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They Killed My Sock Puppet!!

This week has been just like the olden days and I feel somewhat renewed in the spanking world.

First of all, as you all know, I headed to Kentucky this past weekend for a fun filled weekend with the most awesome friends a guy could have. Nearly everyone in attendance is not a person who shares pictures so all I can offer you is this one shot of me spanking my little Princess, Munchkin!!

Normally after spanking parties I tend to go on a downward spiral and the post party drop sucks, but for some reason it didn’t this time, it just reenergized me. Perhaps it is because I don’t even consider the event that took place over the weekend to be spanking related, this was a party of good, long term friends. In fact 24 hours had passed and not so much as a single swat had been landed. Oh there would have been on the first night, but the girls decided to have a slumber party on their own and left us guys to listen to tales of Ju Jitsu induced fighting prowess. Honestly, I would have much rather had been spanking some bottoms.

Going back to Munchkin for a bit, at this party we managed to get in three 1 to 1 sessions and I found each one getting more and more enjoyable, to a point that I could have spanked her for an hour on the last one and given her the ‘Richard Windsor’ special 😉 Of course it becomes one of those situations where I get torn being that I simply adore playing with her and spending time in her company. In a few weeks time I plan to fly south to meet up with her, and while I will enjoy every second of it, I also risk enjoying it a little too much and setting myself up for a letdown. There was an earlier post that I made where I talked about allowing one self to get too close to someone and then setting up one’s self for an eventual let down. It is a guarded response, you don’t want to allow yourself get too close to someone and risk getting too attached, especially when you live a thousand miles apart. It is rare that you find that special someone in the spanking community that you find yourself attracted to, even worse when they are a close friend. I know I’m not the only person in the spanking community who feels that way, I dare say that everyone reading this feels that way about someone they know, I’m just putting it down on paper 🙂

Anyway, in other news, the website, Fetlife has become the new place where there is a massive community involvement. It’s funny because it reminds me of the early days of SIN/Spanking Memories where one simply can’t pull one’s self away from the forum, finding yourself permanently checking in at all hours to see what the latest posts are. In just a few short weeks I have made so many new friends and the site itself has a plethora of different forums to take part in. My friends and I have even created forums for ourselves where we keep in touch far more than we have in other forums over the years.

This does come with a downside though, and that is the use of sock puppets!

Many of you old timers are aware of the sock puppet phenomenon that used to plague spanking sites, where someone would create multiple characters to converse, arrange play dates, or even as a way of attacking people because there was a lack of guts to do so as the person they actually were. Fetlife is no different in that area, as again I once covered in an earlier post where I received a hate mail. Now I had only shared the original hate mail, not the subsequent ones that I received afterwards, or the four other sock puppets that were created to go after me. Now I am pretty thick skinned in that department and I was able to play along and entertain the sock puppets. Dare I say in fact that I actually created the situation deliberately?

On Facebook I posted pictures of the girls that I will be working with in 2011, one of those girls has been deemed the hated one in the community and of course anyone who works with her will be attacked as well. I knew this going in so I was totally prepared for the hate mail, though I wasn’t sure whether it would be real people who attacked me or their sock puppets. Now being that at some point my marketing usage and the popularity of my websites will be required at some point, I should have realized that I would only get the sock puppet version of the attacks. Eventually it died down and will probably only resurface when I market my own DVD’s, or the DVD’s of my friends who have also worked with this person. That is a bridge that we will cross when that eventually happens, however, my plans to work with the girls that I plan to work with in 2011 will NOT change regardless of who says what to me. The only thing that I will say about that is that I don’t personally like everyone in the spanking community myself, however, I would never dream of taking money out of another producer’s pocket by publicly airing my opinions about who I don’t like in the community.

So back to Fetlife for a moment and the events that have occurred this week. When I got back from Kentucky I was told of a situation where one character appeared to be building credibility in the spanking world by having a sock puppet speak up on their behalf informing everyone what a nice guy this person was. Now I didn’t really think much that the guy wasn’t a nice guy, just that I found it pretty deceitful the way the person’s character was being built up, namely, his character was being built up by the sock puppet that he had created. The individual was called on it and defended himself as the accusation not being true, until of course he logged in and posted under the sock puppet profile.

No big deal really, my advice was that he should delete the profile, start over again and come back as himself. Unfortunately the road he took was one of defending his character and despite everything, maintaining that the sock puppet was indeed a young Mormon wife who was spanked by her parents until she was 21, and they then passed the duties on to her future husband.

Now I think that everyone at least attempted to be civil and offer advice, however, the first comment that he didn’t like was from my little Princess, and his response was “SCREW YOU MUNCHKIN!!”. Okay, so Munchkin deserves a spanking for goading and she will get one, however, this was a guy who had been painted as a true southern gentleman who suddenly turned on one of the girls. The more the comments came in the uglier this person got by the minute, and the easier he became to wind up. The irony being that he felt that he was controlling everyone yet was unable to realize that he was being poked with a stick and responded each and every time, until finally he exploded and showed his true colors. This wasn’t the first comment, he had already started throwing around the fat comments to anyone he could, and he subsequently took the following post and rather childishly began to post the same thing over and over on any thread that he could get his hands on. Here is his diatribe and I will continue beneath it by summing up.

The words of a troll.

First off, let me say I’m sorry to my little Cherry Bottom, who is for sure going to give me an earful for posting on this site again. But I guy just can’t help riling up the losers on here sometimes.

Oh and sorry I can’t post on the other thread. Yes, silenced by the group admin again. Just another example of hey you don’t like the truth, just shut it down and jump on the band wagon with the other evil Nazi’s.

But that’s okay. I just wanted to jump back in for just a quick second to say a couple of things and then I’ll move on for a while.

My question is, why does fet life attract so many grossly overweight obese women, so many Obese men as well as Nerds and losers?

Is it because the only way this place can survive is due to having people who can sit around on their fat butts all day and do nothing but type on here. Is it because the majority of regular sized women have jobs or are spending time at the gym trying to actually take care of themselves and have a little self respect?

Just curious, because I just quickly glanced through those who were posting in my thread and if you look at their profiles you get this break out:

Monstrously obese women ; (Look at this, you put all these women on the same battleship and it would sink)

Lilystarr (head Nazi, and fattest of the bunch)
Camcamiura
Girlypet
Inmyelement
JolieSnow
Munchkin
Iggy
Miss_Chief
Kyra 4525

monstrously obese men like;

ShwolfEEP
Richard Winsor
Thetroublemaker
Big German

Total Nerds, who couldn’t get a date if pigs did start to fly: (Yes that is you ladies)

Kinky Limey
TomtheDom4U
MisterDrayke

Those that are so ugly, fat or nerdy that they are afraid to even show a picture of themselves:

JustAlex
Mattbratt
DDStillalive

Just one word of advice.

Go On A Damn Diet and have a little self respect. Beautify America a little bit you obese pigs.

Okay, I’m gone again. Grab your fudge, sit down in your wide seat chair , pull up to the computer as close as your stomach will let you and type away……

 

Now then, at first I felt a little bad when he was outed because all he was trying to do was find play partners, he was just doing so by having his own sock puppet sing his praises and talk about what a wonderful human being he was. When the fat comments started pouring in though, I was overjoyed that his actions would prevent him from ever meeting one of the Fetlife girls. What self respecting top would ever want a spanko girl meeting such a foul mouthed douchebag?

On the matter of that, what type of person who would call themselves a top would ever speak to a girl in such a manner? Believe me, this is just one example of the comments, they really were foul and disgusting. Now all of this person’s posts have been yanked from Fetlife, and while I won’t name him here, he is more than welcome to come here and defend himself. Honestly, can you believe this type of behaviour exists from a grown man?

Now of course it totally got out of hand, well, what do you expect when one person has so a low view of women? Ordinarily I LOATHE gang attacks, really absolutely despise them, in fact let me say now, if I am put down anywhere I don’t want anyone speaking up on my behalf, I’m a big boy and I can handle my own affairs. Everyone is free to make a judgment on my character, but I want that character judged by who Richard Windsor is, not who his friends tell you he is. Anyway, despite hating gang attacks, our friend opened a can of worms and it turned into the most fun a lot of people have had for a long time!! Douchebag was unable to see that every single person was laughing at him, he actually thought he was annoying people when in reality he was bringing joy into their lives. Like I said, I don’t like people ganging up on one person, but in this situation I actually thought it was a little deserved.

If you caught my post yesterday you would have seen the sock puppet whose life lasted but a mere day, a day of infamy until his life support was cut off by the owners of the site. Our dear friend was a genuine sock puppet, an original. Now his life wasn’t to attack, his life was to bring joy. Certainly, is his short time he became very popular with the ladies for his quick wit, lovable personality and of course his stunning good looks. But he was merely a sock puppet, nothing more and nothing less, and his owner must have been a humble man, after all, wouldn’t a man with a big ego want all of the adulation that was bestowed upon his sock puppet? Something we will never know, who WAS the man behind the sock puppet? 😉

Okay, so there is the latest and greatest drama on Fetlife. Trust me it isn’t all like that, the site is massive and has something for everyone whatever kink they have. It has become a home for many of us, Munchkin even has her own little corner, which, rumor has it, she is quite fond of. I would like to demonstrate with a picture right here but I didn’t ask for her permission on that particular picture.

Just remember, the italic text above was posted by a man who presented himself as a man of honor, and I invite him to post here to defend himself and his comments will not be deleted. Only if of course he decides to post them over and over and over again.

Everybody’s Heard About The Bird

You may read in various places that my little Princess, Munchkin, disagrees with the fact that I have put her in the corner. Now she may whine and pout and protest and claim various things, but the proof lies in the picture, and here it is, Munchkin standing in the corner under the watchful eye of yours truly!!

She is a game girl though, even under duress and clearly crying, she manages to put on a brave front and manages a ‘pose’ for the camera to try and save some face. Of course with mascara running down her face she was unable to lift her head for this shot!!

Even in public my little girl can sometimes misbehave herself, which puts me in a precarious position as I never want to be seen as a real meanie. So to allow her some dignity when she was naughty, I had this kind man take care of her for me by giving her a public flogging at my request!!

When all is said and done though, I do love my little Princess and I have been known to give her good girl spankings that go on for ages, even if she is wearing her Pittsburgh Steelers panties. You know what, after seeing these pics it is no wonder that she publicly calls me her “Daddy”, and yes, about 20 people were present when she told someone “I’m a telling my Daddy”. Further proof that she is indeed my little Princess!!

Let me add one final thing, Munchkin has a few friends of hers, kind of like a clique, who make outrageous claims distorting the actual truth, all lead by my little Princess. But take my word for it kittens, the proof is in the pictures above and I don’t think for one minute that any of you would doubt what I have just told you, you can see it all with your very own eyes. Everything above is as it seems, no words were really necessary as the pictures do tell the story on their own. Knowing that these packs of girls have been know to fib from time to time, I also wanted to make sure that you got to hear everything directly from the horse’s mouth from the get go, and of course the truth is just enhanced by the pictures capturing each moment for eternity.

I’m overjoyed to refer to Munchkin as my little Princess, and even more delighted that she calls me her Daddy, but she can be such a naughty little girl at times what with her distortions of the truth. Perhaps when she starts to fib again I will put a bar of soap in her mouth 🙂

Spanking, Public Floggings, Grits and that Damn rat.

Nothing for you right now other than to say I am back from Georgia. Reports to come soon which included a public flogging booth that all the girls visited, some of them even flashing their panties. Lots of spanking of course, my favorite being giving the back to back good girl spankings to my Princess and Short4ever. Pretty much caned every girl in attendance and little Amber Grey brought her fake rat with her and earned yet another bad girl spanking. The trip finished by hanging out with Munchkin Princess for a few hours and for the first time in my life I had Grits, and guess what, I liked them 🙂

Reports and updates will come after my nap today.

On top of old Smokey

So I’m back from Tennessee and feeling well refreshed, ready to tackle that inbox of mine and ready to make some meaningful posts. Some highlights from this year’s event, and of course it goes without saying that meeting up with all my friends is the biggest highlight of all.

First of all I had forgotten just how much I missed Dotty who had come all the way from Asia. Not only is she super sweet and a total doll to know as a friend, but she is one funny little girl. I was able to get a one on one in with her, as well as several roleplay opportunities and random on the fly 10 swatters.

Well, if seeing Dotty again wasn’t enough, she also took the time before she left Asia to visit a cane factory and she presented to me a brand new, out of the factory, traditional Asian school cane. It is a very unique item that I will snap a pic of later, and man alive does it leave a mark. On Thursday when I got it I whapped my calf to see what it felt like, and 4 days later the line is still there. In fact Dotty’s husband snapped a pic of my leg right after I did it and hopefully I can share that with you soon. Needless to say, the gift of the school cane from my dear friend was the ultimate highlight of my trip.

Other highlights:

At 3am I am having a smoke out on my balcony when a black bear decided he wanted to check our garbage!! This was like 20 feet away from me (though I was one floor up) and made me jump out of my skin. When I got brave enough to go back out I took my video camera with me, and despite waiting 20 minutes he never returned.

Made my first purchase from The London Tanners, this great leather school ruler. I tested it out on Ian’s partner and on the second stroke her knees buckled, it is MEAN and nasty. Click the banner below the pic and go pay Ian’s site a visit. The highest quality leather goods you will find, pretty much EVERY spanko from the top models to everyday spanking folk owns one of Ian’s toys, and if you don’t it is time you did!! The holidays are coming up upon us soon.

I got to christen my personalized paddle from Cane-Iac (pics to come later) and my friend Dotty was the one I did the honors to. The paddle was used a lot over the weekend by a whole host of people and once again, with the holidays coming up you should get your orders in early. I will check on the price but I believe that you can get a personalized paddle for under $30, just make sure you give the Cane Master a little time to make a personal gift.

The school roleplay was awesome as usual, only this year we had a guest teacher with us, the very strict Ian Head, also known as The London Tanner. It was a fun filled hour and each girl got a good walloping. My favorite of course was getting to use the Asian cane on our favorite Asian exchange student.

Always great watching girls getting spanked, my favorite of which was watching Munchkin holding on for dear life for the two minutes that Ian warmed the seat of her panties.  I also managed to sneak in a private session late on Saturday with my little Princess which I was really happy to get the chance to do.

Then of course there was the celebration of Stella’s birthday in which everyone lined up and took turns giving her a swat, kind of like our own version of the spanking machine. After it was over I gave her 6 of the best with a cane called ‘Mr. Christmas’.

So that is just an early report, there will be lots more to come and hopefully I can share a pic or two with you when I get them.

Naughty girls by the seashore!!

Tomorrow morning I leave for Tampa to participate in this years Florida Moonshine party. What I am going to try and do tonight is post the 20 pictures to reflect the results of the recent poll. I will probably configure that post to automatically update on Friday night.

Until then though, I am happy to report that the young lady in the picture below, Caroline Grey, has agreed to shoot a spanking tube video with me. Caroline and myself first met a few years ago where we both ended up getting tickets on the NYC subway. Don’t worry though, I spanked her for it 🙂

My good friend, Amber Grey, will also be in attendance. Somehow I always seem to miss spanking this young lass, in fact, the pictures that were taking in this set is the ONLY time I have ever spanked her for real!! I will try and change that on this trip!!

And finally, no set would be complete without showing you the gorgeous bottom of my little Princess who will be my roommate for the party this year, the adorable Munchkin. She will know that she isn’t in Kansas anymore 😉

I will have my camcorder with me and I hope to record at least a few videos to share with you all….. M/F ones at that Dan 😉

Blog love and a happy new year

*01/02/09 addendum*

I am also in the process of rebuilding my Spanking Galleries (Some ‘Panties’ galleries also) page. So far I have 26 brand new spanking and panty galleries posted but I hope to have everything finished by the end of today. Click here Spanking Galleries to see the new galleries.

Picture update now posted on Old Spanking Pics featuring the first pic seen below. Just click the the highlighted link to go there.

I will be updating everything this weekend, hopefully with a whole bunch of pics to the other 3 sites.

Here is Munchkin and I.

I’m off partying tomorrow for the New Year so I wanted to make a quick post to wish you all a very happy and safe new year. I hope you all make lots of resolutions and that you break each and every one of them 🙂 That’s what spankings are for after all.

As I haven’t done any Blog Love for a while I figured I could update you with a few to see out 2008.

To start with, we shall go with the aforementioned Audrey Knight. She now has her own blog and you can read it right here Audrey’s Blog, it is an ideal blog if you are looking for one from a Female switch who mostly tops. It is fairly new but please add it to your bookmarks, and fellow bloggers please add Audrey to your links list.

Here is a delightful picture of Audrey looking all toppy and tapping the hairbrush on her thigh as she awaits the naughty bottom of some mischievous boy or girl. You know what I think is really great though, that is the very same hairbrush that I myself applied to Audrey’s bare bottom 🙂 You guys have no idea just how much I am in love with that vintage hairbrush of hers!! 😉

Next up is my good friend Sarah. Last week, after talking online for 6 years, we finally got a chance to meet up for lunch. It was only for a couple of hours but we had a great time. I can’t wait until we meet up in Florida sometime during the coming year. You can read her blog right here Sarah’s Blog

The following pic was taken last week when, after lunch, we paid a visit to the world famous Kinematics store in Midtown Manhattan.

See you guys in 2009.

Richard Windsor.

Tick Tock

The clock is ticking down and we have less than 2 days before converging down in the Tampa area for the Florida Moonshine Party. I’m getting really excited, especially as my good friend Munchkin plans on bringing her Mardi Gras panties with her!! I’m hoping to spank the smiley faces right off of them 😉 I’m hoping that a lot of readers of this blog are in attendance this coming weekend.

Now I do want to give a big shout out to Cierra, one of my readers who I have exchanged emails with and read her comments in the chatbox. Cierra’s last comment was in regards to my audios, and the really neat suggestion that I take my microphone with me to Tampa and record some interviews. It was something I hadn’t even thought of (and I had the damn mic with me in Texas) and I thank you so much for the suggestion. Now the microphone I have is actually a part of a headset, but you know what, where there is a will there is a way and I will improvise. While there will be plenty of models in attendance, I am not planning on only seeking them out, I shall also interview your regular spankers and spankees. It should be a blast.

Have you come here for pics today? Okay, here are 3 for the lurkers, but please continue reading underneath the pics, and I will finish with a video.

There are two posts that I am looking to type up and get out to you, the first of which deals with names and how they came about. Just for the record, while Richard is actually my name, the Windsor part is a stage name. I want to post a pic of my friend who along with another friend, gave me my name. It has to be posted because she is getting spanked in this pic in the OTK position.

The other post, and probably the one I will look to post first, is about what I look for in a girl, and just as importantly, a spanko girl. It is a total Kevin Costner “Bull Durham” moment as my list can get quite long. Despite anything I write though, the ONE mitigating factor always comes to this, the girl HAS to be a really nice person. Pretty much, within reason, most of the other stuff can be overlooked if she is a genuinely nice, good hearted person.

Okay, enough of the BS. I am going to finish today’s post with a movie clip I created from one of my favorite films. At the moment I am on a major Jane Horrocks kick, having just watched “Little Voice” and “Life Is Sweet”. The clip is from “Little Voice” which has a tremendous cast including: Michael Caine, Ewan McGregor, Brenda Blethyn, Jim Broadbent and of course Jane Horrocks. In this clip the soft spoken, sometimes mute, LV, finally lets her Mother know her true feelings. I kept bugging the hard working Pixie tonight with clips of Jane Horrocks and Brenda Blethyn.

And just for shits and giggles, here is a clip starring Brenda Blethyn from “Secrets and Lies” where she suddenly realizes that she is the Mother of the adopted girl seeking her real Mum. An absolute classic piece of acting!!

Richard Windsor.

Nobody puts baby in the corner!!

It was 12/27/06 and old Richard Windsor was in a pretty down place, one of those things that rarely happen but was taking place over the Christmas period of 2006. So what was it that was so special that happened on 12/27/06?

I was over on my favorite play group, SIN, just perusing the forums to try and kill the bad mood when I spotted something. The words I read got the puppy dog’s ears standing on end and he had to check it twice to make sure he had read the right thing. Yep, not only were the ears perked but the head had started to swell as well. Someone who he had hardly shared but a handful of words with had left a message on one of the discussion threads, the message read, and I quote “Except for my weird secret cybercrush on Houndog, don’t tell him”.

Now old Richard Windsor (Houndog) had already seen a picture of the young miss in question and it was no surprise at all that the hidden depression was replaced by a gleeful grin. It was certainly something really nice to read when other things weren’t going so well. I had read something on Christmas Eve that informed me that my previous relationship was over so I wasn’t really ready for any in depth discussion at that time, so I put the message in my back pocket for a few weeks until I needed it.

It wasn’t until four weeks later that a new discussion thread started on SIN where this young lady and I crossed paths. The thread this time was about starting a chat room for the members of the discussion board, and while there was quite a bit of deliberating about how it would be conducted we had finally decided on opening one. So it was set that a group of us would meet the following night in a custom made chat room. This was to be the first real interaction between munchkin and Richard Windsor.

With about a dozen people present the chat began in earnest, I’m not sure how long it took but it wasn’t long before munchkin and I were in a private chat room having a bit of fun. At one point I went back to the main board and stated “Munchkin will be awhile, I have just sent her to the corner”. The brats offered their sympathy but very shortly munchkin appeared to dispute that her disappearance was caused due to a visit to the corner. As I have quick wit also, when she said this I piped in “Ok, you can come out of the corner now young lady” to which munchkin responded “I was never in the corner” 🙂

The stage had been set, for almost a week afterwards the same game would be played each and every night, my pronouncing munchkin’s corner time and her denying such an event not only ever occurred, but would never occur. This was in late January when we started to build our friendship, all because she had posted a message on 12/27/06, a friendship that would have us talking online almost every day. We had a spanking conference coming up in June and I really wanted her and her Husband to attend, so I spent the next month trying to convince her that she really should come. This wasn’t for anything spanking related, munchkin is after all a Married woman, but I really wanted to meet my friend in person.

We can now fast forward to the event itself. Leading up to the spanking conference I’m not sure what was happening. I think I was in a bit of a funk which happens from time to time. There had been a group of people with disabilities that I knew from camp 20 years ago that I had met up with in New Jersey. My focus had gone away from spanking a little bit as I focused on renewing old friendships with the people I hung out with in Jersey. One of my closest friends from that group, someone who I had remained in contact with over the years, was a girl who has cerebral palsy and uses a walker to get around. When she walks around her butt is always sticking out so you can only imagine what I spent the weekend doing Plus I playfully spanked her in the bedroom and the hotel passageway, but that is a story for another time. Anyway, back to the conference and my arrival on Wednesday evening.

I arrived at the conference and hitched a ride with sassy_sandy who was waiting in the airport for me. Soon we were on the road and other than missing one direction on the map; we actually joined where we were supposed to be by accident. That was the only blemish on the trip to the cabin itself. Now then, I am going to write a full report on the Gatlinburg meet itself but for this story I want to stick with just munchkin. I don’t want to get too sidetracked at this moment in time.

It was later in the evening and I believe I was out on the balcony having a smoke when munchkin and her hubby arrived; my first goal was to let others greet them before I went over myself. Now this is a true story of course, so you are going to get my true feelings at the same time and some of them may not be comfortable feelings. Munchkin and I had spoken almost daily for quite a while now using yahoo messenger, but at no time did it escape my attention that she is a married woman. We are friends after all, and there had been the odd comment from munchkin regarding her husband. A lot of these comments would stem from the usual day to day conversations that couples have, but on more than one occasion she had told me that she had mentioned something to her husband regarding me and he naturally became protective of her. It wasn’t anything big by any means, but I know that if my partner was conversing with someone else I would also become protective.

The end result of all of this was that I was extremely uncomfortable when munchkin arrived. Now of course I was going to welcome them like everyone else, but I also felt a need to be standoffish and see to it that her husband never saw me as a threat of any kind. The last thing I wanted to do was to appear to be monopolizing her time, so whenever I would be in a position to talk to her I would direct most of the conversation to her husband. I also had to combine that with the fact that the previous year I did withdraw myself from the group quite a bit and devoted myself to one person. The combination of those two thoughts sucked ass.

It is so hard to explain this and make it have meaning, there was nothing I wanted more than to sit down with munchkin and chat with her one on one for an hour or more, but this just wasn’t the environment for that. The biggest thought on my mind was that her husband, who is a converted vanilla by the way, should feel comfortable and not feel threatened by me in any way. So I pretty much distanced myself most of the time from munchkin and aside from stealing eye contact across a crowded room, I would perhaps talk to them both as a couple for 5 minutes every hour and even then that was mostly to her husband. As the weekend progressed this became easier because I really liked her hubby a lot and he was easy to talk to, but nonetheless I still felt really uncomfortable.

By Thursday night I had come to the realization that I wasn’t going to play with munchkin, anybody who was there could see how much her and her husband adored each other. At no time were they playing with anyone and there was no way on God’s green earth was I going to come even close to mentioning the possibility that I might spank her. As much as I would have liked to my main purpose after Thursday night was to relax and try to get to know my friend better. Munchkin is someone who I had talked to an awful lot and I liked her before even meeting her in person, and anyone who knows the puppy by now knows that he is a sucker for a pretty girl. So the first time I saw munchkin it should be no surprise that I was taken by how pretty she was. I guess in all honesty that probably had something to do as well with my distancing myself. I think it’s a funny guy thing we have, obviously she is pretty, her husband knows she is pretty, I know she is pretty, so the last thing I am going to do is show interest in another mans girl. Does that make any sense at all? I mean, we’re not talking about making any moves here; all we are talking about is the possibility that I would spank her. This is the crux of the matter in my opinion, I view spanking as an intimate act. I had become close to munchkin and there nothing I wanted more than to seal our friendship by spanking her tail bright red, but I just didn’t feel comfortable doing such an intimate act privately with her husband in the same house. It would have meant a lot to me for our friendship, but her relationship with her husband meant more to me than that. Even if I didn’t spank her we were still going to be friends anyway, so I was going to take a pass here and enjoy the company of both of them.

You guys have no idea how hard this is to put all of these feelings into a story; I really feel that I am being super defensive in this story and perhaps I am. The truth is, I find munchkin adorable, both physically and emotionally, it crosses my mind frequently that when I find that one special person in my life, I want her to have the same attributes that munchkin displays. There have been several people I have come in contact with online that I feel also display these attributes, but it has always been a case of too little too late for me in those situations. So let me put the question out there, do you guys think I am being defensive because of guilty feelings? Was my standoffishness simply a result of the fact that I found myself attracted to a married woman and I don’t know how to handle that? Am I wrong for stating that I think I have a crush on her? Will I actually find that person who displays the characteristics that I want in a partner and not find her already taken?

On Friday night I actually found some time to talk to munchkin one on one. As we were talking, Jodi and munchkin’s hubby appeared, he had just spanked her. I tried my hardest to listen to the conversation but I found myself doing one thing, wondering whether that meant I would actually get to spank the sprite stood next to me. It stayed on my mind as the night progressed, thinking that on the Saturday this little dream might just come true. It was getting really late and one more time munchkin came over to me, this time it took me a few seconds to answer her, the nervous little girl had just asked me “Did you want to play?”

Since the second I set my eyes on her I only had one thing on my mind, to make sure her husband was comfortable, so this was no different when she asked me that question. I answered with a pretty redundant question “Is your husband okay with it?” The question didn’t need to be asked but I felt better for doing so. The answer of course was yes, so I said I would love to play and we headed down to the room I was staying in.

We entered my room and shut the door; this was it, 6 months of waiting and 6 months of smart assed comments all in one spanking. I sat down on the bed and looked at munchkin and almost immediately she jumped to get into the otk position. “Easy girl” I thought to myself, such an eager little beaver. It was obvious to me that she was really nervous, the attempt at a smile kind of gave it away and I swear she was shaking. Being that I was sat on the end of the bed I explained to her that I found it easier for the girl to go over one knee in this position, which also allows for the spankee to have their whole upper body supported by the bed. The words were hardly out of my mouth before she flew over my left knee like supergirl 🙂 munchkin is only like 4’10” so she fit over my lap perfectly. I kind of wish now there was a chair in my room because I know she would have fit over my lap like a dream. I guess that will have to be the next time 😉

Now everything to me in a spanking scene is aesthetic, when munchkin went over my knee she buried her head on the bed and closed her eyes, it is the biggest image I have from that scene other than her waiting nervously to go over my lap. I smiled from ear to ear as the puppy likes cute, and trust me when I say this; her closing her eyes like that was super cute! It was obvious to me that she really wanted this spanking and I was looking forward to giving it to her. I mumbled some comment about a warm up and began to swat her over her skirt. As I spanked I tried to say a few things, I felt a little uncomfortable because I didn’t want this just to be a spank and run type deal. After about 50 spanks or so I figured I would shut up and just go with the moment, so I said one last thing “Are you okay with your skirt coming up?”

The answer was yes.

As I have already mentioned, it is the aesthetics that get me in a spanking scene, so as I raised munchkin’s skirt I focused on her head. As the skirt came up she moved her head from the left side to the right, still with her eyes closed. Focusing back to the target at hand I spotted the panties she was wearing, they were pink cotton and they had ‘Spank Here’ written on them in an enclosed circle, not only that I hasten to add, but they also had a paw print right smack in the middle of the writing. Do ya think for one minute that munchkin had been planning on getting spanked by ol’ Houndog? 😉

So spank here I did, not overly hard but slow and deliberate. I watched as the unprotected part of her bottom started to turn from pink to red. I have no idea how many times my hand came down on her panty covered rear, but I would keep looking back at munchkin’s head as I spanked. I swear at one point I thought she was going to go to sleep. I was really enjoying myself and wanted to carry on for a while as I picked up the pace a bit, but then I noticed on her left cheek she had started to mark. Ordinarily I probably would have carried on for a bit longer but I didn’t wish to mark her, so I paused in the spanking and told her that she was starting to mark. I just about managed one final glance at my handiwork of munchkin’s red bottom when she leapt up. It had crossed my mind to maybe give her a few more smacks while avoiding that one spot, but munchkin had other ideas. She rearranged her skirt and reached out for a hug, I was really happy to see the look on her face and I hugged her warmly. When we released she said it, and I might not quote her exactly but it went something like this “Man that really hurt. That was so different to the way my husband spanks me” I wasn’t sure if it was a compliment at first but then she added “I told you I was a wimp” as she rubbed her bottom.

In my mind, anybody getting their bottom spanked is anything but a wimp and I told her so. When we got back upstairs munchkin had to leave, I was so happy to have finally played with her, but a little bummed that we couldn’t talk for a while. Still, there was always Saturday and I now felt a bit more relaxed about conversing with her. When Saturday came I guess I still wasn’t totally comfortable, but at one point in the evening I popped outside for a smoke and munchkin came outside to join me. For the first time all weekend we managed to get ten minutes alone where we could talk, just sat outside with the mountains as the backdrop. It didn’t last as long as I had hoped before there seemed to be 20 people on the balcony, lol, but in those ten minutes I got to confirm my thoughts, here was a really sweet girl. This time when we stayed outside we were joined by her husband, and on this occasion the 3 of us sat outside for ages just having a really good chat.

Before the night was done though munchkin asked me one more question, would I mind going downstairs and using the cane on her. Well I’m not a fool and I gladly accepted; only this time her husband came down also. As he was there I figured I would use the opportunity to teach him how to apply a cane, I was probably in mid speech when munchkin pulled down her own shorts, lol. Munchkin’s hubby and I swapped places and he started to use the cane, before I once more got a few licks in. As it finished I also explained that for someone new perhaps the best place to apply the cane would be when munchkin was laid face down on the bed, now I didn’t ask her to but she leapt face down on the bed. From that position I only swung it once and munchkin quickly said “Oh yeah, that one landed in a straight line” much to her husband and my amusement. So being that I saw this could improve their play to some degree I donated my cane to them, at least I know munchkin will get a few stripes when she is being naughty. Before we left the room I told her husband that corner time is always a nice option for a naughty girl and that munchkin was opposed to it, but much to her dismay her husband said “I think that can be arranged”

We headed upstairs one final time and joined the group again. It was almost time for munchkin to leave and her husband was out arranging cars when a little thought came to my mind “Time for the corner young lady”. Munchkin was great, with a full audience she went into the corner and allowed for a bunch of pictures to be taken, even lowering her shorts at one point and pouting like a well spanked little girl. Her husband returned and it was time to go, we hugged and then munchkin hugged everyone else. I was closest to the door so I hugged her hubby as he left and then munchkin did a double take before coming back for one final hug, and this time we managed to get our picture taken as well. I was so happy, a lot of the time I had felt uncomfortable but as it was now over and I actually felt really good. The next time I spoke with munchkin was on Monday, and that was when the trip had caught up to her and she couldn’t stop crying. So with me being the mean spirit that I am, I sent her a few ‘feel good’ videos, she wasn’t too happy with me, but she did get to release her emotions.

One thing munchkin was happy about was that she had a little mark left over for a couple of days to serve as a reminder, she called it her ‘Dog bite’, lol, and she snapped a pic of it for prosperity. As you can see, her bottom is still pretty pink as well, and it didn’t escape my attention that she had put on a pair of white nylon panties for the pic. Something tells me that the little minx read the story about the first spanking I ever gave http://spankingbrats.blogspot.com/2006/12/first-time-and-why-dress-code-is-so.html and wanted to tease me just a little bit, or maybe she is just itching for another spanking 😉

Richard Windsor.