It is going to be a busy day today!!

Last night was the party and having suffered a bit of post party drop following last week’s trip to Georgia, it couldn’t have come at a better time. Normally at parties I play very little, but last night I was determined to let myself go a bit. Funny thing is though, following the party I had to do some math in my head.

Most of you read the post below where I got the message of hate, well it wasn’t the only message that I received, it of course the hate continued. The crux of the matter “seemed” to be that I have a penchant for playing with “The pretty young girls” who are all under 30, therefore any lady not fitting that mold I ignore. So it did get me to thinking, in the last week I have spanked 14 different ladies and off the top of my head 12 of them were over 30 years old. The other two girls were in their mid to late 20’s.

So where does that thought process come from? I believe their are two reasons for it. Firstly, it is the pictures that people see of me online. Nearly all of my pics feature pro models (not all pics, just most of them) and they feature girls who are comfortable enough with their bodies to share pics. Now I’m not throwing a blanket over it because each person is different, but for the most part these girls tend to be the ‘cute young things’ who allow their pictures to be taken. There is nothing I can do about that, it is a fact that I have no control over.

Secondly, the other reason why there is a belief that I have a penchant for ‘Pretty young girls”? Simple, I’m a guy, there is some truth to the statement. Quite honestly though, I don’t think the problem is mine, I play with beautiful ladies over 30 all the time. With the younger girls there is a certain fantasy element, we all have them and as a red blooded male I am no different. Also, I’m single, and of course I am looking for my own play partner. The truth of the matter is, most of the beautiful ladies over 30 are already spoken for.

Have I been guilty of thinking with my dick over my head, without a shadow of a doubt I have. I do take ownership of it though and while I try and be respectful, there are occasions where I need to be grounded. It is one of the biggest reasons that I love Sarah Thorne so much, she isn’t afraid to give me a few home truths every now and then. That is one of the big problems though, I am actually very easy to talk to. If someone has a problem with something I am doing, chances are I am also fully aware of it, I just need to be slapped around the head from time to time. Nobody is perfect and I am no different, if I see a ‘pretty young thing’ at a spanking party, do I want to spank her? Come on, let’s be honest here, of course I do. What gets overlooked though is that I enjoy spanking beautiful ladies of all ages and I am totally blessed there because I get that opportunity.

Now because I have no idea who my hater is, there is a chance that she was at the party last night. Was there fuel for her fire last night? Yes, there was, but without reading the whole book there is a possibility that her opinion of me last night didn’t change. Why do I mention the ‘whole book’? Let me explain.

At last nights party there was a ‘pretty young thing’ around me for a large part of the evening and to the untrained eye it may have enhanced the view that I ‘have a penchant for pretty young girls’. Now last night I played with 5 beautiful young ladies, was the ‘pretty young thing’ one of them? No, she wasn’t!! All of the beautiful ladies that I played with last night were over 30 years of age.

What did the untrained miss in that picture? I don’t often say this and perhaps it is very egotistical of me, but it is what it is and I am a very honest person. There are certain ‘pretty young things’ that I have the respect of, and despite the thinking that I have a penchant for them, it is ACTUALLY the reverse, they have a penchant for me. Not in the sense that I am all that and a bag of chips, no, not at all, despite popular belief I rarely play with these girls at parties. There are a few girls, last nights one included, that I have an understanding with. The understanding is simple, if you are feeling under pressure and you don’t know how to handle it, just simply say come on over to me and if you have to, simply say ‘I have to ask Richard first’. Is it cocky and egotistical? Perhaps, I’m not sure, but it is the protective nature that I have. I also have the respect of the girls that they know I am a safe zone.

It serves as a dual purpose, the girl doesn’t have to deal with the feeling that people think she is stuck up because she isn’t quite ready for her 8th spanking back to back, and for the girl she knows she can go somewhere if she is feeling under pressure. Like I said, is there some egotism involved? Perhaps people may perceive that, but in reality it is just me being a good guy. Bottom line, despite what anyone may think, I didn’t play with the girl last night nor did I even suggest it.

There were some girls I spanked though so let me tell you about that. First of all I had made a promise to FBG that she would be my first spanking of the night. Now I don’t want to downplay the session by mentioning a ‘first’, but it is a fact so I have to share it. FBG was the first Latina that I have ever spanked!! Now I have mentioned before that I have swatted a Latina, but I have never had one over my knee. Well the gorgeous FBG became that first girl and what a fun session we had. You know what I found funny though, as the night went on the naughty young miss became ever so cheeky, almost like she was begging for another spanking. Well now my Latina cherry has been popped, you can bet there is another spanking coming, perhaps as soon as next Saturday young lady!!

The next session was a first spanking given to a long time friend. This was a LONG session and it was the type of session I love, feisty and hot. The young lady in question is an Australian girl and not having played with her before I didn’t know what to expect. Well, having spanked her I can assure you that I look forward to the second session. This was the only session that I did that there was a reason for, the young lady in question just can’t keep her hands to herself and she did something to me in April that she had yet to pay for. Like I said it was LONG and boy can this girl fidget with the best of them. She even said to me afterwards that some guys she has played with don’t like the battle, personally, I love it. Trust me when I say that I had to earn giving her the spanking, she fought and clawed and my left hand was as busy as my right controlling her hands. I LOVE sessions like that, nothing out of control but I had to overpower her. I’m just glad I had a sturdy shirt on because that got a good workout as well. It was an awesome session and I look forward to another one with this young lady, it was right up my alley. She not only got a hand spanking but I also took my belt off and also used a small paddle on her. We probably played for a good 20 minutes.

We were running out of time and I still had promises to fulfill. I hate to cut anything short but my good friend, lil_brat, totally understood and she did also say that her butt was about 90% done anyway. Normally we have a continuous roleplay where she is the naughty schoolgirl, but we didn’t play it this time, it was just a very short over the knee hand spanking done through some laughter. We will catch up on the ongoing naughty schoolgirl at the next party. I do offer my thanks to lil_brat for being so understanding that I still had a session to do even though the curtains were being broken down.

Lastly I got to play with another diamond of a girl. It had probably been two years since I last spanked her, and while we couldn’t do a long session because the night was over and everyone was packing up, lil_brat stood guard on our curtain to allow us the time to get a Singapore caning in. Thanks lil_brat 🙂

Miss_chief a couple of years ago was also a first for me, she was the first black girl I had ever spanked, and to date she is the still the only one. Just recently I started a thread on fetlife about ethnicity’s that resulted in someone accusing me of playing the race card, lol. I had to politely point out that I am WHITE and that a good number of replies had come from minorities who had also agreed with me that there does seem to be a lack of ethnic diversity in the spanking world. Anyway, being caned was a relatively new thing for Misss_chief, so we started out light and she directed me as to when I could step it up a bit. By the end she was getting 50% strokes that changed her giggles into knee buckling yelps 🙂 Yet another awesome session and the perfect way to finish the night. When we were done and we emerged from behind the curtain, we had exceeded the time limit and every curtain other than ours had been broken down, talk about abusing ones position 😉

Afterwards a whole bunch of us went to a diner where I got to meet some great new friends who I had not run into during the party itself, it really was a fantastic evening. As for the ‘pretty young thing’, I didn’t spank her, nor have I spanked her to date. We did however agree that at the next party we are at in December we will play. So if my hater was in attendance last night then please be aware of that for the next party. HOWEVER, I also told the pretty young thing of my preference for a girl to wear white nylon panties, and if she isn’t wearing them there will be a pretty good chance that she will get spanked on the bare with a small paddle from the get go. She said she would write it on her hand, but we will see. Does that make me an egotistical asshole? Probably, but I’ve never denied being one 🙂 Speaking of which, I spanked five girls last night and all of them were wearing black panties, every single one of them, was there an unknown conspiracy against Richard Windsor? Hmm, now I am thinking 😉