Bonnie over at Bottom Smarts is doing her 4th annual Love Our Lurkers day, please pop on over there to see all the blogs that are taking part with her.
Based on my own personal principles I won’t be taking part in this event. Today isn’t the day to air those thoughts though, I will do that an a more appropriate time.
My thoughts today are on spanking pet peeves. It is a pretty quick post but I would love to hear your own views on what it is that you consider a spanking pet peeve.
As in life, there are many pet peeves that I have in the spanking world, each one over a period of time will get its own post on this blog as I dissect the spanking world as seen through my own eyes. So let me give you a handful and see whether they touch on any of your own. Just be aware that I had a cranky muffin for breakfast and a great big plate of misery guts for lunch, so be warned 😉
I suppose the top one for me is the judgement of others likes within the spanking world. It is a major pet peeve of mine and one that I have given airtime to in various forms on this site. I personally couldn’t care if a guy wants to dress up as a chicken and have his partner dress up as a fox for their spanking games. The concept itself may be foreign to me, and discussing the merits of it is cool, but at no time should we judge what it is that gets them off. There are a lot of ideas and concepts in the spanking world that I would love to experimentwith, and right now I have only scratched the surface. Some of the ideas I have are pretty dark and I would be horrified if I thought that my own community would think of me as a freak because of it.
So that was the top pet peeve but wait, there’s more, oh there’s a lot more. 🙂
In no random order, here are a bunch of one liners that I will speak of at a later date in more detail.
Uncontrolled bratting is a big one. I’m not talking about the playful stuff that one expects from a naughty girl itching for a spanking, I’m talking of the type of bratting that annoys anyone and everyone who happens to be within striking distance of the person/people doing it, regardless of the fact that they might completely dislike it. As an example, at a party once I was talking to an old friend about her recent experiences and someone tried to get my attention by squirting me with a water pistol. I was wondering how many times it was going to take of me ignoring her for it to set in that perhaps, just perhaps I wasn’t interested in this game. We came very close to me turning Bill Bixby on her, because let me let you in on a little secret. Whenever you meet me you will find me to be a happy and pleasant person, at no time should you ever consider it a challenge to upset me, because just like the Incredible Hulk….. You wouldn’t like me when I was angry!!! I can take a lot of ribbing and self deprecation is an art form that I have perfected, AND, should someone take me to the limit I will warn them first that I am about to explode. Not for nothing, trust me when I tell you this, explode is the appropriate word!! So if you are bratting at a party, please be aware that 90% of the people who are having to politely accept what you are doing, do not actually like what it is that is happening.
I have a list an arms length I am sure, but here are a few one liners. Blogs that pretend to be spanking blogs, when in actuality all they are is a place to promote affiliate sites and make money. Don’t get me wrong, I make money off this website just like anyone else does, but the primary focus of this site is based upon my life in the spanking world. There maybe a spam post here and there, and you will see some at the bottom of this very post, but I don’t devote my every post trying to find a way to link and promote my paysites. There will be a small about of spam on this blog, but I’m honest enough to tell you so 🙂 Remember, people can run their blogs however they want, what I am asking here is for pet peeves and that is one of mine 😉 Again, I’m not talking a random link here and there, that’s totally cool. Now before anyone takes it to personal what I am saying, this peeve comes from the random generic email I receive all the time requesting a link exchange. What I am being asked for is for my traffic to be directed to someones spam blog so that they could potentially earn the money from my readers, instead of my readers purchasing for me. Too many times I have seen a blog link sunk to the bottom 10% of someones homepage. They don’t want your link, they want your traffic!!
I know I have been meaning to write about Starhunters but I haven’t got around to that yet. A big pet peeve is when guys (or girls for that matter) chase after anyone with a *star* name. The peasants amongst us aren’t worthy of their attention, all they want is the top models on their resume as if it gives them some type of status symbol. It does give them a status symbol of course, but in my eyes it is called shallowness!!
Pet Peeve #600, anyone who questions models as being stuck up or cliquey!! It is the biggest misconception in the spanking world. The reason that spanking models tend to gravitate towards each other is 1) They probably know each other 2) They don’t have to have a horde of eyes staring them like they are a slab of meat. 3) The can sit and relax and chill (we ALL need to be able to do that) without having to tell 50 people in a row “I’m not playing right now, maybe later”. Take any spanking model you want and the chances are that every single guy (and some girls) in that room wants to spank them, they don’t get a break at all. I can totally understand why they would want to be with a select few of their friends, it must suck feeling like you are the ticket machine at the deli counter in a supermarket.
For anyone who is cynical about models, take some time to read that statement above……. Now imagine yourself in those shoes knowing that everyone isn’t really interested in you as a person, they just want the trophy of having played with you. See starhunters above, I would withdraw myself as well. Some of my friends in the spanking world also happen to be models, and I can tell you from first hand experience being around them that some of the lecherous behaviour is really icky. I may be English, but I am really a New Yorker at heart and I can’t tell you how many times I have wanted to say “Yo, dude, have you totally undressed her with your eyes yet?”……. And of course like any fox they are just waiting for that 0.7 second interval where they can swoop in. Even the spanking star groupies let their guard down from time to time and allow the foxes in 🙂
Okay, a friend just poked me that I wasn’t using one liners, so before I get carried away, here are the one liners……. A random list of spanking pet peeves….. Almighty Dom Syndrome…. As in life as well as at a spanking party, someone telling ME what appropriate dress constitutes……. Negativity!! There’s no place for it in the spanking world other than to try and bring everyone else down. Our world should be about joy and happiness and catharsis…… Interfering in my scene because it isn’t to your liking. Quite simply “Go fuck yourself”, because those are the words you are likely to hear should you ever try to interfere with a play session I am having!!……… The concept that a good spanking relates to how hard the girl is being hit!! In grates the snot out of me when I read “That was lame”……… A huge one is when my partner does not dress the way I would like to enhance my enjoyment in a spanking scene. It works both ways and I would expect the girl to be peeved if I didn’t try to please her as well, so if I make a request it shouldn’t be seen as a challenge to one’s womanhood. Quite the reverse actually, I embrace a woman’s femininity. Is it really too much to ask that the lady wear a skirt and bikini panties?………
I think I will stop there as I am sure I am likely to piss off 90% of the spanking community with what I just wrote, just don’t be afraid to give it back to me, I can take it. One of the enjoyments I get in life is hearing how people view me, and this might come as a little surprise to my friends in the spanking world. The number one thing that I hear repeatedly is that I am abrasive, though egotistical and hard headed are always used liberally 🙂 Now the reason I like that is because the people who like me view it differently, my friends don’t see me as abrasive, they see that I am able to say things that most people wish they could say themselves. In some eyes egotistical = confidence and hard headedness is sometimes confused by a person actually having principals and morals. Yeah, you can probably tell I’m a wee bit cranky today and I felt like broaching some subjects honestly, subjects that I perhaps sometimes diplomatically avoid because I generally beat to the sound of my own drum.
Have at it and let me know how you feel, I promise to respond, even to those who disagree with me.
And finally, as promised, here is my daily dose of spam. I told you that I have become a regular visitor to hot movies, well, let me tell you this, when I searched for Tanya Foxx the other day I came across just about the hottest spanking video I have seen. Maybe I will review it in full in a few days, but this one had not only Tanya Foxx but also Kiri Kelly in it. Kiri is interested in spanking and her and Tanya take turns spanking each other, and that is just the start, there is some major girl/girl action in this film and I needed a cold shower when it was done. The first pic is a link to the video itself, and the other 3 pics are some screenshots.
Click this pic to view the movie details!!
And here are some screenshots to salivate over
Always enjoy your rants Rich! This was no exception. I’ve never found you abrasive at all.
You do have quite a big head, tho! lol…..
Bean eating bastard.
s.
I agree with lots of this. For one, the judgement issue. I’m not saying I’ve never giggled over stuff out there, but I try not to judge people’s kinks as bad, sick, or wrong (excluding abusive/illegal things including kids, animals etc.). There are some things I like that I won’t even comment on anymore because I got ripped into on a forum once after responding to a thread. It was insinuated that I needed some kind of “help” for liking it, and it was a subject that is fairly common in the spanko world. Not sure why me in particular, there were others posting too, but I don’t feel comfortable even discussing the issue anymore and never comment on threads about it. It ended badly with the thread being deleted 😀
Over-the-top bratting. It’s bad enough when it’s going on and you just find it annoying when you are trying to visit with friends. But I always feel bad for tops who are expected to just TAKE it as “all part of the fun” whether they find it fun or not. Then expected to spank on command to reward the brat in question.
A related Peeve: The automatic assignment of “jealousy” to any woman who dares to be annoyed by the over-the-top bratting. Especially if, god forbid, she is older than the bratter lol. I find it rude if I’m talking to someone and it’s interrupted by someone else behaving obnoxiously in an apparent desperate bid for attention. Doesn’t mean I’m jealous of someone “stealing all the tops.”
Also, “jealousy” being assigned if a woman isn’t particularly interested in spanking models. I for one, have no resentment or dislike towards the spanking models. I’ve met several, have liked them, and found them to be very nice. But the fact that they are models/actors/actresses holds no particular fascination for me so I don’t really get all the hoopla about it. Honestly, once I realized you were well known beyond the forum we met on, and were doing videos I was tempted to back off our friendship a bit because I didn’t want to be thought of as a “starhunter” as you call it lol.
Interesting that you have trouble getting girls to wear what you like. I sort of have the opposite problem. I TRY to wear some things for some guys and all I get is “whatever you want to wear” or “whatever you are comfortable in”….when what I WANT is to wear something they like. (I like to please, that can be part of the spark for me, tell me what to do!) I’m talking within reason of course. I’m not going to go out and buy something expensive, especially to probably wear once, but I’ll come as close as I can with what I have or can find. Hell I’ll at least try.
interesting post Richard yes those 2 spankees were very good ,best wishes tim .
Iggy — I’m always on my best behaviour at parties because of the environment. I will admit to being a little outspoken at times in real life 🙂
Sarah — I used to be conceited, but now I’m just about perfect 🙂
Munchin — Thank you for such a well thought out response. I agree and disagree on your thoughts regarding jealousy however. I’m in the same boat as you in the regard that in the spanking community, a spanking model is no different to anyone else who shares our common bond. There are certain people I would like to talk to who I have admired the work of, however, if they were rude or conceited people then they wouldn’t interest me. Some of my friends happen to also be spanking models, but the bottom line is, they became friends with me because of their personality and not because of their success. I’m proud of ALL of the friends I have in the spanking world, whether they be top spanking models, or whether they be someone who doesn’t even like their picture taken.
The part I disagree with you however is on the jealousy part. I have seen and read and heard snotty comments all over the place regarding spanking models. There is an inherent cattiness that I abhor where the spanking model in question is being criticized simply because they are a very attractive individual, or because they are confident enough within themselves to present various forms of visual art. It is completely unfair to be penalized simply because a person meets the media standard of being attractive, and that is where I disagree with you because I have heard unfair judgements constantly made in reference to spanking models in general. So I do think there is a level of jealousy, though sometimes it is the envy I guess we all have, but at the same time there is just some plain old nasty bitchiness. Maybe it isn’t widespread, but it is most definitely present.
I don’t think munchkin was saying that there wasn’t cattiness; there clearly is on all levels, and not just from those who rip into models for one reason or another, probably due to their own inadequate feelings about themselves.
What I read was that her pet peeve was that “jealousy” was automatically attributed to someone who got annoyed at bratting when that was not the case (kinda like models being dubbed snobs unfairly when that may be far from the truth), or who didn’t uplift models to the same status as some (like starhunters) do. (Not uplifting them implies that you think of them as equal)
While I acknowledge that some actions are, and can be, a result of jealousy or unfair assumptions about a person, I do also agree with munchkin that it is annoying to be looked upon as “jealous” for not liking when the “cuter and younger” brats (I’ve heard these said) who are infringing about your activity and being clearly annoyed by it.
s.
Ah Rich, I love your rants. You know I enjoy a good rant, having done plenty of them myself. You have the confidence and cajones to be yourself, to speak your mind and damn the torpedoes. I admire that. And yet you do it in an intelligent, thoughtful and articulate manner. Bravo.
Gawd, where do I start? OK, first the judgment thing. You know what? Humans judge. I don’t care how un-PC it is to admit you have things that squick you — we ALL do. I think there is a difference between acknowledging that something isn’t your cup of tea, or even gives you the creeps, and implying that other people shouldn’t do it. To each their own, it’s true. But really, aren’t you ever creeped out by certain kinks? Did you read my blog about going to the dungeon last week, and seeing a guy who had saline shot into his scrotum until his balls looked like a large inflated balloon? Tell me that wouldn’t have skeeved you just a bit.
For example, I can say that if people want to do the Daddy/daughter scenario, then more power to them. Whatever floats their boat. But I can also say that personally, it doesn’t appeal in the least. Is that judgment? Or just a preference?
Spanking models. Oh sure, heard it all. We’re clique-y, we’re snobs, we’re just doing this for the money, we’re all druggies and alkies and we have unresolved self-esteem issues, we’re stuck up because we don’t fall across every open lap indiscriminately, we think we’re all that, blah blah blah. I try to take it all with a balanced perspective. Because for every catty, nasty, ignorant comment, there are at least a dozen kind and appreciative ones, lovely words that touch my heart and make me smile.
But yeah, the sour grapes can either make you laugh or really get you down. One comment got back to me at a Shadow Lane party last year — something along the lines of, “Erica Scott looks amazing. She must have had some work done.” Talk about your backhanded compliment! Meowwwww! Or all that “she looks great for her age” crap. You KNOW how I feel about that…
A final word about models, and I can only speak for myself. I’m a middle-aged spanko who just happened to be lucky enough to do some videos and meet some incredible people. I was going to parties and posting in forums long before I shot anything. I hate pedestals. Because I’m clumsy, I always end up falling off them, and that hurts. We’re just people. If you see us at a party and we seem aloof or removed, don’t leap to a conclusion. We may very well be overwhelmed and distracted (raising hand) because we’re not at our best in crowds. You don’t know what’s going on within.
I don’t think it’s a bad thing, asking a woman to wear something in particular for you, the spanker. As long as it’s not too off the wall. If a spanker asked me to wear a schoolgirl outfit for him, I’d say I’m sorry, but no. I’m too damned old for that. One time, I was trying to arrange play with a spanker I met online, and he said he wanted me to wear 5-inch stilettos. I said I don’t have any, and he said, “Then go buy some.” At first, I thought he was kidding. He wasn’t. NEXT. But I will always ask a new playmate if he has a preference — a color, a panty style (as long as it isn’t granny), a type of dress or skirt, bare legs or stockings. One spanker wanted me to wear denim shorts. No problem. Another asked if I had a red dress. I did.
Most people know one of my biggest peeves in the scene — arrogance. As you put it, Almighty Dom Syndrome. My bf calls it “Tops’ Disease.” The attitude of “I am Top, hear me roar, I can demand your respect and submission and you will give it to me, no questions asked.” Baloney. Yes, I am capable of giving respect, and yes, even submission at times. But it must be earned, along with my trust. It’s not instantaneous, and it can never be ordered.
Cookie-cutter spankers. One spanking fits all, without even trying to glean individual preferences. If so-and-so liked it, then everyone else will like it too. NOT.
And finally, the bratting thing. As a feisty spankee who likes to sass, I resent how the unbridled brats give the rest of us a bad name. There is an art and subtlety to good bratting. It’s a tickle of a feather, not an anvil dropping on a foot. Provoking a bit to elicit a reaction is one thing; angering and annoying the bejesus out of people is another. Learn the difference.
(whew) See what happens when you get me started? That’s enough for now. Thanks for the provocative post, Rich.
Sarah pretty much hit the nail on the head. I’m not saying at all that there isn’t cattiness or jealousy out there. It’s just a pet peeve to me that it is immediately attributed to women if they don’t like overt brattiness or if they aren’t enamoured of more “famous” girls. I agree there is plenty of nastiness directed towards models from people who likely ARE jealous…..but that doesn’t mean all of us (who may or may not meet that media standard of attractiveness) necessarily feel or behave that way. Some of us just don’t have much interest in it and that should be perfectly acceptable and not viewed as being “jealous.”
I love your rants. You say so many things that many are probably thinking as well but just haven’t gathered the courage to voice. Bravo! If this is the result of a crankymuffin, then I’ll be happy to buy you a baker’s dozen of them as you expand on the various topics as promised.
Now, I’m pretty sure you know that I would never peg you as abrasive! Wickedly truthful (in a welcomed way) at times, but you are one of the most kind hearted, generous, easy going guys I know!
Sarah — I overlooked the top part of Munchkin’s post and addressed the second part in relation to perceived jealousy of models. I must admit that I personally haven’t encountered many situations where people have been accused of being jealous for not uplifting models status. My experience has been that a lot, not all, of models don’t want to be put on any pedestal that elevates them, they just want to be treated exactly as they should be, like anyone else. In regards to the ‘Cuter and younger’ brats, yes, I too have heard comments in a similar vain regarding jealousy. Bratting is something that I tolerate, but I don’t particularly enjoy. What it comes down to I think myself is a brat’s vanity versus a non brat’s annoyance, the end result always given as jealousy when it is clearly anything but.
Erica — Thank you for your kind words and your lengthy response. I can’t believe that I am not linked to you, I’m going to have to do that ASAP because I enjoy reading your views. Unfortunately as the link isn’t close by I miss out on a lot, so let me rectify that this morning.
Part 1, yes, I certainly would have been skeeved seeing a guys nutsack look like Barney’s head, however, I’m not sure I would have been in that environment in the first place. It isn’t something I would knock though because it is something that I know nothing about, nor would I wish to. I still think there is a difference between things that squick you, and passing judgement on the things that squick you. There are far too many things that give me the heebie jeebies, but more power to those who can explore their fantasies. That is also the difference between judgement and preference however. I am very clear in what I like but I also understand that you can’t always get everything you want, so as long as there is some compromise then I am happy. Take the bratting aspect for instance, I personally don’t like it, however, if it is something that is important to the lady then I will gladly tolerate it should that be something that enhances her scene.
There is nothing that you have said that I disagree with in regards to models, I have heard them all also. Thank you though for pointing out that the compliments far outweigh the negative comments, that is important to point out of course. Alright, I’m going to admit that I have a bit of a thing for Samantha Woodley, but that is just fantasy based and I’m quite happy with that. When it comes to models, I actually think it is a nice little icebreaker to talk about their work, but only as a starting point to a conversation. Earlier this year I did that with Ralph Marvell, someone who’s work I have enjoyed immensely. At the end of the day though, had he been in the least bit conceited (which he wasn’t) then the conversation would have finished pretty quickly. When we go back to personal squick’s, spanking model groupies IS a big one for me.
If I thought for a minute that someone tried to befriend me simply because of my name, or because of models that I probably know personally, then I would actually be pretty offended. There is a big difference between someone praising you for your work, who you later find out is someone who compliments you as a friend and you become good buddies, and someone who just wants to be your friend because they believe that will elevate their standing in the spanking community. Everyone might be shocked as to just how many people contact me as a buffer for trying to get to someone else.
The people who I call my friends in the spanking world I couldn’t be happier with. All of them possess a similar quality, the number one of which in my book is an extreme kindness towards others. If you see someone who I refer to as a friend then you should be aware that they are genuinely nice people, regardless of whether they are a model or not, they all possess that one quality. I’m very proud of my friends and they all elevate my status as a person.
I have also got carried away with my response to you Erica, lol. One final thing though, I am totally with you and you have hit the nail on the head for me. There is NOTHING that I like more than a feisty, sassy brat. I like a game of words, innuendo, subtle insults, you name it and I love it. The tickle of the feather moment for me, and I sure hope you can relate to this, is the pause of silence, it is one of the hottest parts of a spanking to me. When the banter goes back and forth, with the girl doing most of the talking of course, lol, and she comes up with a particularly good zinger. That pause of silence where the spanker stops spanking and looks at the back of her head without saying a word. The look on her face, whatever it be (smiling, laughing, worried, embarrassed) is the tickle of the feather moment for me. I can watch a scene like that over and over.
Okay, I will continue my responses to everyone who commented under Erica shortly, I really should look to see if I have any work to do 🙂
Munchkin — Perhaps my words “Media standard of being attractive” were the wrong words to use in my sentence, but I do hope that you looked past the faux pas at what I was saying. Now you are right, and I am guilty of it myself, there are times where Jealousy is attributed freely. For myself I guess I get a little cynical because I see and hear some really nasty comments thrown about with little or no foundation to them at all. The same goes for “Creepy” guys at parties, I have also heard that said about some of my friends who I consider to be the nicest people you can meet. Just because they don’t look like Brad Pitt, or are very quiet, shy individuals, automatically the rumor gets spread around that they are creepy.
Todd — Munchkin will do as you say, she is a good little slave girl 🙂
There isn’t much I can add to what you say because I’m in full agreement with you. In the concept of playing a game, bratting is totally fine and while it may not be my optimum enjoyment level, I am fine with “Playing the game”. I’m also fine with talking about favorite movies or the current situation with the government of Honduras. It’s like Erica said above, and I quote
“Provoking a bit to elicit a reaction is one thing; angering and annoying the bejesus out of people is another. Learn the difference.”
Don — I think I agree with you, though I also think I am a bit more direct though. There isn’t an industry standard that I try to follow though when speaking with women. If a waitress was to spill something on me, I’m likely to say “Dude, come on now”. Now I won’t harbor a grudge because mistakes do happen, but I won’t pretend to be happy about it 🙂 Now the way to my heart isn’t through my stomach (lord knows I doubt if I can fit much more in there anyway at this rate :-)), the way to my heart is through random acts of kindness. I just like good people, friendly people. My idea of cute is far from anyone else’s anyway, heck, I was in love with Cyndi Lauper at one point 🙂
Pixie — Anybody would think that we have a meeting coming up where I am going to spank you based on what you just wrote there!!
Seriously though, thank you so much for your kind words. Birds of a feather though my dear, there is a reason that we are good friends. Like all of my friends, you elevate me as a person with your own kindness 🙂
Now as for that spanking……… did you say you were wearing white nylon panties on Saturday, lol 🙂
Richard<
Classic rants and makes sense, thanks
Tanya and Kiri, wow, amazing ladies!! But must say Pixie and Sarah are now taking these classi ladies place!
Thanks for sharing
Oh by the way, great panty shots here as well, thanks
Rich,
I want to clarify, in case it was misunderstood — when I spoke of uplifting models, I didn’t mean to imply that the models wanted or expected that. I was speaking from the standpoint of others who uplift them to some goddess-like status, and then view someone who is blase about models as being “jealous”.
It’s a normal reaction from people…..lol…..when you hear a critique of someone that you like a lot or know well. I recall being at a concert with my mother once and the group was actually pretty good but there was this one girl in the group who was way too bouncy on stage and it was annoying me tremendously. (The biggest thing, I think, is that it was very distracting). I said to my mom, “That girl is getting on my nerves.”
My mother turned to me and said, “oh, you’re just jealous.” – and she was dead serious!!!
sarah
I must tell you Richard. This is a great post!
The B word. Hate it and most of all hate it when people use the B…ing term as if it were a sporting event. I haven’t met too many guys that were amused by it’s use in a party situation whereby you are calling out the spanker in front of other spankers and spankees – as in “Spank me or your are ‘kitty’ (mild substitution of words here) for not spanking me in front of all these people.” Unless you are in smaller group and really know each other, B techniques can really grate on not only the nerves of spankos in general.
However, there is something to be said for the skillful way in which an ingenious prank is pulled off and of course the way in which it is perceived by it’s said victim. Namely, water gun technique. lol And this is based on purely personal experience with a dear friend – and the incredibly sexy and legendary Jennifer Brooks. She was hanging out with us at a karaoke club and brought this TINY water gun. We were sitting in circular red booths from a decade past. Every time Dallas sat down, she would aim it right at his eye and he would immediately look to the ceiling, certain there was a leak. lol It took him a while to figure out why the ‘leak’ followed him… but he eventually figured it out. Now, let it be said that she got one over on Dallas and it was hilarious – not only to us but honestly later to Dallas as well! Did spanking follow- of course. But it was more of a funny prank than the B word. Therein I find a difference.
As far as negative feelings toward spanking models or anyone in the industry. People are people. Put yourself in their shoes. It can be overwhelming on every level. The word model seems really strange now and I much prefer the word friends.
Dressing up… don’t have much to argue with here. Dallas says I have a costume fetish and a chiffon fetish. If he doesn’t intercept a couple of packages a week, I’m not doing a good job. 😉
And my last bit of soup that I will offer is that I absolutely DESPISE so called fellow spankos that judge other spankos! That is the worst kick in the ass a spanko could ever imagine. Our spanking is too light or too hard – or whatever! Richard, we get this crap from the vanilla world all day long. Do we really need it from other spankos? I think not.
Sabrina
Pet Peeves? Don’t get me started. Here is my list topper Richard. Spankos that listen to rumors. heresay, and other games of telephone past on to them. Each embellishing before they happily shove it down the rumor mill sewage pipe. The women that shout out ” Dallas spanks too hard!” are always the ones that have never been spanked by me. Funny how that works. The spankos that will damage others with these “said rumors” without even stopping to ask themselves ” Is this the truth?” or “Could this rumor I am spreading be false”? I am not naming names…but a supposedly reputable competing company told models not to work for me. The reason you ask? Why, I had multiple restraining orders out against me. They heard it so it must be true…right?
Here is another…. Spanking Tube. Not the site, but the knuckleheads that will go on and watch FREE material….then leave RUDE comments. Hey the web is full of knuckleheads I know. It is still a pet peeve non the less. I mean when you put up a free clip and they write something like “yank c_unt” or ” I would like this better if you included all the spankings”. Are people just retarded?
The Brat thing I have spoken out about over the years. I think most know where I stand on that. I hate full grown women acting like spoiled 8 year olds… end of story.
Star struck stalkers…. “No means no “…. end of story.
Other spankos that feel the need to intervene between two consensual spankos as to what they believe is a better way to go about spanking practices…. F.O.
Lastly… this is not a peeve. It is a shout out to our beautiful friend Jennifer Brooks who knows that I spank hard. Why? Because I have actually spanked her. She had me thinking I was going to get legionnaires disease from that leaking air conditioning duct. You “go” girl! You also “went” girl over my knee for a good one. wink
I love the abrasive hardheaded egotistical liberalism you write with 😉
Many of the pet peeves you listed I agree with. I honestly can’t comment on the star struck model thing, mainly because a) I don’t watch many videos b) little interest in women anyway c) I don’t see their work putting them above everyone else, so I don’t treat them like they are some idol. I am sure they don’t like be drooled at. I place them in my mind as normal people (which they are) and without assigning them that “star” status, it makes it easier to communicate with them on forums, etc…after all they are human too.
I just realized that I commented quite a bit on the star struck peeve. Whoops.