Hater in the house 🙂
My ego has been deflated!! There was me thinking that I am one of the most respected and well liked spankers out there, but today I received a message on Fetlife bringing me back down to earth 🙂 Now I don’t want anyone getting their panties in a bunch over it, I found it to be hysterical and I thought I would show you all the fun side of our community. I took down the earlier post because people started to take guesses as to who wrote this, but it is anonymous so I honestly don’t know who it is or where it came from 🙂 Some of my friends will tell you that I need to be brought down to earth sometimes anyway 😉 Please, no flames, just enjoy it as much as I did. BTW, I think that this message was sent in relation to the post below this one.
“Maybe if you weren’t such a stuck up snot at SL, people wouldn’t either like you (kiss your fat ass) or like most, think you’re a stuck up ass who couldn’t bother to say hello to anyone unless you thought you would get something from them!
Yeah, best to live in your own fantasy world and think you’re all that. Those who watch you, know what a loser you are.
No, I’ve never met you, I doubt you’d even bother to say “hello” to me. I’ve seen you at several events and watched you enough to know, now there’s a fellow who thinks he’s So much better than everyone else.”
A few points 🙂
1) Yes, I do have a fat ass, but so far I have dropped 54lbs and I have another 46 to go, so next year my friends will be able to kiss my skinny ass.
2) This is the only problem that I have with the message and that is in relation to ‘Getting something from them’. Aside from my paid work, everything else that I have done I have done for free. Even shared footage turned into a donation. So dare I say that the comment is the antithesis of who I am.
3) My world isn’t a fantasy one, it is all too real, and I will quite happily be a loser in my world 🙂
4) Bit of an oxymoron really being that you have never met me.
5) Yep, I admit it, I do have supreme confidence, a very big ego. Not everyone can handle that so I accept those comments.
Now do I know why I got this message? Of course I do, I’m not stupid. I know the story behind it.
By the way, the message was titled “An Arrogant Ass”…………….. which, if I am really honest, is how I view myself so I don’t blame anyone else for viewing me that way either 🙂
I love blogging 🙂
I know Bonnie has her ‘Love our lurkers’ day coming up, I wonder if she will mind me taking part but with a twist, I want to have “Love my haters” day and have everyone tell me how much of an asshole I really am 🙂 In fact you can start now if you want with this post, though it is easier to create a fake profile on Fetlife as I won’t be able to trace the IP address 🙂
My Fetlife profile is Richard Windsor’s Fetlife/Hater Profile
I find this quite funny too. Even without the obvious “I’ve never met you”, it’s clear that the person hasn’t met you. Now, had they said just that you have a huge ego — well, no secret there, eh? How many times did we do a “pop” this past weekend for that inflated head of yours?? 😀
On a serious note, as someone who has known you personally, and in r/l, for almost 10 yrs now, I would have to agree that it is the antithesis of who you are.
Well, except for the arrogant ass part. 😉 I would have to argue that the sender seems quite arrogant, as well, so obviously it’s a shared trait.
But I’ve seen you quite humble as well. And know that you bend over backwards for those who would do the same for you – and sometimes those who wouldn’t.
I like the idea of a “love my haters” day. What fun that would be!!
sarah
Oh and I forgot…..
SMMOOOOOOOOOOOCHES!
Sarah,
Consider it done!! On the 21st I will have my inaugural “Love my haters” day 🙂 I will have everyone send me nastygrams on every forum I am a part of and post them here 🙂
Hi Rich,
Whatever lights your lamp, dear man. If you prefer to draw malevolent lurkers out of the shadows, please proceed with my blessing.
BTW, as someone who has had her panties in a bunch on numerous occasions, it’s not necessarily a bad thing. Just saying…
Hugs,
Bonnie
“Maybe if you weren’t such a stuck up snot at SL, people wouldn’t either like you (kiss your fat ass) or like most, think you’re a stuck up ass who couldn’t bother to say hello to anyone unless you thought you would get something from them!”
Wow…people like you for being a stuck up snot AND you get ass kissing on top of it! Man…I’ve got my approach all wrong!!
LOL!!! Love your haters! Rich, you’re too much. I’d say you’re really turning the other cheek, but since you’re a top, that doesn’t really apply. 😉
Well, since I’ve been accused of being stuck-up in the past, may I say that I’m quite grateful to you for taking over this dubious dishonor. Much obliged, my friend! (giggling)
rich,
if you’re an arrogant ass there should be an arrogant ass society so i can follow those people i admire.
“before you accuse me, take a look at your self”.
the author of that dreck should be forced to eat those words engraved on a cowpat.
if he meant it as a joke i find it in poor taste.
many people found isacc assimov to be an arrogant sod too. i know better.
you’re in an exclusive club my friend.
wish i could meet the snot….he’d get the rough edge of MY tounge i can tell you. [thanx mr. humphries].
you can’t tell a book by it’s cover,
ddon
That’s one SAD individual, Richard! It sounds like their entire event was surrounded by getting a chance to meet you…..then again, it’s almost a compliment! Wow, so sorry to hear that people are that pathetic and they took it out on you. When you’re famous, it happens 😉
I hope this person reads this: I have met Richard, though only on one occassion so far, but from that fantastic afternoon sight-seeing the wonderful NYC, I gathered that Richard is a down-to-earth, non-arrogant, fun-loving, and HONORABLE person! I don’t think he would have intentially not spoken to anyone. Perhaps if you had been a little more open about you wanting to meet and talk to him, you might have had a better outcome of your trip.
Cheers, Richard, happy spanking! (I can’t wait to see the pics outside of Spankies!)
Where do I start? Oh yes … with “watched you enough to know”.
Seriously. I’ve seen you at SL too, you’ve always seemed to be having a great time. But this person WATCHES you.
Creepy. The whole thing feels just slightly this side of stalker-ish, to be frank. I’m glad you know the story behind it, because if this was truly ‘anonymous’ it would worry me…
As to Love My Haters day, well, I’ll be sure to come and read the comments!
s
Hi Richard, so this person has seen you on 2 or 3 events and on fetlife and your blog and they claim to know you? and can knock you down? and use your body mass as a reference point
i say, this person is full of sh!t. fuck them running
i dont know you at all. i know only a few things about you. I know you selflessly helped in the cause for paws. I know you have a very interesting spanking blog. I like the kind of spanking tubes you make and adore the interviews.
i wouldnt mind talking to you in person over a cup of tea. if you would not talk to me, i would hover not get my balls all tight up and think you were an arrogant fat man. i would just think you dont have the time or interest. big deal.
the hater in the house is full of themselves and projects onto you. how convenient for them. and also how stupid.
please stay the way you are, do not justify yourself about your weight. you will always outweight these haters, with your personality – not body-mass
best
tom
LOL, well just having met you last night, I can say, yes you are an arrogant ass. I say that with all the authority of an incorrugible smart ass who has probably repelled some people of her own.
I find that if you have a “big” personality, some people either find it intimidating or are somehow jealous. Or perhaps I’m completely full of shit and this is what I fantasize. Meanwhile, someone is stewing in the background ready to type vehement e-mails/posts appraising personality as obnoxiousness.
(see how i made it about me? It’s another charming aspect of my personality.)
I found you quite interesting once I actually talked to you. Truth be told, at any event, I find myself intimidated to walk up to people I don’t know and start a conversation. This doesn’t mean that person is stuck up for not approaching me first. It just means my insecurities get in the way of me being friendly sometimes. Perhaps the person who wrote the post could spend some time examining why they are so hung up on ONE person not talking to them? Or is it EVERYONE at a party not talking to them? Because at that point…it’s you, bub.
🙂