About Me

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Email: richardofwindsor@gmail.com

I am a 58 year old Englishman currently living in New York City with a penchant for spanking and Rockabilly music. Since coming out in the scene I have been fortunate enough to work with some wonderful people,  though just having a name in the scene is of little importance to me.

One area that I take great pride in and has been mentioned about me many times by others,  is that I am an open an honest individual. It can be difficult to walk the line between honesty and being rude,  but I like to think that my casual approach wins over.

What is it that I seek in a partner?

In a nutshell I am an out and out spanker,  I prefer playful and fun over serious and discipline. One area that confuses people is that they automatically assume playful and fun is a light spanking,  that is far from the truth. The “atmosphere”  is playful and fun,  the spanking itself is still the same as it would be elsewhere.

Over the years I have taken part in many roleplays,  from Teacher to Uncle to Santa,  I have even played the roles of Hagrid and the Big Bad Wolf on film 🙂 The discipline side is still something that I work on,  I have explored it to some degree but I prefer  “Funishment”  where I can play a role as opposed to being a disciplinarian. Each case is based on its own merit and I would never say that I would never be in a D/D relationship,  but the chances are that I won’t.

Overall I am still the playful guy,  but I have started to tap into my dark side 😉

Aesthetics play an important role in my scenes,  there are certain things that I prefer my spankee to wear that enhances my enjoyment of the scene. Very few tops point out what it is that they want from a scene,  I have no such issues requesting what it is that will improve my scene. What a top gets out of spanking is as important as what a bottom gets out of it. It is as simple as a skirt and nylon panties,  but it can be a world of difference to a top. The feedback that I get from women is that they get little feedback from a man when it comes to what they like,  I’m very different in that area,  I will gladly tell you what I like.

A girl with a smart mouth and a sassy attitude is something that I enjoy,  as is a young lady of a submissive demeanor. I’m not one for bratting at all though. Something playful and cute can be a lot of fun if it is designed to get a girl a spanking,  constant annoyance with childish behavior though is the antithesis of fun for me. Please don’t misread that,  I LOVE fun and playful girls,  I just don’t like excess.

What I am looking for.

It is cliche to say,  but the looks of an individual are far less important than the emotional connection that we make. A person’s attitude is of high importance to me however. I prefer fun loving,  caring individuals. Drama Queens can stay out of my life. It is something that I don’t think I see said too much,  but I prefer a sweet girl over an abrasive one,  someone who views life in a positive manner. Yes,  that is VERY important to me. We all have down moments in our life and we all need someone to share that with,  I understand and respect that. One of the biggest turn offs to me though is constant negativity,  I just can’t handle that. I’m very old school in that manner,  it is ingrained in me that when something bad happens to you,  you suck it up and you deal with it!!

Like I said, we all have things that will get us down and we will want to share that,  but when it is one thing after another after another,  the  ‘Debbie Downer’  syndrome as I call it,  that is an approach to life that I just cannot relate to.

Are looks important? To some degree I would say yes,  they are, but it is who is defining the looks that is important. I like eccentric characters,  I like girls with a pink streak in her hair or an arm full of bracelets,  somebody quirky and fun loving,  somebody different.  It is also important to me that the girl is a kind person. I,  myself,  am kind by nature,  and the people I like to spend the most time with are also kind individuals. It is probably the single most important thing to me,  women who are kind people.

One statement that is repeated to me time and again by people wanting to play with me is this… “I’m not like the skinny girls that I see in your pics”

So let’s put that one to bed. The reason the girls in my pics are skinny is because they are paid spanking models who have no problem being seen on the Internet. Likewise,  most of these pictures are also from paid assignments that I have been paid to appear in myself. They are not a reflection of who I play with overall,  though you will see some of these girls play with me outside of paid assignments. The reason for that is because they are genuine people who I have befriended and whose company I enjoy. 95% of people who I have played with do not wish for their pictures to be seen,  therefore no one can really interpret the type of individual I play with. Who do I play with? Just go to a party and you will see. Size has little bearing to me,  it is all about the emotional connection.

What do I do aside from spanking?

It is a bit of a mixed bag really,  I love studying things,  whether they be history or etymology. I’m an avid fan of British TV and films and I am a lover of soccer and hockey. There is a lot to what I like,  so much so that I would take up too much time writing about it. Just ask me and I will tell you 🙂

Anyway,  I’m a very honest person,  if you have a question feel free to ask me 🙂

63 thoughts on “About Me

  1. Hi, I’ve left my email address as I’d like to talk to you about exchange links and didn’t know how else to contact you

  2. Hi Richard i’ve been into spanking for about 50 yrs but just don’t know were to start. I grew up when woman/girls wore dresses/skirts and always a slip. SO I have a double fetish spankings and slips.My question is were can i find a woman to chat with about spankings and slips as i’m not ready for a one on one. Thankes in advance for any help….Dan

  3. Hi Richard,

    I recently found a photo on the internet that strangely & amazingly might be of my own father. How freaking cool would that be? It’s a black and white of the correct era, and the hair could so easily be him (though it was a popular style in the day). The facial-angle shot is not distinctive enough to tell for sure, but maybe (it was pre-beard for him, so not the look I’m used to). The woman is NOT my mother, nor my step-mother. But oh well. I’d have ignored it as coincidence if not for one thing…there’s a painting on the wall behind the couch that looks as if it may be one that my maternal grandmother painted. Very very much her style!
    Of course, I cannot show the image to my Mother…she just couldn’t appreciate the context. Even a strategic crop, would start the questions, and I can’t lie to her.
    The reason I’m querying you is that there is an “RW” monogram on the print (looks more contemporary than the shot itself) and thus your blog came up in a google search.

    I’m wondering if, in your appreciation of vintage spanking photos, you’ve ever seen this piece, recognize the monogram, or might be able to point me to a source?

    Can I send you the image?

  4. Do you know where I can purchase volumes 1-3 of “Letters To MR. magazine”? From 1960s-70s

  5. Dear Richard

    I have only just now discovered your wonderful Vintage Spankiong website.

    I have a fairly large library of books and magazines from the late 1960s to early 1980s which are focused on the spanking of adult girls. They include a lot of volumes published by the Acton Town, London conpany Ben’s Books. On your Vintage Spanking website you have promulgated a few pictures from these publications which are of much higher visual quality than my originals. I suspect that you have used some kind of image enhancing software. If so, please tell me the name of this software and how to download it (hopefully for free!) Using such putative software, I could then scan and process several thousand images which should appeal to you and your followers. I would upload the results to your website, or to yourself, without charge, if you would tell me how to do so.

    Yours sincerely

    Brian Binder

  6. Richard; I am in the process of cleaning out closets in preparation of moving. In a foot locker from my college days I found some magazines one of which has great pictures of Tanya Fox. I have never seen these pictures on the net before. I’d love to share them with you. Are you interested?

  7. I was perving the internet for pictures of animated spanking when I happened upon your site. I am very much looking forward to seeing you at the party and now I know your dance card will probably be quite full I hope to get the pleasure of potentially playing with you.

  8. Hi! I came across your site while “bing” searching Wedding Night Spanking”. I really loved your “White Wedding” photo set. Can you please tell me something about the couple in it? Also,I wish there was a clip (film) of it. Thanks!

  9. Hi Richard, I just wanted to tell you how much I enjoy stopping by your blog. I especially enjoy the variety of photos that are displayed, from vintage to personal, to photos from lots of other spanking sites and blogs. You give me an “up” when my day is “down” and you make me feel welcome to just stop by and visit! Barbara

  10. Hi Barbara,

    Thank you very much for your kind words, I appreciate that a lot!! Perhaps one day we can do a post about your site and the magazines/videos that you sell? I’ve been reading your magazines for many years now, in fact back in the 90’s I would always stop at Kinematics in New York to pick up the latest ones.

  11. Hi Richard,
    I came across your site tonight and your stories are fun, thrilling and most of all quite touching to me. I read some of your roleplaying and I enjoy your intentionality for details and noticing the small things about the girls throughout whole scenario.
    It appears that you have a heart that truly cares for others as you go about your “hobby?” 🙂
    Your desire and ability to play a strong but caring authoritarian totally captures me. It appears you live in NYC, do you ever find yourself in the midwest?
    Btw-is that an Elvis tatoo on your arm? I am interested in knowing the story behind it.
    Thank you for being genuine,

  12. Hi Molly,

    Thank you so much for your kind words. My stories are generally based upon where my mindset really lies, and the roleplays are where I enjoy life the best. A lot of people are not into roleplaying, so the times that I am able to partake in one generally means that it is memorable for me. When I go to parties I perhaps don’t play as much as others, but I dare say that I enjoy my time just as much.

    I am indeed based in NYC and while I travel around quite a bit, the midwest is the place that I have visited the least. On previous trips I have done most of the contiguous states, the remaining ones that I have yet to do are pretty much all in the midwest with the exception of Maine, and I think Arkansas. I’m not certain on the latter, I’ve certainly seen it across the Mississippi river when I was in Memphis. Perhaps there will be midwest trips in the future to comple the ‘States’ 🙂

    To answer your last question, yes, that is Elvis on my arm, the tattoo was done in 1979 so I have had it 40 years now. I also have the name Elvis tattooed of both wrists.

  13. Richard have enjoyed your site for awhile.
    I have become quite expert at photoshop
    if you have a few favorites you would like
    sharpened or color adjusted — just send
    a private email.

  14. Hello and a request, but first an apology for using a comment box, but I couldn’t find an addie…

    You have such a popular blog ! Would you please allow some of that popularity to rub off onto our little blog “O&P Spanking Stories”? Please, please add our blog in your blog-roll…
    Best regards
    Brigitte and Martine

  15. Rob,

    Thanks, I appreciate your offer but I use a few programs already to improve picture quality. There are times though when the image is so bad that I have to work extra hard just to make them even halfway presentable. I’m used to it by now though.


  16. Richard, do you know where I can purchase a copy of MR. magazines letters to the editor?? Thanks in advance for your reply.

  17. Hi Chris,

    Strictly Spanking stopped selling their videos a number of years ago now, so they are no longer available for purchase.


  18. Hi Richard, finally I got your website after few years searching. I like one of your videos very much via SpankingTube but it has been missing for a very long time. can I buy the video from you?

    It was a scene that you caned Pixie who wears Malaysia school girl uniform and also had her to do 10 squats while holding her ears. The link as below:


    I really like this video very much and keep on searching for many years. Can you remake the video or reupload the same video again? Please!!! Thanks…

  19. Allen,

    I’m afraid that I haven’t had any contact with Amber for a number of years now. She sent me a Christmas card a few years ago but that was the last that I heard from her.


  20. Hi there, greatspl,

    Unfortunately I have not been able to find a copy of the movie as of yet, but I do have an old hard drive that I may have saved a copy of the movie on. Unfortunately I didn’t film the movie myself, it was filmed by my friends at Strictly Spanking Videos, and they were the ones who uploaded it. If I can’t find a copy on my external hard drive then I will ask SSV if they managed to save a copy. Should I find it then I will be happy to upload it for free 🙂


  21. I couldn’t find the power adapter to that particular external hard drive so I have had to order one. The more that I am thinking about it the more that I think I must have a copy. If it isn’t on the hard drive then maybe on a CD somewhere.

  22. Dear Richard.
    I just dropping you a line to congratulations on such a wonderful site. It’s full of little gems and lots of rarities.
    I especially love the interview you did with Dana. I have spoke via email and she made me a customised audio tape (on audio cassette)
    I did transfer it to cd and I’ve added a few sound effects of the cane being swished through the air , when I listen to it back on headphones it sounds amazing.
    I’ve listened to Ophelia de Havilland interviews i’d love to meet her.
    I live in the west country brought up in the 60’s when corporal punishment and minding your manners were the order of the day.
    So I had my fair share of spankings and slipperings over the years. Though I never harboured any grudges.
    Spanking has been in and out of my life over the year and I now get to get mature ladies to attend to my bottom sometime they switch which can be fun.
    It’s nothing heavy normally a light spanking a cuddle then a bit more sometime combined with a hot oil massage.
    When I was in my late 30’s just as the internet arrived in the UK, I found a truly understanding lady from Sweden called Miss Lina. I booked my first of many visits she even entertain my various role play Office manageress and Stable girl to name a couple.
    When I’m on top, I insist ladies are wearing skirts pleated A line skirt with tights and panties. There is something rather special spanking a ladies whilst wearing tights and the keep the heat in. I caught a lady off guard once she was due for a sound caning, I took pity on her and after 12 strokes I took her in my arms kissed her lightly on the cheek and handed her the cane and asked her give me 24 of the very best afterward we rubbed some cold cream into our buttock and shared a cuppa.
    keep up the good work.
    One little comment, I do not wish to offend you but some of the sound posted on your sound like its been distorted?
    I record a lot of sound I get really good result with lavier mics or tie mic and record onto a portable sound recorder Tascam D60 mark 2 with sound limiters switch to peak at minus -6 db .
    my spanking question is have you ever spanked someone in shower? or in a sauna.
    Take Care Jools

  23. Hi Jools,

    Thank you for taking the time to leave a message on my blog. Having grown up in the West Country myself I can concur with everything that you said in regards to minding ones manners!! You know what is funny, I am also a person who loves to play around with audios, either mixing two modern scenes or, and this is my favorite, taking the audio from old mainstream movies and either inserting myself in as the top, or, mixing a mainstream clip with a spanking clip. Obviously it can be very difficult because you have to try and find a spanking where the top isn’t talking, or overdubbing when they do say something. It is something that I only do for my own entertainment but manipulating old time mainstream movie clips is a lot of fun.

    Now I rarely get offended over anything, can you direct me to which audio you are referring to? Depending on which audio you are referring to I am known to apply a noise reduction filter, plus I will adjust the bass and treble before posting an audio. The program that I use is Audacity. More than likely your trained ears will be correct as I will quite often attempt to enhance the audio recording.


  24. I took a personal essay writing class at UCLA several years ago. One of the students wrote about an incident where one of her three sisters broke an item (lamp?). Her parents demanded to know who did it and decreed each would get spanked until someone confessed or snitched. No one would, so they all got spanked in each other’s presence. She didn’t say which parent did the spanking, or if they both did. I believe the girls shared a bedroom and I presume that’s where the spankings took place.


  25. Hi Richard, wish you are doing well. Any update on the Malaysian uniform caning video? I am willing to pay if you need purchase the power adapter.

  26. Hi greatspl,

    Unfortunately my friends do not have a copy of the movie so I am left to my own devices. The hard drive that I mentioned I was able to buy a power cord for, when I got it the hard drive still worked thankfully. The bad news is that the drive has thousands of files on it. I was able to find a very poor copy of a video where I am giving Pixie an over the knee hand spanking while she wears the Malaysian uniform, and the clip also starts with Pixie dressed in the uniform as she talks to the camera.

    So far I have not been able to find the squat/caning video. I will keep looking for it but there is no guarantee that I have a copy of it.


  27. Hi Richard, thank you for the reply. Can you upload the video that you have found first?

    For the video that I am mentioning, you have uploaded the image here. I found someone uploaded the squats part in YouTube few years ago but sadly, the video has been deleted. Sadly, I could not recall who is the one who uploaded it.

  28. greatspl,

    I will edit the video and I will email it to you as a personal favor. It isn’t something that I will upload but I will let you have a copy as it holds significant interest to you.


  29. Richard, first and foremost, I am a long time fan of yours. I really enjoy your work. Could you please tell me of what ever happened to Sophie Gray, Michaela McGowen and Pixie Wells? They were my favorite spankee actresses! Thank You! -Jim

  30. Jim,

    All I can tell you is that Pixie retired from the scene. As for the other two ladies, I’m afraid that I know neither of them so it wouldn’t be my place, nor do I even know, what their current status is.


  31. Richard,
    While you’re a year or two younger than me, I’m hoping you might remember someone in the industry. She worked for Shadowlane for a couple videos, and she ran her own website called ShutUpNSpank. I remember she had two stage names and because I was a member at her website, she told me her real name. All forgotten by now. I’m not asking for her real name, but it seems her stage names have been excised from places that hosted her videos. I think one of her names was Mia Moon, and the other was Goldie (something). Do you know of her? Do you know which name is more commonly known?

    Her website closed, I was there up to the last days (many years ago now). The forums she monitored closed down (she asked me to take over for her, but I declined), perhaps because of illness. Do you know if she’s alive and kicking (while over someone’s knee (or more likely tying their shoe laces together))?

    I hate seeing someone fall into obscurity.

  32. Hi Leon,

    Goldi was not someone that I ever had the fortune to meet. Several years ago she popped up on Facebook as “Someone you may know”, I guess this was based on mutual spanking friends on Facebook. I had a very, very brief message with her, but never heard from her after that. I don’t remember what year that was, it was a while ago, but one assumes that Goldi is no longer active in the scene. Dana Specht has a DVD featuring Goldi, which will be added as a digital download once it has been remastered. It is currently available on DVD. The movie is called – Cousins Misbehavin’.


  33. Hi Richard, thought I would drop you a note in hopes you can spread the word for me. I believe Michael wrote to you some time ago? I am sorry to tell you, but he passed away from cancer on June 18, 2020. I have closed down our Scarletthill website because only Michael had the technical knowledge to keep it going (I did the putting together and he made everything into an emag. We were together for 30 years and I cannot describe my emptiness. If you can spread my loss and S.H.E. is closed, I’d greatly appreciate it. If people want to write, they can write to scarletthillentertainment@yahoo.com

    Thank you,


  34. I once saw a video in which a man is fired from his job by a female boss. Then she told him to leave and he told her he would as soon as he finished one more task. Then he turned her face down over the side of her desk and “cleared the decks” in order to spank her bared bottom. She started out screaming threats at him and telling him to let her go but soon ended up crying out like a child being punished “…let me go, right now….ow ow ow you stop it stop it…

  35. You said one of the owners of scarlet Hill had died. Was that Barbara? My girlfriend at the time and I met her at a Shadow Lane party in the early nineties. She wanted to do a taped interview with us where I would get a spanking but it never happened. So sad that all of us are getting old and passing you on. I hope you’re doing well

  36. Hi Eric,

    The original comment is actually on this page, just two comments above yours. It was Michael who had passed away, not Barbara.


  37. Hi Richard, Hope you are well? I’ve been going through our Scarletthill things since Michael’s passing and me closing down our website. I wanted to know if you knew of anyone who would want to purchase original line art? It is what we used when we first started selling S.H. E. publications. Please let me know. Thanks. I also have our spanking dvds.

    Your help would be greatly appreciated.

  38. Hi Barbara and Richard, I’m very sorry to hear about Michael. I see that you have plans for all of the dvd work you have done, what about the publications, are they going to be available?

  39. I have to disagree with Ddon from what reading research I have done as from what I have read about Inuit tradition, and their government in Canada, spanking is part of Inuit culture though from other readings their child rearing is among the most gentle.

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