Yesterday I tried my hardest to write my latest article but through one thing or another I just couldn’t get the time to do so. I live just around the corner to my landlord’s 89 year old father and they needed my help. Not to worry though, I am in a writing mood so I will try and get something up with my regular Sunday post. It is great to have this forum with 1000’s of visitors each week where I can share my personal journey with you. The pen is mightier than the sword, as you will all see one day, stay tuned, I’m ruthless 🙂
So while I will write in depth tomorrow, today I am going to catch up with my spam. If you ask how this is spam I am quite open about it, what I am about to post I make money off of, and in turn I use that money to pay for my sites each year, a bit of a win/win really.
First of all, here are the latest spanking films from ShadowLane. If you sign up to Hot Movies after clicking on one of the pics below, you get 20 minutes of viewing for free.
The principal teaches and shows this new teacher how effective corporal punishment can be when used on naughty,bratty schoolgirls. The girls are spanked over the knee of both of them as well as given the wooden ruler on their bare behinds. CLICK HERE
What a bad girl! Now Mommy is going to cancel her naughty little girl’s birthday party and give her a spanking she won’t forget. Mommy takes Alice over her knee for a hard hand spanking followed by the hairbrush CLICK HERE
To show her what’s in store for her,her Mom turns her over her knee and gives her a hand spanking then sends her to bed. When she comes in to check on her,Sarah sasses Mom and gets her mouth washed out with soap. Next morning she is hauled out of the bathtub and given another spanking on her wet behind. CLICK HERE
First of all I was happy to see that my last post received some great feedback between here, MY TWITTER FEED and a Facebook group that I am on. You have to remember that this spanking blog is about my journey, my personal take on spanking and the things that I like and enjoy. I’m never going to be the most popular spanking blog out there, my tastes are very personal for something like that to happen, but what I like to think is that for those of you who also enjoy what I like that this is then an outlet for you. There are a hundred different topics that I could write about and give you my personal take on them. There always seemed to be one thought on the spanking forums, and that was that men never say what it is that they like. I’m as far from that as anybody as I know exactly what I like and I have no problem whatsoever in expressing those thoughts.
Even though I played a lot at the last party, for the most part I am actually one of the guys who doesn’t play anywhere near as much as the others. Probably the biggest reason for that is my old mantra that I simply cannot help or avoid, it is ingrained in me. No matter what the status of the person in question, if they do not wish to play with me then I simply have no interest in playing with them either. To me it is like whatever your spanking preference happens to be, it is something that you can’t change, and I can’t change the way I am either. It is deeper than just spanking, it is an overall perception of how someone may interact with me. That isn’t a negative at all, because the play that I do have tends to be of the highest level, I’m very much a less is more man.
Part of my reasons for backing out of the scene for so long are pretty simple. The hatred and negativity out there is perhaps the biggest turn off. I don’t always say to myself that it is how people respond to me, I’m also aware of how people portray themselves and react to others. It wouldn’t feel the same if someone treated me like gold but treated everyone else with contempt. I love what I do, I love the people who are able to connect with me, and I have no issues at all in expressing just what exactly it is that would make me happy in a spanking scene.
Don’t get me wrong, spanking is like any partnership or friendship, there is give and take on both sides. I do tend to think though that when you express what it is that you like, it becomes so easy to find a like minded person who is also able to bring what they like to the table and you can compromise on something fantastic. There was a two year period where I was completely blessed in the spanking world, it had reached a pinnacle for me, so much so in fact that it almost ruined me because I had climbed to the spanking mountaintop!!
A lot of the drop from where I once was, was self inflicted. There are definitely areas where I have to work extra hard. One of them I mentioned in a spanking sense but it also applies in a real life sense. There are many friendships that I have lost that I perhaps could have worked on and maintained them, but just like what I said about spanking it also appears in real life, if somebody shows me that they don’t care much for me, I’m okay with it. Even if I am fond of them I have no desire to battle to be someone’s friend. There is no malice in me, in fact quite the opposite, if someone was a person who was good enough for me to be friends with, they will always be a friend of mine, even if they don’t view me the same. Should there be a day where I get married, they will know that I still view them as friends when they get the invite. Life is too short, if a person feels they are better off going in a different direction I wish nothing but the best for them, after all, why wouldn’t you want your friends to be happy?
A lot of this stems from losing family over the years, it really mellows you and allows you to focus on what is important. In 1999 I lost my father, now when I grew up there was a family of five of us, with very minimal interaction with extended family save for when I spent the summers in Brighton at my Aunt’s house. You expect your parents to die before you so while it is obviously a traumatic experience, it is something that is natural. In 2009 though, I lost my younger brother.
Losing him had a major affect on me, he died way too young at 41. It is still something so vivid, and while I couldn’t attend the funeral due to my lack of a passport, I did record a eulogy for him. The funny part is, even to this day I have never listened to it myself.
Talk about a range of emotions, four days after my brother died and once I knew that I couldn’t fly home, I also had a flight and hotel booked for the wedding of two friends. I remember being at work feeling obviously shitty and not knowing what the right thing was to do. It was a friend at work who set me right, and he also happened to be the same guy who suggested that I record a eulogy. His advice was simple “You can be miserable here, or you could be miserable at the wedding”. It was stunning advice when you think about it, in a nutshell he was basically saying that life goes on regardless. There was a guilty feeling inside of me that made me vomit, how could I enjoy myself when I should be mourning, indeed was mourning. It was the right decision though, despite how I personally felt internally, and how sad I was, two people who I cared about were getting married. There is still a tiny part of me that harbours a little guilt, that I was attending a wedding and not a funeral for my brother, but those circumstances were out of my control. Life was still going on and something wonderful was happening despite my sadness. No matter where I was, it was going to be tough.
So finally, as you all now know, my mother also passed away from cancer late last year. The emotions there were purely based upon not wanting someone to suffer. If you know me personally, you know my story, we didn’t have the closest mother/son relationship. Bottom line though it was still my mom. During the final days it was really hard, and I was given the final conversation with her before she slipped away. She actually held on for two days but never spoke or was conscious after my conversation with her. I have to say that my conversation with her was cathartic, right up until the end I was able to hold my head up high. Even though I could write a book on what I felt internally and some of the things I have wanted to say over the last 40 years, I never did. It was stiff upper lip time, I told her that I loved her and I let her go with the knowledge that the son she lost was there for her right up until the last breath and that she was loved. There is nothing about that I would ever want to change, I empowered myself to make the decision that I felt was the right one. Nothing could ever change what is in my mind, only me, to give someone the dignity of dying knowing that they were loved is about as much catharsis as one could bestow upon themselves. I’m proud of the way that I handled myself.
My goal wasn’t to go in this direction today, it just happened. There were five of us growing up and now only two of us remain, I’ll be fucked if I don’t spend the remaining time that I have left enjoying life and people the best that I can. When you lose family you understand what it is that is important. I harbour no grudges towards anyone, life is far too short and there is so much left to enjoy. I’ve lost a father, a mother and a brother, it does make you evaluate how you proceed in life. I’m much more mellow now, Que Sera, Sera.
Right, I suppose I had better give you a spanking pic, eh? This week I am going for the best actor and the best actress, I wonder what play they could be rehearsing for, lol. A definite touch of the Kiss Me Kate’s there. Oh, and it’s 1959, I really don’t think that Elsie has to do THAT much acting, I dare say the role came pretty easy to her.
This will be added to my SENIOR SUPERLATIVES folder. (Hint, click the link, they are some of the best vintage spanking pics around)
I’m pretty sure that there is a touch of prudishness in me when it comes to spanking pics. I tend to believe that it all goes back to the origins of how one first develops there interest in spanking, at least for me it does. The picture below captures in essence EVERYTHING I like to see in a spanking pic, hell, even a movie. The angle itself is my favorite angle to witness a spanking from, and you know what, after watching the trailer for this film I went and purchased a subscription to the website SOLELY on what I saw in one pic and a video trailer. Now I could have purchased the film for a few dollars less, but if I liked that film and was getting it anyway, why not get the whole site for basically the same price?
Here’s the thing, I like this angle for two reasons. First of all, the angle is delicious and reminds me of spankings I could have seen growing up. I simply love seeing the curves of the bottom from this angle, the pronounced division of the cheeks, and always with the one visible cheek showing the marks of a spanking. In this particular pic it doesn’t hurt that you are also able to see the spanking hand clearly in motion.
During the Boardwalk Badness party this weekend I got into quite a conversation about the topic of pictures that I like compared to vagina pics, and one person I was talking to really summed it up for me, there is still a mystery there, an allowance to let you use your imagination. Obviously that is a huge reason why I love vintage spanking pics, it is because they generally tend to be PG and allow you to envision what is actually happening and what may follow.
Before I continue I have to say that this is not a knock on anyone, or any producers or individual posters, this is solely my view. After all, we are all entitled to our own thoughts, right? This pic above excited me, but obviously for one pic I am not paying out money (other than the pics I buy for you guys). Being an experienced blogger though I knew where to look to see whether there were other like minded pics through the affiliate program. There wasn’t any more on the FHG for this set, but the video trailer sold me. After joining the site, for this set alone I was able to get more than a dozen pics of what I consider to be a list spanking photos, you know, that special folder of mine where MY favorite pics are stored.
I’m a rarity, a total rarity, I find vagina pics in spanking pics and videos to be a complete turn off. In my world and my world only, the more vagina that is advertised, the less likely that I am to join that site or buy those films. It is just a personal preference, I don’t like to see a vagina and anus in spanking pics, period. Obviously when watching a spanking film that isn’t being deliberately made to show as much vagina as is humanly possible, there will be times where you see more than is intended, and that doesn’t bother me, mainly because my focus isn’t there anyway. This also plays a huge part as to why I have no problem if a spanking is totally given on the panties because let’s be honest, most of the butt is bare anyway, lol.
I’m very particular about what I like in spanking and I would have to say, with deliberate irony, that the pic above is The Perfect TEN 🙂 For angles alone the video itself is something that I will watch many times, especially the hairbrush session which again captures a pleasant voyeuristic plethora of angles. I even have to say that butt cam spanking over the pajamas is really classy and for someone like me it is very hot to watch. I know that I’m not going to have a lot of support in what I like, but I can at least share a great movie for you that DOES encompass what I like if you view spanking the same way that I do. If you want to see the film that I am talking about which is on mommaspankings then click the link below to the Sarah Gregory Pass for both sites. There are a lot of pics that appease me on the sites so it was well worth the money. I do have to say though, pajamas, silky panties, an angle from the head of the spankee and a hairbrush, it honestly doesn’t get much better than that for me!!
I’m at a spanking party right now so this has to be really quick. We have all seen the public spanking pic of Brenda Joyce in Public Deb Number 1 which is the second pic here, but I also have an alternate take of that spanking in the first pic which I don’t believe has been posted anywhere before.
Also, I am doing my 7th annual spanking interview with Dana Specht but we don’t have much of a structure yet, so if you have any thoughts or ideas for our interview on Sunday you can check THIS POST out, or fill out one of the two surveys below, leave your thoughts and get access to 100 vintage F/M pics that have never been seen before. DANA SPECHT SPANKS or THE WOMAN NEXT DOOR.
I’m going to try super hard not to mention my busy schedule, after all, who wants to hear the same story over and over and over again? 🙂
Before I start this week, I do want to share something that tickled me pink this week. Being British, we have a very unique sense of self deprecating humor. As an example, for the uniformed top event at Boardwalk Badness next week I am going dressed as “The Fatman Of The Opera”. Anyway, last week I asked for opinions on my interview series and I got the feedback I expected. They weren’t for everyone but the majority liked them. But wait a minute, it didn’t stop there, oh hells no. Since the question was asked and everyone submitted, almost daily I now get a “No” vote, even though it was last week. Even better than that, in answer to the question “How can they improve”, a week after the poll finished, someone responded “By not doing them”. I don’t know why, but it made me laugh so much. I’m not sure if it is the pettiness that made me laugh, the keyboard warrior? Whatever it was, it totally made my day.
It reminded me of one of the funniest things I have seen written. On spanking tube one day I was having a disagreement with someone when all of a sudden an anonymous character appeared, and their line was a classic…
“Hey Windsor, I’ve seen your videos, they would make an insomniac a narcoleptic”
I have this sick sense of humor, you have no idea of the enjoyment I derive from such behaviour 🙂
Anyway, onto this weeks spanking classic!!
Unfortunately I don’t have a year, but I am going to take a pretty good stab at this being a traditional 1950’s spanking. Notice how the woman isn’t exactly protecting her bottom, rather she is exhibiting some rather normal behaviour. Namely that of preventing her skirt being raised in public.
And for those of you who like unedited versions of the pics, unless of course you are the ones editing them and then that apparently is okay 🙂 Here is the full version that you will need to click on to see.
So where have I been lately? As crazy as it sounds, we are in the middle of an office move and the hours I have been working is scandalous. I’ve been with this company for 14 years so you can only imagine the amount of equipment we have to move, but what makes it worse is that almost all of our staff are in the UK or in Boston. Bottom line, we aren’t exactly flush with hands on staff. Here is the funny part though, our actual moving day is Monday, the day after the Boardwalk Badness Weekend. Because we have to unplug the network I’m more than likely going to leave the party on Sunday night and sleep at the office that night.
In good news though, I just paid for my website for another year which I am very happy with, because once I get some time I am going to have lots to say. That’s the part that is really frustrating at the moment, there are so many things that I want to write about but I only get a couple of hours to myself each night at the moment. Today is no different, I have a couple of hours this morning and then I am meeting a friend from Florida in the city this afternoon.
Anyway, you aren’t here to listen to me whine, you are here for spanking pics, right? What I am going to do moving forward will be to add the really poor Men Are Like Streetcars spanking pics to the regular ones I post each week. I still have dozens of them to post, but amongst them are some pretty shoddy ones. So starting this week I will give you a good one along with a poor one.
The first pic is from 1953 and what I like about this one is that the girl has kicked so much she has lost her shoe. Let’s hope that the vigor of the spanking itself matched what appears to be a pretty good spanking in the pic. The second picture is from an angle that I personally love, unfortunately you can’t really see much. You can see a hand in motion and the girl pushing up, the rest is for your imagination I’m afraid.
The big 5-0 on the Sunday candids. Pretty crazy when you combine it with all the other features that I have, literally hundreds of rare spanking pics. Now before I start I wanted to provide you with an update of all of the responses to the audio interviews that I do. There are only 30 responses, not that high of a number when you figure a thousand people a day come to the site, lol. Anyway, here is the pie chart on the simple question as to whether or not the interviews are liked.
That is no surprise at all, in fact those were the type of numbers that I expected. Two thirds enjoy them so there will be more by the bucket load.
Now a handful of people took the time to offer their thoughts on the interviews themselves. These are all of the responses that I got.
How Can They Improve?
My preference is younger tops. And young bottoms.
Would be cool if they were on video
I love the flow of the last one just continue with the process you follow and maybe add some updated spanking scene they had. Really well done
Keep doing them
Fine the way they are.
Ask if they are available for private sessions. Ask what their favorite personal fantasy involving spanking is . Ask what famous person or persons they would like to spank.
If possible videotape it
More recollections of spankings from the past.
So a couple of people asked me to videotape them but I have to be honest, I prefer to do both. I have plenty of video interviews out there and I wanted to focus on something that people can play in the car or add to their phones to listen to. Obviously there is some praise and also some suggestions, such as younger scene people and of course the ever popular recollections. I will definitely take on board your suggestions and add them to my list.
The final question I asked was who you would like me to interview and here are all of the answers to that question.
Who Would You Like Me To Interview?
Ah the dear Amber Wells and focus on her amazing transition to a sexy stern lap. Would love it
Sara Gregory again include transformation to a switch. This is Ron writing I still would love Amber first. Thanks
Someone not well known in the scene, your average next door neighbor type.
Now there is one answer here that I really love, but we will get to that. Amelia I do not know but I will at least put a feeler out there, same goes for Alice Morningstar. Amber Wells is a definite no go at this stage. While I went to the theater with her a couple of weeks ago, at this stage of her life she is focusing on her professional career and is not involved in spanking presently. I’m sure in the future that will be a great interview. I believe that Clare Fonda is also out of the scene at present. I have to admit that I do not know who Miss Brown or Queen Bleu are, but I will look around to find them.
Now Pandora would be an excellent interview, there is so much that I could cover with her and in this day and age I can easily hook up a speaker phone on my PC and record our conversation. I even have a UK phone number through my work so it would be an easy hook up. Sarah Gregory I have interviewed already and as soon as I finish my interview page you will get to see it there. If you want to check it out though you can find it on Spankingtube. Here is MY VIDEO PAGE.
And finally, a big YES to the person who requested the people not well known in the scene, those are the people who I would really love to interview. In fact when I started this I had hoped to interviews some known industry people, but also the people who just have a story to tell. Because a persons voice will be public it isn’t going to be easy, but I will work twice as hard trying to get your everyday person involved, that would just be awesome.
Right, I suppose I had better give you the weekly candid pic, eh? This pic is from Lincoln Park in 1956 and features a superlative paddling.
Hey guys, I’m going to be unavailable for 24 hours, so I wanted to take this chance to ask you your thoughts on the current interview series. The latest one is with Ophelia De Havilland which you can listen to here, PART 1, PART 2, PART 3. Starting at the Boardwalk Badness party I expect to do a good number of new ones this year, and though it is early I do have a couple set up already.
Normally I don’t ask for feedback, but I do want to know whether or not I am wasting my time with the interviews. What I have done is create a very basic 3 question survey below, all questions are optional so if you just want to answer the first one that is fine as well. The survey is completely anonymous. Now with that said, I’ve been blogging for over 9 years now, so I am fully aware that there are some people who sit behind the safety of their computer screen and talk shit about everyone every day. I’ve got thick skin though so fill your boots. I would love to hear your thoughts, both good and bad.
We start with a simple question, and then if you so wish you can give me your thoughts on what you want to hear. Any particular questions that you always want to know from people no matter who it is. It is open so if you suggest a person for me to interview then I will assume that the questions are for them. Or just any ideas that you think could improve the interviews, I am more than open to your suggestions. I will post some spanking pics on my spanking PICTURE SITE today so that if this doesn’t interest you then you will at least have some spanking pics to look at.
So before we have our Wednesday classic, and this one really is a classic spanking pic from the 1950’s, I want to update you on my annual March Madness pool. If you have followed along you would have seen that I was doing pretty well, until bloody Virginia lost last week. Had they won I would currently be top of the table with a 90+ % chance of winning it all. It isn’t all doom and gloom though. If you know how to read the chart below you will see that I am in a commanding position to finish second, though I can no longer win it all. Basically, without going through every permutation, if North Carolina beat Syracuse this week I finish second, period. In fact the only way that I don’t finish in the top three is if Villanova meet Syracuse in the final. There is a 62.5% chance that I finish second and a 12.5% chance that I finish third. Don’t get me wrong, there is a very nice chunk of change for finishing second, but that first place would have been oh so sweet. If I do get second though it will cover all of my expenses for the upcoming BBW party.
Now on to the weekly spanking classic, and this week we go all the way back to 1952. This pic was originally sent to me by Will@gotham56 which allowed me to do my research and find my own copy. The original pic did come from Will though so he gets credit for it.
This will be added to my SENIOR SUPERLATIVES folder and as you can see from the picture below, if he is spanking her then that big old palm of his is likely to be doing quite the number on that little butt of hers.
Before we get into the interview, I just want to point out that it is March Madness right now and I have my usual pool going. Every year I take part in a league with around 200 teams and in the last 3 years I have finished 3rd, 4th and 5th. Three years ago there were 8 permutations left and I owned 5 of them, and I choked at the final hurdle. With seven games remaining, this year I am currently sitting in 4th place but I am sitting on Virginia which is huge being that I could get 20 points from them advancing one more round. In fact you will see, just like last year, I still have my final four intact. I will say this though, if Kansas were to lose I wouldn’t lose any sleep over it as I have North Carolina versus Oklahoma in the final. The guy currently sitting second has the same final so the only way I can win is if Virginia win their next game. Of course by the time you read this my party might be over 🙂
But you are not here for basketball, are you? No, you are here for spanking, spanking and even more spanking.
As you no doubt know by now, I recently sat down with Ophelia De Havilland for a very long interview. First of all I want to thank you all so far for the feedback that we have received here and on Twitter, being that we put a lot of effort into bringing this to you I do appreciate the acknowledgement.
In episode three we talk about uniforms, getting the slipper, and we end up laughing our socks off at old British sayings. This is a fun interview and as we are 30 minutes in you can see that we are beginning to relax and enjoy ourselves.