There are times where I wish I could write my own version of the play, in fact I might take the spanking portion of the script with me to Vegas and at least act it out. While I am at it I might as well enact Kiss Me Kate and Blue Hawaii as well.
Just imagine the spanking version of this. Dump the third guy, the girl is perfectly fine, it is the Top that we need to work on. So, replace the paper with a paddle, pin that arm behind her back, flip that skirt and petticoat up and ignore the audience, just paddle away young man
Before I start, an important announcement. Today is WORLD CANCER DAY!! As you know, we lost our mom just a few months ago to cancer. During her time of need she received amazing kindness and compassion from complete strangers. I will never be one to tell you to donate your money, but if you can share the #worldcancerday hash tag to spread the news then it will help out. There are things that are really important in life!
Now onto the spanking portion of this post. You are probably aware due to the lateness of this post that I have been working out of town again, that will happen every month. In a few weeks mind you I will be leaving for a spanking party so that should be a ton of fun. I already have interviews lined up with spanking models, these will be audio interviews, as well as other spankos. And while I am hesitant to give out individual names, there will be representatives from BBW, Crimson Moon, Texas All State and Lone Star Spanking that I know of who I also hope to interview.
Now for the spanking pic. I haven’t posted one from the play ACT YOUR AGE for a while now, so let’s add another one from that. In this pic you will see a rather enthusiastic young lady getting a spanking. Perhaps she has had enough practice pounding the floor with her fists, and she certainly couldn’t get that bottom up any higher. I mean, you can almost see the sit spot in this pic.
This will be added to my ACT YOUR AGE spanking folder where you can read about the scene you are seeing.
Today I am going to dish out a couple of comic book spankings, but also lay down a little prose.
I’m not sure where you are in the world, but here in New York right now we are getting slammed with snow. I spent most of the morning digging out the driveway though we are predicted to get around 2′ of snow, so right now I am just taking a break of what is sure to be several trips outside today. At least I have done the main part, the rest is just clearing it every time we get two or three more inches or so.
Last week I was able to do some searches to try and find some more rare pictures for you, but as the title of this post says, it was quite slim pickings really. Of course I’m bound to find a few but to be honest, none of them were very good. Not that I am going to give up hope though. Basically I am snowed in so I will have a lot of time to do some deep searches today.
Alright, just dug out of the snow for the third time, you have to keep it low to make things easier.
There was one thought that I had where I wondered if anyone has any ideas. As you all know, I plan to start up my audio interview series again, and as this is going to be something that I will be doing moving forward, I’m looking for a catchy title to name the series. Basically I need something to hit search engines so some type of semblance of audio spanking or spanking interviews is what I am looking for. What I am looking to do is name the series itself, so as an example “Audio spankings with Richard Windsor”. Anyway, let me know your thoughts. I already have interviews lined up with spanking models, website owners and party organizers.
Now on to the comics.
This first one is already on THE CHICAGO SPANKING REVIEW, but the copy that he has is pretty poor. Hopefully he will come here, see this version and be able to update his wonderful collection. I’m going to post the full size of the spanking panel, but just a thumbnail of the whole comic so you will have to click on that to see it. This is Mary Worth from 1948.
The last comic spanking for this week looks like it is a postcard. This is a picture that I found on Ebay ages ago but here it is for your enjoyment. Mom is spanking her for looking at boys too closely, but says nothing about her being knickerless
Here we have it guys, in anticipation of the spanking party season I have purchased myself a digital voice recorder with the intention of recording as many audio interviews as I can in the upcoming year. Not only will I be doing interviews but I will also be doing regular podcasts about our favorite subject so perhaps I can bring you all in here. This weekend I want to record a lengthy podcast just so see how it goes. Of course I can come up with a hundred topics to talk about, but is there anything that you would like to hear my opinion on?
Alright, I’m setting myself up I know. I can hear the haters already saying “What the fuck do we want with your opinion”?
Let me know if you have any thoughts or topics that are of interest to you and I will see if I can’t add them to the show this weekend. Enough talking though, I wanted to test the digital voice recorder out so I have put together a little four minute ramble. Let me know what you think, and please be honest, I have very thick skin and I can take any criticism.
In a few weeks time I am going to a spanking party so the interviews will begin there. So far I have two lined up but if you are going to the party and you want to be interviewed then please let me know.
It has been a bit of a late one at work today and while I love to write, I will have to keep it a bit short today as a brother has things to do. The best news is that I was doing some window shopping online today for a new digital voice recorder. It is going to run me about $60 but with a spanking party coming up it is going to be totally worth it.
Now I will be totally frank with you, I have no cotton picking idea just who is going to be going to this spanking party so I am taking a pot shot that I will be able to get any audio recordings done. In years past there has always been a host of website owners and models attend, but like I said, this year I am clueless as to who will be there. Now, I’m like a kid at Christmas, I could probably get the item cheaper online, but I want it now so I will pick it up before the weekend. And the reason for that of course is? Because I want to give it a trial run this weekend and record a podcast.
There is going to be one other slight problem that I run into, and that is the podcast host that I use only has a small amount of free bandwidth to use. So I will probably end up having to buy a subscription somewhere as well. Now don’t worry, every podcast that I do or every interview will be totally free and will be my gift to you. If the financial cost is steep then I might record some stories and sell them for a few pennies, but the interviews will ALWAYS be totally free one way or another. I might even create a Google account specifically for this purpose as I am sure that I can host them in Google Drive.
Anyway, more on that soon, now it is time for the Windsor Wednesday classic, and this week we have a genuine birthday spanking for you. Now okay, it isn’t the best shot, position or photograph, but it is real, so that has to count for something, right?
A reader of this blog by the name of jimc posed a few questions to me recently and I thought that it would make for a good post. Many times I am asked questions but for the most part it is done privately, however, as I am answering some here, if you have a question for me then feel free to leave it as a comment on this post or shoot me an email at email@example.com
Here are Jim’s questions and I will do my best to answer them all as best I can, and I don’t mind saying that some of these questions are pretty tough. I will try to intersperse some pictures throughout the post as well.
“Do you enjoy the weight of the person over your knee, do you enjoy the position, the submission, the outfits, the sounds of a spanking or are there other things that you seek when you play or don’t play as the case may be?”
So let’s start with the first one, a very dangerous question for any man, lol, “Do you enjoy the weight of the person over your knee”?
Well I have to break this down before I even start. In order for me to do OTK I have to be sat in a straight backed chair, full stop. There are logistics for this that come into play and they are vitally important for me. To start with, I’m only 5’6″tall and my legs are short “28” inseam” and I’m a bit of a bloater. That means that the actual space on my lap is limited at best. Don’t get me wrong, there is enough room for any girl to fit, but unless I am in a straight chair my feet don’t reach the ground for balance. OTK on a bed or a couch simply doesn’t work for me, my feet don’t touch the ground, I’m not ‘over’ the person, rather I’m leaning backwards, and after a minute or so the compensation that I am putting on my arm and back gets too much. I bet nobody ever thought so much goes into a spanking, right? Quite simply, I can’t get a decent swing otherwise and at best I offer no more than a tame spanking.
So before I even enjoy the weight of the person, I have to set myself up properly.
With that said, I don’t think that weight is the word that I would use, but I do enjoy the human contact that is for sure. Whether it is in the otk position or if it was standing next to someone.
Do I enjoy the OTK position? No question, it is by far my favorite and given the choice I do it as much as I can.
What about the submission?
That is a tricky question for me because it all depends on the person and our relationship. There are times where no submission is required when you our just having a playful game of spanking, but for other times it can be really hot. I thought about this one a lot today and how my relationships are formed both in the spanking world and in the real world.
There is no doubt that I can be difficult to have a relationship with if things aren’t great. Don’t get me wrong, my barometer for friendship is so incredibly basic, I’ll be friends with just about anyone. I’m completely drawn to kindhearted people so all someone has to do is be friendly to me. Conversely though, and I will admit that this is perhaps my biggest flaw in life, I’m more than content with who I am. That can really affect my relationships because I have to have the basic rules in place. If I ever feel that my company isn’t wanted, or that my friendship isn’t that important to someone, I can move on in a nanosecond. It might not sound like it but that can be a real problem with friendships/relationships.
It is a strange one really because I have no malice in my heart, even if the heart is colder than most While I have lost many friendships over the years in the scene, I’m always here. The moment that someone wants to rekindle a friendship or make me feel welcome then I hold no vindictiveness. If I was a friend of someone once then I’m generally always their friend 99% of the time, even if we never see or talk to each other anymore. A lot of these thoughts are actually from communications that I have had recently with an old play partner. When we stopped playing we had a bit of an argument, but ten years later our friendship is back on track. There are times when you realize that you just weren’t compatible, but I still hold no malice to anyone.
I’m also not going to lie, and yes, I have noticed that Jim’s questions are being replaced by my ramblings. When my mom died a few months ago it pretty much mellowed me a lot. Now there is just my brother and myself and while I am not thinking morbidly, there are more yesterday’s than there are tomorrow’s, I want to enjoy what is left with the people who want to enjoy me. I’ve always got my brother so I will never lose. I am brutally stubborn though, I will never be anywhere that I am not welcome, I have far too much pride for that. And that my friends is my biggest burden in life.
So submission, there is far more to the word than just a simple answer. But in the right situation with the right person, it is very hot.
Now asking me about outfits is like asking Stephen Hawkins about the universe, I could talk for hours on it. In fact the answer is far too long to even include here but yes, they are very important to me. I generally fall afoul of a section of women with this answer, but it is an honest answer. I just ask that people separate what is MY opinion from what is their/society’s opinion. There is this vision that I have as to what constitutes femininity as it applies to me in the spanking scene. To save writing it here though I have already written a complete article on FEMININITY AN SUBMISSION. I’m a glutton for punishment, what can I tell you? You just have to remember that I am only talking about my fantasy vision, not femininity as a whole.
And now the final part of Jim’s question, do I enjoy the sounds of the spanking or are there other things that you seek when you play?
I’m going to tap into my sadistic side here and tell you a tale of a spanking scene that I did on film. Now I’m going to say that almost every girl that I have filmed with has been into spanking, but there was one time where the girl may have enjoyed spanking, but perhaps she enjoyed it at a different level than we shot at. Being really honest, and cruel, I have to tell the truth here, lol, the girl had a super hard time getting through the spanking and kicked and squirmed like an eel throughout it. Because her reactions were so genuine, I have to say that it was the hottest thing ever. We had a safeword in place just like they do on any set, but she was a trooper and got through it, and the look she gave me afterwards could have started a war
Yes, I’m a perceptive person and any of a thousand things can make it for me, a look, a sound, a comment. It all ties in to what we all call “The dance”. Many years ago it was how Pixie and I became friends, she knew how to dance. That sassy comment that puts one foot over the line, where you aren’t sure whether it is sass or an innocent remark. Of course we all know what it is, and you dance until it is clear to all. In that situation though it is the acceptance that is the most important, never start sassing someone who you have no intention of letting spank you.
That is actually a good way to answer that final question, what are the other things that work?
The dance works. A look, a remark, a haughty passing, a flirt. It works for me if someone wants to play, and they play the game that gives me the opportunity to play with them. It doesn’t take much to do and I’m pretty simple.
That last line just made me laugh actually, I can imagine saying to one of my spanking friends “It doesn’t take much to do and I’m pretty simple”
I can picture half a dozen of those girls saying right now “Yes, I noticed”
The dance, that is something that I definitely crave.
It’s a bit late on a Sunday but there is still time for me to get the weekly Sunday pic up. Now I was going to do some writing tonight but unfortunately I got caught up with something. That something being that for the first time in a while I had some free time on my hands so I have been picture hunting. Haven’t found anything of note yet tonight, but I do hold out hope that I will at least find one rare pic.
Part of the reason that I was going to write was based on a comment that one of my readers, Jim, posed to me. I was sat here saying to myself, ooh, good questions. Here is what he asked…
Do you enjoy the weight of the person over your knee, do you enjoy the position, the submission, the outfits, the sounds of a spanking or are there other things that you seek when you play or don’t play as the case may be?
That really got my mind ticking because everything that he asked I have an answer for. There are definitely things that enhance spanking play for me. Now I don’t expect to get them all, but when you get one or two aspects per play session then it generally makes them more enjoyable. For me personally, and long time readers may be sick to death of hearing it, lol, there is anywhere up to a hundred different things that work for me. It starts first and foremost with the personal interaction and is perhaps the reason that I don’t play anywhere near as much as other people at parties. I’m not cheated in any form though because my quality I would say is on an equal with anyone’s quantity.
Before I get carried away though I am going to save that post for tomorrow. Thank you for the questions, Jim, and not only that, all of the people who used to ask me questions on the forms that I had. Many people preferred to do that as opposed to writing a comment, but as you have probably noticed I was unfortunately forced to remove those forms. While that avenue has been closed though you can still email me at firstname.lastname@example.org
Now the Sunday candid this week originally came via will@gotham56. This copy of the pic is not his, however he did provide me with the lead to find a better quality of this particular pic, so I hope that when he comes here he finds a nice surprise of an improved version of a pic he already has.
The pic is from 1960 and will be added to my SENIOR SUPERLATIVES spanking folder. If you click on the link you will find many pics just like this, some of my best finds, period.
Finally, I have some time on my hands were I can sit down and write for a change. So I have my Hazel Dickens collection playing in the background, lights turned down low and a clear mind to share some thoughts. It’s funny actually, on my Facebook page a friend had posted this awesome picture of a child looking scornful with the caption “The face of haters when they see something you wrote in their feed”. Hopefully that doesn’t happen here, but I know that I am taking a chance being that most people come here for the pictures that I share.
The first thing that you might observe is that there are pages missing from the menu bar above. They are not actually missing, what I have done is I have merged some of them to already existing drop down menus to create some menu space. I’m okay with two menu bar lines but I don’t want to go any further than that. What exactly I am going to replace them with I am not actually sure just yet. There are some thoughts that I have for special pages, one of which you will read about in the paragraph below.
In a few weeks time I am going to go to a spanking party and a thought crossed my mind. One thing that has constantly come up is the popularity of my old spanking zone podcasts, where I sit down and interview people in the spanking community. As there will be a number of known spankos at the party I might actually purchase a digital voice recorder and see if I can’t get a few 15 minute interviews. If you click the link above you will find a number of my old podcasts, though most of them are my past Christmas radio programs that I did. There will also be some dead links which I have never gotten around to cleaning up. If I get some time on Sunday I am going to extract the audio from one of the interviews I conducted with Dana Specht. These are all done exclusively for her website, but as some of them are up to 7 years old I doubt if she will mind if I share the audio from some of the older ones.
Now when I started writing I had no idea which direction I was going to go in, I was thinking more vanilla but you know darn well that I can’t go long without spanking coming into it. Either way the post title will be a good place holder. It is actually my favorite way of writing, just sitting down without a plan and seeing where it takes me.
One thing that I was thinking about on the way home tonight was my favorite spanking pictures. Now this type of thing could have me writing for hours as there are so many that I like. In fact this might take up one of the menu places above where I will write posts describing why I like certain pictures and perhaps including half a dozen pics at a time. I like to think that I am a connoisseur of spanking pictures and I could easily see myself writing a few paragraphs on around a hundred different pics or so.
With that thought in mind I am sure that everyone has a favorite picture, or at the very least a favorite type of setting/ambiance/clothing/scenario etc that makes certain pictures more special to them. Now I’m never asked this, but when I pose the question to myself, the one picture that I think is the best discovery that I have made, it probably surprises people. The one picture that I found that fits this bill is the college art project that recreates one of the most famous spanking pictures that exists, which is the one for the Chase and Sanborn Coffee Ad. The picture is from 1954 and while it isn’t the best picture ever made, the scene itself has been recreated untold times in pictures. So to find the copy that I did on Ebay was such a rarity that I was almost sick when I forgot to bid on it. Below you will see the original and the second pic is the college recreation from 1954.
From a position of personal taste I will rarely, in fact if I ever have, post a picture that shows genitalia. That isn’t a knock on anyone as most websites and blogs features this, it is just something that is not appealing to me. My focus tends to lean towards pictures that might be found in mainstream magazines etc, or pictures that leave you with an impression that you can create your own story to. I’m a very visual creature and I almost think I am weird in what it is exactly that pushes my buttons when it comes to spanking pictures. There is not one thing in particular, in can be a variety of different things. Here are two examples of what I am talking about.
This picture here is on my phone, and it is my happy picture, it never ceases to put a smile on my face. Should I ever get stressed then I just open the phone and look at the picture. Now why do I like it so much? It is very simple, a thought once come to my mind at what I was seeing and it has stuck with me ever since. The person doing the spanking I believe is Aunt Vicki from Texas and it is the slight smile on her face that does it for me. It is a smile that says to me “Oh, so you think you are too old for a spanking do you”? It is a thought that has stuck with me and I just love the picture.
Another picture that I love that I have never posted before is from Shadowlane. The picture features Virginia Lewis receiving what clearly looks like a rather painful lesson. It is one of those “A picture is worth a thousand words” type of pictures where I would love to hear a story about it. More than anything, I would love to hear VIRGINIA’S version of events that led to this conclusion. It is a very hot pic, as are the few others from this small set.
Part of the reason that I thought this morning that this would be a vanilla post tonight was during the journey into work today. Normally I have my coffee and I read the paper, but today I pretty much spent the entire journey looking at the Manhattan skyline. I’m fortunate that I take an elevated train to work so every day I get to see New York and it reminds me how great my life is. I’m serious as well, I find the skyline to be very humbling and I am appreciative for what I have. It was just a mellow ride all around, thinking of family and where I am.
My family outside of my immediate family is not really close. It is kind of sad really that I don’t even know if all of my Father’s siblings have left us. My dad died in 1999 and I’m pretty sure that his brother and sisters have also passed away. My cousins on my dad’s side I literally could not tell you of, I know there are some but I would have only met them when I was very young. Cousins on my mom’s side is also the same, I had very little contact with them when I was young. Some of mom’s siblings are still alive. Two of her brothers died a long time ago and I was able to go to both funerals, and of course mom died a few months ago. She does still have three sisters and two brothers living though. The reason that I mention that is because I’m not close to them so when it comes to family it is pretty much my brother and myself and that is it. Some of my older readers will know that I also lost a brother in 2009.
If you have lost people in your life then I think that you understand where I am coming from, it makes you more appreciative for what you do have. There are a lot of good people in my life so I am really blessed by that, and I don’t really have any regrets, but I do wish that some friendships had stood the test of time. People drift apart though so that happens to everyone, I’m sure that I am not alone in that. Some of my strongest friendships have developed during my time of need, which of course are the times listed above with the family deaths. I’m generally a very strong character emotionally which is a trait that I am thankful for. There is this understanding in my mind that I can only control what I do and how I feel, I cannot control that in anyone else. It isn’t something that I try to do, if a person makes a decision then I’m okay with that, it’s their decision, not mine.
Now I have to take time out and tell you a story. As I have been writing this I have moved on from Hazel Dickens to Sarah McLachlan in my Amazon cloud player.
In 1997 I went on a camping trip with a close friend and two sisters who were friends of my friend. That year the sisters had lost their brother quite tragically. We were around the camp fire and there was a radio playing over by the tents. I was snuggled up with my lady friend and the sisters were opposite. The song “Angel” by Sarah McLachlan came on the radio and the sister closest laid back into her sister’s lap and started singing while her sister played with her hair. Man I remember it like it was yesterday. At that point I hadn’t lost any close family members, but even then I got their bond in a nanosecond, it was so beautiful to watch. A bit of a buzzkill I have to admit, but it is something that I will always have as a memory.
That’s kind of what death does to you really, you never forget who has your back during those times. That is why my brother and I are so close, we have been through quite a bit so far. I know that we are not alone in that, many of you have as well, that is why I think that you will understand what I have written. It also puts your own mortality on the table and totally reminds me of that line in ‘The Shawshank Redemption’, “Get busy living, or get busy dying”
I’ve certainly mellowed over the past year. A big part of that which I can’t deny was taking an extended break from the scene. It had got to the point where that strength of mine had become a weakness. That internal barometer that I have started to malfunction. It is my “Take no shit” barometer.
That will be the one area that I will try to improve upon this year, I’m going to force myself to be more social. I’m still going to take my “Me” time, but there has to be a balance. I also have to do some extra work in terms of playing. I think that if you recognize your weaknesses it helps you improve as a person. A definite weakness of mine is my far too laid back, almost antagonistic approach to playing. What is my problem you may ask? I’ve got to be honest, I just don’t give a fuck, lol.
Seriously though, I’ve never chased or played games or pined to play with anyone. There is this emotional barrier that I have that I have spoken of many times before, if someone is not interested in playing with me then my interest in playing with them also hits zero. The emotional attachment is the strongest link for me, it has to be there even in the smallest form of friendliness. Now I don’t mean that in a nasty way and I hope that it doesn’t come across that way, it’s just that I am so secure with what I have and what I have experienced so far.
There is no denying, I have received a hundred times more than I ever could have imagined in my WILDEST dreams, it has been a beautiful journey. I want for nothing in the scene. Actually I will rephrase that, I do want what I currently have because I love it.
Anyway, I threw some vanilla sprinkles in at the end there to go with the earlier spanking stuff. I’m not even going to proof read it because I was just rambling. Maybe I will post it, check all those emails people are sending me and then come back to it.
Work is kicking my butt again this week, but as I said last week I am going to find some time to update even if it is a quick one. So today I am jumping on with minutes before I head to work.
I’m afraid that I have to be quick so here is one of the first yearbook pictures that I found. It is from 1955 and while you can’t see much going on, I do like that you get a window into a past life. It does say that both girls are getting two licks, but unless that is a paddle that is perfectly sideways, it looks like their licks are coming courtesy of a hickory stick!!