By Richard Windsor,on May 6th,2011% The first day was awesome and I was so looking forward to another session with Missy. The first event on Saturday was the Tanner Reformatory and I played my role with delight. At some point during the proceedings I saw Missy get up on stage and get spanked,at the time it was fun and I didn’t think anything of it,not until I was outside talking to her much later that day. At some point I had gone to my room to rest and I decided to test the waters further,so I powered up my computer and started to type a letter to Missy. Here is what I wrote. “Missy,I thought after our little discussion yesterday that you had promised me that you were going to be a good girl. Lo and behold,what do I see today,my Missy Doright up on stage misbehaving during her exercise program!! Now I noticed that you were so bad that someone had to spank you right there on stage. Well young lady,after our discussion yesterday,don’t you think for one little minute that that will be the ONLY spanking you are going to get for misbehaving in class today!! Apparently 66 spanks was not a sufficient enough reminder to keep you on track,so this time young lady you will be getting 100 spanks,and we will see if that improves your behavior. So at some point this evening I want you to put on your naughty girl panties,you know which ones they are,because from now on we are going to refer to them as your naughty girl panties,and I want you to seek me out during dinner!! This time you will be getting the spanks in rounds of 20,not ten,and if after 100 good sound spanks you are even remotely sassy or petulant,those panties will come down to your knees and you will get spanked on your bare bottom. Now I hope that after tonight’s spanking that you will learn a lesson,because if you don’t and I have to spank you again,you will be spanked in your schoolgirl outfit just like a bad little girl,in the privacy of my own room. For that spanking you will stand in the corner holding your skirt up to reflect on your behavior,and then you will go across my knee. But that is not all young lady,because if I have to spank you again after tonight,you will also find yourself lying on my bed and I will pull my thick belt through its loops and I will use that belt on your bottom. I hope this message reaches you loud and clear,and I expect to see you this evening for your punishment you bad little girl.” It was really funny and I was so proud of myself,my only hope was that it would reach her. Before taking a nap I decided to go and get a bottle of water from the store,and wouldn’t you know,just as soon as the elevator doors open,none other than Missy was in there and she is heading to the store as well,really ironic,fate is such a funny creature. Without so much as a ‘Hi’ I said to her “I just sent you an email,young lady” It is a great weapon,I already know that it would set the butterflies churning in her tummy,and I did nothing to dispel that over the next 15 minutes,I could tell that she was very eager to get to her room to check her email. Once we finally parted after a nice talk,it wasn’t long before I got a reply. “Yes,Sir. I’m sorry for misbehaving on stage today. I saw you standing off to the side,and I wanted to behave to make you proud. But then I didn’t want the other girls to think I wasn’t cool,and I got caught up in it. I’m very sorry,and I’ll try to take my spanking(s) like a good girl. Regretfully,
Missy” Now that worked a treat,I was so excited to set up another scene. When I saw Missy later that day I told her that she can decide whether or not she wants the spanking before I went on stage for the talent show,or after it was done. I can’t remember totally but I think she approached me before,but it was too close to the start of the show. That shouldn’t matter too much,there will be plenty of time after the talent contest,at least that is what we thought,lol. The talent show didn’t finish until nearly the end of the evening,and by this time the pup had a few beers. The next step was to go to the suite for the suite party. Now I saw Missy there,but we were both busy entertaining the masses. Quite a bit of time was spent by me in the back bedroom playing with several girls (story to come later) and any time I came out Missy was likewise engaged in either a conversation or play. So I had to come up with a plan,and a plan is just exactly what I did. By this point I had played more in one evening than I have ever played at a party before,so I needed to rearrange the furniture. I pulled a chair from the back room and took it into the main room for a public spanking. Sitting down on the chair I waited to catch Missy’s eye to beckon her over,but before that happened Sarah Rocks decided to show me that she was wearing the panties that I had given her a while back. Well,the ‘100% Spankable’ panties couldn’t go passing without feeling a good spanking from the buyer now,could they. I popped out for a smoke and came back to take my seat again,this time Aurora came over and put my Stetson on her head. I don’t know why,but I enjoy spanking girls who are wearing my hat. The only girls who get to wear my hat during a spanking are very special girls indeed. It feels like a little bonding session for me,like they have earned the right to wear my hat. Anyway,it was when I was spanking Aurora that I spotted Missy out of the corner of my eye watching Aurora’s face,indeed,glancing around the room it was fun to see who else was peeking over the shoulders of the people they were talking to. I think after this,not certain,that I finally got CC over my lap in a different room,but I still had a certain young lady to come and now was the time,I was going to sit in that chair until I caught Missy’s eye. Before the spanking took place,Missy asked if she could use the bathroom first to which I of course agreed. Something very funny happened here though because I was so determined to finally do this scene. As I sat there waiting for Missy’s return,Jules Tanner shouted over to me. My response was to hold my hand up and reply “I’m in a scene right now”. Never,I repeat NEVER,stick your hand up to a woman,lol. It was 12 hours later at breakfast that I saw Jules,and you can guess what her response to me was. Anyway,despite my faux pas,Missy returned and awaited my instruction for her to assume the position. It didn’t take long at all actually before she was stood to my right side and I lectured her about her behavior. Now I’m not a 100% certain,but I believe that before I took her over my knee I asked her to raise her dress up. Now the reason for this spanking,as I mentioned earlier,was because I had noticed her misbehaving during the Tanner reformatory,so I lectured her about that misdeed and asked her what her punishment was going to be. Obviously she remembered because it was going to be 100 spanks delivered in rounds of twenty. As Missy lowered herself over my lap I took the time to gaze around the room and I was delighted,it is one of those tiny little things that make a spanking so good. Behind Missy there was a girl chatting to a guy,but her eyes were fixed on Missy’s behind. Someone on the couch on my left side had leaned over and was watching behind someone’s back,and a third girl who I noticed was watching from the other side of the room. Just imagine that,little Missy is about to get spanked in front of all of her friends and at least 3 of them were watching intently,the shame of it all. I wonder if Missy knew that her friends were watching her as she was about to get spanked in public? Now I have a terrible time keeping quiet during a spanking as I really like to scold,but the first thing I did was deliver 20 crisp smacks to the seat of Missy’s white nylon panties. Clearly they stung as she hopped and yelped over my lap. It was time to remind her why she was over my lap and I chastised her for disappointing me with her behavior earlier that day. Yet another crisp 20 smacks were applied to her thin panties. Now I wanted to hear from her,so I asked Missy if she was regretting getting in trouble earlier that day and are we going to be expecting anymore misbehavior from her. Of course you know the answer to both of those questions,not that she could keep her promise on the latter. Yet again,and a little bit more brisk this time,20 more firm spanks rained down. It did dawn on me to let everyone know that Missy,in her rush to change,had put her panties on inside out. Can you imagine the embarrassment if I had let everyone know that? Of course now I was in full toppy swing “I am warning you now Missy,if I have to take you over my knee anymore this weekend you will be one sorry little girl. Not only will you get spanked on your bare bottom but I will also take my belt off young lady” Lots of “Yes Sir’s” were coming from her mouth at this point,just to the right point where the next set of 20 spanks came. Timing was important because I didn’t want her to finish her thoughts before the next set of twenty came down. Of course each set of twenty is just getting harder and this time I had to hold onto her tight as Missy began to squirm over my lap. As we approached the final set I asked Missy to repeat to me what would happen to her the next time if she misbehaved again. I listened intently to each word and before I settled in for the last set I paused once more,I wanted to see if the 3 girls were still watching,which indeed they were. It was probably more for my own ego that I did this than for Missy’s embarrassment,indeed,I don’t actually think that she was aware that 3 of her friends were watching her get spanked just like she was a naughty little girl. The final set of twenty spanks began and now the legs were kicking wildly,at spank number 16 her foot intercepted my hand and I was unable to land the smack. So I told her to keep her feet down and that we are now going to start that set of twenty all over again,and that is what I did. By the time I was done Missy could hardly keep still and her bottom was shining. My bad little girl had been spanked once more. As she stood up I beckoned her over to sit on my lap,which after a brief rub of her bottom she did. For the next few minutes Missy sat on my lap with her arms around me as we hugged,the perfect ending to a spanking. Now I know from that lesson that my little niece will not be giving me anymore trouble for the rest of the weekend,so just imagine my surprise when the following morning I was brought up on charges in court by my own niece!! That was perhaps her biggest mistake of the weekend and one that she paid for dearly. What followed later that afternoon was a spanking that bought her to the cusp of tears,and you will get to read about it in the final installment of what was the best roleplay scene that I have ever done!! By Richard Windsor,on December 13th,2010% Here is the final part to the story of the time that I met Aurora in 2006. Obviously,due to the nature of the story,I asked Aurora if she was okay with it being posted,to which she was delighted that I would post it. The story isn’t about what happened in the past,it was posted for the benefit of a friendship rekindled. It probably reads like a chick flick,but this is exactly how it was posted four years ago. I hope that you all enjoyed it. A Weekend With A Good Girl –Sunday Aurora had wanted to leave early on Sunday to start her 18 hour car journey,being that we were still awake at 5am it didn’t appear as if she would leave right on time. I was to find out later that Aurora had been awake for hours as I slept,she was even getting antsy and hoping that her movements would wake me. Somewhere around 11am I finally rose. We laid there for only a short while chatting before I said I would get us breakfast,Aurora took the time to take a shower in preparation for the long journey. Now you have probably got the idea already that I really am a true romantic at heart. I don’t know what the future holds for Aurora,I just hope that it includes lots of hugs. There aren’t too many people that are as affectionate as she is,nor many that I feel as affectionate about. I had learned a lot about her in 40 short hours and she is going to make someone very happy one day. We always hear about the search for the remaining good guys out there,well the same rings true for the good girls out there. As the title of this series reads,Aurora is truly one of the diamonds out there;it’s just a pity that the circumstances are what they are. So before the day’s final spanking,which I intend to have some bite to it  I have to tap into my kind side one more time. All I know is that for the next two days she is going to be all alone as she drives the 1200 miles,and all I can think of is someone who loves to cuddle so much is not going to get any of that during that time. So the sensitive Houndog came out to play. Before getting us breakfast,I popped into the local gift store to look for what I wanted to get her. Okay,so she has had puppy hugs for the last 40 hours,and tonight she won’t be getting that,so I scoured the store to find what I wanted to give her to take on her journey. It didn’t take long before I found it and I made my purchase before getting us breakfast. When I got back,Aurora was still in the bathroom,no doubt getting her hair ready. I checked in and caught up on the college basketball scores that I had missed over the weekend and waited patiently for her to come out. It wasn’t long before she joined me and I started to get the breakfast out. After thinking about it,the last thing I wanted to do was give her the gift just as she was leaving,so I gave it to her before breakfast. What was it you ask? As she seemed to enjoy hugging the old dog for the weekend,I bought her a stuffed puppy to take with her on her journey. So now she has her own puppy to remind her of the weekend and to cuddle up to whenever she wants to. Now,on to the spanking fun!! I’m figuring that this is the last one that we are going to get in,so I want it to be a good one. My bag of tricks were nearby and I started to warm the seat of her jeans. I grabbed the back of her jeans and pulled them up tight,using my right hand to spank down firmly on the taut material. Perhaps she realized that this one was going to be a good one,so instead of helping me with her jeans this time,she did everything in her power to make it hard for me. You know I wasn’t going to be denied,but I sure did have to work for it. I worked her jeans down over her light blue,boy cut,lace panties. I have to admit,she has great taste and she really wears them well!! So now,same as before,the panties covered not one inch of her spank area. A nice spankable bottom to aim at,so I restarted in earnest. Not as much rubbing this time,not to start with anyway,we need to give her a nice hot seat to travel with. So my hand added the needed color to her cheeks before I picked up the CB paddle. I am sure Aurora was probably thinking that I was a bit of a meanie at this point,at least her clenched cheeks told me that as I firmly applied the paddle. Maybe about 30 or so with the paddle had her yelping nicely,so I put it down and picked up the tawse that she had become so fond of. Before I could even use the tawse,the first real sign of the brat actually came out. Spotting that I had put the CB paddle down she snatched it up,and with the artistry of an Olympic discus thrower,she launched the CB paddle clear across the room.  Not that she saw,but I stared at the back of her head with a look of toppy indignation,I said to her that if I ever had to punish her it was going to be a spanking with the CB paddle. With that I started to apply the tawse with a bit more gusto than the previous two nights. The spanking itself was an hour long again,just like the previous spankings it was supposed to be pleasurable,even if the spanking itself this time was a lot harder than the rest of them. We did have to get moving though so I stopped,even though I could have spanked her gorgeous bottom for another hour. Aurora stood up and with her jeans still around her knees she sat on my lap,putting her arm around me and resting her head on mine. She told me that she didn’t want to leave,and as much as I didn’t want her to go,I played the good soldier and avoided making her feel sad. After she got up I went for a smoke as she composed herself. She sat on the bed facing me as I stood across the room,I once more told her what a wonderful person she was and that I was so happy that she had come to visit me. Her bottom lip dropped and I got the feeling that she doesn’t get as many compliments as she deserves. After I finished my smoke I went back over and flipped her over my knee,this time I started to give her a proper spanking. Before we got going she needed to take her meds so I let her up,we were going to continue but she was all dizzy and light headed so we postponed it until next time. It’s one spanking I owe her,plus,I owe her a spanking for voting for George Bush It was time for us to grab the bags and head out,before we did so I took down my cane. It was just something symbolic,but after whacking it down on my bare calf,Aurora bent over for 3 short strokes with it over her jeans,not really a caning,but at least she felt it. We took the remaining bags and headed to her car,I was a little concerned about her getting on the highway so I accompanied her into Brooklyn so that I could assure myself that she got on the BQE,I just had to hop on the subway for a short ride home after. Where the entrance was to the highway,it happened to be one of my regular haunts,a bar that I go to and the place where my tattooist is. So I knew that when we got there we could pull into a parking lot under the bridge to say goodbye. The wind was whipping up a storm as we stood outside the car,talking about her new life and sharing a few hugs. I didn’t get to spank her on Broadway,but I did take the time to spank her in Brooklyn as the cars flew by,inches from us. She was about to hit a super fast highway,so the last thing I wanted her to do was to start crying. We laughed a little and hugged some more and then it was time for her to go,we kissed each other on the cheek and I walked away as she got in the car. I waited at the entrance to the parking lot and waited for her to come by,she did so and we said goodbye as I squeezed her hand. Then I watched her leave just so that I could see that she got on the highway safe and sound. That was it!! The weekend was over and Aurora headed south to Florida to start her new life. My hope is that she gets herself settled and is lucky enough to get what she needs;my thoughts are going to be with her during this uncertain period. Whatever happens,if things don’t work out for her,I told her that my door is always open if she finds herself in need of a place to stay. I met someone who is totally compatible with me and who knows what will happen in the future. One thing is for sure,I am so glad that she came to stay with me,even if it was just for one weekend. She is a remarkable young lady and I wish nothing but the best for her,I hope that she has a happy life in Florida. As promised,she called me on Sunday night when she finally stopped on her journey. We had both wished that she could have stayed for longer,but at this time it wasn’t meant to be,the timing just wasn’t right. As hard as I had tried not to make her do so,she did tell me that when she left she started to cry,thankfully,New Yorkers drive crazy so I doubt if she looked any different on the road than anyone else on the road. Who knows when she will be able to get online again,hopefully sometime soon she will be able to let us all know how she is doing. Aurora,thank you for a wonderful weekend,it was a pleasure to have you here and I hope that one day when things are different,we can meet again. You are an exceptionally sweet girl and some guy is going to be very lucky to catch you one day. My door is always open should you get stuck and you are welcome to stay as long as you want. I hope that one day we will meet again;I will keep my fingers crossed. You deserve to be treated like a Princess and you deserve someone who will treat you as the only one in their life,you have so much to offer and I hope that you get that back in kind. I know that I for one couldn’t wish to meet such a perfect partner. If your circumstances ever change,I won’t hesitate in making a play for you,you would make me a very happy man. It’s just a shame that I never met you first By Richard Windsor,on December 11th,2010% Here is the second part to the story guys,and as with the first part,the story is unedited from its original posting in 2006. On Monday the final part will be posted. A Weekend With A Good Girl –Saturday Sleep!! We don’t need no stinking sleep!! Each time one person turned,the other woke up. Muneca,my cat, is going nuts trying to find his spot. It’s normally the bottom left of the bed,but when I have company he is always right next to my head at the top right. Neither one seemed to appease him tonight,so he settled on climbing under the covers and sleeping between my legs,but he was such a fidget bum in doing so,going from one end of the bed to the other. 6.30am comes,like two hours after we went to sleep,and the alarm goes off,numbnuts here forget to turn it off before we went to bed. At around 11am we both woke up to face the world. A late breakfast and just a few warm up spankings,but for the most part we just checked in on SIN and chatted. I think I stepped out to get something and Aurora took the time to shower. Finding a towel in a bachelor pad proved far more difficult than I had thought though,lol. But anyway,I also showered and returned to spend some time with Aurora. We had decided to go out to eat,but not before a spanking of course. It started off with me rubbing her jean clad bottom and enjoying the heat that was still in them,her poor bottom must have been burning up. Ordinarily I am not one for jeans,but I have to admit that her bottom looked delightful in this one pair and they were surprisingly thin for a pair of jeans. So I started to spank away happily,giving her a good warm up and a nice butt rub at the same time. It is really hard to give this girl a damn good spanking,she lies there with this beautiful look of contentment on her face,moves her bottom to the rhythm of your hand,and purrs like a kitty throughout. God forbid I ever have to actually spank her for a real reason;it really would hurt me more than it would hurt her!! So the warm up is out of the way,it is now time to pull the jeans down. Aurora sits up and allows me to unbutton her jeans,she provided a little assistance in getting them down as they were a nice tight pair,while the puppy stayed on focus and ignored the delightful black lace,boy cut panties that were coming into view Back over my lap she went and it was apparent that the panties were rather symbolic really;they covered none of her target area. The spanking began again,I would space it out with a regular spanking followed by a few minutes of gentle rubbing,including using my nails to go over the surface area. Then I would give her a series of very hard spanks followed by a very firm grabbing of her bottom. It was with great delight that I watched her cross her ankles and raise both legs up each time I began to rub,it was like my own little remote control Aurora’s own personal hairbrush was already on the couch and she had never been spanked with it. Seizing the opportunity,I reached for it and began to circle her bottom with it. It was oval shaped and raised in the middle;something I knew for sure would have a nice wicked sting to it. So I began to pepper her bottom with her own hairbrush,watching as her cheeks clenched and her hands dug into the seat. I’m not a wicked person,but her own brush did land quite vigorously for quite a while. It even prompted Aurora to yelp out “That thing has got some bite to it”,not that it worried me any. Not that they were of any protection,but the panties did need to come down of course. So letting them settle at her knees I picked up the brush once more,only this time I used the bristles to rub up her down her bottom and thighs. Whenever the bristles reached the spanked areas her legs would keep crossing each other,it’s a pretty evil thing for me to do. I carried on with the hairbrush for a little longer but then switched to my hand. Aurora had already been over my lap for about half an hour so I had to pace it a little bit. For ten more minutes we went through the routine of hard spanks,soft spanks,gentle rubbing,and firm rubbing. It got to a point where I needed to stop though;my leg at this point was pretty numb as it hadn’t moved for three quarters of an hour. I pulled up her lace panties and helped her rise up,we hugged for a while and finally she winced as she pulled up her tight jeans over her well spanked bottom. Time for some dinner. Aurora took her hairbrush and used it for its intended purpose,brushing the static out of her hair and trying to cool her flushed face. I grabbed my keys and wallet and waited for her to finish. Aurora did so and headed my way,I guess she wasn’t ready for dinner just yet though,she wanted a hug. So we just stood there and hugged for a while,it’s obvious that this girl is very affectionate and needs a lot of loving. After the conversation that we were to have at the diner,it further enhanced my view that she really is a good girl and needed a weekend of pampering. Okay,so you can all call me a big softy if you want,but I really have a big heart. If the gift that I could give her was a weekend of nice spankings,something that she was yet to have had in her life,then I was going to do that for her and give Aurora a memory that she could keep for a while. So we start the walk to the diner in gale force winds,I’m only wearing a shirt that isn’t tucked in,and Aurora has on open toed shoes… are spankos really wired differently or what? As we walked,Aurora spilled out what she calls the “S” word,yes;she had actually gotten up the nerve to say the word spanking!! I commented on it and for the first time I started to see the hidden brat inside of her,her response to me was “I don’t care,I don’t ever have to see these people again,I’m not the one that has to live here” and she started to laugh. I smiled at her sass,but once in the diner,ol’ Houndog bellowed out the ‘spanking’ word and her head flew around as her face blushed bright red. It was in the diner that Aurora started to open up. I was already pretty enchanted with her anyway,but by the time we left the diner I had such a protective desire to keep her from harm. The conversation was a very personal one,but all I could think is how can anyone treat this girl so badly! The title isn’t a joke,Aurora really is a good girl,a very charming,loving,sweet individual,and somebody who really deserves the best,yet has not got that to date. It’s not something she thinks about really,like many other folks,I also have a lot from my past that is unacceptable behavior from others towards you. When you deal with those types of situations it is easy to brush them off as nothing and that it isn’t as bad as it sounds. It really is though,even though you are able to accept what happened,it doesn’t make it right. So now I’m a real big softy. Aurora just shrugs off the negative while inside I am feeling very protective of her. It just convinces me more just to keep on being nice to her. We had so much planned during the build up to her stay,but fuck it;I don’t care about that anymore. It was just a build up to get inside of her head,well now it’s too late;she has actually gotten inside of my head. I’m guessing there is another good girl in the works tonight!! Saturday evening was pretty quiet,a few minor spanks here and there,a few hugs,and Aurora just snuggled up next to me pretty much as I watched the hockey game,occasionally logging on to see if anything was happening on the board. When you meet someone it isn’t all aboutspanking,there has to be some chemistry. The fact that we were able to talk like old friends and just sit on the couch cuddled up,told me that I was spending some time with someone very special,it wasn’t all about the spanking. Ok,so during the evening some other little spankings happened,nothing major,and around 2am we decided to get ready for bed. As soon as we got to the bed the spanking pretty much started,bare bottomed this time for the duration. Aurora had subtly asked for the tawse,and I brought that along with the leather paddle. Unlike the night before,this time I did spank her a little bit harder. There was still lots of rubbing,but each round of spanks was in the region of 20 nice firm ones followed by a few with the small tawse. By the way,she likes the tawse,she REALLY likes the tawse :-) I do believe that her ever present hairbrush was used to good effect,but for the most part I spanked her firmly with my hand. When the spanking was over we had the obligatory hug,did what we needed to do,then set up the DVD player and lay on the bed. Aurora laid in front of me,using whatever part she could find of me to use as a pillow. Before starting the DVD,she was laid on her back with her head on my arm,it was at this point that I told her what I felt about her. Maybe it’s not something that she hears often enough,but I told Aurora that I found her to be a really charming young lady,that it had been an absolute pleasure of mine to spend this time with her,and maybe she will remember everything I said,but I just basically told her that I thought she was a wonderful human being and that I would be sad to see her leave. I wanted to say a bit more but she started to wipe tears from her eyes,so I just left it there. A few hours later that morning,she was to set on a 1200 mile journey to her new life. Even though I really wanted to let her know how special of a person she meant to me,I also didn’t want to upset her. She understood what I meant so I didn’t need to harp on about it. I pressed the play on the DVD;Aurora buried her head on my bicep and rested her right arm over mine. I was on my side and with my right hand I started to massage Aurora’s back,for about an hour and a half as we watched the DVD I massaged her. Now then,did I spoil this girl or what? Aurora had actually offered to give ME a massage,but ut uh,I was going to be a total mush and pamper her this weekend,and so as she fought to stay awake,I gently rubbed her back as we both watched the show. Another relatively sleepless night lay ahead,but I do recall drifting off as her fingers played with my sideburns. To be continued…. By Richard Windsor,on December 9th,2010% The weekend that just passed was spent with friends. One of those friends is someone who I have know for many years and is someone who once came to visit me in 2006. As the years have passed,so did our communication with each other,so it was a great experience to relive old memories with my friend,Aurora. The following is the story of when we first met. As I will be away this weekend I will pre-post the story as it was originally posted,in 3 parts. Nothing has been edited from the original posting in 2006 (Even if I may be a bit better writer nowadays ) so what you are reading is how it was originally seen. Now do be aware,while it involves spanking,the story is more about two people connecting. It is a bit on the sappy side so it won’t be every-one’s cup of tea,but it is nonetheless exactly how events occurred. I hope that you enjoy it,and check back on Saturday for part 2 and Monday for part 3. A Weekend With A Good Girl –Friday I’m not really sure what to expect,we have shared IM’s up the ying yang for a few months now,have known of each other for a few years,but we have only spoken on the phone once,that one is on the brat as she hates talking on the phone even more than I do. So I make myself busy at work and keep an avid eye on the phone,I had asked her to call me on the way to give me an idea of how things are going. Having been burned last year,I was a little cautious when come 4.30pm there still had been no call,not an over concern as I had faith in the girl,but there was also that toppy worry that goes through us wondering if everything is okay. The phone call did come though,sometime around 5pm. The brat had driven straight through and was now five miles away in New Jersey. We chatted for a short while and tried to work out exactly where she was and how she was getting into Manhattan. I’m clock watching and clock watching and clock watching,an hour has passed and still nothing,we’re coming up to 6.30 and the phone rings. Aurora has somehow missed her turning and is now heading south in Jersey,I can’t find her location on the map so I try to guide her off an exit so that we can find out where she is. From what I am guessing she is no longer on the turnpike,but is instead heading south on the Garden State Parkway. The young lady is stressed beyond all belief and starts to have a temper tantrum on the phone to me. I’m actually feeling for her,so I let this pass and Aurora heads into a pharmacy for directions. She is back on the road heading the right way,until I get the next phone call. She has followed the directions and has exited on exit 151 as she was told,I look at the map and have to break the bad news that she was told the wrong exit,she still has to get back on the parkway for two more exits. Poor lass must be racking up the toll fees. As I work on Broadway,I had promised Aurora a spanking on Broadway when she arrived,when I finally got to meet her it was the last thing on my mind,this girl needed a hug in the worst way,it had taken around 3 hours to get to me from 5 miles away. So we stood there on the street freezing our tails off as I welcomed her to New York. We still have 15 minutes to go to get to my place. Will somebody pinch me at this point!! I am sat here talking to this amazingly attractive girl,one who is going to get spanked tonight,and I am almost speechless. We have only been in the car a short time and I already have become attracted to her. I have no idea what the weekend has in store at this point;I just knew that this was going to be a fantastic experience. We get to my place and now we are going around in circles trying to find parking,I just want to get this girl inside so that she can relax,and there isn’t a parking spot anywhere. We finally find one a block away and we grab every piece of luggage we can find. This is New York after all and Aurora’s car has Ohio plates on it… everything is coming with us. We finally make it inside and I am so relieved,I desperately want Aurora to relax and wind down from her journey. As fantastic as she looks,I’m not going to spank her for a while yet;I just want her to feel at home. So we park ourselves on the futon and just start to chat,and chat and chat. This girl is bloody intoxicating,we have 36 hours in front of us and I’m already pissed that it won’t be longer. I grab us a beer each and grab a bunch of DVD’s,time to watch some spanking videos to relax the atmosphere. First up of course is the DVD that I made. It’s like I have an old friend sat with me,like we have known each for years. I hope that she was as comfortable as I was. Ok,we have some tail to spank as well,it is coming up on 11pm and we have sat there for 3 hours getting to know each other. Time for me to step up to the plate and be a top J I am salivating at the prospect,the gold/dark yellow dress has not been lost on me,the effort that she made is going to be rewarded,and rewarded with an OTK spanking. From the bathroom I brought with me my new paddle back hairbrush,it is the lightest one I have and I think it would be the best thing to start with. It’s time for this pretty girl to get what she knows is coming!! I sit myself in the middle of the futon and start my naughty girl talk,this is something that I have recorded for her over and over for voicemail,and now she is getting it with me holding her hands. Through the smile and the blush I guide the brat to my left side,she doesn’t need my help to lay over my lap as she is going over herself. I look down at her gorgeous bottom and try my hardest to continue to talk. It’s a bit hard when your tongue is hanging out of your mouth,but I know she likes my voice so I work with it. You never know what to expect with someone new so I start out fairly firmly bringing my hand down on the seat of her pretty dress,I look over at Aurora and see her head buried in the seat of the futon on top of her arms,little yelps coming from her unknowingly. My hands reach for the hem of her skirt and I raise it up. Underneath she has worn exactly what I like,a nice white nylon slip. My hands rub over it firmly as I feel for the heat;the naughty girl beneath me raises her bottom as I do this. Once more I raise my hand and begin to spank away,quite solidly I might add as my mind goes away from the fact that Aurora had been on the road for 11 hours and hadn’t been spanked for a while. It was ever so politely and kind of touching in a way because she was so relaxed,but she nicely asked me to ease up a little bit. I know,it’s topping from the bottom,but Aurora looked so relaxed and was enjoying herself so much that I did so gladly;I wanted her to have an experience to remember for her first spanking so I went back to rubbing. I hope I don’t embarrass her by saying so,but Aurora was purring like a kitten as I rubbed her bottom. The brush was handy so I began to give her rounds of six spanks and I would rub some more,my only fear at this point was that she was going to fall asleep over my lap as she was as content as can be. Be aware at this point that each spanking is going to pretty much follow the same pattern,the reasons why will be explained later,but it was a joy for me to give her this gift. I pulled the slip up to reveal the white see through panties that she had told me about,her bottom shining nice and pink through them. My hand continued to spank and rub,Aurora continued to lie there and purr,her bottom gyrating to my hand massaging it. It wasn’t long before the panties came down also and the bare bottom spanking/rubbing began. All told,Aurora was over my lap for anywhere between 45 minutes to an hour. I hadn’t planned on starting with a good girl,but she was enjoying herself so much that I wasn’t going to deny her that pleasure. When you witness someone so relaxed,why on earth wouldn’t you give them that pleasure? I know this had been a long hard day for her,and my hope was that the spanking was going to be something that she remembered for a while. At the end of the spanking I pulled her panties back up,I am still a gentleman after all and I wanted to preserve her modesty,then I laid down her slip and dress. Aurora climbed to her knees and wrapped her arms around me;she thanked me for the spanking and held on to me for several minutes. When she let go the blushing smile on her pretty face told me all I needed to know,this was something that she not only wanted,but it was something that she needed. I took this time to light up a smoke and Aurora went to the bathroom to change into her PJ’s. By the time she came back I was sat on the couch;Aurora sat down beside me,put her feet up on the couch and laid her head on my shoulder. I’m not sure how much we spoke at this point;I do know that I remember her hand rubbed the back of mine as she laid there. It was at this point that I decided that there was no way I was going to cane this girl,she is just too adorable and way too cute to spank. It was very late and I knew the brat must have been exhausted,but we stayed up for a couple more hours before I opened up the futon. I don’t remember at this point whether we left the TV on or not,I do know that I lay down and Aurora lay in front of me,using my arm as a pillow. We stayed like that for a little while,spoke at length and finally,before crashing,the second spanking started. Aurora rolled over onto her tummy as I warmed up the already burning bottom further with my hand. I think the CB paddle was used at this point,I know for a fact that she got my short tawse on her bare bottom and she fell in love with it,perhaps even my leather paddle came out,I’m not overly sure to be honest with you,but I do know that she was spanked at length. Of course,a major league rubbing took place as well,but as I mentioned earlier,she really deserved to have a weekend of being spoiled,and I don’t care about my reputation,I fully intended to spoil her and give her a weekend to remember. The spanking concluded sometime way into the early hours,I think it was about 4am,I’m not entirely certain,but we were both worn out. I threw the toys to the side and laid back on the bed,Aurora did the same and rested her head on my upper arm and chest,she threw her arm over my body and began the slow drifting off to that far away place,she’s such a snuggle bug. I laid there with a smile on my face,my belief being that I did the right thing and gave her just what she needed. Her relaxed body told me she was content and I drifted off thinking about what the next day had in store. We had only been together for a few hours,but I already knew that this is exactly the type of partner I have been looking for,a mixture of sadness and happiness really,for while her being next to me made me very happy,I knew that a little more than 24 hours later she would be driving to Florida to start her new life. Just a bad case of missed timing on my part really,I was already going to miss her and she had only just got here. To be continued… By Richard Windsor,on December 6th,2010% What a wonderful time we all had at the Strictly Spanking New York event this past weekend. Friends of mine from out of state were visiting,so after work on Friday we all went to hang out. For the first time in a while I treated myself to some beers as Kat the Brat,Aurora and Publikk joined me for some fun. Believe it or not I didn’t play that night,though I did get to crash at the hotel room with them and passed out to the sounds of Publikk giving the girls what they needed. While I can’t go into too many details,this happened to me as I rested on the couch!! Never be alone with two brats in the room!! 
On Saturday we had planned to go ice skating but unfortunately I came down feeling really sick,so instead of skating I let my friends look after themselves while I took care of myself at home,trying to get myself prepared for the SSNY party that night. It wasn’t the best choice I have ever made,but by nibbling on wheat crackers I managed to get through. So I made my way back in and the four of us met up with Pixie and headed down to the party. Now I had made a firm promise to Pixie that I would play with her because we have NEVER played at an SSNY party. Did it happen? Of course not,lol. Due to the pair of us playing I don’t think I hardly saw her for ten minutes until it was almost time to go. Those are the breaks though,and while I would love to get a chance to play with Pixie at a party,it’s not like I haven’t spanked her 50 times already One party though we will arrive and I will spank her before she even gets her coat off!! As we headed to the station afterwards she did let me get a few swats in. Of course playing with Pixie was not the only promise that I couldn’t keep,I only played with half of the people on my list that I had arranged to play with. There was even a point where the pup was left flabbergasted and he tried to arrange time to get in a special bit of spanking time. You know when you go to parties there is always someone who catches your eye for whatever reason. There is such a girl who goes to the SSNY parties and the little pup heart goes all a flutter whenever he sees her. Now I have hardly spoken to this girl at a party before,only a very brief conversation at the BBW party last year. As I was stood talking to Pixie and Kat the Brat this girl arrives once more,and of course being the easily led male that I am,I showed all the grace and composure in handling the situation and the conversation I was involved in by interrupting and pointing at the girl in question and saying “Look at her,doesn’t she look gorgeous tonight?”. Just what a couple of girls who are talking to you want to hear,right,the guy praising how beautiful another woman looks Any of my friends will tell you how fickle I am when a girl catches my eye and I have the hots for them. Normally in a situation like this I tend to avoid the object of my attraction,but not tonight. As I headed out at one point I went over to the girl and told her how great she looked and that my face lit up when she walked in,and to my utter surprise,within a couple of minutes she asked me if I wanted to play. OMG,my chin almost hit the floor. Did I want to play? Yeah,only for about the last year,lol. Now I did have a couple of things to take care of so I told the young lady what I had to do and that I would seek her out at a certain time. Now she wasn’t overly sure that she would still be there when I got back,but I held out the eternal hope that things would work my way. So as I got back to the party it was with some eagerness,however,my hopes were dashed as I found the pretty girl standing there with her coat on. That really bummed me out,someone who I have been eager to get to know and perhaps play with for about a year,and I arrived just a little too late. It’s all good though,I made my way over,determined not to let her forget that I just missed her and we settled on a rain check. Of course I was disappointed as I had secretly hoped to have had that time for a while,I was just too chicken to do anything about it. Notwithstanding that,as I took hold of her arm and made plans for the next time,two people separately decided to join in our conversation as we tried to talk,that bummed me off more than the personal time that I missed. Hopefully she will write to me as she said that she would,and that it wasn’t just an appeasement to make me let go of her,haha. I guess I will just have to wonder whether she was wearing white nylon panties or not!! As is usual I now have to scramble to get in as many promises as I can that I have missed during the evening. Out came the trusty Asian cane and I sought out my number 1 priority. This lady I had made a promise to many months ago,and even though I take the cane with me to every event just for her,she has missed a few of the events. So there was no way that she was going home that night without feeling a little bit of traditional Asian pain!! Following that I got to play with one of my favorite people,Miss Chief,and she too received the cane. Miss Chief also gave me something that I treasure,as I caned her I had her count,but instead of Sir I asked that she call me Houndog. It was really sexy to see her purring “ONE,HouuuuunDogggg” and so on. Now I also felt bad that I hadn’t been able to play with my friend,Kat,at this point. There was only a few minutes left and I asked her if she wanted a few with the cane before we all headed to Paddles. Thankfully she did and I managed to get in a good dozen. Now after the SSNY party a few of us headed down to Paddles,thinking that maybe a large group of party attendees would be there. There was of course a few and after shelling out $35 a head for the guys,we started to survey the place. Now then,it has been many years since I have spanked Aurora,or,little Miss tattletale,Aurora I think we should make that. This seemed like a good opportunity to catch up on old times and in the main area I took her over my knee for a shortish hand spanking,oh the memories came flooding back as I rubbed my nails across the backs of her legs. Years ago,when Aurora came to visit me,I gave the first ever stroke of a cane to someone,and if I am not mistaken it was the first stroke of the cane she had received. Now then,being that she was cautious she placed her butt with about 2” to spare from my fridge,and that was the swinging room that I had to work with,lol. Anyway,I had heard tale that Aurora has become quite an admirer of the cane and I bought with me my Asian cane for that purpose. Now let me fill you in on a little something first,because I am a fickle guy for a pretty girl. During the evening,Aurora had reminded me about an event from a while ago at a SSC party,I was using a cane lightly and it was during a schoolgirl roleplay. Anyway,on that occasion,Aurora leant over the table and placed her head down,looking at me the whole time. Every time I landed a stroke on her I was met with “One,Perrito…………… Two,Perrito………….. Three Perrito” and so on and so forth. Oh my god guys,you want to talk about melting right there,I was like putty in her hands:- ) Like I said,I am a sucker for a pretty girl,and to have this beauty saying that to me,all doe eyed and pouting,turned me into mush. Back to Paddles now,I know my cane has some bite to it and I continued to cane Aurora,gradually building up the intensity. It was awkward in part because I have pretty much given Aurora nothing but good girl spankings over the years,except for the time that she threw my cracker barrel paddle across my room,so that is what I am used to doing,I’m just not use to hitting this girl that hard. At one point in the caning she asked me if I could hit her harder,which of course I could,but it was difficult for me to do so. I will get there with Aurora,there will be a point that I take charge of the situation and she won’t need to ask me if I can cane her harder. When it was over I now have a better appreciation of using the cane. Just for the record,I have never used the cane that hard on someone before so I still have some work to go in that area,but,I have only been using the cane for a couple of years now so it is still fairly new to me anyway. If at any point Aurora had turned her head and looked at me and said “One,Perrito” I would have just about died. What is really funny though,for the last 6 really hard ones,I suggested that she count them. You can imagine her lying there,supposedly under my stern control,while she laughed as she remembered making me lose it at the previous party with her “One,Perrito” routine. I still remember all these years later yelling at her “Will you stop IT!!” In a way this weekend was really good to me for the above reason. Years ago Aurora and I used to talk every day and then as is my normal way,and as she so happily reminded me,I stopped talking to her. On Friday night we laid awake until 5am just talking and catching up,and I got to play with her hair for an hour or more,and let me tell you guys,Aurora has the best hair on the planet,I could spend a week playing with her hair!! So the added bonus to this weekend for me was that I got to spend some quality time with Aurora once again,and I look forward to our friendship growing back to where it once was. Well,save for the fact that she won’t be getting anymore good girl spankings from me To finish the night,and to make sure that I at least got some bang for my 35 bucks,Kat the Brat stepped up for her caning. With assistance from Aurora,who,like any good brat,filled me in on all the bad things that Kat has done to me as I caned her,I am kind of forgetful. Once more,we started out fairly light and built up as we went. In the grand scheme of things,while I consider myself fairly good with the cane,it is still a toy that I have some way to go with in the realm of learning what I am doing. I think I am getting there though and it is fast becoming my favorite toy. I’m not sure of the numbers of course,but I think it would be fair to say that Kat got about 30 with the cane. It would be wrong for me not to thank the organizers of the SSNY party,I just love this event and the people are amazing. As Aurora mentioned on a different forum,I wish everyone could be so cool. During the party I got to touch base with at least half a dozen people that I have recently started communicating with and it was a pleasure to meet each and every one of them. Of course no party goes as planned and a few regrets are bound to crop up. I’m bummed that I didn’t get to play with Kat as much as I had planned. In my bag I brought along a New York Rangers shirt that I intended on wearing when I finally got to give a New York Islanders fan a first spanking,trouble is though,she was a no show. And without a doubt I’m bummed that I missed my opportunity to play with someone who I have long hoped that I could play with. Not to worry though,each of those events can be rectified at a later event,what was really important was getting to spend quality time with quality people,roll on Boardwalk Badness Weekend. Oh,and to finish off with,some girl flashed me her boobs in the bar,and another said something about ‘Pulling me off’at the SSNY party………such naughty little girls that we have amongst us!!! By Richard Windsor,on September 18th,2010% By popular demand I have created a new site for the lovers of spankings over panties. Every month the biggest number of hits I get from search engines are variations of ‘Spanking’and ‘Panties’,so I have created a new site for those pics. Remember to bookmark the site and add it to your favorites,it will become the haven of sites for those who love spankings given over panties. Here is the site,just click the blue area below. I have started you off with 100 pics: What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas………Yeah,RIGHT!!! It was banquet night at the Shadowlane party and the feelings of awkwardness crept in. I would say that I don’t pack a suit for weekend parties,but the truth is,I don’t own a suit. So the first feeling I had was that I was under dressed. The second thought was the one that probably plagues a lot of people at parties,just where do I sit. My first thought of course was to sit withthe SSNY group,but then I did a quick count up in my head of how many of them there were. Of course there was no way that they would have turned me away,but I decided that I would mingle this time around as I had spent my time with them at the party as it was. So I took a spot near the door and waited for others who are close to me to arrive. Now if anyone gets finicky over the order people arrived I will bite your head off Okay,so it wasn’t long before Sarah Rocks and her Husband arrived,along with Kat the Brat and Iggy. Cool,we have enough of us to grab a table. Prior to grabbing a table however a couple came over to me to introduce themselves. He knew me from my blog and was also an Englishman who now lived in Canada. Honestly,you have no idea how many people introduce themselves to me based on noticing me from my blog,though it is funny on this occasion that two people confused me with being Ian Head of the London Tanners A friend pointed out to me that it is because both Ian and I have larger than life personalities,though I put it down to the weight loss that I have had over the last year. So as we took a table I invited the couple,Jay and Kay,to join us. While they are okay with the story being posted,I forgot to ask them what scene names I should use so I have to make something up,lol. Rounding out the table we were joined by Aurora,Strict Dave and Stacey Macy. Now I found the conversation fascinating,Jay was attending his first party and he had a lot of questions that I was delighted to give my opinion on,Strict Dave also joined in the topic as well. Jay’s friend,Kay,wasn’t even a spanko,she was just attending the party as moral support. That of course fascinated me anyway,why would a non spanko come to a spanking party? Surely there must be a kink lying around doormant if one is open to attending a spanking party. Once dinner was finished I rejoined the SSNY group for drinks and fun before hitting my room to give myself a break from the crowd. Once I was ready to rejoin the public I headed to our very gracious host for the weekend,Tom,on the 9th floor. Before going any further I would like to thank Tom for his genorisity during the weekend by having his suite open for us. Of course I did visit other suites,however,90% of my social time was spent in Tom’s suite,thanks a lot buddy. Now I’m pretty useless remembering the sequence of events,I know I spent a lot of time talking to Kat the Brat and Fireman Chris and at points we were joined by Iggy,Aurora and Abigail Whittaker. I think at one point I went to get myself a drink,yes,for the first time in a year I allowed myself the luxury of a few beers. On coming back to the party I ran into Jay and Kay again and once more we started an in depth discussion. Before the party closed I also had the fortune of meeting Zille. Now I have to be honest,I hadn’t recognized her,but I was clearly aware of who she was because I was a part of several discussions which revolved around “Who was the pretty lady”. It started on Friday at the vendors fair when I was hanging out with the SSNY group when we talked about how classy and pretty this lady looked and then……….. You know what,I just checked Zille’s blog and she said we met on Friday night,so now I have no idea which night was which,I have a feeling I am combining two different stories here,so what I am going to do is just say that Zille looked absolutely gorgeous and get back to what I do know happened on Saturday night,lol. 
Once the suite party on the 9th floor finished we began our search for another party. Before doing so I wanted a smoke so I suggested coming to my floor as you could smoke there. Once we got to the 9th floor I said it was stupid for us to stand in the corridor so why don’t we all sit in my room and have a beer. At that time I don’t think any of us knew that we were going to be there for the next 5 hours or so. Unfortunately I didn’t have many beers in my room,perhaps enough for two rounds,but during the evening Jay was adamant that he was going to buy the beers when we ran out,and buy beers he did. So it started off with 5 of us,Kat the Brat,Sarahfl,Jay,Kay and myself. At some point during the evening Aurora also found her way to my room. I was happy with this arrangement because to be honest,I wanted to know what I was missing in the ‘Just friends’relationship between Jay and Kay,still don’t know if I found that out. At some point in the night I got out some books that I had bought that evening,and displayed some of my toys. One of my toys,the ruler strap from the London Tanners,was snapped up by Kay pretty quickly. For hours she nursed it,even when we used it for spanking play she wanted it back. It was like a girl and her blankie,except this was a vanilla with a mean assed strap in her hand. Again,the progression of who got spanked and when and by who,I have no idea. I just know that at some point we managed to get Kay to use the strap on Sarahfl. Now of course I directed her in person as to how to do it,we don’t want just anyone weilding the ruler strap,and we all enjoyed Kay deliver her very first spanking. Right after that happened I took the strap from Kay as I know what Sarahfl’s tolerance level is,and just so that she got some fulfillment from being bent over I laid the strap on her pretty hard,nice guy,aren’t I? 
I’m not sure of the time,but it had to be about 6.30am when jay and Kay started to wrestle with the strap which resulted in Kay getting many whacks with it. Of course I wanted to get in on the act but I wasn’t going to be pushing anything,these guys are friends after all so I just sat there jealous. Yes,throughout the night as Kay sat next to me I wanted to turn her over my knee. Finally the party was over and after we tried to find Jay’s glasses,everyone headed out. Jay and Kay had offered to buy the ruler strap from me,but as I had an idea they would probably have a good use for it and as I have about ten straps anyway,I let them have it as a gift. During the clean up I managed to find Jay’s glasses,but the problem was I didn’t know what room they were in. Not a problem though,they had only left ten minutes before so I was going to head to the 5th floor and see whether or not I could hear them. I needn’t have worried though because as I was putting my shoes on,Jay called me and said that Kay needed dealing with and would I come down. Oh my god,would I deal with her,are you serious? I had been wanting to do that for hours When I got to their room Kay was already bent over the bed with many,many strap marks upon her bottom,so technically I didn’t give her,her first spanking. However,Jay was in a toppy mood and was telling Kay to stay over the bed and he then asked me to spank her. Now I am not daft,I have given at least half a dozen girls their first spanking so I knew exactly how to do this. Not too hard and not too soft,and only ten swats in Kay turns around and says “I like this”. Yeah,like there was any doubt that I was going to make sure she enjoyed it,hell,we need to convert vanilla’s people. Twenty spanks followed by twenty seconds of rubbing,that should do the trick if I’m not mistaken. I tried my hardest not to prolong the event,but soon after it was over we had a sassy little girl all primed and ready for a very warm bottom. What she said I don’t remember,but before too long at all I manhandled her OTK and decided to up the level a bit. Now again,we have to remember it is a vanilla we are dealing with,so while I spanked a bit harder I did make sure to continue to rub. Now herein lies a problem,throughout my years I have given many an enjoyable spanking,so much so that I consider myself pretty efficient in delivering an erotic spanking. The level and the mood was perfect,in fact it reminded me of some of my more memorable scenes,however the situation was not the same as the others had been. Kay was clearly enjoying it,as was I,and those evil thoughts ran through my mind that if I wanted to,I could convert this girl any minute. But the situation didn’t allow it,I couldn’t do my trick of using my fingernails on the back of the thighs,I couldn’t play with the nape of the knee,I couldn’t use my hand on the back of the neck and ears as I let my voice do the work. All I could do was spank and rub her bottom. Now I’m not saying it was unfulfilled,but I have had many girls in that situation and I have tormented them into a fury Like I said,I still don’t know about the relationship between Jay and Kay,and I know they will read this so maybe they can shed some light on it,but perhaps that was a good thing because I had really evil and wicked thoughts on my mind while she was over my knee. Being a writer it was a good thing though,because it kickstarted me into writing that long awaited book that I have been planning. As soon as I got home I typed off 16 pages in a heartbeat. Now I haven’t done a scene like that in a long time either,and it rejuvanated me a lot,so much so that as soon as I got back to New York I contacted a former partner who I used to drive crazy with my spanking style,and someone who I have had my best experiences to date with. So if for nothing else,while I couldn’t do the scene exactly the way I wanted,it put me back in touch with the person who I did that type of scene with more than anyone else. Meeting Jay and Kay was the highlight of the party for me at Shadowlane. Firstly I just love meeting new people,and these two guys are two of the coolest people you could meet. The other four of us in that room that night have been friends for years,and they blended right in without missing a heartbeat. I think we all got something out of meeting these two wonderful people and I very much look forward to meeting them again. Which,by all accounts,will be the Boardwalk Badness Weekend next year. Kay is an exhibitionist so they say,I wonder how she will feel being spanked on stage in front of 200 people? By Richard Windsor,on January 9th,2010% To start the day I want to tell you all about a great New Year’s Eve party that I attended over the weekend. A few weeks back,Pixie and I decided to get together to do something for New Year’s Eve. This really was probably going to be just hanging out together to see 2010 in. Well,a couple of weeks after this,the two of us received an invite from Funnybratgirl inviting us to a party at the house she shares with Jules from SSNY. I was over the moon to be invited to such a party and after talking it over with Pixie,she was just as excited as I was,if not more so. So we had a change of plan,instead of me schlepping it over to her place,we decided that she would pick me up at a train station on the way. Now the morning didn’t start as good as we had planned,my poor little feline friend was snowed under. But you can never stop a determined brat,and with shovel in hand and a determination to match,our Pixie snubbed her nose at a few snowflakes. Of course I had the same snow problem,but I live in New York City so it is public transport for me regardless of the weather. So as Pixie set out early due to the weather,I began the usual trip of bus,subway and train to get to my destination. When I got to Penn station I was disappointed to see that the train I had hoped to catch was cancelled due to the weather,meaning that I would have to get on a slower,local stopping train,which of course also meant that Pixie was going to be waiting for me for a while. At least I was able to call her to let her know that I was going to be late. Once I finally got to my destination it took me a good ten minutes to find the little minx,being that neither of us had been to this station before,it did give me time to sneak a smoke though We kept the pleasantries to a minimum as Pixie had been parked in a limited zone for an extended period and we needed to get on our way. So as quick as a flash we buckled up and headed to the first intersection………………………… OH MY GOD……………………………. Did I just hear what I thought I heard coming from Pixie’s lips? Shocked I was,totally shocked!! In the years that I have known Pixie,never,and I mean NEVER have I ever heard her utter so much as a single curse word. She won’t even type one,it is always an effigy of what the swear word actually is. Well the little potty mouth,she used the Granddaddy of all swear words!! I know someone who has a date with the Ivory soap bar!! Now once on the road it was where the fun really started. The little town in question isn’t overly kind to travelling visitors in icy road conditions in the dark. The street signs were of little help when you are doing 45mph on a busy road,they were too high up,were not illuminated,and worst of all,some of them were an abbreviation of what the road was actually called. Fine if you live there,not so much if you don’t when you have to try and squint your eyes while hoping to find a 45 character road name,which has been shortened to 12 characters. We finally made the party though,and most of the people were already there,save for a few late stragglers who were to come later. It is hard to put into words just how enjoyable I find the company of this party to be. To start with there was of course the company of my good friend,Pixie,someone who is a friend of mine in real life,way beyond any relation to spanking. The co hosts of the party,Funnybratgirl and Corey,people who I have only just started to get to know on a more personal level,but who are two very welcoming,warm people. Then of course my good mate,Jules,who also co hosted the party,someone who I have got to know pretty well over the last year and whose demeanor I find to be in close relation to my own. Cut the thrills and bullshit,let’s deal with the issues and move on from there. Just the type of behavior that I love in a girl. As I have said in many posts prior to this one,Jules is one of the organizers of the SSNY party and I personally stake my own reputation on the integrity of her character,just about the best the spanking world can offer!! Just about everyone else who was in attendance was an SSNY regular,though I’m not really sure whose name I can say due to privacy issues. Some of the folks in attendance though that I feel comfortable mentioning their names were Mike and Robin,Rad and Sandy,Kate James and Jersey John. That was only about half the group but like I said,I don’t really know who would be okay with me mentioning their name. Now despite all of us being spankos,this really wasn’t what the party was about,it was a get together of like minded people seeing in the New Year with spanking only as a backdrop. Sure,there was some play,but it was very limited in comparison to other such parties,this really was about friends coming together. There were some great highlights though,perhaps topped by Jules sharing her Jib Jab creations on the big screen. She had added the heads of some spanking friends to animated scenes and the results had everyone howling with laughter. Rad had started a discussion on a website he wanted to create,called pisscanings.com. Basically the girl is caned until she pisses herself,which was pretty much what we were all doing in laughter as he told of his plan. One unexpected highlight came after Pixie had gone to play with someone. Upon her return she quipped that she had better check her phone just in case her hubby had called…….. Had he ever called!! I believe there were 4 messages waiting for her,and there is nothing like seeing a naughty little girl react when she knows she is in BIG trouble. She may not have found it amusing,but I sure did. It is tough to write this to a spanking forum because there really wasn’t much play to speak of,as I have mentioned already it was an awesome party and I am so glad that I received an invite to join such a wonderful group of people,I couldn’t have wished for a better New Year’s party. After midnight I did play with Fran,just to make sure that my arm was still working and of course to welcome in the New Year. Quite honestly I hadn’t really planned to play,I was already having a blast. At around 3am was when everyone started to settle down for the night. Pixie and I had planned to leave sometime around 1am for me to get to the station and for her to get home,but the gracious offers from Maria and Jules of a place to crash was just too good to pass up. We took up camp on the landing with Pixie using an air mattress and me close by on top of a sleeping bag. Of course we tried to whisper but that was soon to pass as I set my stuff to the side of me for the morning. One thing that I can’t do when I visit other people’s house’s is bring my hairbrush with me,the thing is about 20 years old and is worn down to the bone,so what I do is bring an oversized brush that I would never really use just so that I have something pleasing to the eye in the morning. I laughed as I showed Pixie the monstrosity that I had to use to brush my hair and gleefully taking it in her hand she held it up and said “Is this what you use to spank yourself with at home?” There aren’t many times that I give the toppy look,but this was one of them as I studied the smiling minx,she’s just a little too smart for herself at times. Now I know everyone wanted to get to sleep,but tough titty said the kitty,Pixie needed to answer for that comment!! So I climbed beside her as she lay in her little pink penguin PJ’s and began to vigorously apply my hand to her bottom. Pretty quickly she said “Ow,that thing does hurt”,but I hadn’t even used the brush yet,I was spanking her with my hand. Hey,not only have I lost weight but I am working out now as well Of course she didn’t believe it was my hand so I picked up the brush to show her the difference,I was quite getting into this actually. I was in rare toppy form and I scolded her as I spanked and then pulled her PJ’s down,I have a feeling that she knew she was in for it because her hands flew back to maximize the area of her bottom that her panties would cover. I primarily used the brush on the seat of her panties and gave her a fair warning “Any other smart comments you wish to add?” I asked her. In typical brat fashion I could see the wheels turning as she pondered whether it would be wise to add anything further,so to make sure I started to apply the brush firmer as I said “I will let you think it over”. As she was now wriggling to the smacks I asked her one more time “Anything else you wish to add?” Clearly she considered it,but Pixie took the wise route and replied “Nah,I think I’m finished for now”,and trust me,it was a wise choice,because the next step was going to be the brush on her bare bottom. So I finished the spanking and pulled her PJ’s back up with a further warning that it can happen again very soon if she thought of anything more to say,and then a funny thing happened on the way to the farm. I returned to my spot feeling pretty content with myself I must say,and as I lay down I whispered something to Pixie and got no answer. Yep,bedtime spankings really do work,because within a minute of the spanking little Pixie was fast asleep. I couldn’t help but smile as I lay there contently,so now I could also go to sleep. That was the plan anyway…….. Holy shit. It was like trying to sleep in an aircraft hanger with all the engines running,or trying to sleep when frogs are in mating season. The snoring coming from the lower level was absurd. I tried for all my might for half an hour to ignore it,but I ended up going downstairs to my coat to get my walkman out. It wasn’t ideal,but I was at least able to get cat naps in as I constantly played Enigma over and over. Partially I wanted to scare the living daylights out of a girl called C.C. As we had all prepared for bed and the lights went out,I did my famous horror voice,which had C.C begging that I stop. I did consider crawling down the stairs,ALA Linda Blair in The Exorcist director’s cut,while threatening her with impending doom,and I probably would have had it not been for the fact that ten people were sleeping,but I can put it in the bank until the Boardwalk Badness Weekend,I should have a nice horror costume by then as well In the morning everyone picked up where they left off the night before,with Corey graciously picking up bagels for everyone,and before we knew it we were heading home. So that was it,the party was over,but I couldn’t have wished to have spent it with a more enjoyable group of people,one of the best New Year’s parties I have ever attended and I didn’t so much as drink one drop of alcohol. By Richard Windsor,on September 28th,2009% So I’m back from Tennessee and feeling well refreshed,ready to tackle that inbox of mine and ready to make some meaningful posts. Some highlights from this year’s event,and of course it goes without saying that meeting up with all my friends is the biggest highlight of all. First of all I had forgotten just how much I missed Dotty who had come all the way from Asia. Not only is she super sweet and a total doll to know as a friend,but she is one funny little girl. I was able to get a one on one in with her,as well as several roleplay opportunities and random on the fly 10 swatters. Well,if seeing Dotty again wasn’t enough,she also took the time before she left Asia to visit a cane factory and she presented to me a brand new,out of the factory,traditional Asian school cane. It is a very unique item that I will snap a pic of later,and man alive does it leave a mark. On Thursday when I got it I whapped my calf to see what it felt like,and 4 days later the line is still there. In fact Dotty’s husband snapped a pic of my leg right after I did it and hopefully I can share that with you soon. Needless to say,the gift of the school cane from my dear friend was the ultimate highlight of my trip. Other highlights: At 3am I am having a smoke out on my balcony when a black bear decided he wanted to check our garbage!! This was like 20 feet away from me (though I was one floor up) and made me jump out of my skin. When I got brave enough to go back out I took my video camera with me,and despite waiting 20 minutes he never returned.
 After so long I finally got to play with Kat the Brat!! Such a fun,bubbly girl and I was delighted to see that she went out of her way to wear white nylon panties under her school skirt!! Made my first purchase from The London Tanners,this great leather school ruler. I tested it out on Ian’s partner and on the second stroke her knees buckled,it is MEAN and nasty. Click the banner below the pic and go pay Ian’s site a visit. The highest quality leather goods you will find,pretty much EVERY spanko from the top models to everyday spanking folk owns one of Ian’s toys,and if you don’t it is time you did!! The holidays are coming up upon us soon.
 I got to christen my personalized paddle from Cane-Iac (pics to come later) and my friend Dotty was the one I did the honors to. The paddle was used a lot over the weekend by a whole host of people and once again,with the holidays coming up you should get your orders in early. I will check on the price but I believe that you can get a personalized paddle for under $30,just make sure you give the Cane Master a little time to make a personal gift.
 The school roleplay was awesome as usual,only this year we had a guest teacher with us,the very strict Ian Head,also known as The London Tanner. It was a fun filled hour and each girl got a good walloping. My favorite of course was getting to use the Asian cane on our favorite Asian exchange student. Always great watching girls getting spanked,my favorite of which was watching Munchkin holding on for dear life for the two minutes that Ian warmed the seat of her panties. I also managed to sneak in a private session late on Saturday with my little Princess which I was really happy to get the chance to do. Then of course there was the celebration of Stella’s birthday in which everyone lined up and took turns giving her a swat,kind of like our own version of the spanking machine. After it was over I gave her 6 of the best with a cane called ‘Mr. Christmas’. So that is just an early report,there will be lots more to come and hopefully I can share a pic or two with you when I get them. That will of course depend on permissions etc,though I really hope that I can share one of me spanking Kat while she wore her school uniform. By Richard Windsor,on August 28th,2009% This is just one of these mysteries in life that I was never able to get my head around,and I still don’t think I can. This is predominantly a British thing,however,we do have such a thing here in America as granny panties. It clearly has to predate my time in the spanking world,and the subject is that of traditional school knickers. 
It is just one of those things that is a complete and utter turn off to me in a spanking scene,whether it be in real life,or for the most part in English spanking films. There is probably not a British site out there that I haven’t been a member of at some point or another,and any time that I see the girl is wearing traditional school knickers then I simply don’t watch the scene. I have probably missed some excellently acted scenes simply because school knickers are such a turn off for me. Now let me put a disclaimer out there,these opinions are mine and mine alone. I know that there is a tremendous amount of people,who LOVE traditional school knickers,I just happen not to be one of them. I have my reasons for this,and maybe I can entertain you with them. One thing that is extremely rare for me to do on this site is to talk about anything that isn’t adult related. The whole concept of spanking is based on an adult theme for me,so I get particularly uncomfortable talking about anything from the time prior to my experiences in the adult spanking world. In fact I will make a confession right here and now to cleanse my soul,because I find lying to be totally abhorrent. Throughout these pages there is one little lie that I told,and that is in the story of my first spanking experience. Do you want to know what the lie is? My girlfriend at the time wasn’t 16 years old,she was actually 15. For whatever reason I couldn’t bring myself to say that she was 15,it made me feel kinda creepy,even though I was only 16 years old at the time myself. Stupid,isn’t it? That is how my mind works though!! I even have the spanking scene from the TV show “The People’s Choice” which is completely innocent and has historical value,but I could never bring myself to post it because it features a young teenage girl and I would be mortified to think that someone was having a hand shandy while they watched it. So going back in time to the 1970’s,I can assure you that girls were not wearing traditional school knickers back then. For gym class yes,they were always worn,but for everyday wear they certainly were not. Now I wonder if this is because I went to a coed comprehensive school. In the Ivy league styled private schools perhaps the girls did wear them as part of their traditional uniform. I’m as common as muck though,and the school that I went to in England it was not a part of the standard school issue. We certainly had a school uniform of course,but it was based more on color than it was actual pieces of regulation uniform. As an example,the girls could wear either blue or grey pants or the same in a skirt. How they wore that skirt was discretionary,save of course for the fact that it had to be knee length decent. When you have a bunch of horny young guys and their opposite sex peers are wearing skirts,I think you know what is coming next. 
Yes,barely a day went by when one or several of the girls pulled a Marilyn Monroe,albeit with the aid of a miscreant providing the human version of “Air”. Up went the skirts and 20 or so schoolboys were treated to the feminine delights that each particular girl wore that day. When I think back to it,oh how those girls must have HATED wearing a skirt to school. You can maybe buy once or twice it being fun and flirty,or at the least playful,but just imagine being a victim to that on a weekly basis. It must have been as tiresome as Funbun shouting abuse at every hard spanking scene. I guess when I got to 14 or so and I started making out with girls was when I really began to notice. At 46 years old it sounds totally stupid to me now,but it is nonetheless truthful. When you made out with a girl back then,if you were treated to a flash of her panties,then that was a home run. I’m telling you man,there was a schoolboy bravado code,when you told tales of how far you got it was all done in code. 
If you got a ‘Bit of tit’,it meant that you actually sat there and looked at her tits and got a woody from it. If she gave you a hand job what it actually meant was that you gave yourself one as you thought of her. The infamous home run,well,that was the coup de grace. You could make it sound as dirty and disgusting as you wanted to,all it meant though was that she was flirtatious enough to flip her skirt up and flash you her panties. Now don’t get me wrong for one minute,I don’t feel bad for those girls one little bit,they knew exactly what they were doing and used their feminine powers to their full advantage. 
So going back to the subject at hand,back in the late 1970’s I was fully aware what the girls were wearing under their skirts,and I can assure you that it wasn’t traditional school knickers. Back in that timeframe bikini panties were the vogue,and that is more than likely the reason why today that particular item of clothing increases my enjoyment level in a spanking scene tenfold. The only time I ever saw the girls wearing traditional school knickers was for gym class,they certainly weren’t wearing them behind the bike sheds. The be all and end all is that it is a turn off to me in a spanking scene,as are your naval cutting,bucket gusset granny panties,the same goes for thongs. If a girl takes the time to ask me what would enhance my enjoyment level in a spanking scene,I have no problem pointing that out AND I will provide pictures as a visual guide. You may be surprised to hear that I have heard it on more than one occasion “I’m not buying a pair of panties just for a spanking” and I have a readymade,prepared statement for my reply. “You won’t be doing it JUST for a spanking,you will be doing it because it is something that I would like”. Those are the times where it runs through my head that all I am at this moment is a disposable spanking machine. 
I’m a real fuss pot when it comes to attire for spanking scenes,there is a clear vision in my head of what I like overall. If you can imagine a girly girl who also happens to be a glasses wearing,I don’t know,kind of like the Adrianne character in the Rocky films. Now if they have some quirks as well then that is just the cherry on top,you know like blue hair or 1600 bracelets or something. To me it is that opposites attract type thing,I like to be the heavily tattooed,leather jacket wearing,cigarette hanging out of the mouth,well weathered person,whose partner looks like the quiet librarian whose wild side lies just beneath the surface. I forgot to add this wonderfully funny video that I discovered on spankingtube today featuring Muffin and Mr. Darling. I hope that you guys enjoy it as much as I did,it was very funny.
By Richard Windsor,on August 1st,2009% Whoever thought blogging was easy? I did,that’s for sure. Things aren’t always as they seem though,and I plan to write about this today. I know that will make one spunky little girl very,very happy today!! Beginnings Having been a prolific writer on many spanking forums over the years,the idea for a blog was something that I had batted around with for a while. On Christmas Eve,2006,I was in a pretty angry mood,and to take my mind off of things I decided that then was as good a time as any to create this blog. The focus of this site was,is,and always will be about my journey in the spanking world. Now that journey has unusual components to it in that I also like to share my virtual world with you all. If there is a video that I like,a website that I enjoy,or even just a person that has endeared themselves to me,then I will also write about that. Running a blog,or several in my case,does come with problems though. Sploggers The biggest single problem that I get is Sploggers (spam bloggers) looking for link exchanges. Now we all had to start somewhere,I understand that,and I have no problem helping out someone who wants to get started. The problem I have is when the blog in question really has little to do with spanking at all and most importantly,when I am copied on a standard email asking that if I add them,then they will add me. Word of advice,add me first and then tell me that you did so,you are likely to get a much better response. Your requirement that you will only add me if I add you first,stinks!!!! Now I’m going to tread on thin ice here,but I’m a big boy and I can take the feedback. At the moment there are several blogs out there whose only purpose is to make money. Now I’m not knocking that at all,there are two people in particular who put a lot of effort into marketing and fair play to them. When they market they actually put serious time and effort into making a presentable and entertaining post. In fact I even do it myself on my other sites. SPANKING GALLERIES was created solely for marketing reasons,and I put an absurd amount of hours in making the site. I also have SPANKING PICS which I will use from time to time to market. We come back to the blanket email though,and this is what I can’t understand. Without going on an ego trip,clearly this blog is successful (my other ones to a lesser degree) and the opportunity for promotion is very good. So I cannot grasp the concept when a splogger is trying to get my traffic,especially when they say that they will only add my link if I add theirs. What in essence they are asking me for is to send them MY readers to their site,in the hopes that they will make a purchase from them and not from me. Seriously,where would that make any sense for me? You want people to buy from you and not from me,and you want me to advertise that fact? Now there is a huge difference if someone has a personal blog and they also make a little money on the side. If their blog is about spanking and they have a bunch of links then I am okay with adding that. In fact there have been a great number of sites (friends) who I have set up with the affiliate programs so that they can also earn some money. That scenario gets back to the whole idea of sharing within the community. Cheeky freakin’sploggers though,ASKING for a PRIME blog link placement,while at the same time sticking your link so far down the page that you have to do a ‘Control F’just to find the damn thing!! I know that sounds like a hard assed response but it really isn’t. I have never had a problem adding websites or blogs to this page for a link exchange,heck,if you were to go through them you will find a lot of sites that I list that haven’t even added my site to their link list,and I’m cool with that. We all like to make a little money and I like sharing ideas with fellow bloggers,many of my ideas have been implemented by other blogs and in turn I have also used the idea of others. If the purpose of your blog is just to make money though,and it isn’t actually a blog in the real sense,it is just a place to promote affiliate sites,then please don’t ask me to give you the money that I could earn myself,and most certainly don’t tell me that you will only link my site if I link yours. I’m dying to throw the F word in here,but I will contain myself for now So that is one beef that I have,and I know for sure that other bloggers have similar thoughts,in fact I believe Adele Haze once wrote something in a similar vain. There are other problems though,and as I am in rant mode then fuck it,I’m going to write about them. See,told you the F word wouldn’t be hidden for long Blog Love Now before I write about the second problem that I encounter,I should also take this time to talk about the positives that running a blog can create. First and foremost,I receive some wonderful feedback both via email and in person. Now I’m probably the worst emailer in the world,sometimes emails will sit unanswered in my inbox for weeks on end. I do eventually get to them,but it is certainly an area that I need to improve on. My favorite part is when I post something that someone really likes. Many times I have had people ask me if I had the complete picture set to a few photos that I post,and I am more than happy to email the people back with the pictures that they are looking for. Many times people will just write to say that they loved a particular theme (Audio,video or visual) and would love to see and hear more,really valuable feedback and always nice to hear. A lot of times some older folks will email me and talk about sharing a similar background to me and we compare notes on what it was like to grow up in that environment. Of course I also get the hate mail from people who cannot stand the fact that I am doing something,whether it be spanking girls or relaying a story. For nearly all of the feedback though,it is pretty much 99% positive and I love to hear it. Like any blogger out there,would I like more comments left on my blog? Well of course I would,everyone likes to hear what others have to say. If I ever get frustrated though I always go back to my prime reason for doing a blog in the first place,I’m doing it because I want to share what I have with others,I’m not doing it to get praised for doing so. One unexpected pleasure from blogging is at spanking parties,and I had no idea that this would happen. Whenever I go to a spanking party pretty much everyone there knows who I am. Now granted,I have worked for Punished Brats a great deal,and other websites to a lesser degree,so I understand that a portion of people will know me from that. Then there is of course the image,despite the fact that the John Timms of the world believe that I dress like a Chav and that people that look like me are a dime a dozen,I know differently I consider my sideburns to be as much a part of me as my noodle spanking arm is!! I have to admit that it is a major ego boost in the winter time,when I am standing outside of my workplace in my Stetson and leather jacket and tourists are stopping to take a picture of me!! Of course that ego boost just gets bigger when the Victor Meldrew type pissants get their knickers in a twist that someone is getting that type of attention. I happen to think that I am a very unique character and that’s all that matters there,MY happiness Back to spanking parties and what a wonderful feeling they can be. Now I’m not the most social animal in the world,and dare I say it that when I am at a spanking party I rarely,if ever,ask someone if they want to play. I’m dead serious about that,there has hardly been a time when I have asked a lady if they wanted to play at a party. Of course I get to play plenty,but that is normally just a natural evolution of sitting around and talking to people first. Hey,what a novel idea!! Treat someone like a person and not a slab of meat there for you to play Rocky Balboa to Told you,I’m in rant mode today,so deal with it. Back to the joy of parties,it is a great feeling when people come up to you to talk about your blog. I’m serious here,despite hearing before that I am a name dropper,I am really not. Anyone with a name I am generally distant from as I try to remain humble. In this instance though,I will name drop. Am I famous? Please tell me I’m famous!! This has nothing to do with any spanking production that I have done,this is all the result of running a blog. At the Shadow Lane party I was delighted that I was going to finally get a chance to meet Tony and Eve,two people who I had admired for a long time. I got into the elevator and shortly thereafter Tony and Eve also got in,before I could say a word Tony extended his hand to me and said “Hey,you’re the guy who does the podcasts”. Obviously that was from the blog,and during the same time as the elevator filled,Clare Fonda waved to me at the back and said “Hi,Houndog”. It’s great,isn’t it? Any social anxiety is taken care of immediately,at any party it is a great way for a conversation to begin. Once more at the Shadow Lane party,Dallas,someone who I have never conversed with in any way,shape or form,also came over to me to introduce himself and to greet me,same for Molly St. James at the FMS party. I’m always flabbergasted at the amount of people who recognize me from the blog. My way or the highway So I’m going to finish with one final issue with blogging. In fact I am taking the completely opposite approach to management training. In management training you are always taught to say something nice and then talk about the constructive areas,then finish on a high. I’m going the other way around Now I know I’m not the only one who deals with this,in fact I know for certain that paysites encounter this problem more than I do. The problem I am speaking of is blog readers telling you how you should run your blog. Now I’m not adverse to any constructive feedback whatsoever,in fact I encourage peoples thoughts and ideas,what I am talking about here is the straight down the middle of the road “This is how it should be done” Now I contemplated using two names and whether or not I wanted to use them as an example,but as these guys feel free to impart their words of wisdom on this site,and many other sites,I am taking the “Tough titty said the kitty”approach. This is not a put down on either of these folks,and I certainly hope that neither of them takes it as such. I am just trying to demonstrate the opposite ends of the spectrum. On one hand we have Dan,who strongly presents his preference for M/F spanking (My personal preference as well) and Funbun,whose preference is F/F spanking. In between there are so many options that I can’t begin to tell you about. If I went to my inbox right now I could probably find with ease 50 emails where people are either telling me how I should run my site,or suggesting what I might need to do to improve it in the future. Now I’m going to try my hardest not to sound like a dick here,but if I do then I will gladly accept the consequences of being one if people feel that is what I am coming across as. Now this doesn’t only apply to my blog,but it also applies to paid websites as well,and let me give you a breakdown here of how I feel about this. When I started this blog it was to share what my perception of the spanking world was,and is. That is going to take many various forms through literary,visual or audio means. When I write a story,the story is portrayed how I envision things to go. When I post pictures,these are pictures that have personally ‘reached’me and my hope is that they will reach others as well. Trust me,by the amount of websites that have republished pics and videos that I have found I KNOW that they do reach people. Now like I said,I have no problem hearing from anyone and what their perception of spanking is,in fact I like to hear the feedback,but if the way I present my blog is such a constant problem to some folks,I can’t understand for the life of me why someone doesn’t start their own and then present the spanking world to us as THEY see it. I try to put myself in their shoes and when I do,and let’s not forget,I am also a reader of other spanking blogs. If I see something that someone has posted and I’m not particularly fond of it,I skip past it and find the things I do like. At no point do I feel the need to point out what I don’t like about someone’s post,though I will comment on what I do like. Lights,camera,action!! Video productions are another thing that I liken the above statement as well. I know that Pixie has just written about this herself,but I figure I can add a little bit to it also. Now I will admit that I have been somewhat fortunate in that a lot of ideas that I have,have been used by a few websites. Now it is not that they take my whole ideas and run with it,they may take it as the basis of a scene and then change it so that it fits the product that they are producing. Trust me,we aren’t talking of a significant number here,but I have been fortunate enough to have seen some of my ideas filmed though. When I give a suggestion however,that is merely what I am doing,just offering something that people may be able to work around. I’m most certainly NOT telling them how it should be done,and I’m most certainly not going to start throwing my toys out of the crib because they are not filming my 22 page screenplay!! As I have already started to anyway,should I want something filmed that I desperately want filmed,then I am going to put my resources together and film it as I wish to film it myself. In no form would I ever expect another company to use THEIR dime to create something specifically for me. If they did I would expect them to charge me for a custom made video. Now the reason I bring that up is because just doing amateur stuff up to now,I am still having people tell me how I need to film and what I need to be doing regarding the spanking. Maybe I’m getting a little carried away here,but the whole purpose for making my own videos next year is to present a spanking video as I want a video to be done. Like any spanking website out there,they present spanking material as THEY see it,based on the direction that they wish to go in. I’m sure all of them have a creative direction that made them start their company in the first place and I really don’t think that they need to be told how to spend their own buck. As a consumer I have a choice,if I like what I see from a spanking company then I can subscribe to it,or not,as the case may be. They are selling me what they have to offer and if I enjoy their product then I will subscribe to it. There have been times in the past where I have said that I would love to see A,B or C,but it isn’t a requirement,if the website in question likes the idea then they can tailor it to suit the product that they wish to put out. So maybe I am giving a disclaimer already here for the videos I plan to make next year. I already have a goal and a direction that I wish to go in,if people tell me certain things that they would like to see then I would certainly see if it fits the direction that I want to go. At the end of the day though,I will be giving you what I like from a creative standpoint,and if it fits your direction then I am sure that you will enjoy it. If it doesn’t though,look around,there are plenty of websites out there that may well have what you are looking for. Failing everything though,if you really want something done right,then do it yourself. You have a vision,then present it to us for us all to see. If you are frustrated by spanking blogs,go to blogger.com because you can start your own blog for free and then you can share your aspect of spanking with us all to enjoy as well. Blogging isn’t easy,but it can be one hell of a fun journey. I’m done ranting,for now!! | | Watch Full VideosWebmasters:  My email addressRichardwindsor@richardwindsor.com |
