Time for part five of my QUESTION AND ANSWER series. Being honest here, from a personal standpoint this has been one of my favorite features to do so far, I love hearing your questions and putting some thought into answering them all.
As I mentioned in the previous Q and A session, I am not answering all of the questions in chronological order, I’m basically grouping them into sets of five. If I kept them as they came then some of the questions would be very quick to answer, by grouping them in sets I get to mix in some longer answers with the relatively shorter ones.
This will be the last time for this promotion, on Sunday I will close the form and the free video giveaway and then do another free promotion around the July the 4th weekend, so if you have a question for me then this is your last chance for this go around. CLICK HERE for the form where the video giveaway is linked.
1: Who is your favorite spankee? Say you can only spank one girl who would you chose?
The first part of your question isn’t something that I am really able to answer because every interaction brings something new to the table. It is a very diplomatic way of looking at things but I would never want anyone to think that they weren’t on a par with someone else. Just like I don’t like competitions in the spanking world for a “Best of” type of deal, it isn’t my thing. Before anyone runs to tell teacher, I understand why competitions take place, I get the reasons behind them, they are just not for me.
As for the second part of your question I can interpret it as being that if I could give one final spanking then who would I choose. That question is much easier to answer because I can go to my bucket list.
Again, I wouldn’t select anyone that I have played with already, I would have to go with someone who I would have really liked to have played with. For me that answer would have been Mischa. There are certain characteristics that I look for from a fantasy perspective and Mischa darn near hits them all. Completely mischievous, even when she is getting spanked, super playful off camera (I have the raw footage of a couple of her shoots) and during the actual scene itself she is vocal, fidgety and cute all in one. She is playful and cheeky, but doesn’t cross any lines in being disrespectful. I just know that if I was to have a scene with her then it would meet all of my triggers quite easily, she is adorable.
If I could choose someone from the modern day then that person would have to be Kiki Cali. I’m very simple when I play and my enjoyment comes from an OTK hand spanking, and while the work that KIKI CALI does is quite broad, I have focused on just the OTK hand spanking aspect of our lifestyle.
I’m fortunate enough to have bought a couple of clips featuring Kiki Cali where she is getting an OTK hand spanking, and like Mischa above there is so much to like. There is certainly a difference between the two personas of each girl, but Kiki’s cheeky demeanor in the OTK position is also adorable. I’m the type of person that can point at my computer screen whilst watching a scene and say out loud “Now that is what I like”
If I was to make one final film, and I am likely to do so, Kiki would certainly be the girl whose services I would seek to fulfill that void. The contrast between my deep English accent and her playful American nature has me thinking of all types of scenarios. In my mind the first scenario would be Kiki as the girl next door who is over at my place one day acting sassy, flirtatious and boisterous, and once she is informed that if she would have been my daughter then she would be getting a spanking, she pushes it until she actually does get a spanking, albeit a somewhat playful one. Not sure what the second scenario would be right now in regards to the main spanking, but we can play that by ear for now. To tap into the pouty submissive side of her then I would imagine that it would be an uncomfortable confession of sorts. It is a gut feeling that I have that Kiki would be perfect for the type of old fashioned OTK hand spankings that I like to film, a very cute girl. So from this day forward, if I could only spank one girl, then it would have to be Kiki Cali. I’ve also seen her in a super cute pair of white nylon panties during one of her scenes, so my audience especially would have something to really look forward to.
Check out her site RIGHT HERE to see the various work that Kiki performs and heck, buy something while you are there!!.
Image from SPANKED SWEETIES.
2: Apart from your preference for spanking over panties, which I share, do you prefer your spankees in dresses/skirts (and if so what type) or trousers/slacks/jeans?
One of the biggest issues that I have with the Curious Cat app over on Twitter is that I don’t always believe that the questions being asked are genuine. It almost feels as if the question being asked is being asked by the same person answering the question. Besides that it is an incredibly annoying feature that completely dominates your feed if you allow it to. I mute every single person who uses the app save for some long term scene friends who don’t abuse the app.
The reason that I bring that up though is quite simple, I could have easily asked this question myself!!
This is an area that I am really old fashioned in, and as this question has been asked for MY preference I shall answer it. I emphasize the MY because I always tend to piss people off with my views, lol.
Absolutely I prefer the ladies that I play with to wear dresses/skirts, in fact I even go one step further than that in saying that in an ideal world a pair of stockings, a suspender belt and a slip or half-slip is the full house for me. As for type of dress/skirt, my preference would lean towards the lightweight summer type clothing. I’m not a fan of a woman is any type of trousers/jeans in a spanking scene, again that is just a personal preference. However I will say this, if the pants in question are pajama bottoms then I am all for it. I have a big fetish for pajama spankings, and that encompasses any type of nightwear worn by the woman. Whether it be pajamas, a nightshirt, nightie, you name it, I love spankings of that type.
Image of Ellee and myself.
3: Does being English in America change you’re spanko attitude one way or another?
3a: As an obviously British bloke living in the US, how do you think that influences your spanking adventures?
I’m not sure if it is solely being English that does it, or whether it is the style of play that I prefer, but I can pretty much guarantee that if I spent my adult life in the UK then I don’t think that my active spanking life would have been even 1% of where it is now.
When I grew up in England and first explored the adult world of spanking as soon as I was old enough to do so, what I saw was almost primarily unappealing to me. The focus at the time seemed to be more on corporal punishment than it was to do with spanking, and the whole visualization around it was not what I was looking for.
There is a chance here that I am about to piss some British people off, but there is a premise that I have to live by. If you can’t be honest with yourself, who can you be honest with?
There were three main areas that had a big effect on me, the biggest of which was the role of the submissive in written and visual print. A significant portion of the photo plays depicted a schoolgirl. This also extended to film of the same era though perhaps not as much as in print. Now don’t get me wrong, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and it plays a role in the fantasy life of many spankos, myself included. The area that was a massive head space turn off for me though was the underwear from a different era. The big assed bottle green knickers, or variations in navy blue, brown or even white, even to this day I find it a big turn off. I’m not even able to watch a spanking movie that features knickers of such description, it has such a negative effect on me.
Before anyone gets all wiggy, remember that this is a personal preference, I’m fully aware that there is a huge portion of the spanko world where this one item is AS important to them as it is unimportant to me.
The years that I started to purchase spanking material was shortly after I had left school in the late 70’s/early 80’s, and I’m not professing to have been a young Romeo by any description, but that simply wasn’t what girls were wearing at the time. There is such a disassociation with girls wearing traditional school knickers that I can’t even begin to comprehend putting the two together, it completely ruins the concept for me. Trust me, other than for P.E., girls were wearing flimsy, silky undergarments, I remember clearly, my hand felt many of them, lol. You can see the difference, right?
The second area that I couldn’t relate to was that virtually everything was related to the cane, a headmaster and a cold demeanor. Lastly, I have to say as well, and this was primarily in film, it was the severity. I’m into spanking, not cruelty.
The first American spanking magazine that I purchased was in the early 80’s, and my first exploration of spankings in the States was when I first came to America in 1985, and then moved here two years later, virtually everything about it was everything that I had always been looking for in the spanking world. Guys and girls in regular street clothes, and even if it was a schoolgirl roleplay then the girl had on cute panties, just as she would have done in real life. The very few spankings that I engaged in during my first few years here were all playful and erotically driven. The way that America portrayed spanking was vastly different to the UK, and it was everything that I was looking for. It is why I simply adore Shadowlane’s early videos.
I’m sure that the original questions weren’t perhaps expecting that type of answer, but what I described has a huge influence on me. To answer the question does it change my spanko attitude, the answer is yes, and very much for the positive.
Now from a personal standpoint I learnt very early on that my voice was a weapon. Especially during my first few years of my life here in America, I lived a life with the opposite sex that I could have never come close to dreaming of back in the UK. My voice doesn’t work for everyone mind you, I’ve had people who seemed to have made it their mission to tell me each and every single time that I am in their presence that my voice does nothing for them, and they are quite happy to inform everyone around them of this fact as well. From a scene perspective though, my voice is a tool that I have spent many years perfecting, and that is something for certain would not have been able to happen in the UK. So again, being English in America has increased my ability to play dramatically. When the voice works with a female, it can produce some of the best play scenes out there. I couldn’t even begin to tell you about some of the phone calls that I have had where the girl I am speaking with is being rather naughty on the other end of the phone line.
4: Spanking fiction is rife with detailed descriptions of the post-spanking “war dance” frantic rubbing, hopping, and so on. . . but this is almost never depicted in videos and rarely in spanking photos. Why is that?
Yet another excellent question!!
I think that this is more of which came first, the chicken or the egg. I’m pretty sure that cartoon and written spankings predated the visualization of said spankings, and I personally think that is why there is such a difference between the two. There is the fantasy component in the written word that doesn’t translate on film, however that is not to say that it shouldn’t. Perhaps this is one area where producers could spend a little extra time including this aspect of our lifestyle in their films. More often than not, a spanking film ends when the spanking is finished, and if you are lucky you might get a corner shot for a few seconds.
Many years ago I wrote about my favorite all time spanking movie, TONY AND EVE – A COLLEGE FANTASY. Do you know a big part of why that film is my favorite of all time? It is because every time that Eve is allowed to stand, she rubs her butt for virtually the entire time that she is stood. Even through clothing it is as sexy as hell and adds so much to the film. It is natural as well, no camera zoom in to emphasize the point, as a viewer you are allowed to see and appreciate the big picture.
You are correct though, it is an aspect of the spanking movie industry it is something that is sorely lacking.
5: Which spanking model got the cane from you the most?
First of all I guess we have to define model. In the literal sense the answer to this question would be a girl by the name of Aurora. She has filmed spanking content for three producers, two of which are now defunct. You can still see her remaining Amateur Spankings work online RIGHT HERE. Aurora and I have known each other for a long time and I don’t think that it is even close that she is the one person to have received the cane from me the most. She is also the person who has taken the cane the longest and the hardest from me, in fact she is the only girl with whom I have stopped a scene entirely because she was so far into sub space that I didn’t think that she could make an informed judgement about the level of play that she was receiving. Here is Aurora and I in a lighter scene, in public as well.
Please keep the questions coming guys, I’m really loving them.