State of the Spanking Union Address!
Today I will throw in a bunch of pics for those of you who don’t care to read, or are here solely for the vintage photos that I bring to you. We will start off with something brand spanking new before I start talking. This image, obviously based on the classic Sanborn spanking image, is from the 2014 Indian film, Boochamma Boochodu. The whole film is on Youtube and I just quickly scanned it but I didn’t find any real spanking in it. There is one scene where it looks like he is about to take her over his knee, but a lot of the film seems to be a man and a woman physically fighting so it is hard to tell. I’m not really into a guy striking a woman so I didn’t watch very much of it. This will be added to my WINDSOR’S STAGE SPANKINGS folder.
So what is the purpose of today’s post? It is to let you know how I see things moving forward, and I will try to do so as positively as I can. We will start with this blog!! Now I have considered turning off the comments today because I never want to encourage a cyber pat on the head. I regard emotionally manipulative behavior really poorly and I never want to be seen as a person doing that. What I say today is not to play on people’s emotions, they are just honest thoughts and I don’t want anyone to respond in a patronizing manner. I’ve got me big boy pants on, I can handle things just fine!!
To be honest, while my own personal involvement in the spanking scene is dwindling down to zero, I still have thousands of spanking pics. The blog will remain going forward, but I do have the sense that it will be more of a picture blog with very limited commentary. There isn’t much more that I can say or contribute to the scene. Of course there are several stories that I have yet to finish as well and I’m not even sure if I will do so, my motivation for creating the written word is at an all time low right now. That might change over time, but right now I don’t feel like I have the right mindset to do it. My spanking blog though will remain, probably for at least another 5 years or so.
A lot of my thoughts are due to personal changes in my life. Obviously I don’t need to flog a dead horse, but most of you know by now that I have lost my entire family over the last few years, and I am a changed person because of it. I’m at an age now where I don’t know how much time I have left, and there are still so many places that I want to visit. Two years ago when my brother died I was in a really bad mental state, and several times I contemplated doing something really stupid. There are still really bad days (Christmas Time for example, lol), but I am over the hump now, my focus now is on what lies ahead.
Over the next four years I am going to be travelling extensively, once of course the pandemic allows us to travel, and my next two trips are already decided. England is first and foremost to pick up my brothers ashes and to close that chapter of my life, and on the same trip I will be heading to Slovakia and Hungary. Then next December, if all goes well, I plan on visiting South Korea and Taiwan. My budget is set but I have to be honest with you, I really want to squeeze another trip to Japan in there somewhere. My way to do that is to take the train from the UK to Austria, and then spend more time in Taiwan rather than South Korea where it will be cheaper. I’m pretty sure that I can save enough money in Europe on my budget to squeeze in a two week trip to Japan 🙂 If I stay in Bratislava as opposed to Vienna then I would save a mint!!
This brings me to spanking parties. Now let me put this disclaimer out there before I even begin, I speak to nobody in the spanking scene, I have no insider information nor do I know what the plans are for spanking parties in 2021. From a common sense perspective, and knowing what we know in regards to vaccinations, when can we expect spanking parties to resume? Will they start in the New Year? Is the end of Summer a realistic expectation? Right now I’m not sure if anyone has the answers.
The only thing that I know is that this year will almost certainly be my last attending spanking parties. At the moment I plan to attend two before the end of the summer, and that is primarily out of loyalty to my friends and to give away my spanking collection. I have so many toys, magazines and DVD’s that I have no use for anymore, and it is not in my nature to make a buck from them, I just simply want to give them away to friends.
A number of years ago I reached the pinnacle of my spanking life and I questioned it even then, asking myself have I now done everything that I wanted to do in the spanking scene. My thoughts are still the same that I have achieved all that I wanted to achieve.
This is something that surprises me, and it may surprise you. It certainly wasn’t a day that I ever envisioned happening. Do you know that a whole week will pass and I don’t even think of spanking a single time? This is from a guy who only a few years ago would hardly stop thinking about it for every hour of every day. Now it doesn’t mean that I never think about it. I used the term environmental earlier and there are still occasions and interactions that will produce thoughts and feelings. My only real outlet for this was on Twitter, but I hardly even go there anymore. I had to make my profile page private and therefore I couldn’t interact with people the way that I used to. If you can’t be yourself, quite honestly what is the point in just being a shadow of your former self? I’m pretty old school there, if something stops being fun then stop doing it. That avenue of enjoyment was taken away from me, and it is now the furthest thing away from being fun.
Spanking parties are something that I have been going to for the last fifteen years and I’m a bit worn out. Mostly that is my own fault because of my own mental aptitude. I got to the point where I started seeing my own worth as nothing more than a glorified cigarette dispenser, lol. Like I said though, we all have are own strengths and weaknesses, and I know where mine lie. As mentioned in the paragraph above, if things stop being fun then stop doing them.
There is one more reason for wanting to go to one final party aside from Weekend. At the I am pretty much working the entire weekend, so I wouldn’t have time to do this there, but I do want to make one final film. I have this vision in my head where I want to narrate a story that is primarily Female/Female with a splash of Male/Female thrown in. By the summer of course it could turn out that people have been convinced that I am the demon seed, and maybe no girl will want to work with me 🙂 Assuming that I can find two girls though, then I would spend a lot of time in creating the video, and of course I would pay the models handsomely. I’m not even sure if I would sell the video, but I would be just as happy to own it.
This of course all comes down to COVID-19. If the pandemic causes all spanking parties to be postponed by the summer of 2021, then I may well have attended my final spanking party already. Starting in the second half of 2021 I am going to be travelling, and for the next few years that is where all of my savings and resources are going to be directed.
Now I don’t want anyone to try and misinterpret what I am saying (deliberately or otherwise), I am perfectly happy with my decisions and they are the right ones for me. There are a lot of positive things to look forward to, they just aren’t necessarily spanking related. I have been really blessed in the spanking world and I got out of it 50 times more than I ever expected. Who knows, maybe once I travel the world it will revitalize my mindset and one day I may return to spanking events. Like I mentioned, at a reduced rate spanking is still a part of me. There are still sights, sounds, images, words that are a turn on for me, it’s just that the turn offs are also quite strong, lol.
