One thing that I try really hard not to do on this blog is be negative in any way, shape or form, but there is something that I have to address.
99% of all emails that I get concern one of two things. Firstly it is people asking me about Pixie (and other models from 20 years ago to a lesser degree) or, people send me a pic and ask me to identify it. It’s the only communication that I have in the spanking world.
Just recently I had a very well known spanking producer ask me about Pixie, which was combined with other comments that were made on this blog. Thankfully someone told me why these questions might still be coming.
There is a spanking page out there that is modelled on Wikipedia. Just like Wikipedia though, don’t believe everything that you read.
There is a dreadfully irresponsible notice about Pixie that is completely untrue. Someone in their infinite wisdom found an article online about an Amber Wells from the Lonestar state, a state that our East Coast Pixie doesn’t live in. They found an article and rather than even remotely try and verify it, they just slapped it up online and attributed it to our Pixie, just because the person from the Lonestar state’s REAL name matches the STAGE name of Pixie.
At what point, and I don’t think I am telling tales out of school here, but at what point did anyone think that Amber Wells was Pixie’s real name? There’s a famous journalist for the Guardian whose name is Richard Windsor, I’m surprised that this Wiki page hasn’t posted that he and I are the same person! Just for the record, we’re not, Richard Windsor also isn’t my REAL name!
If anyone knows who edits that Wiki page please do me a favor, tell them to edit it and take down the irresponsible notice that they posted about Pixie!
Now I haven’t spoken to Pixie for a couple of years, we just naturally drifted apart, but I have nothing but good memories about her and she still means a lot to me. We are friends on social media and while I may see her post from time to time, I generally just leave her be. So please don’t believe that nonsense regarding a person in the Lonestar state as being our Pixie, it’s not. That woman’s REAL name was Amber Wells, which is NOT the real name of our Amber Wells.
Over and out, and a little bit angry I must admit.
Thank you for clearing this up, Richard. I saw the item in question and it was disturbing, to say the least.
Erica,
Someone had let me know about the page and when I received a Facebook message from EH asking about Pixie I felt that I had to say something. Believe me, I really didn’t want to say anything because I respect her boundaries and her decision to move on, but I simply cannot leave that incorrect information out there without at least informing people that it isn’t true. It is such an irresponsible thing for someone to post and I was quite angered by it.
Rich
So good to hear from you, Richard, and I send you Holiday wishes of the very best for you! As one who has asked you about our ‘Pixie; in the past, I can only say that watching people ‘in the scene’ from the outside, I’m sure that most dream that you are part of a very select and special group of people that live lives we can only dream of.
I think it is easy for us to forget that you are real people with real lives. I, for one, think we all owe you all so much for making our fantasies that much easier to see and touch.
It is truly sad if someone posted this about Miss Wells without knowing the facts and i hope it is rectified.
It is funny that Erica should respond to you in that she is one I have followed and watched over the years, and I have always considered very real and, as such, I was often troubled by the way she has been treated by others. I have seen her anguish over treatment from others in the scene. So sad for someone who has freely given so much of her very being for us all!
So, to both of you, thanks for all you have done for so many of us. Happy Holidays and may the new year be wonderfully rewarding for you both!
Fatherjim,
Thank you as always for your kind words. You are one of a handful of people who leave comments on a regular basis and I always appreciate your support. As you can probably tell, things are slowing down a bit for me on this blog, a lack of engagement being one of the reasons for this slow down. I was not aware of the problems that Erica has encountered, but I also went though a period of less than savory treatment by a group of people. In fact I found it so disheartening that it turned me off of the scene altogether and I have no desire to be a part of that behavior any longer.
I’m not sure if anything will change in regards to the untrue notice. The same page has listed me as perhaps being involved with Swish magazine, and I have written multiple times that I had nothing to do with the magazine 🙂 Hopefully they will at least make the change in regards to Pixie.
Rich
Richard, I’ve never met you, Pixie, or Erica and probably ever will, but all of you have brought sparkles of joy into my life, for many years.
So – don’t let the bastards grind you down!
“Never”
Theo,
It isn’t a bad thing, I have so many great memories of meeting so many great people and I got to engage in scenes that at one time I could have never imagined possible. My memories of certain people is at the highest level, and there is only a smattering of people who I hold with no regard whatsoever. The good people far outweigh any negative situations that I came across.
Rich
I saw that page about Pixie a while back and was rather bummed out to see that. (I am relieved it is not true.) I am glad she is doing ok and thanks for clearing that up for us.
Pygophilous,
Good to hear from you. Yeah, someone pointed it out to me not long after Eve Howard had messaged me to find out how Pixie was. I put two and two together that they were related, though it may just have been a coincidence. To be honest I wanted to respect Pixie’s decision to move on so I hadn’t planned on posting anything about her other than a casual reference of memory on the odd occasion, but that page listing made me pretty angry. So I figured the more people who I could tell then the more people would be around to correct that irresponsible information should the topic come up in any online conversations.
Rich