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Q And A Part 5

Time for part five of my QUESTION AND ANSWER series. Being honest here,  from a personal standpoint this has been one of my favorite features to do so far,  I love hearing your questions and putting some thought into answering them all.

As I mentioned in the previous Q and A session,  I am not answering all of the questions in chronological order,  I’m basically grouping them into sets of five. If I kept them as they came then some of the questions would be very quick to answer,  by grouping them in sets I get to mix in some longer answers with the relatively shorter ones.

This will be the last time for this promotion,  on Sunday I will close the form and the free video giveaway and then do another free promotion around the July the 4th weekend,  so if you have a question for me then this is your last chance for this go around. CLICK HERE for the form where the video giveaway is linked.

1: Who is your favorite spankee? Say you can only spank one girl who would you chose?

The first part of your question isn’t something that I am really able to answer because every interaction brings something new to the table. It is a very diplomatic way of looking at things but I would never want anyone to think that they weren’t on a par with someone else. Just like I don’t like competitions in the spanking world for a  “Best of”  type of deal,  it isn’t my thing. Before anyone runs to tell teacher,  I understand why competitions take place,  I get the reasons behind them,  they are just not for me.

As for the second part of your question I can interpret it as being that if I could give one final spanking then who would I choose. That question is much easier to answer because I can go to my bucket list.

Again,  I wouldn’t select anyone that I have played with already,  I would have to go with someone who I would have really liked to have played with. For me that answer would have been Mischa. There are certain characteristics that I look for from a fantasy perspective and Mischa darn near hits them all. Completely mischievous,  even when she is getting spanked,  super playful off camera (I have the raw footage of a couple of her shoots) and during the actual scene itself she is vocal,  fidgety and cute all in one. She is playful and cheeky,  but doesn’t cross any lines in being disrespectful. I just know that if I was to have a scene with her then it would meet all of my triggers quite easily,  she is adorable.

If I could choose someone from the modern day then that person would have to be Kiki Cali. I’m very simple when I play and my enjoyment comes from an OTK hand spanking,  and while the work that KIKI CALI does is quite broad,  I have focused on just the OTK hand spanking aspect of our lifestyle.

I’m fortunate enough to have bought a couple of clips featuring Kiki Cali where she is getting an OTK hand spanking,  and like Mischa above there is so much to like. There is certainly a difference between the two personas of each girl,  but Kiki’s cheeky demeanor in the OTK position is also adorable. I’m the type of person that can point at my computer screen whilst watching a scene and say out loud  “Now that is what I like”

If I was to make one final film,  and I am likely to do so,  Kiki would certainly be the girl whose services I would seek to fulfill that void. The contrast between my deep English accent and her playful American nature has me thinking of all types of scenarios. In my mind the first scenario would be Kiki as the girl next door who is over at my place one day acting sassy,  flirtatious and boisterous,  and once she is informed that if she would have been my daughter then she would be getting a spanking,  she pushes it until she actually does get a spanking,  albeit a somewhat playful one. Not sure what the second scenario would be right now in regards to the main spanking,  but we can play that by ear for now. To tap into the pouty submissive side of her then I would imagine that it would be an uncomfortable confession of sorts.  It is a gut feeling that I have that Kiki would be perfect for the type of old fashioned OTK hand spankings that I like to film,  a very cute girl. So from this day forward,  if I could only spank one girl,  then it would have to be Kiki Cali. I’ve also seen her in a super cute pair of white nylon panties during one of her scenes,  so my audience especially would have something to really look forward to.

Check out her site RIGHT HERE to see the various work that Kiki performs and heck,  buy something while you are there!!.

Image from SPANKED SWEETIES.

2: Apart from your preference for spanking over panties,  which I share,  do you prefer your spankees in dresses/skirts (and if so what type) or trousers/slacks/jeans?

One of the biggest issues that I have with the Curious Cat app over on Twitter is that I don’t always believe that the questions being asked are genuine. It almost feels as if the question being asked is being asked by the same person answering the question. Besides that it is an incredibly annoying feature that completely dominates your feed if you allow it to. I mute every single person who uses the app save for some long term scene friends who don’t abuse the app.

The reason that I bring that up though is quite simple,  I could have easily asked this question myself!!

This is an area that I am really old fashioned in,  and as this question has been asked for MY preference I shall answer it. I emphasize the MY because I always tend to piss people off with my views,  lol.

Absolutely I prefer the ladies that I play with to wear dresses/skirts,  in fact I even go one step further than that in saying that in an ideal world a pair of stockings,  a suspender belt and a slip or half-slip is the full house for me. As for type of dress/skirt,  my preference would lean towards the lightweight summer type clothing. I’m not a fan of a woman is any type of trousers/jeans in a spanking scene,  again that is just a personal preference. However I will say this,  if the pants in question are pajama bottoms then I am all for it. I have a big fetish for pajama spankings,  and that encompasses any type of nightwear worn by the woman. Whether it be pajamas,  a nightshirt,  nightie,  you name it,  I love spankings of that type.

Image of Ellee and myself.

3: Does being English in America change you’re spanko attitude one way or another?

3a: As an obviously British bloke living in the US, how do you think that influences your spanking adventures?

I’m not sure if it is solely being English that does it,  or whether it is the style of play that I prefer,  but I can pretty much guarantee that if I spent my adult life in the UK then I don’t think that my active spanking life would have been even 1% of where it is now.

When I grew up in England and first explored the adult world of spanking as soon as I was old enough to do so,  what I saw was almost primarily unappealing to me. The focus at the time seemed to be more on corporal punishment than it was to do with spanking,  and the whole visualization around it was not what I was looking for.

There is a chance here that I am about to piss some British people off,  but there is a premise that I have to live by. If you can’t be honest with yourself,  who can you be honest with?

There were three main areas that had a big effect on me,  the biggest of which was the role of the submissive in written and visual print. A significant portion of the photo plays depicted a schoolgirl. This also extended to film of the same era though perhaps not as much as in print. Now don’t get me wrong,  there is absolutely nothing wrong with that and it plays a role in the fantasy life of many spankos,  myself included. The area that was a massive head space turn off for me though was the underwear from a different era. The big assed bottle green knickers,  or variations in navy blue,  brown or even white,  even to this day I find it a big turn off. I’m not even able to watch a spanking movie that features knickers of such description,  it has such a negative effect on me.

Before anyone gets all wiggy,  remember that this is a personal preference,  I’m fully aware that there is a huge portion of the spanko world where this one item is AS important to them as it is unimportant to me.

The years that I started to purchase spanking material was shortly after I had left school in the late 70’s/early 80’s,  and I’m not professing to have been a young Romeo by any description,  but that simply wasn’t what girls were wearing at the time. There is such a disassociation with girls wearing traditional school knickers that I can’t even begin to comprehend putting the two together,  it completely ruins the concept for me. Trust me,  other than for P.E.,  girls were wearing flimsy,  silky undergarments,  I remember clearly,  my hand felt many of them,  lol. You can see the difference,  right?

The second area that I couldn’t relate to was that virtually everything was related to the cane,  a headmaster and a cold demeanor. Lastly,  I have to say as well,  and this was primarily in film,  it was the severity. I’m into spanking,  not cruelty.

The first American spanking magazine that I purchased was in the early 80’s,  and my first exploration of spankings in the States was when I first came to America in 1985,  and then moved here two years later,  virtually everything about it was everything that I had always been looking for in the spanking world. Guys and girls in regular street clothes,  and even if it was a schoolgirl roleplay then the girl had on cute panties,  just as she would have done in real life. The very few spankings that I engaged in during my first few years here were all playful and erotically driven. The way that America portrayed spanking was vastly different to the UK,  and it was everything that I was looking for. It is why I simply adore Shadowlane’s early videos.

I’m sure that the original questions weren’t perhaps expecting that type of answer,  but what I described has a huge influence on me. To answer the question does it change my spanko attitude,  the answer is yes,  and very much for the positive.

Now from a personal standpoint I learnt very early on that my voice was a weapon. Especially during my first few years of my life here in America,  I lived a life with the opposite sex that I could have never come close to dreaming of back in the UK. My voice doesn’t work for everyone mind you,  I’ve had people who seemed to have made it their mission to tell me each and every single time that I am in their presence that my voice does nothing for them,  and they are quite happy to inform everyone around them of this fact as well. From a scene perspective though, my voice is a tool that I have spent many years perfecting,  and that is something for certain would not have been able to happen in the UK. So again,  being English in America has increased my ability to play dramatically. When the voice works with a female,  it can produce some of the best play scenes out there. I couldn’t even begin to tell you about some of the phone calls that I have had where the girl I am speaking with is being rather naughty on the other end of the phone line.

4: Spanking fiction is rife with detailed descriptions of the post-spanking “war dance” frantic rubbing,  hopping,  and so on. . . but this is almost never depicted in videos and rarely in spanking photos. Why is that?

Yet another excellent question!!

I think that this is more of which came first,  the chicken or the egg. I’m pretty sure that cartoon and written spankings predated the visualization of said spankings,  and I personally think that is why there is such a difference between the two. There is the fantasy component in the written word that doesn’t translate on film,  however that is not to say that it shouldn’t. Perhaps this is one area where producers could spend a little extra time including this aspect of our lifestyle in their films. More often than not,  a spanking film ends when the spanking is finished,  and if you are lucky you might get a corner shot for a few seconds.

Many years ago I wrote about my favorite all time spanking movie,  TONY AND EVE  –  A COLLEGE FANTASY. Do you know a big part of why that film is my favorite of all time? It is because every time that Eve is allowed to stand,  she rubs her butt for virtually the entire time that she is stood. Even through clothing it is as sexy as hell and adds so much to the film. It is natural as well,  no camera zoom in to emphasize the point,  as a viewer you are allowed to see and appreciate the big picture.

You are correct though,  it is an aspect of the spanking movie industry it is something that is sorely lacking.

5: Which spanking model got the cane from you the most?

First of all I guess we have to define model. In the literal sense the answer to this question would be a girl by the name of Aurora. She has filmed spanking content for three producers,  two of which are now defunct. You can still see her remaining Amateur Spankings work online RIGHT HERE. Aurora and I have known each other for a long time and I don’t think that it is even close that she is the one person to have received the cane from me the most. She is also the person who has taken the cane the longest and the hardest from me,  in fact she is the only girl with whom I have stopped a scene entirely because she was so far into sub space that I didn’t think that she could make an informed judgement about the level of play that she was receiving. Here is Aurora and I in a lighter scene,  in public as well.

 

Please keep the questions coming guys,  I’m really loving them.

Q And A Part 4

It is time again for me to answer some of your questions with number 4 in my Q and A series. Some of the questions that have been posed to me have been outstanding with a good number of thought provoking queries.

Now I am not answering everything in chronological order,  some of the questions are somewhat short and in the vein of what is the best implement or the best model,  etc;  and while I will answer those questions,  I am going to mix them in with questions that require a longer answer.

Please keep them coming,  you can submit one RIGHT HERE and get a free video in return,  I genuinely love hearing the questions and answering them for you,  it gives the blog a certain sense of community when that happens. On that note I also want to thank everyone for the kind birthday wishes on the various platforms. Normally I try to my hardest to respond to everyone that contacts me individually  (Unless what I am reading is complete bullshit  :)) on any platform,  to me that is the standard courtesy that I am obligated to do if someone has been kind enough and taken the time to respond to my offerings,  I have to acknowledge them in some way or form. When it comes to birthday wishes though I tend to be a little humble and just offer a generic thank you to everyone.

Anyway,  it is time for the next batch of questions and answers. Instead of linking all previous entries what I will do is I will create a tag called QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS that you can click on should you wish to see previous entries.

SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION HERE.

1: What sorts of spanking drawings/illustrations do you prefer?

What a wonderful question to start us off with!! It is a difficult question to answer but I will try my best to convey my feelings. The old saying  “A picture is worth a thousand words”  is never more true than it is when it comes to spanking art. I could see a picture and write a whole story based upon that picture.

To start with,  let me point you over to Dave Wolfe’s art over on WOLFIE TOONS. I absolutely love Dave’s art as it always reaches me on a personal level. Much of my real life experience and my personal fantasies are covered by Dave’s work,  namely playful spankings with a sense of humor. The added bonus for me is that most of his work is on a covered bottom,  and even when it isn’t it is done tastefully with no graphic displays of genitalia.

Panties,  shorts,  PJ’s,  Bikini,  leggings,  literally all of it is right up my alley when it is combined with the smiling or inquisitive faces that he presents. His work doesn’t actually inspire me from a story writing point of view,  however I frequently check out and appreciate his years of offerings.

This is where my personal ethics come into play. It isn’t my job to post Dave’s work on my site,  it is your job to go to his site to see his work for yourself. Dave doesn’t create his unique presentation for people to view it on my site,  right? So please,  do me a favor,  right click on the link below and select  “Open in new tab”. That way you can finish this article and then go over to Dave’s site to view his work. By the way,  if you like what you see,  let him know by leaving a comment. Bloggers leave to hear feedback from the people viewing their work,  I’m no different.

VISIT WOLFIE TOONS RIGHT HERE

Other spanking art that I like to see is really no different than what I like in regular spanking work. Namely I have a very hard time relating to anything in Victorian times,  no matter how good the work is. I’m also not a fan of non-human characters involved in spanking,  it doesn’t do anything for me. A rare example of a Victorian piece that really does reach me is shown below.

A lot of what I like stems from the old cartoon strips or the risque soft porn art of the 50’s and 60’s. Now I’m not an expert on artists and their work so I am a little remedial in my knowledge,  however,  if you want a more in depth background to the work of all spanking artists then I highly recommend going to the CHICAGO SPANKING REVIEW. That should be your primary source for historical spanking art. Even if I find a new piece of spanking art for you all,  I still recommend that you go to Web Ed’s site as he will have the whole background story to each offering. I might find a new and improved copy of a piece of art,  he will still have the background story behind each image.

To give you an idea of the types of spanking art that I like to see,  here are some of the images that I have posted on this site over the years. That should give you an idea of the type of spanking art that I like.

I do love the playful spanking art that used to appear in the 1960’s adult comic genre. Many of those photos I could write a story about as again they are right up my alley. Here is one example of the type of work that I am talking about. Any image that is similar to the images presented below is definitely the type of image that I love to see,  and thankfully there are loads of them out there. The  “Tuesday birthday spanking image”  was taken from the Chicago spanking review. Please visit THIS LINK for the full background story on this image and the artist.

I’m not a big fan of Bill Ward or Eric Stanton spanking art,  however,  like any spanking art out there,  there is always the exception to the rule. Here is one example of Stanton’s work that I love.

I hope that gives you some idea of the type of spanking art that I like to see. I’m not able though to pinpoint any particular style however because like the Victorian image above,  there is always going to be that one picture that strikes a chord with me. Many photos that I like are even non spanking ones,  especially when an art image presents the two characters that are about to be engaged in the spanking action. An apprehensive looking girl and a stern man rolling up his sleeve will get to me each and every time without fail. As will a girl on her own either reflecting on an upcoming spanking or a post spanking image.

One non spanking artist in particular who I love is Dean Yeagle. He has a collection of  “Mandy”  art and most of his images I find really exciting. He isn’t a spanking artist,  but you tell me if the four images below don’t evoke some kind of spanking thoughts? Please visit his website RIGHT HERE if you are interested in buying some of his work,  or want to view more of the delightful Mandy. I’m a big fan of Dean’s work.

P.S. As this is a mainstream source I am sharing the images as well as pointing to the website. I only avoid posting material that another spanking blogger has posted as people should really go to their sites to view their work. Save of course for marketing material from a paid website that the owners are allowing you to use to market their product.

Awesome question by the way,  I may expand further in the future as this one had me thinking a lot. Most spanking art I look at,  but only rarely do I find an image that I adore,  but when I do those images can be right up there,  if not above a picture of a real spanking. The imagination is a wonderful thing and spanking art has always,  since I was very little,  had the ability to send my mind into a fantasy playground.

2: When was the last time you spanked Pixie?

Another question on the same topic that came in was  “Do you still see Pixie, how is she”?

To answer the first part of the question,  I believe,  and this is only a guess,  but I believe that it was 2015. I come to that conclusion because it is the last time that I wrote about spanking Pixie online. There is a possibility that we played in 2016 at a small party,  but I don’t actually remember what year the party was.

In the image below Pixie and I went to hang out in the city and we stopped off at my workplace,  as you do. We took a few spanking images with the Empire State Building as the backdrop,  then we went back inside. That is where Pixie got a short,  sharp shock on the seat of her purple NYLON PANTIES. Pixie always wore nylon panties when we hung out together.

As to when we last saw each other,  that was probably three years ago now. We were planning to go to the ballet in March of last year,  but that ended up not happening as I was emotionally invested in my brother’s illness at the time. We still text from time to time but we haven’t hung out in quite a while now.

3: What is the best spanking implement?

I’m an old school guy,  there is no better implement than the hand,  plain and simple. If it is anything other than the hand then I would have to vote for a small wooden paddle or a good wooden spoon. Something sure to get the legs kicking.

4: Do you always have a rock-hard hard-on when spanking those beautiful girls? I know I would!

Obviously we are talking about something that produces strong erotic emotions for most people involved,  so naturally at times there will be a reaction from either party. You have to have some decorum though,  if I ever do get aroused during a scene then I will do my utmost to prevent it being known. For the most part though it isn’t an issue,  especially when you are playing in a party environment with lots of activity going on.

5: Which female top would you say gives the hardest hand spanking?

That isn’t a question that I am able to answer,  plus,  the definition of hardest wouldn’t necessarily denote the best. Most spanking scenes also involve the concept of headspace,  and I would imagine that it also applies to genres that I am not familiar with. If you can create the right headspace then even a relatively lighter spanking can feel harder for the recipient,  because they are feeling it emotionally as well.

There are a number of comparisons written online for people to find as to the level one can expect from a hand spanking so I would recommend checking the feedback of each lady concerned. I do recall once filming Dana Specht spank Sarah Gregory where Dana gave Sarah 500 spanks,  one for every dollar she overspent. As I was filming from a very close distance I do remember thinking to myself,  WOW,  after only 50 spanks or so. Those 500 spanks I would have to say were some of the hardest I have watched in person.

That’s about the best that I can do for you for that question. I’ve interviewed both Dana Specht and Ophelia De Havilland and during each of the seven interviews with Dana and the one interview with Ophelia,  each and every interview has involved several offers of taking a trip down memory lane,  but I passed on each offer  🙂  Many years ago as well at a spanking party I made a very sassy,  if not somewhat rude comment to MISS CHRIS. While she took it in the spirit that it was meant,  she did however stand up,  put her hand on her hip and wag her finger at me in front of an audience and warn me  “You are not too big to go across my knee for a spanking young man”

It never happened,  but it was probably the only time in my life that I ever blushed and thought to myself  “YIKES”  as she issued her stern warning,  LOL.

That’s it for this round of questions,  I hope that you all enjoyed them. There are still 23 more question left for me to answer so I have several more posts like this coming. And like I said above,  I absolutely love hearings your questions so if you have one for me then CLICK HERE to ask it,  and in return I will give you access to a 23 minute spanking movie of mine.

Q And A Part 3

Thank you to everyone who submitted a question to me so that they could gain full access to my SPANKING VIDEO WITH TEN. So far I have received over twenty question which will be enough for at least four upcoming posts. Now don’t get me wrong,  I fully understand that people come to my blog to look at the pictures and to read the stories,  but it is nice for me every now and then to have an area that I very much enjoy doing,  with that area being answering reader submitted questions. This is something that I enjoy doing a lot so if you have a question for me then go TO THIS POST and ask me a question and in return I will provide you access to a free spanking movie that I have stored online.

Question 1:

What’s your most memorable spanking you gave to a non spanko/vanilla?

This one is an easy question to answer, and there is also a story where you can read about the spanking. In fact now that I think about it, the very first spanking that I gave was to a non spanko so I guess that qualifies as well.

The most memorable spanking that I gave to a vanilla was at a Shadowlane party in 2010. A vanilla girl was attending the party to support her friend and over the course of a couple of days the scene was set for a room party that had a lot of spanking action,  and culminated with me getting a call at 6.30am in the morning to come to a room to give a vanilla girl her first ever bare bottomed spanking. You can read THIS STORY HERE.

Question 2:

Girl/Girl Action.

Now I had planned to skip over the next series of questions as they came across as a bit demeaning to women. However,  there are two points that I think I can make in relation to this over obsession of focusing on things one doesn’t like.

The first point is that there are now many more female spanking producers. As a person who produces his own content from time to time,  I produce it exactly as I envision it,  so why shouldn’t the girls as well? It kind of goes without saying really,  if you don’t like what is being produced,  fill your boots,  start making your own videos tailored to what you like. I admire and support any lady producing her own material and I will promote them willingly in an effort to support their efforts.

Secondly,  F/F spankings sell!!  If they didn’t sell then people wouldn’t make them. A long time ago I was in a very friendly public discussion regarding extreme severity and graphic genitalia displays in every video. In the discussion I was the person who was opposed to both aspects being discussed. The people defending the practice were producers who didn’t get their panties in a bunch because someone was questioning them,  they actually took the time to engage.

The bottom line I was told was quite simple,  the videos that I didn’t like sold ten times more than the ones that I did like. This goes for F/F videos as well,  if you look at Clips4sale under the general spanking category,  fifty percent are M/F and the other fifty are F/F. I also have an ideal spanking scenario based on a deeply ingrained feeling that I have always had,  it is simply that of a Paternal or Maternal figure delivering a good hand spanking to the seat of a mischievous girl’s panties. That’s it,  I need nothing more than that for it to be a perfect spanking. Let’s be real though,  that scenario isn’t going to sell for shit. At best I am going to find just a few minutes in every video to enjoy,  but rather than bitch about it,  I make my own videos to satisfy what it is that I like in spanking films.

Question 3:

Of all the beautiful ladies you have spanked,  who would you say took the hardest overall spanking from you with hand only?

This is a difficult one to answer because at no time have I ever spanked a girl as hard as I can,  ever. That is not where the mindset is for me so if I go over and above what I consider to be my limit then I think that I am being abusive. With an implement especially I would be hard pressed to even go at 50% of what I am capable of.

There is also this to consider,  and you won’t likely find this written anywhere else in the spanking world,  lol. At only 5’6” I’m short,  and that has a huge impact in the severity level one can deliver in an OTK position. I don’t get the torque that taller guys get,  nor the distance,  or the body posture needed to deliver a good sound OTK spanking. It is different in a standing position,  but I prefer OTK so that is what I am left with. It doesn’t mean that a spanking isn’t going to hurt,  it’s just that the playing fields are different. It is why you rarely see me spanking a girl when I am sat on a bed or a couch,  that position further regresses my lack of height and any spanking given by me on a bed or couch is always going to look pretty weak.

If I had to pick anyone I would think an easy choice would be Ellee Evergood. With Ellee I am able to go to the upper limit that I am personally comfortable with where it will still be enjoyable to me.

What sorts of spanking drawings/illustrations do you prefer?

This question will be answered in its own post later this week. It is a very good question.

Question 4:

Would you agree that the pace of a spanking makes a difference between it being serious business or frivolous flirting? For example,  I prefer the steady and solid pace,  vs the quick pats.

In the times where I take things up to a serious level the distinguishing mark for me would have to be the severity level. In serious situations I believe in the appropriate scolding to accompany the spanking,  so I will pause and scold and then delivery 15-20 really hard smacks in different locations from the upper thighs to the meaty part of the bottom.

In a private video that I did with Ellee I lifted up her skirt before she went OTK,  then I delivered six stingers to the back of her thighs in order to  “Help her with her answers to my questions”. Serious business with me is easy to spot,  I’m a playful guy by nature so anytime that I am being serious there is quite a noticeable difference. It doesn’t happen very often,  but when it does there are normally tears involved.

What’s your most real spanking that you have given a vanilla?

I’m pretty sure that this question was from the same user in the first question. When the first question was asked it was prior to the video giveaway,  so I don’t blame him for asking again to get the video!!

Question 5:

Since you are in charge of security for the party, what will be the punishment for “offenders”? A spanking?

I will keep in the spirit of the humor that the question poses. Generally when we get an offender it is normally a curious vanilla trying to enter the party,  or someone losing their badge for the 50th time.

However,  in the spirit of fun,  if I had my way,  anyone who showed up and had forgotten their badge would immediately be bent over the desk and paddled,  and then sent to get their badge. They would also earn demerits to be dished out on the final night!! Hopefully that would improve their attention to detail.

Feel free to ask me your questions,  it makes a nice change for me to break up the normal schedule of sharing rare pictures with you.

Q And A Part 2

What is your best method to determine if you have a spankee on your hands (pun intended)?

I’m going to assume that in this situation we are talking about vanilla life. As I have mentioned numerous times,  I don’t hide who I am from my network of friends. Therefore it is pretty easy to determine based on the types of questions that I get and the fact that someone is willing to interact on that topic. This isn’t to say that they are a spanko,  but there is definitely an interest.

A couple of instances stand out. One time when we were at a bar event a group of us were outside smoking. Obviously what I do is titillating to many and at one point the guy who ran the event grabbed his girl,  swatted her on the butt and said that she is always asking him to spank her. She blushed and laughed as they wrestled,  and up until that point I had no earthly idea,  this girl had never once approached me or had spoken to me about it.

Another time involved an old friend who had moved away. It was my birthday and on Facebook she sassed me about my age. I made the generic comment  “You are out of arm’s reach right now,  but you won’t always be”

Her response,  and it is important to note that she responded,  was  “RUT ROH”. Now you tell me if that isn’t spanko talk!! It was ironic that we were both in Japan at the same time last year,  but she had left Tokyo by the time I got there.

What are your top sources of spanking content  —  i,e;  blogs,  sites,  etc.?

In a nutshell, the last two don’t apply. 99% of my findings are original findings,  I get no content from other spanking blogs or sites. It is just a part of my personal ethics,  I want my blog to be popular based upon my own work,  I don’t want the blog to be popular using the content of other bloggers. There may be the odd time where something catches my eye but I will always link back to that person,  and most importantly I will let that person get a good run out of their find first before I repost it.

There is a wealth of material out there that I use that is free. From Archive dot org to city libraries. You have to go searching for free digital material,  free yearbooks online,  or digital library archives. Nine times out of ten there is going to be no search facility other than separating types of content. Therefore you have to find a collection and do it the old fashioned way,  search each publication page by page. There are also a wealth of free newspaper archive sites and most of these can be searched using keywords.

The other option that I personally use,  other than Ebay finds,  is to find digital archives that are pay sites. There are far too many to mention but there are some newspaper sites that have millions of pages archived. You simply search for digital collections online and roll your sleeves up for some hard work. It’s the only reason that I get annoyed when people take my finds,  they have no idea just how much work/cost I am putting in to find content for them to snaffle.

Who do you think is producing the best spanking scenes these days? I would vote for SGS with their Strictmore series and various scenes on her other sites,  like Spanked cheerleaders.

I hate to sit on the fence but this is one of the most subjective questions that I could be asked. First of all I wouldn’t knock anyone on the material that they are producing for their sites,  I think that it is wonderful and I wish everyone nothing but success.

The question itself though is really tough for me because I am painstakingly particular about what I like and what appeals to me in regards to spanking. For example,  on Sarah Gregory’s MOMMA SPANKINGS,  the video Spanked Sober is one of the favorite videos in my collection. In fact I will double down on that,  I personally cannot relate one iota to the thought of someone being  “Spanked sober”. The scenario itself is unappealing to me. So if you keep that in mind along with the fact that I have watched this video many times,  it kind of tells you how good the spanking movie is. It is the type of spanking movie that I consider traditional in every sense of the word,  I loved it.

Most of the time nowadays I purchase clips on clips4sale that appeal to me,  and generally that is only if there is a preview on spanking tube that allows me to see what type of film it is. I’m trying to add more and more sites to my Clips4sale page providing free advertising to spanking producers,  but it is something that I need to work harder on.

As I said,  I’m not going to single any site out,  they are all wonderful and they all provide a service. Most of what I enjoy personally is not found on commercial sites,  I’m very particular. Take GRACE’S BEDTIME SPANKING for example. That is a free clip on spanking tube and is about as perfect a spanking as I could find that suits my personal taste.

Are you happy,  on occasion,  to allow an OTK spanking to be entirely over the young lady’s skirt;  without proceeding to spank her over her panties or on her bare bottom?

One of the best strengths that I have is my ability to understand the psychology behind spanking. I personally could not care less what the level of covering is. More times than I have had hot dinners have I read a comment or story that states  “Spankings are ONLY giving on the bare bottom”. I’m so far away from that,  I could point to a hundred different scenarios that work just as well,  far too many to mention in fact.

One time a girl asked me if I could wear a suit and she wanted to be spanked wearing her pajamas. The moment that I thought about it I found the scenario so incredibly hot.

In regards to the question I am completely happy to work with someone,  in fact I have already done so on numerous occasions,  who wants to retain full clothing. I understand fully what spanking means to people and the little intricacies that are important to individuals.

The surveys that I will do from time to time are some of the best reading material that I have come across. Everyone has that one thing that does it for them,  it can be as simple as ankle socks,  ribbons in the hair,  a suit and tie. I understand it all. There are a hundred different items that excite me in spanking,  the level of clothing is not important at all to me if that is what someone requests.

Do you think there’s been a decline in the  “traditional”  spanking scene and that it’s becoming more commercialized and sexualized?

This is a very tough one to answer because there is a danger that producers are going to get their knickers in a twist,  so I have to be diplomatic in my response.

To fundamentally answer the question as it has been asked then my simple answer would be yes,  I believe that there has.

We have to take into account though that I only speak for myself. What interests me probably doesn’t interest anyone else,  nor is it likely to put cash on the table for the people producing the material. As I have discussed many times,  if female genitalia is presented in a spanking movie,  then I lose interest in that movie immediately.

Let me clarify that though,  many times you know what is going to be presented to you so you don’t have to take much of a chance. Some productions are clearly about showing as much of the vagina as is humanly possible and that fact isn’t hidden. Likewise,  if a spanking movie is more in the traditional sense but they have gyno cam in place,  I know that I’m not going to enjoy it.

I’ve run into a problem before with this,  in fact a girl who is almost one third of my age,  lol,  once chastised me for my opinions on this topic. I have no problem with the scene in general going in this direction,  nor does it concern me as a movie customer. There is always material out there that caters to what I like,  just perhaps not as much as there once was. Even though the act of spanking itself is sexualized,  I’m just one of the very few who is turned off by the combination of spanking and sexual voyeurism. If the act is coincidental then I can easily overlook it,  but most of the time the goal is to be anything but coincidental,  it is actually as much a part of the focus as the spanking is.

Again,  I don’t mean to knock anyone on this topic,  I can only speak of my personal experiences.

The advent of the site HOT MOVIES has been a revelation for me. On that site I am able to watch a spanking scene up until the moment that it stops being enjoyable for me and I can move onto the next spanking film.

Since you do so much in the scene  (writer;  researcher;  blog poster;  businessman;  actor;  interviewer;  party attendee and invitee)  which is your favorite hat to wear as it were?

You know I have to go back to basics,  my favorite part has to be researching and blog posting. I do like writing stories,  but I like to write about things that are interesting to me. Part of the problem that I have there is that I feel like my stories have become somewhat repetitive. There is no doubt that the spanking stories are the most viewed item on this blog,  by a long way,  but many times I feel like I am writing the same story,  just in a different format.

I ran a survey at the bottom of the story MOTHER SPANKS DAUGHTER  –  OVERHEARD and I got so much feedback that it feels hard to actually write a part two. The reason being is that I feel most people will be left disappointed. There are 4 main characters in the story,  Mrs. Ferris,  Elaine,  Tim and Bri,  and the feedback so far has encompassed every possible spanking scenario imaginal between the four of them. While Mrs. Ferris spanking Bri and/or Tim has the most votes,  I feel like I would let a lot of people down if that was all that I wrote about.

In a nutshell though,  my hobby of looking for unique and rare spanking pictures that have not yet been seen before,  that is by far my favorite part in the spanking scene. I get immense satisfaction when I find something new.

To be honest as well I also like answering questions. Maybe I will do a video giveaway and force people to ask me a question for a free spanking video.

Time For Some Q And A

Two days ago I left a little box for people to ask me a question with the hopes of maybe getting a little reader interaction. Well,  48 hours later I received a grand total of four questions and one comment  🙂  Originally I had said that if I got twenty questions then I would do a Q and A,  but you know what,  in fairness to the four people who actually asked a question,  I am going to respond to them regardless. The four questions are in the image below. You will see that I have blocked out a portion of the comment,  not that it was anything bad,  I just want to protect the person who sent it and not allow anyone to start misinterpreting what was being said. I will be in touch with the person who sent it and maybe in a short while I will do a post that will show that the interaction was positive.

Question 1: What is your favourite decade for spanking photos ?

When this first question came in I got pretty excited,  thinking that I was going to get a lot of questions like this. The reason for the excitement is that I think it is a wonderful question.

My first exposure of spanking related material was in the late 70’s,  and even in the early 80’s the material that I was looking at was made in the 70’s. I grew up in England so this material didn’t resonate with me,  for one I found it too harsh,  and secondly was what I consider to be the biggest turn off to me in regards to spanking,  those awful school knickers.

They can be in blue,  green,  brown or white,  but the moment that I see them my brain switches off. My apologies to those who like them because I know that there are a great many of you,  but I find them hideous. It hadn’t been long since I had left school myself and I can positively assure you,  that’s not what the girls at my school were wearing  🙂  So there was a disconnect,  my vision of what spanking entailed was not being represented in the images that I was seeing.

Some time in the early 80’s on a trip to London,  I couldn’t find anything that I wanted and in a adult Soho shop I found an American spanking magazine. It was sealed so I couldn’t see what was inside,  but the cover image got me excited as to what it might entail. When I opened it my world changed. Inside the girls were wearing normal clothes,  the spankings were being given by hand or brush or paddle,  and the most important part the bottoms were a nice shiny red. It was what my personal vision of spanking meant to me. Over the years subsequent to that,  especially when I moved to America in the mid 80’s,  I couldn’t even begin to tell you how many magazines and videotapes I bought during those fledgling years. They totally shaped my enjoyment level in regards to spanking,  and the very limited first hand experience that I had with spanking echoed the images and scenes that I was viewing.

So while it may not appear so with the abundance of rare 1950’s spanking material that I post,  my favorite spanking images are actually from the 1980’s. My hope one day is that the companies who produced spanking during those days release all of the cutting room floor material that never made its way public. The 1980’s shaped me in the spanking world so it has a big place in my heart.

Question 2: Have you ever given any birthday spankings in real life similar to your spanking stories? unplanned spur of the moment with a non spanko?

Sadly,  no,  nothing like my spanking stories. Now I’m answering the question as specifically as it has been asked,  but in the terms of giving birthday spankings to vanillas then the answer is yes,  just not as I write about them.

You have to understand that I do not hide who I am from my network of vanilla friends,  every single one of them know what I do and they find it quite titillating. So there have been many times where a birthday spanking has consisted of a couple of smacks to a covered bottom. Perhaps the closest that I have come was in a bar that I used to drink in,  and the barmaid’s mom was out celebrating her 66th birthday. At the insistence of the barmaid I playfully gave her mom a standing birthday spanking. Going back to the question at hand though,  in the realm of the birthday spanking stories that I write,  nothing like that has ever occurred.

Question 3: Why don’t more people post spanking on panties photos?

I’m going to try my hardest not to get carried away here,  but I actually do have a philosophy as to why this does not occur as much as perhaps it used to.

When I first started in the spanking world it was a long time before we had the Internet,  and spanking back then wasn’t as sexualized as it perhaps is today. Our environment during my age pretty much consisted of what we saw on television and how spankings were represented in COMIC BOOKS. The spankings were literally just that,  it was about the actual spanking itself. It is probably why people such as myself could not care one iota where the spanking is given on the bare bottom or not,  in fact it probably resonates more with people like me when it is NOT given on the bare bottom.

Times of course change,  perhaps there was a time where it was illegal to combine sexual activity with scenes of S and M. I don’t know that for a fact,  I am just guessing. The Internet has changed the way people see things,  the boundaries of an individuals mindset has changed along with it. It is very common nowadays for a scene to be presented online where the spankee is buck naked,  I can’t even begin to tell you about the jokes I have had whenever I see yet another naked shower scene. Then of course there is the genital exposure,  whether that is from the wheelbarrow position or the butt cam positioned for maximum vaginal and anal exposure. To me that is just how things have evolved over time and it is what people now seem to gravitate more towards. I’m not knocking it,  it might not necessarily be my cup of tea but if that is what people want then more power to them.

There are still productions out there that cater to my taste,  you just have to look harder to find them. Many times I can watch a spanking scene up to a certain point that might reach me in the first few minutes,  and of course there is always Clips4sale where you can pick and choose what you get to watch. I grew up in a different decade where I formed my own view on what spanking should be presented like,  but it’s not that decade anymore,  the scene has evolved to where it is now. I’ve purchased a few clips from Clips4sale where the focus is on the spanking alone and the interaction between the participants.

Question 4: Are you going to the Shadow Lane Party this year?

At this point I am going to have to say no. When I post my memoirs in the next week or so about the trip that I took to Japan in November then things will become a bit more clear. I’m soon to be 56 years old and right now I am in a position to do something that I might not be able to do in the years to come,  so I’m going to take advantage of it.

My trip to Japan was the best thing that I have ever done and later this year I am going to be returning to Japan for a much longer trip. I’ve yet to work out the full details as to whether I will only go to Japan,  or if I am going to combine it as a split trip to Japan and South Korea,  probably the latter but that may change. I only saw just a brief piece of Japan during my stay,  there is so much more that I want to explore and experience both inside and outside of Tokyo. My goal at this stage is to go anywhere between three and four weeks for the trip of a lifetime.

Don’t get me wrong,  Japan was already the trip of a lifetime,  I’m just greedy for more. While I am able to be in a position to do this I am going to take full advantage of it,  so the only spanking party that I will be going to this year is the Party next month.

If anyone wants to ask me a question then feel free to in the box below,  right where it says  ‘Your answer’  and click submit. I enjoyed answering the questions that came in and I would be more than happy to do it again.