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It’s Saturday

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A nice long weekend in store so what better time to dig into my vast picture archive and start sharing some of those rare spanking pics that I have. If you look closely you will see above that I have added a new page entitled  “Windsor’s Bible“. Now a lot of you may know that I am an Atheist,  so I do want to point out that this is not a page to mock anyone. I was going to call it a Spanking Bible,  but I have to restrict the lettering to save space. In a nutshell,  much like the religious bible,  there are many books that are not included in it. Over time my goal will be to add to the page and present something a little different. My view being that how can you tell the full narrative when there is important information missing. Fear not,  I will make sure that all of the missing information is included. That will be a project that will be added to over time. I have a feeling that you will like what I have in mind.

Picture Break:

If you go to Ebay,  put spanking as the search term and then sort by  “Newest added”,  you can find all sorts that are spanking related. Here are a couple to get you started,  A naughty kitty paddle and what better place to apply it than a pair of punishment panties!!

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Going back to what I started with,  if anyone takes offense to the title of my new page then please let me know. This is a spanking blog and it is supposed to be a positive place. My goal being that the people who come here get to leave feeling a little happier than when they arrived. I’m nine years into bringing enjoyment to you all and the last thing that I want to do is offend anyone,  I’ve already lost my fair share of friendships because of my belief.

Whenever I start typing I never really have a set goal in mind,  I just go with the flow and see what comes out. I guess another piece of personal info that I can share is that I ardently follow politics. When I was a young man in England I used to canvas for the Labour party and the group that I belonged to was the  “Young Socialists“. Now as I grew older  (plus I had moved stateside)  my views obviously softened,  however,  I can’t help but feel a little nostalgic about Bernie Sanders. Unfortunately I am only a resident of the USA so I can’t vote yet,  but I can donate my money and say that I did my part. The chances of him winning are slim to none really. He whitewashed Hillary Clinton in New Hampshire by 60% to 38%,  however,  due to the establishment bollocks,  she walks away with as many delegates as Bernie does. We are called the Democratic party,  yet the will of the people is cancelled out by unelected officials whose one vote is equal to that of thousands of people.

Anyone know of any clowns that need a spanking?

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In a couple of weeks I am going to be going to Vegas for a little spanking party. It has been a couple of years since I last actively took part in spanking parties,  though the last two of 2015 I did at least start to play again. I’m really excited about this one though,  and even though I don’t even go to the spanking playground of Fetlife anymore,  I already have five play dates and I have hardly done anything yet. One of the things that I am really looking forward to is recording some spanking interviews for you again,  I know that they are liked because people still ask me for them even today. As it is a restart of a series I am going to come up with a snazzy title for the interviews,  in this instance re-branding is a absolute necessity.

From what I have seen on Twitter,  this is what Cousin Joe currently looks like.

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Anyway,  I’m out of things to say right now,  I want to start with a draft for the Bible so that I can be ready to post it at a moments notice. Here are a few more spanking pics for you.

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Vanilla Sprinkles

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Finally,  I have some time on my hands were I can sit down and write for a change. So I have my Hazel Dickens collection playing in the background,  lights turned down low and a clear mind to share some thoughts. It’s funny actually,  on my Facebook page a friend had posted this awesome picture of a child looking scornful with the caption  “The face of haters when they see something you wrote in their feed”. Hopefully that doesn’t happen here,  but I know that I am taking a chance being that most people come here for the pictures that I share.

The first thing that you might observe is that there are pages missing from the menu bar above. They are not actually missing,  what I have done is I have merged some of them to already existing drop down menus to create some menu space. I’m okay with two menu bar lines but I don’t want to go any further than that. What exactly I am going to replace them with I am not actually sure just yet. There are some thoughts that I have for special pages,  one of which you will read about in the paragraph below.

In a few weeks time I am going to go to a spanking party and a thought crossed my mind. One thing that has constantly come up is the popularity of my old spanking zone podcasts,  where I sit down and interview people in the spanking community. As there will be a number of known spankos at the party I might actually purchase a digital voice recorder and see if I can’t get a few 15 minute interviews. If you click the link above you will find a number of my old podcasts,  though most of them are my past Christmas radio programs that I did. There will also be some dead links which I have never gotten around to cleaning up. If I get some time on Sunday I am going to extract the audio from one of the interviews I conducted with Dana Specht. These are all done exclusively for her website,  but as some of them are up to 7 years old I doubt if she will mind if I share the audio from some of the older ones.

Now when I started writing I had no idea which direction I was going to go in,  I was thinking more vanilla but you know darn well that I can’t go long without spanking coming into it. Either way the post title will be a good place holder. It is actually my favorite way of writing,  just sitting down without a plan and seeing where it takes me.

One thing that I was thinking about on the way home tonight was my favorite spanking pictures. Now this type of thing could have me writing for hours as there are so many that I like. In fact this might take up one of the menu places above where I will write posts describing why I like certain pictures and perhaps including half a dozen pics at a time. I like to think that I am a connoisseur of spanking pictures and I could easily see myself writing a few paragraphs on around a hundred different pics or so.

With that thought in mind I am sure that everyone has a favorite picture,  or at the very least a favorite type of setting/ambiance/clothing/scenario etc that makes certain pictures more special to them. Now I’m never asked this,  but when I pose the question to myself,  the one picture that I think is the best discovery that I have made,  it probably surprises people. The one picture that I found that fits this bill is the college art project that recreates one of the most famous spanking pictures that exists,  which is the one for the Chase and Sanborn Coffee Ad. The picture is from 1954 and while it isn’t the best picture ever made,  the scene itself has been recreated untold times in pictures. So to find the copy that I did on Ebay was such a rarity that I was almost sick when I forgot to bid on it. Below you will see the original and the second pic is the college recreation from 1954.

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From a position of personal taste I will rarely,  in fact if I ever have,  post a picture that shows genitalia. That isn’t a knock on anyone as most websites and blogs features this,  it is just something that is not appealing to me. My focus tends to lean towards pictures that might be found in mainstream magazines etc,  or pictures that leave you with an impression that you can create your own story to. I’m a very visual creature and I almost think I am weird in what it is exactly that pushes my buttons when it comes to spanking pictures. There is not one thing in particular,  in can be a variety of different things. Here are two examples of what I am talking about.

This picture here is on my phone,  and it is my happy picture,  it never ceases to put a smile on my face. Should I ever get stressed then I just open the phone and look at the picture. Now why do I like it so much? It is very simple,  a thought once come to my mind at what I was seeing and it has stuck with me ever since. The person doing the spanking I believe is Aunt Vicki from Texas and it is the slight smile on her face that does it for me. It is a smile that says to me  “Oh,  so you think you are too old for a spanking do you”?  It is a thought that has stuck with me and I just love the picture.

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Another picture that I love that I have never posted before is from Shadowlane. The picture features Virginia Lewis receiving what clearly looks like a rather painful lesson. It is one of those  “A picture is worth a thousand words”  type of pictures where I would love to hear a story about it. More than anything,  I would love to hear VIRGINIA’S version of events that led to this conclusion. It is a very hot pic,  as are the few others from this small set.

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Part of the reason that I thought this morning that this would be a vanilla post tonight was during the journey into work today. Normally I have my coffee and I read the paper,  but today I pretty much spent the entire journey looking at the Manhattan skyline. I’m fortunate that I take an elevated train to work so every day I get to see New York and it reminds me how great my life is. I’m serious as well,  I find the skyline to be very humbling and I am appreciative for what I have. It was just a mellow ride all around,  thinking of family and where I am.

My family outside of my immediate family is not really close. It is kind of sad really that I don’t even know if all of my Father’s siblings have left us. My dad died in 1999 and I’m pretty sure that his brother and sisters have also passed away. My cousins on my dad’s side I literally could not tell you of,  I know there are some but I would have only met them when I was very young. Cousins on my mom’s side is also the same,  I had very little contact with them when I was young. Some of mom’s siblings are still alive. Two of her brothers died a long time ago and I was able to go to both funerals,  and of course mom died a few months ago. She does still have three sisters and two brothers living though. The reason that I mention that is because I’m not close to them so when it comes to family it is pretty much my brother and myself and that is it. Some of my older readers will know that I also lost a brother in 2009.

If you have lost people in your life then I think that you understand where I am coming from,  it makes you more appreciative for what you do have. There are a lot of good people in my life so I am really blessed by that,  and I don’t really have any regrets,  but I do wish that some friendships had stood the test of time. People drift apart though so that happens to everyone,  I’m sure that I am not alone in that. Some of my strongest friendships have developed during my time of need,  which of course are the times listed above with the family deaths. I’m generally a very strong character emotionally which is a trait that I am thankful for. There is this understanding in my mind that I can only control what I do and how I feel,  I cannot control that in anyone else. It isn’t something that I try to do,  if a person makes a decision then I’m okay with that,  it’s their decision,  not mine.

Now I have to take time out and tell you a story. As I have been writing this I have moved on from Hazel Dickens to Sarah McLachlan in my Amazon cloud player.

In 1997 I went on a camping trip with a close friend and two sisters who were friends of my friend. That year the sisters had lost their brother quite tragically. We were around the camp fire and there was a radio playing over by the tents. I was snuggled up with my lady friend and the sisters were opposite. The song  “Angel”  by Sarah McLachlan came on the radio and the sister closest laid back into her sister’s lap and started singing while her sister played with her hair. Man I remember it like it was yesterday. At that point I hadn’t lost any close family members,  but even then I got their bond in a nanosecond,  it was so beautiful to watch. A bit of a buzzkill I have to admit,  but it is something that I will always have as a memory.

That’s kind of what death does to you really,  you never forget who has your back during those times. That is why my brother and I are so close,  we have been through quite a bit so far. I know that we are not alone in that,  many of you have as well,  that is why I think that you will understand what I have written. It also puts your own mortality on the table and totally reminds me of that line in  ‘The Shawshank Redemption’,  “Get busy living,  or get busy dying” 🙂

I’ve certainly mellowed over the past year. A big part of that which I can’t deny was taking an extended break from the scene. It had got to the point where that strength of mine had become a weakness. That internal barometer that I have started to malfunction. It is my  “Take no shit”  barometer.

That will be the one area that I will try to improve upon this year,  I’m going to force myself to be more social. I’m still going to take my  “Me”  time,  but there has to be a balance. I also have to do some extra work in terms of playing. I think that if you recognize your weaknesses it helps you improve as a person. A definite weakness of mine is my far too laid back,  almost antagonistic approach to playing. What is my problem you may ask? I’ve got to be honest,  I just don’t give a fuck,  lol.

Seriously though,  I’ve never chased or played games or pined to play with anyone. There is this emotional barrier that I have that I have spoken of many times before,  if someone is not interested in playing with me then my interest in playing with them also hits zero. The emotional attachment is the strongest link for me,  it has to be there even in the smallest form of friendliness. Now I don’t mean that in a nasty way and I hope that it doesn’t come across that way,  it’s just that I am so secure with what I have and what I have experienced so far.

There is no denying,  I have received a hundred times more than I ever could have imagined in my WILDEST dreams,  it has been a beautiful journey. I want for nothing in the scene. Actually I will rephrase that,  I do want what I currently have because I love it.

Anyway,  I threw some vanilla sprinkles in at the end there to go with the earlier spanking stuff. I’m not even going to proof read it because I was just rambling. Maybe I will post it,  check all those emails people are sending me and then come back to it.

Ciao for now.

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As you will probably see,  things have been a little busy the last week or so. It is something that will happen every now and then as I have to work out of town quite often.

I took an awful long time off after becoming really burned out by the scene. Spanking is my happy place and a lot of the fun went out of it,  but after enforcing a break I feel so much better. In fact so much so that I am almost ready to commit to going to 50 freaks in February,  assuming I didn’t lose my invite after missing the last one.

Last night I didn’t go overboard with playing,  it was just so nice to get to hang out with good people again. It is always special when you go to a place and people are happy to see you,  exuding warmth and friendliness. On Friday I had mentioned to Funnybratgirl that I would like to play with her the following evening and at one point someone said that when I had a chance,  FBG would like to play. So I took my sweet assed time until a second person elaborated on the first person’s statement. What they should have said is that she was waiting for me.

Now in the last 18 months I have played just twice,  and both of those times were with Pixie. So to say I am a little out of practice is an understatement. I gave it the good old college try,  but I don’t think it will go down as an example given in training videos. However,  I was back playing,  that is the important thing,  and FBG has always been a very kind individual to me. The hospitality that her and Kor-E display to the spanking community is second to none,  and I wanted to mention that here to thank them for their warmth and friendship.

One unexpected surprise last might was that on two occasions I was approached on the same subject. Once from someone I know,  and another time from someone who recognized me not from my image,  but from my voice. Obviously I know that I have a unique vocal tone,  hell,  I milk it for all it is worth. Anyway,  both individuals approached me about the audio interviews that I used to do and their liking of them.

The group of people over the years who have mentioned them are somewhat small,  but,  they are very passionate about audio interviews. So that is something that I think that I will pick up again. In fact I have done 7 video interviews with Dana Specht so for the interim I can transfer those into audio recordings. These interviews were done exclusively for Dana’s website so unless you were a member,  they are pretty much going to be new to my audience.

Anyway,  the night went on and I had another spanking to give. There was a special friend of mine who I haven’t played with for 18 months and someone who has featured on this website frequently,  and we had some catching up to do. The person of course was the delightful ellee Evergood. One of the few girls not afraid to wear red panties to a spanking party.

ellee has always been one of the true joys in the spanking world,  such a lively young lady who I have often said has an infectious attitude towards our lifestyle that she makes everyone around her happy. It is really a gift and her company is something that I very much missed during my hiatus. We didn’t do anything over the top,  it was just a simple hand spanking,  just the way I like it. A few giggles,  a few over the top vocal inflections from me,  and ten minutes of getting reacquainted with an old friend.

Other than that I didn’t play in the traditional sense. There were a few girls who got a couple of swats here and there,  but it was nice to be back among the warmth of good people.

Okay,  so onto the spanking pic for this week,  or in this case shall we say a pic and a half a pic?

This week I am going back to the play,  Act Your Age. The play features a 20 something young woman dressing much younger to foil a plan and ends up getting a spanking for it. The pic this week is from 1945 and I have also included a newspaper cutting from 1949 in which you can just about see a spanking happening.

This will be added to my ACT YOUR AGE SPANKING FOLDER.

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The Top Ten Of 2013

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First of all I would like to wish you all a happy New Year,  no matter where you are in the world I hope that the upcoming year is a fruitful and joyous one for you. I’m not one for resolutions,  I just hope to better myself as a person in the next year. 2013 saw a lot of changes,  I attended more parties than I have ever done before in a calender year and I found happiness. The happiness came at a cost,  but I don’t regret any of it.

I’m a bit of a strange cat in this department,  but there are things that hold great importance to me. This year I was able to see them both positively and negatively,  and that is why I am content with myself and I’m at peace as well.

Now before I get on to my top ten posts of 2013 I want to point something out to you. On this blog practically everything that I post is original material. When I say original what I mean is that almost everything that I post is unique to the spanking world save for a very few select collectors. That is my mission,  if a spanking site has posted something before me then I don’t consider it to be unique. My goal is to bring new items to you with every post.

As you all know by now,  my collection of material is vast and I have enough unique material to post for at least another couple of years,  and of course I discover new material all the time. Over time you will find the material that I bring to the community posted on various other spanking sites,  forums and picture sharing groups,  but the chances are you will never be told where it comes from. If you wish to never miss any of the unique finds that I share then the answer is simple,  just sign up below to receive my postings in your email box every time that I post something new. Over a hundred people already do this. Now you don’t have to worry that you are signing up to a mailing list,  you are not. The ONLY email that you will get is when I make a post to this site,  and instead of missing the post and perhaps finding one of my pictures 6 months from now on another site,  you will get it delivered to your email the same day that I post. The email group has never been used for anything other than receiving my posts in your email. Poke around my site to see the type of material that I post and decide for yourself,  you will see that you probably don’t want to miss any of my updates. The 2013 top ten is below the email sign up.

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And now,  here are the top ten posts on this website for 2013 based solely on the number of hits each post received. You can click either the title or the ‘read more’ link to read each post in full. As you will see,  many of the posts will have more than one picture in them.

1 –  THE SATURDAY SPANKING SHOW

This was part 4 of my continuing story from my trip to Las Vegas in February of last year. In fact you will see that this particular weekend accounts for three entries into the 2013 top ten,  that’s not only a testament to how good the weekend was,  but also how popular the stories were from that weekend.

In this particular episode I tell the tale of caning ellee,  spanking and caning Missy,  spanking LostKitten and Sara Fields,  caning Missy again and finishing off by caning ellee once more. There are a total of seven pics attached to the story featuring ellee,  LostKitten and Sara Fields.

This post was the number 1 post by a long shot with seven thousand views alone. By comparison,  the second highest view count for a post was 5,500 views. Obviously more than seven thousand people saw it as most people read it through the homepage,  but seven thousand people clicked on the story itself. If you want to read the full story and see all of the pics of the girls getting spanked then just follow this link. READ MORE…..

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2 –  FREE VIDEO GIVEAWAY

It is kind of ironic really that this post was the number two read post of the year,  and I’m thinking it is because it showed up on Blogger sites in the sidebar as a free video. The reason that it is ironic was because despite the large number of readers,  only a few dozen people requested to get a free digital download of the movie. As the post made not only the top ten,  but was actually the number two post of the year,  I will make the video available once again for another week or so if anyone wants it. Just read the post to see how you can get it. READ MORE…..

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3 –  MISS TEXAS GETS THE BELT

Being a bit of a wrestling fan I stumbled across this clip while watching clips of some old USWA Texas wrestling shows. In this clip you get to see Miss Texas bent over a table and Laura Davenport gives her 15 licks with the belt over her tights and panties. READ MORE…..

4 –  WINDSOR WEDNESDAY CLASSIC 44

This is the start of four in a row from the Wednesday classic series. It is probably the most popular feature on this website and every Wednesday my hits spike from people coming to see the Wednesday Classic for each week. It is hard to measure fully because my Sunday Men Are Like Streetcars pic of the week could be just as popular,  but for whatever reason nobody ever links into the Sunday posts,  therefore it doesn’t build as much of a casual audience for people to come back to each week. I’m sure it would be as popular but that’s what it is. maybe in the future it will catch up. Anyway,  this was the 44th entry into the Wednesday Classics series and is from a Taming Of The Shrew rehearsal,  at least I think that they were rehearsing 😉

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 5 –  WINDSOR WEDNESDAY CLASSIC 45

Part of the appeal of my Wednesday classics series are the VARIOUS SCHOOL PLAYS that I have collected over the years that have a spanking in them. So far I only have 8 different plays listed in this folder,  but I have dozens more to share for this feature in the upcoming year. Of course I also use the Wednesday post for the plays that have many spanking pics from them such as “Act Your Age” and “Mind Of Her Own“. In this particular Wednesday classic it featured a pic from the 1945 play “All American Family” as contributed to this site by Will@Gotham56 and a pic from the 1959 production of “Spring Journey”. READ MORE…..

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6 –  WINDSOR WEDNESDAY CLASSIC 21

Part of the fun of posting the Wednesday Classics,  and perhaps the reason why the post is so popular each week,  is that the spankings aren’t just devoted to School Plays. I have a vast collection of all sorts of spanking pics from different scenarios. In this particular one we have a girl being paddled for fun at a kangaroo court. These pics were moved to the new folder “WINDSOR’S SUNDAY CANDIDS” and the folder iks well worth checking out. READ MORE…..

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A complete run of four straight Wednesday classics in the top ten,  and this one is a beauty. From the “VARIOUS SCHOOL PLAYS” folder,  we have a very sultry looking young lady being spanked in “How To Handle A Woman”. READ MORE…..

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8 –  FRIDAY NIGHT LIGHTS

We head back to Las Vegas for the 50 freaks party for the 8th most popular post of 2013. This was a day after I arrived and it is where the spanking started in earnest. There is a full recounting of my exploits that night and all of the girls who I spanked,  plus six pictures of me spanking 3 adorable girls,  Alex Reynolds,  Erica Scott and Ten. READ MORE…..

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9 –  WINDSOR WEDNESDAY CLASSIC 30

And once more we go back to the Wednesday Classic series for yet another pic from the “VARIOUS SCHOOL PLAYS” folder. This time it is a spanking pic from the play “Susie And The F.B.I”. This pic actually started the various school plays folder and continues to hold the position as the first pic in that folder. There is another pic from this play in the folder linked above so check it out. READ MORE…..

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10 –  QUALITY TIME WITH ALEX AND ELLEE

Rounding out the top ten posts of 2013 we go back to the Vegas party for the third time,  what an amazing party this was. This time you can get to read part 2 of the party experience where for the very first time I spanked ellee for real. Her comments to me kept building and despite numerous warnings,  she continued to express her opinion. So in this post you can get to witness me expressing my opinion on her bottom. There was no play to this spanking,  and that was a first for ellee and I,  in this spanking I turned her over my knee and gave her a sound spanking with my hand until I was satisfied. Once this was done it was Alex’ turn for a spanking,  and while she hadn’t actually done anything to earn it,  a spanking she did indeed get. If you want to see all seven pics featured in this story just click the links to do so,  it includes one of my absolute favorites of ellee where,  upon seeing the displeasure in my face,  she dove under the table to hide with her butt sticking up in the air. I guess if she couldn’t see us she probably thought that we couldn’t see her. It is one of my favorite pics 🙂 READ MORE…..

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So there you have it,  the top ten posts made on this site in 2013 based on the number of hits each post had. Remember,  if you don’t want to miss anything that I post,  and I post nearly all unique material to the spanking world,  simply enter your email address above. Have a great 2014 everyone and I look forward to another amazing year.

Richard Windsor

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7th Year Anniversary

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It hardly seems that it has been 7 years but it is true,  December the 24th,  2006 I started this blog. Over that time I have amassed a treasure trove of spanking pics as well as having 100’s of personal spanking pics taken. On Christmas Day I am planning to make a bumper post of spanking pics with some of the rarest pics you will find. As usual,  most of these will be have been unseen by all but a very small number of people. So I will keep this short today,  but I want to thank you all for your wonderful support over the years and the great comments you have made. From this blog alone I have made so many friends that it is worth it just for that alone. So here is a little gift for you,  a picture that I took with the adorable ellee Evergood back in February and I promise,  one day I will get around to writing the story about this awesome spanking scene that we did. I hope that you all have a wonderful Christmas and try and come back tomorrow for a very special post. By the way,  if you want a free spanking video tomorrow then see the post below this one,  so far only 3 people want it 🙂

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Ellee – Getting Her Panties Warmed

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Recently I attended a private party with a bunch of friends where there were spankings galore. With all the activity going on we almost forgot to take pics,  so I asked ellee if she would like a spanking and asked her husband,  YoggSothoth,  if he would mind taking some pics. Earlier this week I posted THIS PIC of ellee being led off for her spanking,  and later in the week I will show you the hairbrush being applied to her cute bottom.

In just 12 days I am going to be in Vegas for the Shadowlane party and when I posted this pic to Fetlife last night I vaguely suggested to ellee that as this picture was worth a thousand words,  perhaps I should give her 1,000 spanks. ellee of course sassed “Oh no,  not a thousand spanks”……. Well,  now I am determined. It will just be a hand spanking,  but I fully intend on making ellee the inaugural member of the 1,000 spank club.  That will be in one sitting,  ten swats to one cheek,  then ten to the next until we reach one thousand.

Anyway,  I love this picture so much. It is taken from my favorite angle for a spanking pic and her husband captured it perfectly. I love the room,  the chair,  the hand in motion,  ellee’s white nylon panties that I bought for her and of course ellee herself. At some point we are going to post a video to Fetlife,  once we go through the frames to ensure that her face doesn’t show. The video features ellee,  Alex Reynolds and myself,  both an OTK hand spanking and 12 each with the cane,  though Alex got 14 🙂

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Someone’s Getting A Spanking

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Poor little elleebutt,  she always seems to find herself getting a spanking. Of course the fact that she loves to get spanked probably has something to do with it. There will be future pictures from this set down the road,  as well as the schoolgirl scene that I did with ellee back in February. In this pic I am leading ellee away for a nice firm spanking with the hairbrush,  her own hairbrush as it so happens. In three weeks time I hope that ellee and I get to play in Vegas,  especially as I am ordering her a little something this week that I know she will love 🙂

Click this link for ELLEE’S SPANKING PAGE on this website. Lots of pics of this adorable girl.

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Thigh Turkey’s

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Here are the virgin set of thigh turkey’s that I gave last weekend to the amazingly wonderful bundle of fun known as ellee. Her husband told me how to apply them but my first effort on the left leg was more palm than hand. So he gave me another pointer and as you can see on the right leg I got it down well this time. If you are curious,  the whiter the skin in the middle then the harder the smack was. The squeal of pain that ellee gave was pure music to my ears.

Seriously,  that girl reinvigorated my spanking lifestyle and I am now meaner than I have ever been to all the girls,  and they seem to love it 🙂 I’m so very lucky to be able to play from time to time with ellee,  and I hope that I can for years to come,  she is a diamond of a person as anyone who has met her will know.

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Evolving To 50

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You would think that as I approach 50 years old that I would have it all figured out by now,  but I don’t,  not by a long shot. It is something that I am getting closer to though,  partially getting back to the way that I used to be and partially evolving into who I want to be …  (continued below)

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Yet another party has come and gone and once more the smile remains on my face a week later. It is hard to explain to anyone,  in fact I don’t even know if I can. Many years ago I was living in the projects and someone knocked on my door. Trying to work out who it was I discovered it was my next door neighbor who had locked herself out and she was trying to use my balcony to get into her own apartment. What I remember most of all though was when another person who was in the hallway replied to the question   “Who lives there”? The response was  “A jolly white guy”

That’s who I am now,  that old jolly white guy.

I really believe that when my younger brother died it changed me for the worse. There was a bit of anger in me and quite a bit of anti-social behavior. I’ve never really been one to take anyone’s shit,  but over the last few years I started to challenge people,  even so far as doing so in public. Sometimes I felt I was on a suicide mission,  lol. But I changed my life,  I quit going out drinking,  went on a lifestyle changing diet,  lost a ton of weight and started to get my confidence back.

Spanking is my outlet from the day to day rigors of life. It excites me,  it pleasures me and it provides stimulation to my mind on a day to day basis. For some reason I lost the fun for such a long time. I’m not going to lie,  partially it was the negativity that I perceived was happening more than I cared for. Here is the thing though,  the negativity was always there,  what had changed was my reception to it and how I handled it.

Case in point,  it is the nature of the beast that you are going to be insulted from time to time,  whether maliciously or otherwise. At the party last year I was insulted and my reaction to it was pretty strong,  it pissed me off to no end and made me really mad. This year was no different,  on one occasion I was insulted,  but here is the thing,  my reaction to it this year was completely different. This year I was disappointed and I thought of the good things about the party. I wasn’t at the party to encroach on anyone’s territory,  I had all the fun that I needed and a line of people to share that fun with. Instead of stewing about it,  I just distanced myself from the situation and avoided it the best I could. The line was drawn in the sand and I had no intention of crossing it,  my side of the sand was beautiful.

The bottom line is that you are in control of how you respond to everything and how you present yourself to others. The biggest change for me from last year is that I’m not going to allow myself to be emasculated online anymore. I’m still the same fun guy who likes to play,  I will still make the crazy videos where I set myself up as the bad guy and I will still be the butt of a joke just as long as I am a part of the joke. No longer will I play the role of human piñata anymore.

I still need to work on my feelings to online postings and I have to focus on the fun aspect of it. It should be pretty easy,  there are a ton of fun people to engage with,  though I tend to get pulled into the negativity that is posted. That is going to be my biggest challenge. Despite having one of the best times ever last week I got drawn into it once more,  I wanted to read about everyone’s happiness and joy,  the last thing that I wanted was to hear about the sucky side of attending parties. As I said above though,  it was really down to me to focus on all of the positives and ignore the negative side of things. Case in point,  the Brit meet was a roaring success with a room chock full of people,  yet it didn’t stop someone badmouthing the event no sooner than stepping five feet in the room. I handled that one well though,  I just shook my head and felt sorry for the person. It wasn’t the event that pissed them off,  it was the fact that I had arranged something so successful. There is a reason that I have stopped posting threads on the spanking world,  my life has changed quite a bit and if I don’t mind saying so,  it has changed for the better.

There is a fear about writing about spanking parties in that one is going to summarize the event and it will be inevitable that someone will be offended at having been left out. That is something that I can’t help though,  I can only write about the things that stood out for me as really special memories. At the party I must have played with about 40 girls,  so if your name isn’t mentioned then please don’t take it personally,  for one I’m a guy and I just won’t remember every play session that I had.

Let me start with elleebutt.

Before the party I had exchanged text’s and messages with ellee,  knowing that being at a party of this magnitude and being one of the people who greeted pretty much everyone,  we were going to be lucky to get any time together,  certainly as it relates to previous events anyway.

We had one big event that we had planned and it was something to look forward to with Alex Reynolds,  though of course I was hoping for more being the greedy sod that I am. On Thursday I was very fortunate that I asked her to play and she gladly agreed. You know what,  I have never spanked a girl wearing yoga pants before,  and elleebutt in yoga pants just made me shake my head with how lucky I was.

Of course I knew that under the pants there would be a thong and I took some delight in hearing her explanation (which I knew already) about not wearing panties under yoga pants because of panty lines. Psst,  ellee,  it’s a spanking party,  panty lines under yoga pants are TOTALLY acceptable at a spanking party.

The schoolgirl scene that I did with ellee and Alex will be in part two of this tale,  but I want to point out something that really meant something special to me.

On Saturday night I was running around like a chicken with its head cut off,  bouncing from one area to the next and feeling pretty tired. Heading towards my room for a bit I bumped into ellee who was milling around the area where my room was. Of course I grabbed her for a hug and asked her what she was up to. Her response blew me away and was the nicest thing that I heard all weekend. Now I know a lot of people said a lot of nice things,  but this one meant something very personal to me.

ellee responded to my question by saying  “I’m waiting for you to give me a spanking”

I’m not over exaggerating here,  those words made me feel like a king. Neither one of us were going to go short in the play department this weekend and her and I have played a lot of the last six months,  so even if we didn’t play a whole lot then I just knew that on other occasions this year we will. I’m telling you though,  that act made me feel so special as a person. Somebody who means so much to me was prepared to wait for me and perhaps even turn down play by doing so,  just so that she could give me an audience,  man I felt so good about myself. ellee was already on a high platform in my eyes for what she has done for my emotional state this year,  that simple act has elevated her even higher in my eyes,  she is a very,  very special person.

I’m going to finish off segment one with my roommate,  Missy Doright. Both Missy and ellee will feature in the second part but I want to also give Missy her own space.

A year ago we had shared a room once more as we had done at previous parties. Due to my demeanor at that party,  it wasn’t an event for the history books and we hardly played that weekend. Once the party was done we even lost touch for quite a while afterwards.

In Vegas this year and even before,  the two of us had reconnected just like we had when we first met. In fact in Vegas there was a happy spark,  the playful banter and some great play sessions.

My approach this year was entirely different, no longer was I the lord protector. This year I took my own times with Missy as special events,  but aside from that she was on her own. I desperately wanted her to go out and get her butt beat,  or beat some butts,  get her punishments due and cry some tears.

This is about me now and how content I have become. So many people have given me validation this year as to my value as a person,  and Missy is no different. Her approach to me has been a lesson as to how I approach others. When we left Vegas on the van ride to the hotel,  Missy said the following  “I could kiss ellee for giving you your mojo back”

Think about that for a minute. Missy is thinking about me,  she is thinking about ellee and she is wanting the best for the people that she cares for. It was a further lesson for me,  and while I have always wanted the best for my friends and for them to be happy with what they do,  it reinforced in my mind that things are good for me.

Here is the deal. At one point in my life I concerned myself too much with how I was viewed by other people,  not really from a competition standpoint but from where I stood in the pecking order. That isn’t something that I think about anymore,  I know where I stand and it isn’t on the platform that other people put me on,  it is on the platform that I put myself on.

I’m really a simple creature,  yet so complex. All I need in life is to have some importance to someone else. Quite frankly I really don’t know if I can explain it fully without coming across as an egocentric prick,  because that really isn’t how I look at it. All I want is some importance to someone,  no matter how small it is. I’m not in competition with anyone,  I don’t have any resentment towards others and what they have,  I’m just really,  really comfortable with what I have. If I’m important enough to someone that they will take an extra step for me,  then by default that person is important to me. You all know that I have written at great length about this,  but it is a very integral part of who I am. Perhaps it is ego driven,  I really don’t know,  but when someone does something for me it empowers me and makes me feel dominant,  which in our world is never a bad thing. If it is all about them then I simply go through the routine of being rent-a-spanker.

Today is one of those days where I could write forever about my feelings and perhaps I will continue writing right now,  who knows. There is quite a popular fetish out there that has many variables,  it goes along the lines of  “I want a man who is strong enough to dominate me”,  I take it one further as to how I view it  “I want a woman strong enough to allow me to dominate her”

Back to Missy’s comment. ellee didn’t give me my mojo back,  I found that myself,  what ellee did was put the spark back in my eye,  she reminded me of the joy that I should be feeling. She made me feel important and special,  she took the blinders off of me. That enjoyment was always there for me to have,  I just wasn’t allowing myself to have it. There are a great many people who have done that for me for years,  I just wasn’t allowing myself to see it. Missy was one of those people,  she is no different than she was last year. What was different this year was that I allowed myself to see it.

Do you know what it means to me to tame the tiger? Not what you might think!

It was all about validation. Before turning in for the night Missy had texted me  “Let me know when you go to bed so that I can get a bedtime spanking”. Strike 1,  I had my place,  I was important enough that I was wanted. Strike 2,  Missy came in the room and pounced on me like a tiger attacking her prey,  it was validation that she was happy in my company,  relaxed,  playful and looking forward to me. Strike 3,  she bounced on the bed on all fours growling at me,  telling me visually that she wanted to dance. Strike 4,  I put her over my knee and turned her from a playful tiger to a purring kitten within a minute. Strike 5,  afterwards we snuggled and she fell asleep while I lay there with a big smile on my face,  I was someone!

I’m pretty complex,  aren’t I?

I don’t even know if anyone gets what I am saying,  gets me or even understands a word that I am talking about,  but I know it. Spanking isn’t about competition for me,  it isn’t about keeping up with the Jones’,  it isn’t worrying about what other people have. What I have is magical and the people who get me share that magic. I don’t dish out pity spankings,  and by pity spankings I mean  “I best let Richard play with me”. All I ever wanted was a small spark that I mean something to someone,  that I am important enough in their eyes that they want to engage with me.

The biggest step of all,  and the one that none of this would be possible was the very first step. First of all I had to be comfortable with whom I was,  and now I am. My confidence is oozing,  I’m confident enough to say to myself that I don’t want to be with the cool kids if I am not cool enough for them. Why on earth would I? I have the best life ever! When one of my girls does something for me and makes me someone important to them,  then it makes me feel like the coolest kid on the block,  and it makes them a princess in my eyes.

I didn’t get very far on a party report,  did I? It doesn’t matter though,  in part two I will get down to the nitty gritty about the event itself and the wonderful people who I played with. I kind of shortchanged Missy in this episode,  didn’t I,  so I will start with her in part two of my party tales. To finish with though,  here are 3 important things to me that happened to me last week,  just to further confuse you about who I am.

Prux was bitterly disappointed to a point that she almost cried because I had let her down,  and while this may confuse you,  that was something very important. Why you may ask? It is simple,  it meant that I really meant something to her that she was so upset about it,  and that to me makes her very important in my eyes. I can’t fix what I did,  or more importantly what I didn’t do,  but what I can do is go the extra mile the next time that I see her to show her that she is important to me as well. It won’t fix everything,  but it will show her that I am human and that I make mistakes.

Often I see someone dressed nicely and I say to myself  “They look nice”. Last week I didn’t do that. Last week I saw someone wearing a beautiful dress and I went out of my way to tell them that I thought it looked gorgeous,  for no other reason than I wanted them to feel good about themselves. It was about the only words that I spoke all weekend to this person,  but it made me feel really good to say that.

And lastly for now,  the party was over,  everyone was saying their goodbyes and I had my own journey to make home. Missy wouldn’t let me,  she wanted to drive me somewhere,  no matter where that was. She wanted to spend just a little extra time with me. Now read all that I have written above and answer me this,  how do you think that made me feel about myself?

The Happy Zone

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No matter what,  everything will fall into place. Seriously,  how can you control what can’t be controlled. You either adapt to what it is or you reshuffle the deck and the cards will fall where they will.

One of the favorite sayings that I have heard goes along the lines of  “You will never know the moments that you will remember for the rest of your life”

For 2013 I set a goal to make it the best year ever and that goal is so far on track there is nothing but happiness. Normally when I go into a spanking party I am a bundle of nerves but strangely for the party I wasn’t. With over 250 people I knew that the cards were going to fall in place.

There were many important things that happened this weekend and I didn’t force any of them,  they were either going to solidify themselves or they were going to pass by. There was a strange comfort to this approach,  and I don’t think there was any area of importance to me that surprised me. What I thought would happen,  happened. In some cases it confirmed the high platform that I stood on,  and in other cases it confirmed the various other platforms that were present.

Here are some of those important things.

The primary one was the final conversation that I had with Missy in relation to me. We had another conversation but the focus of that was different. If there was one area that I had a hard time with this weekend it was letting people down. Missy helped me with this.

Quite frankly I have never played with that many people in my life at one party,  nor did I anticipate how busy I would be with greeting,  organizing,  assisting,  preparing,  filming,  playing and guiding. There was not a single time that I was unhappy about any of it. If I left the ballroom to go to my room I did so with a smile on my face,  knowing that I was likely to get halfway there before I would have to turn back to show someone where they needed to be. It made me feel good. By the second night my voice was beginning to go and we had so long to go.

The only drawback that I had was that so many people wanted to play,  and I wasn’t able to play with everyone. That one did affect me. It almost sounds pretentious as a top to say that really,  but I know of at least four people who wanted to play who I wasn’t able to play with,  and that annoyed me. I also let someone down and that is something that really did make me feel bad. It isn’t even something that I can really control as I didn’t anticipate how little time I would have,  but seeing that disappointment on someones face bothered me tremendously. Eventually it will fix itself,  and the cards will fall where they will,  but for now I am annoyed at myself.

Missy helped me a lot with that in getting my mind straight. I knew what the answers to those thoughts were,  but she verbally said them to me. I just simply cannot play with everyone and neither can those people have an understanding as to how little time that I had. It is what it is and the cards will fall where they will.

Aside from all of that,  which was basically trying to ensure the happiness of others,  there were things that were important to me and my own happiness. Some very important things as well.

Nothing was going to disappoint me,  at a party this size ones expectations have to be tempered. The things that were important to me were to be granted an audience in some form. I got far more than I ever expected and for that I am so very grateful.

I’m such a simple person really,  easily pleased. The people that I expected an audience with I got,  not from my doing but from theirs. Just that simple act elevates those people in my mind and what I mean to them and likewise,  what they mean to me. Regardless of any play,  there were certain people whose piece of my heart they own, that they will always own that piece after this weekend.

One thing that I wasn’t going to do this weekend was force anything. If there is an environment that I don’t feel that I belong in,  or that I am not welcome in, I didn’t even try to belong there. I belong in places that please me,  and the people that do please me are sitting at home completely unaware of how highly I value them as individuals. Some of these people I didn’t even play with this weekend but they showed me that I belong in other ways.

There were even a couple of times that I should have been disappointed with the way things turned out,  but I’m not. The good that I felt this weekend far outweighs anything. So what are some of the good things?

Knowing that someone important to me was waiting for me,  perhaps even turning down play to ensure that time spent with me would happen. That was perhaps THE most important event of the weekend,  and the happiest one.

Taming the tiger.

Strengthening a friendship that had been on a temporary hiatus.

Bedtime spankings and contentment.

Being asked to sign a report card.

Receiving a text after from someone who I have known a long time but have rarely played with until this year.

Dropping a man point to Alex.

Knowing that Missy is comfortable enough with me that she can be feisty. Knowing that she can say things that will get her spanked even though she tries so hard not to say them. It is a good place to be,  the battle between good and evil,  it is a confirmation that all is so very good.

Setting a rule a following it. Only one rule and my roomie followed it for the entire weekend with the exception of the final hour where things crumbled. Almost an entire weekend passed. Unfortunately we adopted an orphan on Sunday who broke the rule herself. Do you know how empowering it was to say  “Under this roof you follow my rules”  and then deliver a short sharp immediate spanking. It was so good that the poor girl was frazzled for an hour afterwards wanting to make sure she didn’t break the rule again. A total trippy headspace.

Making sure I caned someone who I had caned at Shadowlane a while ago. I felt good that I was able to meet that request.

Seeing Laura on Monday morning and feeling disappointed. A surprising thing to view as important,  but I had spent a period of time looking for her the night before to ask her to play and I didn’t find her. It is important because it is something that I can right in the future. I wanted to play with her as much as she did with me,  if it is meant to happen it will do so at the next party.

My reactions. There were occasions that I should have felt disappointed,  but I didn’t,  they are what they are.

Contentment. I am so incredibly happy. Vanilla people don’t have what we have. Did I wish that I could have played with everyone who wanted to? Of course I do. But I couldn’t and neither will they be able to understand how little time I had. In some cases the opportunity has passed and may never happen again,  for others it will increase the likelihood that it will happen the next time.

What was most important was that some people who I hold in high regard showed me this weekend that they hold me with the same regard. They know who they are and I know who they are as well 🙂

I have a cold and I am emotionally drained. My hand is like it went through a meat grinder and I am so incredibly tired,  but just try and take this smile off my face!!

I’m not even going to review what I just wrote,  it is what it is and I know that I am happy with it,  and I had the best roommate I could hope for,  period.

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