Bonnie over at Bottom Smarts is doing her 4th annual Love Our Lurkers day, please pop on over there to see all the blogs that are taking part with her.

Based on my own personal principles I won’t be taking part in this event. Today isn’t the day to air those thoughts though, I will do that an a more appropriate time.

My thoughts today are on spanking pet peeves. It is a pretty quick post but I would love to hear your own views on what it is that you consider a spanking pet peeve.

As in life, there are many pet peeves that I have in the spanking world, each one over a period of time will get its own post on this blog as I dissect the spanking world as seen through my own eyes. So let me give you a handful and see whether they touch on any of your own. Just be aware that I had a cranky muffin for breakfast and a great big plate of misery guts for lunch, so be warned 😉

I suppose the top one for me is the judgement of others likes within the spanking world. It is a major pet peeve of mine and one that I have given airtime to in various forms on this site. I personally couldn’t care if a guy wants to dress up as a chicken and have his partner dress up as a fox for their spanking games. The concept itself may be foreign to me, and discussing the merits of it is cool, but at no time should we judge what it is that gets them off. There are a lot of ideas and concepts in the spanking world that I would love to experimentwith, and right now I have only scratched the surface. Some of the ideas I have are pretty dark and I would be horrified if I thought that my own community would think of me as a freak because of it.

So that was the top pet peeve but wait, there’s more, oh there’s a lot more. 🙂

In no random order, here are a bunch of one liners that I will speak of at a later date in more detail.

Uncontrolled bratting is a big one. I’m not talking about the playful stuff that one expects from a naughty girl itching for a spanking, I’m talking of the type of bratting that annoys anyone and everyone who happens to be within striking distance of the person/people doing it, regardless of the fact that they might completely dislike it. As an example, at a party once I was talking to an old friend about her recent experiences and someone tried to get my attention by squirting me with a water pistol. I was wondering how many times it was going to take of me ignoring her for it to set in that perhaps, just perhaps I wasn’t interested in this game. We came very close to me turning Bill Bixby on her, because let me let you in on a little secret. Whenever you meet me you will find me to be a happy and pleasant person, at no time should you ever consider it a challenge to upset me, because just like the Incredible Hulk….. You wouldn’t like me when I was angry!!! I can take a lot of ribbing and self deprecation is an art form that I have perfected, AND, should someone take me to the limit I will warn them first that I am about to explode. Not for nothing, trust me when I tell you this, explode is the appropriate word!! So if you are bratting at a party, please be aware that 90% of the people who are having to politely accept what you are doing, do not actually like what it is that is happening.

I have a list an arms length I am sure, but here are a few one liners. Blogs that pretend to be spanking blogs, when in actuality all they are is a place to promote affiliate sites and make money. Don’t get me wrong, I make money off this website just like anyone else does, but the primary focus of this site is based upon my life in the spanking world. There maybe a spam post here and there, and you will see some at the bottom of this very post, but I don’t devote my every post trying to find a way to link and promote my paysites. There will be a small about of spam on this blog, but I’m honest enough to tell you so 🙂 Remember, people can run their blogs however they want, what I am asking here is for pet peeves and that is one of mine 😉 Again, I’m not talking a random link here and there, that’s totally cool. Now before anyone takes it to personal what I am saying, this peeve comes from the random generic email I receive all the time requesting a link exchange. What I am being asked for is for my traffic to be directed to someones spam blog so that they could potentially earn the money from my readers, instead of my readers purchasing for me. Too many times I have seen a blog link sunk to the bottom 10% of someones homepage. They don’t want your link, they want your traffic!!

I know I have been meaning to write about Starhunters but I haven’t got around to that yet. A big pet peeve is when guys (or girls for that matter) chase after anyone with a *star* name. The peasants amongst us aren’t worthy of their attention, all they want is the top models on their resume as if it gives them some type of status symbol. It does give them a status symbol of course, but in my eyes it is called shallowness!!

Pet Peeve #600, anyone who questions models as being stuck up or cliquey!! It is the biggest misconception in the spanking world. The reason that spanking models tend to gravitate towards each other is 1) They probably know each other 2) They don’t have to have a horde of eyes staring them like they are a slab of meat. 3) The can sit and relax and chill (we ALL need to be able to do that) without having to tell 50 people in a row “I’m not playing right now, maybe later”. Take any spanking model you want and the chances are that every single guy (and some girls) in that room wants to spank them, they don’t get a break at all. I can totally understand why they would want to be with a select few of their friends, it must suck feeling like you are the ticket machine at the deli counter in a supermarket.

For anyone who is cynical about models, take some time to read that statement above……. Now imagine yourself in those shoes knowing that everyone isn’t really interested in you as a person, they just want the trophy of having played with you. See starhunters above, I would withdraw myself as well. Some of my friends in the spanking world also happen to be models, and I can tell you from first hand experience being around them that some of the lecherous behaviour is really icky. I may be English, but I am really a New Yorker at heart and I can’t tell you how many times I have wanted to say “Yo, dude, have you totally undressed her with your eyes yet?”……. And of course like any fox they are just waiting for that 0.7 second interval where they can swoop in. Even the spanking star groupies let their guard down from time to time and allow the foxes in 🙂

Okay, a friend just poked me that I wasn’t using one liners, so before I get carried away, here are the one liners……. A random list of spanking pet peeves….. Almighty Dom Syndrome…. As in life as well as at a spanking party, someone telling ME what appropriate dress constitutes……. Negativity!! There’s no place for it in the spanking world other than to try and bring everyone else down. Our world should be about joy and happiness and catharsis…… Interfering in my scene because it isn’t to your liking. Quite simply “Go fuck yourself”, because those are the words you are likely to hear should you ever try to interfere with a play session I am having!!……… The concept that a good spanking relates to how hard the girl is being hit!! In grates the snot out of me when I read “That was lame”……… A huge one is when my partner does not dress the way I would like to enhance my enjoyment in a spanking scene. It works both ways and I would expect the girl to be peeved if I didn’t try to please her as well, so if I make a request it shouldn’t be seen as a challenge to one’s womanhood. Quite the reverse actually, I embrace a woman’s femininity. Is it really too much to ask that the lady wear a skirt and bikini panties?………

I think I will stop there as I am sure I am likely to piss off 90% of the spanking community with what I just wrote, just don’t be afraid to give it back to me, I can take it. One of the enjoyments I get in life is hearing how people view me, and this might come as a little surprise to my friends in the spanking world. The number one thing that I hear repeatedly is that I am abrasive, though egotistical and hard headed are always used liberally 🙂 Now the reason I like that is because the people who like me view it differently, my friends don’t see me as abrasive, they see that I am able to say things that most people wish they could say themselves. In some eyes egotistical = confidence and hard headedness is sometimes confused by a person actually having principals and morals. Yeah, you can probably tell I’m a wee bit cranky today and I felt like broaching some subjects honestly, subjects that I perhaps sometimes diplomatically avoid because I generally beat to the sound of my own drum.

Have at it and let me know how you feel, I promise to respond, even to those who disagree with me.

And finally, as promised, here is my daily dose of spam. I told you that I have become a regular visitor to hot movies, well, let me tell you this, when I searched for Tanya Foxx the other day I came across just about the hottest spanking video I have seen. Maybe I will review it in full in a few days, but this one had not only Tanya Foxx but also Kiri Kelly in it. Kiri is interested in spanking and her and Tanya take turns spanking each other, and that is just the start, there is some major girl/girl action in this film and I needed a cold shower when it was done. The first pic is a link to the video itself, and the other 3 pics are some screenshots.

Click this pic to view the movie details!!

And here are some screenshots to salivate over