Everyone has that one thing that does it for them, it can be as simple as ankle socks, ribbons in the hair, a suit and tie. I understand it all. There are a hundred different items that excite me in spanking, the level of clothing is not important at all to me if that is what someone requests.
Do you think there’s been a decline in the “traditional” spanking scene and that it’s becoming more commercialized and sexualized?
This is a very tough one to answer because there is a danger that producers are going to get their knickers in a twist, so I have to be diplomatic in my response.
To fundamentally answer the question as it has been asked then my simple answer would be yes, I believe that there has.
We have to take into account though that I only speak for myself. What interests me probably doesn’t interest anyone else, nor is it likely to put cash on the table for the people producing the material. As I have discussed many times, if female genitalia is presented in a spanking movie, then I lose interest in that movie immediately.
Let me clarify that though, many times you know what is going to be presented to you so you don’t have to take much of a chance. Some productions are clearly about showing as much of the vagina as is humanly possible and that fact isn’t hidden. Likewise, if a spanking movie is more in the traditional sense but they have gyno cam in place, I know that I’m not going to enjoy it.
I’ve run into a problem before with this, in fact a girl who is almost one third of my age, lol, once chastised me for my opinions on this topic. I have no problem with the scene in general going in this direction, nor does it concern me as a movie customer. There is always material out there that caters to what I like, just perhaps not as much as there once was. Even though the act of spanking itself is sexualized, I’m just one of the very few who is turned off by the combination of spanking and sexual voyeurism. If the act is coincidental then I can easily overlook it, but most of the time the goal is to be anything but coincidental, it is actually as much a part of the focus as the spanking is.
Again, I don’t mean to knock anyone on this topic, I can only speak of my personal experiences.
The advent of the site HOT MOVIES has been a revelation for me. On that site I am able to watch a spanking scene up until the moment that it stops being enjoyable for me and I can move onto the next spanking film.
Since you do so much in the scene (writer; researcher; blog poster; businessman; actor; interviewer; party attendee and invitee) which is your favorite hat to wear as it were?
You know I have to go back to basics, my favorite part has to be researching and blog posting. I do like writing stories, but I like to write about things that are interesting to me. Part of the problem that I have there is that I feel like my stories have become somewhat repetitive. There is no doubt that the spanking stories are the most viewed item on this blog, by a long way, but many times I feel like I am writing the same story, just in a different format.
I ran a survey at the bottom of the story MOTHER SPANKS DAUGHTER – OVERHEARD and I got so much feedback that it feels hard to actually write a part two. The reason being is that I feel most people will be left disappointed. There are 4 main characters in the story, Mrs. Ferris, Elaine, Tim and Bri, and the feedback so far has encompassed every possible spanking scenario imaginal between the four of them. While Mrs. Ferris spanking Bri and/or Tim has the most votes, I feel like I would let a lot of people down if that was all that I wrote about.
In a nutshell though, my hobby of looking for unique and rare spanking pictures that have not yet been seen before, that is by far my favorite part in the spanking scene. I get immense satisfaction when I find something new.
To be honest as well I also like answering questions. Maybe I will do a video giveaway and force people to ask me a question for a free spanking video.