This week has been just like the olden days and I feel somewhat renewed in the spanking world.

First of all, as you all know, I headed to Kentucky this past weekend for a fun filled weekend with the most awesome friends a guy could have. Nearly everyone in attendance is not a person who shares pictures so all I can offer you is this one shot of me spanking my little Princess, Munchkin!!

Normally after spanking parties I tend to go on a downward spiral and the post party drop sucks, but for some reason it didn’t this time, it just reenergized me. Perhaps it is because I don’t even consider the event that took place over the weekend to be spanking related, this was a party of good, long term friends. In fact 24 hours had passed and not so much as a single swat had been landed. Oh there would have been on the first night, but the girls decided to have a slumber party on their own and left us guys to listen to tales of Ju Jitsu induced fighting prowess. Honestly, I would have much rather had been spanking some bottoms.

Going back to Munchkin for a bit, at this party we managed to get in three 1 to 1 sessions and I found each one getting more and more enjoyable, to a point that I could have spanked her for an hour on the last one and given her the ‘Richard Windsor’ special 😉 Of course it becomes one of those situations where I get torn being that I simply adore playing with her and spending time in her company. In a few weeks time I plan to fly south to meet up with her, and while I will enjoy every second of it, I also risk enjoying it a little too much and setting myself up for a letdown. There was an earlier post that I made where I talked about allowing one self to get too close to someone and then setting up one’s self for an eventual let down. It is a guarded response, you don’t want to allow yourself get too close to someone and risk getting too attached, especially when you live a thousand miles apart. It is rare that you find that special someone in the spanking community that you find yourself attracted to, even worse when they are a close friend. I know I’m not the only person in the spanking community who feels that way, I dare say that everyone reading this feels that way about someone they know, I’m just putting it down on paper 🙂

Anyway, in other news, the website, Fetlife has become the new place where there is a massive community involvement. It’s funny because it reminds me of the early days of SIN/Spanking Memories where one simply can’t pull one’s self away from the forum, finding yourself permanently checking in at all hours to see what the latest posts are. In just a few short weeks I have made so many new friends and the site itself has a plethora of different forums to take part in. My friends and I have even created forums for ourselves where we keep in touch far more than we have in other forums over the years.

This does come with a downside though, and that is the use of sock puppets!

Many of you old timers are aware of the sock puppet phenomenon that used to plague spanking sites, where someone would create multiple characters to converse, arrange play dates, or even as a way of attacking people because there was a lack of guts to do so as the person they actually were. Fetlife is no different in that area, as again I once covered in an earlier post where I received a hate mail. Now I had only shared the original hate mail, not the subsequent ones that I received afterwards, or the four other sock puppets that were created to go after me. Now I am pretty thick skinned in that department and I was able to play along and entertain the sock puppets. Dare I say in fact that I actually created the situation deliberately?

On Facebook I posted pictures of the girls that I will be working with in 2011, one of those girls has been deemed the hated one in the community and of course anyone who works with her will be attacked as well. I knew this going in so I was totally prepared for the hate mail, though I wasn’t sure whether it would be real people who attacked me or their sock puppets. Now being that at some point my marketing usage and the popularity of my websites will be required at some point, I should have realized that I would only get the sock puppet version of the attacks. Eventually it died down and will probably only resurface when I market my own DVD’s, or the DVD’s of my friends who have also worked with this person. That is a bridge that we will cross when that eventually happens, however, my plans to work with the girls that I plan to work with in 2011 will NOT change regardless of who says what to me. The only thing that I will say about that is that I don’t personally like everyone in the spanking community myself, however, I would never dream of taking money out of another producer’s pocket by publicly airing my opinions about who I don’t like in the community.

So back to Fetlife for a moment and the events that have occurred this week. When I got back from Kentucky I was told of a situation where one character appeared to be building credibility in the spanking world by having a sock puppet speak up on their behalf informing everyone what a nice guy this person was. Now I didn’t really think much that the guy wasn’t a nice guy, just that I found it pretty deceitful the way the person’s character was being built up, namely, his character was being built up by the sock puppet that he had created. The individual was called on it and defended himself as the accusation not being true, until of course he logged in and posted under the sock puppet profile.

No big deal really, my advice was that he should delete the profile, start over again and come back as himself. Unfortunately the road he took was one of defending his character and despite everything, maintaining that the sock puppet was indeed a young Mormon wife who was spanked by her parents until she was 21, and they then passed the duties on to her future husband.

Now I think that everyone at least attempted to be civil and offer advice, however, the first comment that he didn’t like was from my little Princess, and his response was “SCREW YOU MUNCHKIN!!”. Okay, so Munchkin deserves a spanking for goading and she will get one, however, this was a guy who had been painted as a true southern gentleman who suddenly turned on one of the girls. The more the comments came in the uglier this person got by the minute, and the easier he became to wind up. The irony being that he felt that he was controlling everyone yet was unable to realize that he was being poked with a stick and responded each and every time, until finally he exploded and showed his true colors. This wasn’t the first comment, he had already started throwing around the fat comments to anyone he could, and he subsequently took the following post and rather childishly began to post the same thing over and over on any thread that he could get his hands on. Here is his diatribe and I will continue beneath it by summing up.

The words of a troll.

First off, let me say I’m sorry to my little Cherry Bottom, who is for sure going to give me an earful for posting on this site again. But I guy just can’t help riling up the losers on here sometimes.

Oh and sorry I can’t post on the other thread. Yes, silenced by the group admin again. Just another example of hey you don’t like the truth, just shut it down and jump on the band wagon with the other evil Nazi’s.

But that’s okay. I just wanted to jump back in for just a quick second to say a couple of things and then I’ll move on for a while.

My question is, why does fet life attract so many grossly overweight obese women, so many Obese men as well as Nerds and losers?

Is it because the only way this place can survive is due to having people who can sit around on their fat butts all day and do nothing but type on here. Is it because the majority of regular sized women have jobs or are spending time at the gym trying to actually take care of themselves and have a little self respect?

Just curious, because I just quickly glanced through those who were posting in my thread and if you look at their profiles you get this break out:

Monstrously obese women ; (Look at this, you put all these women on the same battleship and it would sink)

Lilystarr (head Nazi, and fattest of the bunch)
Camcamiura
Girlypet
Inmyelement
JolieSnow
Munchkin
Iggy
Miss_Chief
Kyra 4525

monstrously obese men like;

ShwolfEEP
Richard Winsor
Thetroublemaker
Big German

Total Nerds, who couldn’t get a date if pigs did start to fly: (Yes that is you ladies)

Kinky Limey
TomtheDom4U
MisterDrayke

Those that are so ugly, fat or nerdy that they are afraid to even show a picture of themselves:

JustAlex
Mattbratt
DDStillalive

Just one word of advice.

Go On A Damn Diet and have a little self respect. Beautify America a little bit you obese pigs.

Okay, I’m gone again. Grab your fudge, sit down in your wide seat chair , pull up to the computer as close as your stomach will let you and type away……

 

Now then, at first I felt a little bad when he was outed because all he was trying to do was find play partners, he was just doing so by having his own sock puppet sing his praises and talk about what a wonderful human being he was. When the fat comments started pouring in though, I was overjoyed that his actions would prevent him from ever meeting one of the Fetlife girls. What self respecting top would ever want a spanko girl meeting such a foul mouthed douchebag?

On the matter of that, what type of person who would call themselves a top would ever speak to a girl in such a manner? Believe me, this is just one example of the comments, they really were foul and disgusting. Now all of this person’s posts have been yanked from Fetlife, and while I won’t name him here, he is more than welcome to come here and defend himself. Honestly, can you believe this type of behaviour exists from a grown man?

Now of course it totally got out of hand, well, what do you expect when one person has so a low view of women? Ordinarily I LOATHE gang attacks, really absolutely despise them, in fact let me say now, if I am put down anywhere I don’t want anyone speaking up on my behalf, I’m a big boy and I can handle my own affairs. Everyone is free to make a judgment on my character, but I want that character judged by who Richard Windsor is, not who his friends tell you he is. Anyway, despite hating gang attacks, our friend opened a can of worms and it turned into the most fun a lot of people have had for a long time!! Douchebag was unable to see that every single person was laughing at him, he actually thought he was annoying people when in reality he was bringing joy into their lives. Like I said, I don’t like people ganging up on one person, but in this situation I actually thought it was a little deserved.

If you caught my post yesterday you would have seen the sock puppet whose life lasted but a mere day, a day of infamy until his life support was cut off by the owners of the site. Our dear friend was a genuine sock puppet, an original. Now his life wasn’t to attack, his life was to bring joy. Certainly, is his short time he became very popular with the ladies for his quick wit, lovable personality and of course his stunning good looks. But he was merely a sock puppet, nothing more and nothing less, and his owner must have been a humble man, after all, wouldn’t a man with a big ego want all of the adulation that was bestowed upon his sock puppet? Something we will never know, who WAS the man behind the sock puppet? 😉

Okay, so there is the latest and greatest drama on Fetlife. Trust me it isn’t all like that, the site is massive and has something for everyone whatever kink they have. It has become a home for many of us, Munchkin even has her own little corner, which, rumor has it, she is quite fond of. I would like to demonstrate with a picture right here but I didn’t ask for her permission on that particular picture.

Just remember, the italic text above was posted by a man who presented himself as a man of honor, and I invite him to post here to defend himself and his comments will not be deleted. Only if of course he decides to post them over and over and over again.