F/M Friday 37

Since I left Twitter I have been completely out of the loop, sometimes you don’t realize just how much you use a forum to stay in touch with people until it is no longer there. There are times in life though that you have to weigh the pros and cons and make a decision, so I don’t have any regrets in leaving, even if it means that I have lost touch with a lot of people. Of course by not being around you also miss what is going on in the spanking world 🙂

Sometimes you have to go against conventional wisdom and take a stand for what you know is the correct thing to do, even if it comes at a personal cost to yourself. I couldn’t live with myself if I knew that something wasn’t true about someone and I decided not to say or do anything about it. So I will take my lumps in the hopes that one day everyone else will find out that what they initially believed to be true about someone, was in fact quite to the contrary. Even if that doesn’t happen, at least I stayed true to myself and I stuck by that person, and I feel very good about making that choice.

On the vanilla front my Youtube channel is moving along very nicely. Right now I am just 68 subscribers away from one thousand, though I will still need 900 more hours of watch time before I can monetize the channel. My expectation is that perhaps by August I will be very close to achieving both benchmarks and I can start to really build my personal brand. It is something that I have grafted over for two years now, and generally my videos only get about a hundred views. However, this is what I call the “Paying my dues” stage. Hopefully one day my hard work will pay off.

What is strange about Youtube though is that you have to adapt on the fly. My initial goal had been to travel around the world and share videos from the various countries that I plan to visit, but my experience so far has been that not many people are interested in seeing the places that I want to visit, they are only interested in hearing about New York City. A good portion of my audience comes from Asian countries, so if I want to stand out then I will also need to plan to tell stories about the places I visit in Asia, while also prescheduling New York videos in my absence. My hope is to still visit South Korea this winter if all progresses well on the pandemic front. Initially I wanted to visit Taiwan on the same trip, but I am going to have to play that by ear because none of us really know what international travel is going to look like in 2022. I just know that I will go somewhere this winter, I just don’t know where yet 🙂

So anyway, as I mentioned earlier, I’m no longer on social media with a spanking profile so I miss out on everything that is going on. My only real connection to the spanking universe right now is this blog, and a weekly visit to SpankingTube. Of course there are still a handful of people who stay in touch with me via email.

While I was on SpankingTube this week I noticed that Dana Specht has a new film up, but in actuality it is an old film that has never been released before. Before we get to that though, keep in mind that virtually all of Dana’s spanking films can now be purchased as a digital download, and a lot of the old films have had the quality vastly improved. If this weeks F/M spanking video is not your cup of tea, perhaps you will find another F/F or F/M video that suits your needs. You can visit DANA’S DIGITAL SPANKING STORE by clicking on the highlighted text.

The new video, or should I say the old video that has never been released before, features David who has appeared in many of Dana’s films, and I dare say has appeared in many of Dana’s best selling videos. The premise of the story is one that Dana has spoken about many times in the many interviews that we have done together over the years, and it is apparently a popular request made to Dana in sessions as well. The young man in question getting caught with his hand in the panty drawer. The cost of the digital download is $29 I believe.

In this scenario it is done within a family dynamic, but I guess you could also use your imagination and create your own scenario. In fact Dana and David have enacted a similar scene in another video where Dana was David’s next door neighbor (Punished for peeping). If you want to see this post on Dana’s site then just CLICK HERE to go directly to the video page for this title. In fact I wrote this post last night and when I went to get the links this morning I saw that Dana’s webmaster has also put up a new post today featuring a few dozen SCREENCAPS from the above mentioned video.

So if you have ever done a panty raid, this is what could happen to you if Dana ever finds out about it!!

On a side note, Wikipedia also has a page detailing the history of PANTY RAIDS which was surprisingly an interesting read regarding the origins of it, and how less inhibited attitudes towards sexual intercourse in the 1970s led to the fading of panty raids. It was still going on consistently in the 1980s though, I worked at two summer camps for a total of six summers in the 1980s and barely a week went by where some female counselor was having to retrieve her scanty undies that were flying from the flagpole in the morning, or the silky trophies would be dangling from the bedposts in every male counselors dorm.

It would only be a guess, but I would imagine that now that we are in the 2020s, I would have a hard time thinking that the practice would exist in any form nowadays. Perpetrators would more than likely be arrested for sexual harassment and would likely be expelled from college. Mind you, with the advent of porn on the Internet, the panty raid seems to be a rather outdated idea, doesn’t it?

3 thoughts on “F/M Friday 37

  1. Hey

    Wonderful post sir. Amazing.

    Things come slowly to us all I guess but you are a terrific person and have my utmost respect and gratitude for all you did and still do for the community.

    It’s nice to see Dana’s new old film what you may be missing to me is a dramatic increase is severity in spanking films. Many of the pros are always telling about taking people to new pain limits. Not what this is about but hey who am I to complain.

    I promise to get a script for your site it is just funds are low as we continue to help our family members regroup from the virus and loss of jobs.

    Always know I respect you for who you are and your honesty is simply amazing.

    Regards
    Ron

  2. I am glad I saw this post of yours. The twitter powers deleted me and I was searching high and low for everyone I had followed and had followed me to try and get back to normal. Well as normal as I get. LOL If anyone is wondering I got deleted for commenting on something in New York. The video of the old man in the store being punched. Twitter took issue with my saying I would use a cane on the guy doing the punching if he tried it on me. To be honest I said I would insert it till it came out his nose, but hey caning him might have been good. I dont tolerate abuse of the elderly or disabled since I am one and in a couple years will be the other. Good luck on the YouTube.

  3. T.O.Barr,

    I’m afraid that I am oblivious to it as I am not on Twitter anymore. But I guess that is why you are contacting me here anyway, lol, because you probably can’t reach me anymore. I will be honest with you, I am infinitely happier having left both Twitter and Fetlife, the energy was completely sucked out of me. Maybe in a few years I will start to go back to parties, but for right now I am happy with what I have achieved in the spanking world and I have no regrets.

    Rich

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